#advice welcome. Genuinely

[saw2004andaspliff]

trying to pick up the gays & theys at the pub but it's hard when it's so freezing in the smoking area that i have to be bundled up like fucking kenny off south park & no one can tell what i look like

[calciumcryptid]

Here is a collection of my thoughts about We Are ships sex lives because I, an asexual, have them for some reason and need to get them out- (What is We Are doing to me?)

TANFANG

According to novel fans, Tan is the top and Fang is a power bottom; however, the show implies Fang is the top. This means the correct answer is they are switches, but we knew that.

Tan loves to get romantic with Fang. Rose petals, scented candles, whether in the bathroom or in the bedroom Tan commits to the most tender of sex. It is canon Tan does the come hither motion, and as much as Fang puts up a fight he adores it.

Though some days Fang gets into his head about the balance of their relationship and encourages Tan to take. Sometimes, Fang just wants Tan to use his dick like a joystick, and Tan is more than happy to jump into his lap.

Their relationship started from mutual punching, and their canon (implied) sex scene has them wrestling. Therefore, they are the roughest couple in bed. They absolutely have a mutual marking kink shown through hickies and flat-out bites. Some flavor of BDSM, though they (or any of the couples) aren't hardcore with it.

Aftercare game is strong with these two, and they preen at being the one to take care of the other with their mutual taking care of each other kink.

QTOEY

They have sex but in a very (demi)aro(demi)ace way if that makes sense? They have a code in their phone for when one of them is horny and it is "Draw me like one of your Thai boys" (Toey came up with it, Q couldn't think of anything better).

When they do have sex in their own private enclosure and not in Peem's childhood home, it is very artistic. Q has painted Toey's nudes (the only nudes of his boyfriend he has), and he hung it up in their bedroom (fortunately, they aren't the hangout house so they don't have to mad dash to hide it). Q has painted Toey's skin as foreplay, change my mind (you can't).

Before the nudes were painted, Q joked Toey should get dolled up for it and something inside Toey pinged. Since then, Q will teasingly call Teoy "doll" alongside his usual "muse". Their closet has a section dedicated to lingerie (honestly, most of the time they don't even fuck in them. Q just likes drawing and painting tasteful nudes of his boyfriend, and Toey likes being Q's model).

Regardless, the actual action is full of reverence and body worship and Q insists on fucking Toey in natural light because it makes him look more gorgeous than he already is. They have the weakest aftercare game, but considering the couples they're up against it isn't a surprise. Most points are deducted for Q vowing to never paint Toey again as he scrubs his boyfriend's skin. Toey giggles knowing he'll convince Q otherwise.

PHUMPEEM

It doesn't matter what the novel/series says, Phum is a bottom. He wants to be in Peem's lap and monopolize all his attention. Riding is his favorite sex position. The man wants to be railed by his hot artist boyfriend, and can we blame him? (Peem really likes it when Phum is on his back because Phum's hair is a national treasure.)

They do have some pet play going on. It isn't super hardcore, but it is there. After all, Peem canonically calls Phum "puppy" and I think Phum should get to call Peem "kitten" (turnabout is fair play).

There is a reason I placed PhumPeem's section after QToey, and it is because Phum was the person Toey asked to go lingerie shopping with him (lets be real, Toey is not going on his own the first time and Phum is the least embarrassing option). Phum comes home with a few things of his own, and Peem is relentless with the pillow princess teasing as he rails his boyfriend.

PhumPeem are tied with TanFang on best aftercare game, because both couples have a mutual taking care of each other kink.

Oh, right, they have sex on the beach at some point. Also, they are known for fucking in any body of water they can (which wasn't what Peem meant by the water being his safe place, but he's not arguing).

CHAINPUN

They are the kinkiest couple here.

They may not be the most consistently kinky, but they are the most varied. All Pun has to do is bat his eyelashes at Chain, and Chain will indulge Pun in his latest fantasy. Out of all of them, they are the most likely to commit to actual roleplay scenarios. The most often one, of course, being a doctor one (though Chain will make sure to remind Pun he isn't that type of doctor). It doesn't matter though because Pun finds him immensely sexy in the coat.

Although they do get up to roleplay, sometimes Chain wants to spend his time adoring Pun. The body worship is off the charts with these two, and Chain makes sure to love and worship every inch of Pun. Pun loves it, and preens under the adoration though Chain can be torturous in his foreplay.

Soft top Chain, but we all know that.

Honestly, there isn't a couple in We Are that doesn't go all out for aftercare. ChainPuns includes cuddling and snuggling under the covers, and Chain ensures Pun is fed.

[encryptedlunacy]

So to anyone who either has a low-functioning immune system or takes meds to cap their immune system; how are we feeling in flu season?

[patrice-bergerons]

I am deferring to senior management advice re how to handle a crucial something at work rather than going with my own instinct and I really hope this does not come back to bite us all in the ass

[transloserxd]

I hate working at fucking KFC cuz after the closing shift we get to take all the leftovers, so my hungry ass went over to the drawers ate 5 onion rings and few strings of bacon, I already had to eat a 600+ kcal meal today cuz I live with my parents and we always have lunch together on weekend OMFG I'm so fucking stupid, I was so close to my first gw and I just ate?? like a fucking pig as well FML I hate this shit

[companionwolf]

I'm so frustrated. I think the other layers, at least one of them, think my layer (the one I'm on) isn't real? That we are not real, and are imposters. And that's one of the reasons the dreams are always so awful and full of hate?

I don't know how to approach this. I guess the main solution is talk, but it's very difficult to get communication going + I'm scared as hell-- both because what if it doesn't change anything...and what if it actually does?

[purpledisastertwin900]

Does anyone have any good advice for fic writing? I have an idea I really wanna explore but I’ve never written anything fr

[crystalistrappedintheinternet]

oh my god i get what the tankies are on about you guys are infuriatingly pro-biden

[kicksnscribs]

Ok this is dumb but i'm gonna try it anyway:

I've said in my previous post that Tumblr just isn't working for me interaction wise, i don't feel like i come up with anything interesting enough to bring interest into my fanworks and worldbuilding, and all i seem to do is post doom-y shit and i'm T I R E D of it

and like i've said before i don't like just throwing shit out into ppls faces bc...well i've always told myself that it was rude to do so without permission but now that i've gotten it out there it sounds really stupid

but then there's the insecurities about my stuff to go along with it too

maybe its the depression talking for me again, i know this shit is really tiring to read with my back and forth nonsense but i really don't know what to do with myself rn despite trying to fix things, and this is just another one of my impulsive decisions

[reverie-starlight]

genuinely how do I clarify where I stand with someone 😐

[sagetheenbymage]

pov my search history all the time:

“how to set boundaries”

“how to set boundaries and still have friends”

[iraqueer]

gonna have my husband clip of the tip of my thumb because I do not want to go to an urgent care for that.

(I'm doing this btw because I sliced nearly all the way through the tip of my thumb and I need to finish it)

gross pic of what it looks like rn under cut

[farmerlesbian]

i have been enjoying the asks y’all have sent in lately! it usually takes me a couple days to a couple weeks to answer asks so i hope y’all anons who send em in do eventually see the answer when i post it. i really do hope you find it helpful!

[x-ladydisdain-x]

When your friend is just out of a longterm (by teenage standards) relationship that really really impacted him but is now hooking up with a past situation that went really badly in the past but has apparently grown a lot as a person and they want to get together should I discourage this bc it’s obviously a bad plan all around or should I encourage it bc he’s been so sad every since the breakup and deserves a fun rebound

[pynkhues]

Do you think a Scream Brio Au fic can work lol? Any advice on how to write it?

I think any AU can work if you find the right way into it, anon!

Are you thinking you'd write Beth as Sidney and Rio as Billy? Because I can definitely see that being a trickier narrative to navigate if you're wanting it to put them together at the end of the story. Not impossible though, after all, in some ways there's shades of that dynamic there already with the manipulation early on in Beth and Rio's dynamic, with her shooting him, and with him killing someone important to her.

What you'd really need to focus on though I think is bringing that rush Beth feels with Rio to that particular context, because that sort of feeling isn't one that I think Sidney has with Billy in Scream (well, at least not until she kills him, haha). In that sense, what'd be most important would be establishing who Beth and Rio are in this particular context, and if Rio had any sense of Beth being drawn to these darker circumstances in the way that Sidney wasn't.

Understanding how character motivation translates to new contexts is always, I think, at least, the most important part of an AU, and so really digging deep into that should help you with working out your story.

[saiintofawe]

oughh. ouchiee