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i like MEN and i am TIRED and a bit of a BITCH and i will STAY THAT WAY
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literally everything is fine i’m just tired and overstimulated everything is fine the world isn’t ending everything is cool
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I don't have anger issues, that shrink was a quack, i am a calm individual in perfect control of my emotions and i will not blow up and yell at people when they piss me off because nobody and nothing can piss me off, i have never felt anger in my life, i am calm, i am zen, i am at peace, my heartrate is normal and my blood pressure is so low that it makes me dizzy🧘♀️
#affirmations or something#you know what actually and seriously paarthurnax was right#i do deserve a pat on the back for not yelling at people because it is SO HARD for me
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Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.
You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".
#transgender#trans#transmasc#transmen#trans men#trans masc#transmasculine#transmascs#anti transmasculinity#transandrophobia#queer#lgbt#gender#genderqueer#affirmations#if you respond to this with something transmisogynistic and/or imply all trans women hate us i will block you <3
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percy, mentally ill: I feel like I deserve to die. It's a punishment because im a horrible person. Does that sound crazy?
jason, also mentally ill: No that tracks bro samesies
#just two dumb bitches telling each other /exaaaaactly/#that scene is boo is so funny because it fully treats it as if Percy can read Jason's thoughts the way the reader can#because from Jason's pov it's Percy saying that he thinks deserves to die as a punishment for doing something so terrible#and then Jason THINKS about times when he also felt helpless and wanted to give up and die#and he's literally sympathizing with Percy#but VERBALLY Jason's like: no that's not crazy that makes sense#so now think of this convo from Percy's pov#Percy: I'm a horrible person who deserves to die#Jason: Yeah that makes sense#and then Percy GOES QUIET#it literally reads like Jason affirms Percy's worst thoughts alkfjalkdjflskdjg#its sooo fucking funny in the worst way#pjo#percy jackson#jason grace#mine
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we're crazy to think we have a shot of landing a spot in a magazine but we're gonna try anyways. and we're crazy to think we have a shot of getting an anthology published but we're gonna try anyways. and if it doesn't work out then we know for certain there's something we can improve upon.
#affirmations or something#its weird how we can look at our competition and see how they're outrageously more qualified than us#but we just dont care. we feel so apathetic to the idea we're shooting way too far#cuz whatever it's not our issue#first is due mid sept and second is due early oct so bangs head against wall
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You are worthy of a peaceful life, exactly as you are.
#positivity#positive affirmations#affirmations#positive words#self acceptance#trying something different
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something bad’s about to happen to me
why i feel this way, i don’t know maybe
#tgaa#tgaa chronicles#tgaac#art#great ace attorney#the great ace attorney#dgs#fanart#herlock sholmes#sherlock holmes#dgs sherlock holmes#dai gyakuten saiban#lyric quotes#dark red by steve lacy#idk i had this visual stuck in my head for a couple of days#dgs2#dgs2 spoilers#i feel like after really marinating in whatever the fuck happened in 2-5 i have come to realize how scary this man is#i’ve been watching a play through to see if i can catch anything i couldn’t on my own play through and like#dude he drops so many hints and foreshadowing it’s fucking crazy how the fuck do you know all of this mr sholmes!!!!#he will always be a silly character but i cannot help but remember how genuinely unsettled i was by the way he acted at the end of 2-2#and also the time in the waxwork museum where he was questioned by susato and ryunosuke#where his trolling characteristics were basically implied to be a bit of an act#and i was like. damn. holy shit. because i almost fell for that act too. i almost believed him until he said smth like#‘but that won’t fly with you’ or something and ryunosuke affirmed it by saying that anyone else could’ve made a mistake but not mr sholmes#augh. he’s just a really good character ok
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#yes i think im funny#inspired by that one post which i can't find for the life of meeeeee#Ironically enough#you know the one#crozier's drunk and tells the officers he can't find it but fitzjames is transfem#something something strangely very gender affirming#shitpost#francis crozier#the terror#i would have put it in the reblogs of that post but i cannot fiiind ittt
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Tim's Sense of Belonging
"There are only a few places I belong: with Bernard, on the boat, and solving mysteries." - Tim Drake - TD:R Issue 2
I feel like we don’t talk about this line nearly enough. Like, Tim Drake? Admitting he belongs at someone's side? Not even that, making a declarative statement that come hell or high water, being with Bernard is his God-given right?
That feels kinda huge for someone who always seems to be uprooted from one sense of identity to another. Mr. "Batman needs a Robin, but I still wonder if I was really the best for the job". You DID the job, my guy. You did a GREAT JOB, even. That means it WAS your place to be in every moment that you were his Robin. Yet he won't say that with the same confidence he says he DOES belong with Bernard.
That's freaking cute!
#timber#timbern#tim drake#bernard dowd#Did being in a relationship with a non-vigilante best friend affirm your non-vigilante self-worth or something?#tim drake: robin
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Horrible thing to say but I think there's a real chance Jiang Yanli was both of her parents' least favorite child and knew it and just kinda. Had to go on with her life knowing that.
#mdzs#jiang yanli#yunmeng siblings#madam yu's favorite kid is jc. she doesn't. um. SHOW it in a very affirming way but he's clearly the one she's emotionally most invested in#jfm's favorite kid is wwx. is he even one of his kids? doesn't matter. he's the favorite#(madam yu does NOT see wwx as her child so he doesn't factor into the calculation for her.)#i think jfm's neglect of jc is talked about. mostly because the both jc and wwx are clearly aware of it and so it's mentioned in novel#but um... DO we see either of yanli's parents give much a shit about her? ever?#jfm doesn't even ask if she WANTS her engagement dissolved before doing so#also the reason stated by other characters for jfm not liking jc is that he's madam yu's child. you know who is ALSO madam yu's child?#i think jfm may find jc.. harder to get along with. but i also think whatever discomfort from his marriage he projects onto his kids#it also extends to yanli. it's just that he's not constantly REMINDED of yanli like he is jc#(because madam yu keeps yelling about it)#and so he just... doesn't think about her much at all#madam yu meanwhile treats yanli with this air of disappointment. she seems to resent that she's 'weak' and gentle and quiet#and that she cares so little about status so as to treat wwx like her little brother#i think yanli is just fundamenally so clearly... not the child either of her parents wanted. and it shows.#i'm slightly peeved fandom doesn't talk about this as much as they talk about the effects the jiang parents had on the two boys.#but to be fair to fandom the book doesn't either#which is probaly just danmei-typical misogyny. but to give a slightly more watsonian reason#i think the yunmeng bros are genuinely unaware of this. yanli is PERFECT how could her parents not love her?#(of course they notice something like zixuan's initial dislike of her but that's blatant.)#(vs the attitude of the jiang parents towards their daughter which seems to be mostly... disinterest and disappointment)
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The absolute biggest thing I've learned as a trans guy: there is nothing more masculine and manly than not caring about looking or acting masculine or manly. Growing your masculinity or manhood takes time and care - you have no obligation to let the world water your garden when you can do that just fine (and you can, even if it doesn't feel like you can!)
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#nonbinary#trans advice#got a stereotypically 'feminine/woman' piercing and. i feel like a man *inverted shania twain riff from man! i feel like a woman*#nothing affirms my manhood more than not caring about the genuinely toxic imaginings that the world has about manhood and men like me 👍#yes it can be a struggle ESPECIALLY if you're somebody who actively has to defend your masculinity/manhood...#...it's hard for me too sometimes. i had to not only build my manhood but jealously defend it from the 'phobes...#...but i am all the better for it because this is MINE. i have never truly owned something in this way...#...i don't own other people nor my cats nor even my material possessions - not in the way i own my manhood...#...i own it like a tiger owns his territory and i defend it similarly...#...i do not WANT to own my loved ones or possessions the same as i own my manhood and masculinity. this is special to me#my manhood was *made* for me to be owned anyway. i feel that applies to every trans person who hasn't felt able to own themselves#this is in the same vein as learning to cast aside the cissexist views of bodies&experiences that can make dysphoria worae
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"if we make america worse and more of a dictatorship that will be even harder to unravel and make it the way we want the country to be, maybe then everyone will join our Glorious Revolution!" bb girl you cant even be in the same room with someone who thinks you should vote, how in tf do you think you're gonna unite people to fight in The Revolution with you? it's gonna be you and your 5 friends, i hate to break it to you.
#i dont think you realize how repelling you and your politics are to everyone else#you get all of your validation for how Smart You Are from your friends and ignore any kind of feedback that suggests you should#change or do something differently. thats the only reason you're so convinced average people will go along with you bc you keep getting#affirmation from the people who ALREADY agree with you- but you have NO IDEA how to bridge the gap between people who agree#with you and disagree with you. you're horrible at convincing people of your side of things outside of straight up guilt tripping them#or bullying them like a highschooler. im sorry but the tools you learned to survive with as a kid aren't gonna help you in this situation.#the ONLY THING you can come up with to bridge that gap is a bloody revolution. thats how bad you are at this.#and you're also so bad at this and unimaginative that you dont even realize how THAT might not even be enough.#you cant imagine ANY kind of avenue to getting people to change AT ALL outside of blood and fire. and thats why people call you#an authoritarian.#i'll be honest- i really do think the world would be a better place if we did incremental change under a democratic president who wont#set the world on fire vs the godkingemperor republican WHO WONT EVEN LISTEN TO YOU AT ALL EVER AND MIGHT KILL YOU#FOR PUTTING UP A STINK. idk if you noticed but if that evil fuck gets into office we are severely outnumbered if he gets police#n shit to go after his own citizens. letting trump win is making this battle so much harder than it needs to be.#you are choosing trying to fix the world while its exploding vs trying to fix it before it explodes at all.#what is this like a procrastination thing? you wanna wait till the last minute to try? idfgi. wtf is wrong with you#throwing minority lives away to prove a point. and then you try to tell me you care. gtfoh.#accelerationists should never be taken seriously.
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When someone has been posting anti-voting, both-sides-are-the-same propaganda for months, and then posts about the Texas Supreme Court banning gender affirming care for trans kids.
#hmmmm#if only there was something we could do to stop republicans from getting elected and taking over the courts#vote biden#vote blue#suck it up#transgender#gender affirming care#protect trans kids#by actually doing something practical#sorry it’s not exciting and you don’t get to throw any Molotov cocktails#supreme court#texas#coincidentally this person is also a raging antisemite
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Ephemer + physical touch
#khux#ephemer#you can never go wrong with a gifset inspired by the love languages on this website#I think he’s great at giving physical touch. but I actually think /his/ love language are words of affirmation#there are a lot of times where he gets strength from something one of his friends said#like when lauriam talks to him. or when skuld tells him that he has their support. so on and so forth#likewise I bet these lil gestures do a really good job at grounding the others or instilling confidence in them when they need it#the way that it’s mostly player in this…..<:)#I think /their/ love language is physical touch (and eph can tell haha)#my posts#timeless child#dandy kids
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Sorry for immediately angsting him up but hermie 2.0 must have even more identity issues than original hermie
Lyrics from Sweet Tooth by cavetown
#i was having soooo many issues with the colors with this one#every time i thought i was happy with it id change my mind#so annoying bc colors are actually my favorite part#augh#anyway i think im happy with it#gonna try not to think about it too much#mispelled draws#misp draws#dndads#dungeons and daddies#dndads fanart#dndads s2#hermie unworthy#hermie the unworthy#willy scampler#hermie 2.0#AUGH I HATE IT WHY ITS TOO PINK OR SOMETHING. SOBS#ok ok ok ok ok . must stop. posting now. its good . the colors just look weird to me#<--- affirmations
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