#aegoaroace

[kyanitedragon]

Any other Aegos that can like... empathically and vicariously feel romantic and/or sexual attraction in your mind?

I have never experienced either one nor do I think I ever will, and yet after learning what allos feel when it happens I can... imagine in detail what it feels like??? I've never felt butterflies even platonically yet I can imagine what it feels like to look at your crush and feel on cloud nine. I've never felt the heat of lust yet I can imagine the burning tension of wanting to touch and feel your sexual partner.

It definitely stems from my general love of descriptive stories where you get deep in the minds and shoes of the fictional characters, but it's still just fascinating to me how I can imagine feeling things I'm literally incapable of. (Although I have no idea if I'm "feeling" them right.)

[asexualcherry]

Happy Aego's 🦖

💚🖤💜🖤💙💛🧡

[zinka-temp-name]

I just learned the terms aegoromantic and aegosexual, and they fit me 100%.

I despise looking in the normal aroace, aromantic, and asexual tags because they're filled with posts about hatred for shipping, which is the thing I find most comforting in my life.

I don't fit in with most aroaces because of my love for fictional relationships, and it bothers me that I can't look at a majority of posts about my own orientation without getting upset. But now I'm exclusively using the aego tags when searching. I've found my people. 🥰

When telling the average person what my orientation is, I'll still say aroace, and even that's confusing for some people. But to be more specific, I'm aegoromantic aegosexual. I don't want a relationship or sex for myself, but imagining fictional characters together makes me extremely happy.

I also like that I can use one flag that shows the asexual and aromantic ones together, because I'm not a fan of the aroace one, but adore the individual ones. (Not sure which of these is more accurate or if it matters.)

If you're someone on the asexual and/or aromantic spectrum who doesn't relate to this, please be nice or just ignore! You probably wanna block someone like me anyway, whose blog is revolved around shipping.

But we're all valid members of the community and deserve to find exactly where we fit in. I'm hoping this post will help others like me who weren't aware of these terms and may want to use them.

You can be completely against romance and/or sex for yourself while still enjoying shipping, romantic songs, Valentine's Day, etc. ♥️

[whatsacrush]

Pride Bracelets!!

[fizzamess]

Keep the aroace positivity flowing (day 4)

What’s your favorite thing about being aroace spec? 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

In my own aroace experience, which may not apply to yours, mine’s not having to go on “first dates” bc they’re so freaking awkward, I never knew how to flirt, and I hate when people flirt with me bc it’s so cringy.

Reading about two people in love, able to flirt with each other, in the comfort of my own house tho >>>>

[fandomsupremacist]

Part 3 of aegosexual memes

Also, I just want to say that I'm SO grateful honestly 😭😭 the support for the aegosexual posts has been crazy. Anyway, guys, this is part 3 of some lovely aegosexual memes for you bitchless fuckin bitches out there 💟💟💟 enjoy! 🥹

[roninreverie]

Wanted to try my hand at an aegoaroace flag variant!

Use as you wish!

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

I coined my own aroace terms! Cupegosexual, cupegoromantic, and cupego-aroace. It's a mix of cupio and aego, meaning you want to feel said attraction and like the idea of it, but don't actually feel said attraction. It's what I am!

[batri-jopa]

Some allosexuals: Men are sexy!

Other allosexuals: No, women are sexy!

Bisexuals: Oh, come on, both are sexy!

Pansexuals: Sure, everyone's sexy!

Asexuals in general: Nobody is sexy...

Aegosexual asexuals: ...but sex is sexy!

[cosmicriff]

happy pride!

It took me a long time to realize/accept that I’m aroace, because I always felt so left out seeing people talk about their partners, I worried about being alone. I also used to not understand queerplatonic relationships but after looking into them more I realized that sounds more like something I’d want and I became more accepting of myself. I also enjoy shipping, and smut, but it seemed like most aroaces didn’t, but then I discovered aegosexual/romantic and things made sense

[cornstarchandwaffles]

Made a little aegorose (aegoaroace) symbol

[pridebicons]

aegoaroace pan ford pride icons

requested by @scaleneorg49

like/rb if using + credit

[asexualcherry]

🕸Part 3/?🕸

Part 1 | Part 2 |

Spooky pride-spiders ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤍🌈

Use them if you want! Requests via Ask.

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

[ID: Eight pixel hearts of various flags in order being Aegoaroace, Aegoromanticflux, Aegosexualflux, Aegofictosexual, Aegofictoromantic, Aegosexual, Aegoromantic, and Aegolove. End ID]

[whatsacrush]

Some Aego inspired doodles:

In order: aegosexual, aegoromantic, aegoaroace (sunset), and aegoaroace (green and purple)

Feel free to use use these if you want, just tag me I guess.

You don't have to be aego to use these (you can use them for aro and/or ace pride as well), the triangle design was just inspired by the aego flags

[fizzamess]

Happy new year to all aroacespec people out there, but especially to the ones who:

People tend to disregard their identity by saying that it’s a “phase”

Aren’t outside of the closet yet

Are still discovering their aroacespec identity

Feel alone during these holidays because society has let them believe that having a romantic partner is the only way to not be “alone”

Don’t have aroace friends or an aroace community in their country because it is not a well known term there

Don’t feel safe at home during these holidays and can’t come out to their family because of the fear of being judged or rejected

Have to pretend to be allos around their family members for whatever reason, and are always annoyed by the common question of “and when are you getting a boyfriend/girlfriend or getting married or having children?”

I’m here for you, you are not alone. We’re all part of this beautiful community. Happy new year y’all!

Also, this is my first new year out and proud and I’m just so happy :)