#adhd mother

[theredhead23]

Happy Birthday 7th Kira!

My little girl is turning 7 today! I can't believe it! It feels like just yesterday she was eagerly waiting to pop out of my belly.

[finally-got-a-diagnosis]

Black Autistic Culture is people not believing you're autistic while also critiquing you on everything you said that was "disrespectful" and "rude" as well as telling you to learn how to talk right.

[worstwolverinesbf]

the batfam as things i and others have said pt 2

jason talking about his death: everyone has bad days, everyone gets blown up sometimes

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tim: dad, how old are you?

bruce: old enough

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dick: the moon is in a phase

tim: what is it, emo?

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jason talking about tims mental state: its being held together with zip ties and a dream

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steph when a bat appears: i hate when men do that… appear out of thin air

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bruce, deadpan: i was gonna say who has a mobile number (police number) but it’s the police

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tim talking about wifi: it keeps dropping out

jason: of high school?

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bruce: are you on something?

little dick: FREEDOM

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tim after scrolling on tumblr for too long: teenagers relate to murder

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dick after fighting slade too many times: he’s always down to kill kids and i respect that

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pt 1

[darealsaltysam]

someone please tell me what this specific father & son duo trope is called

[ponhey]

could a person with ADHD do this ?!!!

*start getting really into fictionnal podcast and devouring them one by one*

[dragonflavoredcake]

The neurodivergent experience is doing something completely normal and then someone walks in, laughs at you, and says "I'm not laughing at you!" while still actively laughing at you

[macbethz]

Some of you genuinely seem to believe neurotypical people are mindless conformity drones like the villains in a Tim Burton movie who are happy all the time with no inner life & that anyone who has any thoughts about the world around them at all has a mental illness. You are no better than the 12 yo boys who call service workers NPCs. Actually I’d argue you’re worse because at least those people are joking.

[anouchan-jpg]

[theredhead23]

It's my 10 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

Time flies when you are having fun!

This year I am trying my hand at NaNoWriMo! So many join my adventure with that? We can see what the next ten years will take us!

[talkethtothehandeth]

cripple punk isn’t for mental disabilities

but that’s not saying you’re not disabled

you don’t have to be crippled to be disabled.

but you have to be crippled to have a voice you think you’re entitled to in cripple punk spaces.

you’re either crippled, or you’re not.

cripples having their own space doesn’t take away from neurodivergent/mentally ill people’s spaces.

how is this still confusing or controversial?

[spaghettiisgross]

girls after saying “it is what it is” for the 6039277292 time

[makoto-kaiser-blog]

🎃HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY 💐

THANK YOU TO ALL THE MOTHER'S WHO'VE CARED AND LOVED FOR THEIR FAMILY AND FRIENDS, RELATED OR NOT, MOTHER OR NOT, IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE AND SEE AND CARE FOR THEM AS YOUR OWN YOUR DOING A GREAT JOB. I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A FANTASTIC MOTHER'S DAY^^

HERE'S A COLLECTION OF SOME ART I MADE THAT FITS MOTHER'S DAY VERY WELL ^^

FIRST SOME ART OF JACK AND HIS MAMA(CREATOR) SOLAR^^

AND HE'S SOME ART OF OF JACK BEING WATCHED OVER BY HIS GUARDIAN ANGEL ^^

A DRAWING OF KILL CODE WATCHING OVER THEIR SONS AND FRIEND^^

AND A LITTLE BONUS SOMETHING I MADE FOR A DEAR FRIEND OF MINE FOR HIS BIRTHDAY A FEW DAYS AGO^^

HAPPY UNBIRTHDAY MY LIL IZU^^💚

[wonderlandsakura]

Ok for some reason my brain is hyper focusing on Johnlock again like I won't regret it 2-3 business days from now when I come out of it with 5 new open AO3 tabs (out of my already 156 open AO3 tabs not counting other unfinished/unread fic/fic I've not caught up on, full disclosure) for fic that I probably won't finish reading and/or while being unable to find the. Very Specific. fic I want to read and just having like an open half-filtered tab... But Anyway.

Here's a Very Rare Johnlock Post from me lol

Imagine after all the seasons are over and Johnlock are old and have finally talked about their feelings and properly, actually, gotten officially together

(and subsequently gotten married in like 2 months cause Sherlock filled out the paperwork while John was not actually at home and then actually having a discussion about it when John finds out it happened cause Sherlock casually mentions it and actually agrees after Sherlock mentions (read: steamrolls over him, anxiously) them practically already being married by common law and just officialising it for the tax benefits... they only have a proper wedding, maybe on their/an anniversary when Mrs Hudson finds out probably 6 months later or sth and complains,, but I've gone on a tangent again)

Anyway Rosie is a teenager, with after-school activities and a phone.

I'm just imagining Sherlock dragging John out on a murder case (read: date) and deciding to feed him midway through (like always, tbh,, sth sth that post about feeding the depressed man that tends to forget to eat but I digress)

So Rosie gets a text and a voicemail from the two of them (cause Sherlock prefers to text and tell me John is not the sort to leave voicemails, like he would have put it on the voicemail machine if they had one he's so old man sometimes)

And it goes something like:

[Text from Papa]

Ragù Bolognese, Angelo's, 7pm. Hugs. -SH

[Voicemail from Dad]

"Hi honey, it's Dad.

Sorry we won't be able to make it to dinner with you, your father's got a case and you know how he gets...

Anyway, Mrs Hudson is going out tonight remember, so your Papa is booking the usual table at Angelo's for you... You still like the Spaghetti Bolognese right?

Don't worry about us, we'll eat before we get home. And the reservation is at 7, so don't be late. This will probably take a while so don't wait up either and go straight to bed young lady, you hear me?

Anyway I've got to go, loveyoubye."

Anyway I think it would be very cute, like they love and care about her, even if they're old men who laugh at crime scenes and whose ideal date is trying to catch a murderer together, and they show it by taking a moment to make sure she's fed with her favorite food even when they're busy solving crime, so yeah.

[bitchfitch]

You know, on one hand I kinda grok what parents are attempting when they take steps to make sure their children aren't told they have x mental issue. Defining yourself by a list of symptoms and having that list be like. a part of your identity can seriously mess you up when getting treatment or just aging into or out of different symptoms changes your relationship with those symptoms.

But on the other hand maybe getting put on ADHD medication would have prevented me going through school regularly only sleeping a few hours 4 days a week and 0 hours the other 3.

like. the chronic insomnia and sleep deprivation directly contributed to a handful of extremely serious mental crackings that would have resulted in suicide if I had 5% less of a strangle hold on my mental issues, and it's also probably why my health took an extreme dip around that time and why I didn't even finish more than sophomore year.

[theredhead23]

Deep breathing and I need more hangers or fewer clothes!

Have you ever had someone comment on everything you are doing? Things you are doing right, wrong, or not all? Now imagine that person is your brain and it keeps asking questions and commenting on everything you are doing?

Now take a deep breath!

It's not as easy and a lot of people think it is. I need to reteach myself how to do this which is harder than it seems.

There are so many things I want to get done - today, this week, this month, this year, and this lifetime. But my ADHD is screaming that I need to get everything done right now. But I'm only human, and there is no way I can master Spanish and fix up the entire house in a day. So I need to breathe - and tell my brain to chill.

But my brain acts like a two-year-old most of the time.

Anyway, I need to slow down and breathe. I am struggling with that. It's not that I don't have the 'items' to get things done but the time and the skill to prioritize things that I need to get done. (which are two things I want to work on and learn how to do them).

This is short and sweet because I needed a short break from freaking out about not being able to get everything done at once.

Also, I am out of hangers and I still have two loads of clothes I need to put away. But I am out of hangers for shirts. Partly because Serenity is growing up and her clothes now need 'adult hangers'. I usually only have enough for two adults. No more kid hangers for her.

I got off-topic. But I have a lot going on in my brain and I need to just get everything out of my brain and on something - paper or computer screen.

I'm off to do that, but I just wanted to drop by and say hello and I'm going crazy. Feel free to leave a comment and I will try to get back to you as soon as possible.

[a1nsl3yyy]

sorry for this long rant but i need to know if anyone else feels the same way.

(i wrote this when i was in class lmaoo)

bro, tell me why i’m actually about to cry. i saw hayden announced new merch dropping next week, and i got so hyped. i was reading through the comments, and apparently, she’s bringing back some of her older designs too. that’s when i started really thinking about her music—the vibe, the layers of instruments, the lyrics, the meanings, everything. i got so emotional i literally started tearing up.

maybe it’s because i have the absolute worst fomo. i found ethel in august, around the end of the preacher’s daughter era. when i first discovered her and got into her music, i felt this instant spark, this deep connection to her art, like she was saying things i’d been waiting to hear. and what i think is getting me down is that i missed out on seeing her grow and release the albums that shaped her into the artist she is now. i’m insanely proud of her and just want to celebrate every part of her journey. she pours her heart into her work and deserves all the spotlight she gets, if not more.

i mean, i’m only 14—i was 12 for most of 2022. i just hate joining in the middle of something, feeling like i missed out on so much. i’d see old tumblr and instagram posts from people who were there for PD before it even dropped, celebrating streaming milestones, and i’d scroll through reddit threads filled with lore and theories.

i don’t normally feel this way about artists. i actually haven’t ever felt this way before. she’s the first artist i genuinely wish i’d been there for from the start. the fact that i wasn’t makes me feel a little upset, almost unworthy of listening now, like i missed being part of something truly special.

anyways… hayden’s work is so rich and beautifully crafted, not just with PD but across all her albums, EPs, and singles. every piece is incredibly thought out. she has such an extraordinary mind and such a beautiful way with words, and there isn’t a single song by her that i don’t love with everything in me. i absolutely cannot wait to see what she does with perverts.