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Look at this gem my friend found on Pinterest

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AAHHH I DIDNT KNOW WE HAD A DAY!!

HAPPY PRIDE

HAPPY AEGOSEXUAL VISIBILITY DAY!!

this label of asexuality has helped me A LOT in discovering myself and learning more about lgbtqia+ culture as a whole

there are days where I do sometimes question myself, thinking that I’m not “queer enough” to part of the community. But then I look around at my fellow aces/aegos and remember that I’m not alone in my feelings, even if theirs vary from my own experience

I’m in no way done with self discovery but I’m getting there-!

happy pride my fellow aegosexuals! 💜🤍🖤💚

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Got bored and messed around with the aegosexual flag colors

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Inspired by Everything I Need by MALINDA

From when I first heard this song, I thought it screamed aro. Plus the cover is the aroallo flag colors.

Version with lyric

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[My shelter, my home, my company, what if I’m everything I need?]

Lyric from Everything I Need by MALINDA

From when I first heard this song, I thought it screamed aro. Plus the cover is the aroallo flag colors.

Version without words

Version with different lyric

Links to song:

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[How can I be lonely when I’ve got my body, the sun and earth, and the river on my skin?]

Lyric from Everything I Need by MALINDA

From when I first heard this song, I thought it screamed aro. Plus the cover is the aroallo flag colors.

Version without words

Version with different lyric

Links to the song:

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I can make more flags if anyone wants them. I’m bored

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And my aromantic mood board makes it cool to be alone

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I’m bored and uninspired, so I’ll make more if anyone requests them

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Oh, look. Aromantic yarn.

🤍🩶🖤💚

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The definition I’ve mostly seen used is “experiences little to no sexual attraction” since some aces do experience sexual attraction/gen

asexual + chevron amethyst

asexual: doesn't experience sexual attraction; an umbrella term for people who identify with part of the asexual spectrum

happy Asexual Awareness Week! (the last full week in Oct.) 💜🖤

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Before I found the term aegosexual, I was constantly doubting my asexuality. Now, I use it to reassure myself I’m valid and to find community/people I relate to.

Wanting a micro label is just as valid and important to some people as not wanting one is to others.

Can somebody explain why we need so many labels?

Why can't a person name themselves "aromantic" and desire to be in a romantic relationship? Why should this be "cupioromantic" or something? Aromantic is somebody who experiences little to no romantic attraction. It's not about having a/no desire to date. Yeah, I understand demiromantic and grayromantic, but cupioromantic, orchidromantic, lithromantic, etc. are beyond me. Same for asexuality.

Why do we need them? Why can't you just name yourself aromantic/asexual/demi/gray?

Submitted 20/09/24

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Meeee

Holy shit I think I’m aegoromantic too

Because I like the romance in my own imagination when it’s my own characters and doesn’t have anything to do with me but I hate being in a romantic relationship myself

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What do you mean people actually have sex?!?! 🤢🤢🤢 Like, it’s not just a fun thing in the stories and movies I like??? It’s real?!?!? (eww)

I’m aegosexual and repulsed by real people sex btw and I think it’s funny 👍

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You’re still on the ace spec if:

You are able to feel some sort of sexual attraction

You enjoy certain sexual activities

You aren’t sex repulsed

You’re ace because of trauma/PTSD

It feels like your ace-ness fluctuates

You’re young and think these feeling will change with time

You have another label that “contradicts” your asexuality

Your exact asexual experience doesn’t have a term yet

Others say they feel the same and aren’t ace

ANY OTHER THING. YOU ARE ACE IF YOU SAY YOU’RE ACE.

You’re valid no matter what <3

*read this user’s DNI’s before interacting *

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alright boys, girls, neither, both, and those in between we need to clear something up:

if someone says they are queer, they are queer.

no ifs, ands, buts, etc. they are queer.

and if they discover later that they're cishet, great, amazing, wonderful, i'm glad we gave them community when they were figuring themselves out and needed it.

no gatekeeping of queerness here, alright?

because when shit hits the fan queerphobes wont care whether you're a cis gay man who goes by he/him or a bigender aromantic pansexual who goes by it/its

so stop with the respectability politics.

we're a community, fucking act like it.

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Quick reminder that this was Georgia Warr's reaction to finding out that other people (sexually) fantasize about/get off too people they have crushes on.