#ally's problems

[unforth]

Y'all have got to stop virulently hating men. Like, I'm sorry, I fucking hate the patriarchy too, but the patriarchy isn't just men and saying it is just exculpates complicit women. I am the mother of a young boy, and I look at this precious, empathetic 8 year old boy I'm raising and I don't know where online is safe for him. Places like this will say he's evil just for his gender, and other places will say "we'll be your friend if you hate with us," and still others will radicalize him in other ways. Where is he supposed to go? Why are we saying the radicalization is the fault of the kids just trying to find a place to hang?

Like this is seriously getting urgent. You have got to fucking stop conflating the patriarchy and men. 53% percent of white women voted for Trump. Men aren't the problem. White supremacy and Christian patriarchal structures are two examples of patriarchy-reinforcing structures that aren't solely couched in maleness. Men aren't the problem, and pretending they are drives more men into more welcoming extremist spaces and also ignores all the parts of this that are forwarded by people who aren't men.

What I see happening all over is scared, depressed, lonely people looking for someone they're allowed to hate automatically, unquestioningly - someone they're allowed to place all the blame on. Fascism says people of color, non-Christian people, queer people, etc., are the ones they're allowed to hate.

And way too many of yall answer that no, it's leftist to hate men instead. You are doing *the exact same thing they are.*

Fucking knock it off.

The answer is we're not supposed to hate anyone automatically based on their immutable personal characteristics. Hate the specific people who've hurt you. Hate the self-reinforcing systems that let them get away with hurting you. Hate the strangers who prop up those systems. Hate the fascists. Hell knows I hate Donald Trump, but it's not because he's a man, it's because he's a piece of shit.

Hate the pieces of shit, not the gender.

But don't hate men just because they're men. That's unhelpful, stupid, insane, and entirely counterproductive. Fucking. Stop.

[vivitalks]

please watch fantasy high, where else will you get ally beardsley and lou wilson frantically attempting to solve a "when will the trains collide" math problem mid-battle

[crazygnomenclature]

"The Wedding" All 15 parts

I saw the way I posted this series before made it annoying for some people to share, so here it is in one place. Hope this helps!

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[everythingwasnormalhere]

There's so much wrong with "everyone is a little bit autistic"

Yes, allistic people might know a lot of facts about the things they like. Yes, allistic people might get a bit overwhelmed or underwhelmed sometimes. Yes, allistic people might not get an expression sometimes, mostly if it's the first time they hear it.

That doesn't make them autistic.

Those traits only make someone autistic when they become disabling. Because, big shock, autism is a disability. Yeah, even if someone is low support needs, because that doesn't mean they don't need any support at all.

Saying "everyone is a little bit autistic" is like saying "everyone struggles with this, so suck it up, you have no right to need help". Which is just pure ableist bullshit. It denies the fact that autistic people have higher support needs than NTs, no matter where in the autistic spectrum they are. We're not "neurospicy", we're disabled, and denying this fact is denying us the right to get the help we need, we deserve, to have a good life.

(yes, this rant is just because I made the awful decision of listening to "neurospicy (interlude)" by Jax. honestly I'd rather be called a slur than listen to that shit again.)

[pillowprincess1sworld]

If you found me in your room like this ,what will you do ?

[voxmilia]

Cinematic parallels

[9mmark]

a bit of AM :)

design based on the animatic by eggonalegg!

[sea-buns]

it wasn't that long ago that i was in a high school math class and yet my eyes have never glazed over faster. i was good at math. i enjoy math. you want the fucking train question? in two minutes? omg i didn't know you were so funny haha

[mageknife]

hey does anyone else ever think about archon!dorian and lose their minds

[searchforahero]

every day i wake up and think about tim telling ra's "i'm not batman i have friends" and then immediately falling to what should have been his death because he didn't call in any of his friends to help him.

[choccy-milky]

Was messing around with picrew and accidentally made Clora halfway through 😂

THIS IS SO CUTE AWW love that u thought of clora and decided to make her😭🥹🥹

the fit is so adorable too so i decided to redraw it and actually put her in it BAHHA...defs an outfit her mom probs forced her to wear tho tbh LMAO

LMFAOOO ANON THIS KILLED ME HOW HAVE I NEVER SEEN THIS BEFORE?? BAHAHA NOW I WANNA REDRAW THIS WITH CLORA AND LEWIS SINCE THEY BOTH DONT KNOW SHIT ABOUT QUIDDITCH/SPORTS😭😭😭 clora as the mom going "he loves sports and he loves broccoli and thats why we're here!!!" LMFAOO omg this made me so happy THANK U FOR SENDING THIS BAHAHA

AW TYY🥹🥹im so happy you liked it so much!!!💖💖as for clora's name, ive said it before but its basically a butchered version of the name "clorica" that i chopped down to become just "clora"

i played rune factory 4 on the 3ds back in highschool and idk i just really loved the name clorica for some reason, so then i invented "clora" from it, to make it sound like more of a real name (but still maintaining that fantasy ish aspect) and apparently clora actually IS a real name BAHAH so i guess i succeeded?? and ever since then ive always used the name clora in any fantasy-ish RPGS, so i have a whole multiverse of cloras out there LOL. but THANK YOUUU im glad you think its as pretty as i do!!🥰 (even if it does kinda sound like chlorine LMAO which honestly ALSO sounds like it could be a pretty name... if only it wasnt already a word😩)

[creatingblackcharacters]

Not sure if this is within the scope of stuff you're willing or able to answer, but I play mobile dress up games and I keep seeing people dress up their models with white skin tones and Black hair styles (specifically locs). When I called this out as racism and colorism people said that locs belong to other cultures as well and that mixed people exist, you don't have to be Black to wear locs, etc etc. I still feel that this is wrong and I've talked to another Black player of the game about it (she believes its wrong to put Black hair on fair skinned models) but she is understandably sick of the conversation being brought up and has taken a break from interacting with people outside of the game, and everyone else refuses to interact with the issue for fear of causing drama. What are your thoughts?

I'm with you and your friend, fr. Just reading this irritated the shit out of me lol. "We used to be Vikings" supremacist ass argument and they probably think they're so progressive 🙄 anyway, Black people can be light skinned, so I don't think putting styles on fair models is the issue, as it is the intent. They're not fooling anybody; they chose the styles bc "they looked cool" and came up with reasons post accusation of appropriation. Everyone wants my body but nobody wants me; we truly are delectable negroes.

Anyway I fully understand your friend or you deciding to step back (as Black fans, let me be clear!!). It's practically a rite of passage for Black fans. So long as everyone (including people you currently consider to be peers) allows antiblack racism to fester because "they're afraid of drama", and don't want to gain the knowledge to have the necessary conversations, the space will never be safe for Black fans. Why should y'all get in there and be perpetually lynched online to preserve their enjoyment of racism 🤷🏾‍♀️ But I'm also the type to say my piece and walk away lol. You don't have to believe it, I just feel the need to break your illusion that you aren't being so.✌🏾

[pillowprincess1sworld]

Are you gonna be a good boy for mommy ❤️😘

[crystalpallette]

don't worry ally. if you ran me over with your bike I'd forgive you because you're so cute.

(a mini comic for @aretaix 's fic Come In!)

bonus:

[lavenderleahy]

It's so interesting how when Bobby talks to Buck about Abby, he's mostly giving advice about what Buck should do. Buck is young and immature and this is his first serious relationship; he relies on Bobby for wisdom on how to navigate the complications.

So when Bobby says he knows Tommy is good for Buck "because we haven't had to talk about him," it's not just a reflection on Tommy's character. It's also a reflection of how much Buck has learned and grown over the years. They haven't had to talk about Tommy because Buck hasn't needed to ask for advice - he's in a mature, stable spot in his life and he knows what he wants.

[hexediemiauenkann]

they are so in love, i say as those two mfs try to kill each other while also almost snarling in each others faces and being mean as fuck