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sk-lumen · 2 years ago

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It’s 2023 and people still think being a high value woman is defined exclusively by a male presence in her life, that dark feminine is about manipulating men, that hypergamy is just about bagging a rich man, that glowing up is about becoming some man’s dreamgirl. And that’s not it.

#hypergamy #high value woman #glow up #dark feminine #if living your best life is centered around a man you're missing the point #a great relationship should be like dessert #adding to your life #but not being the foundation and very essence to depend everything on #focus on yourself and everything else will follow

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griffin-ktb · 6 months ago

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#the book of bill gave me total brainrot #I fear they have taken over my life #tried to make bill look scary but then I added the bow tie 💀🙏#gravity falls #the book of bill #bill cipher #stanford pines #billford #toxic old man yaoi #emotional damage #song is I’m Your Man by Mitski #my art <3

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theloyalpin · 6 months ago

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releasing 30+ versions of one album should result in you being sniped tbh

#yes this is about that billionaire private jet flying bitch #even bey is shaking like her capitalistic greed is unmatched #and the fans dumb enough to buy every version should be sniped too while we’re at it #edit: for those adding stuff about kpop albums or video games yeah those too #taylor dick riders will be blocked btw idgaf what you say in defense of a BILLIONAIRE talkin bout i’m threatening her life #bitch go fucking outside #do you genuinely think my BLACK immigrant ass owns a gun?? that’s more likely for your demographic but nice try babes #and yea this isn’t even a hyperbole like it is for the kpop groups and video games she’s just that greedy 😒

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triaelf9 · 5 months ago

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"how do you enjoy *insert fandom here* I hear they're the worst"

Find the ppl who enjoy the thing you like the way you do. Ignore, mute or block the ppl who don't.

Ta-Da~

#literally just unfollowed someone posting petty snark about choices ppl made in game #their good taste in fanart isn't worth their superiority complex that THEY made BETTER CHOICES or whatever #been doing this since I was in Sailor Moon way back when #It helps a ton for Dragon age as well #and a MILLION PERCENT what I do for CR lol #I just thought adding the veil here was funny #b/c you do lose some of the magic #but at least your life isn't MISERABLE #No fandom is better than being among bad fandom TRUST me #and much like me in my own fandom space this probably will give me and 5 other ppl a chuckle XD

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padfootastic · 2 months ago

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can’t help but think of how, if we choose to go by sirius’ characterisation as a private, arrogant teen who only lets a select few into his circle, sirius’ post-azkaban life just have been such an utterly humiliating experience for him.

especially OoTP. when he has all these near strangers in his childhood house, that he hated and loved and ran away from and couldn’t ever escape. if he spent his entire pre-azkaban existence building a cold and aloof persona, not letting people know what his home life had been like, then to have all of these people get a front row seat to it because of kreacher and portrait walburga’s shenanigans must have been near unbearable. to have the entire order, including snape whom he disliked and mistrusted, hear the kinds of names he’s being called.

not only does he have to deal with the retraumatisation of his childhood, but also the fact that he’s flayed open for everyone to see. it’s not only his freedom, innocence, dignity that has been snatched from him but his privacy also. it’s such a cruel thing to experience, on top of everything else.

to have literal children, his godson who he has been kept away from all this while, whom he presumably wants to be able to look up to him, to have him see into the deepest parts of his soul. to have to be so weak in front of him. not only is he subjected to such vileness but he also cannot do anything about it.

sirius has not had a moment of peace in all the time we knew him. it is indignity upon indignity that is heaped onto him. every other character has gotten a moment of respite but him. it fully breaks my heart.

#sirius black #i am in the mood to sob tonight clearly #i just #was reading a fic #where it recounted walburga ad kreacher’s screams and taunts #and it suddenly hit me how humiliating they are?#like #even if it’s an inanimate object and a house elf #to be called an embarrassment and shame of my flesh and filth #by the only remaining members of your family #and to have it be traced back to your family #to know that your mother was alive but did not care that u were in azkaban #and that everyone else knows it too now #to walk around in every corner of your childhood house and be able to see exactly how u grew up #no boundaries no limits #to have other people keep touching parts of your family with the audacity to throw them out #and move it around #to call your home names #i just. cannot imagine.#the level of helplessness he was operating with #is it really any wonder he was the way he was #hell. he was actually so much better than he should’ve been #lesser men would’ve been catatonic or going off on a rage fuelled warpath #it’s so embarrassing to have your parent even correct u in front of friends sometimes #and to hear all this abuse. shouted at you.#and not one person ever stands up for him #or shows him any empathy #i’m actually amazed that even after all these years i’m able to find new tragedies in sirius life #HAS THAT MAN NOT BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH #pen’s notes

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s0fter-sin · 3 months ago

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something people just don’t think about is how often chronically ill and disabled people just don’t have access to good food. not healthy food, good food; well made, tasty meals that don’t come from a jar or a freezer. how many of us are housebound or can’t drive? delivery services only offer within certain distances, if you live outside a city they aren’t an option. many people don’t have the energy or ability to cook for themselves if they have the skill to begin with. many certainly don’t have the ability to learn how. it’s something that goes completely unnoticed, just the opportunity to have a good meal and how much that wears you down

#all i want is chinese food #the closest one to me is 40 minutes away and its a /bad/ chinese place #its my worst option and its not even an option #‘fried rice is easy to make heres a recipe!’#i cant use a stove bc the heat will give me a seizure #even if i keep myself cool something that should take 15 minutes will take upwards of an hour bc i need to take breaks #even then ill probably be too nauseous to eat it after being active for so long #all of that for a bad cooks version of fried rice #more expensive and worse than a takeaway place #but i cant get it from a takeaway place #repeat ad nauseum for the rest of my life and is it any wonder im so sick of the same food ive eaten for 10 years #the only time i get takeaway is when my parents decide to go out and bring something home #can you imagine living like that for the rest of your life?#i dont have to #and its so dumb to want to cry over rice #but its not really about the rice is it #coming out of my cage and ive been doing just fine.txt #spoonie #chronic illness #disability #pots #postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome #ehlers danlos syndrome #fibromyalgia #chronic fatigue #chronically ill #mental illness #mental health #save post

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winkleclit · 2 months ago

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Does this count as a birthday post?

#cw: gore #cw blood #homestuck #dirk strider #obligatory art tag #my art #art #homestuck art #homestuck dirk #gore #can you stop asking me to use more gore tags #i have no issue adding tags but you do not get to be pissy about asking #<- sure i get you just saw something you probably thought you had blocked but being a dick about it isnt cool #i have a life outside tumblr and im not going to see your asks immediately either. i have exams and shit man cmon #thanks dont be a dick

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tantaliart · 10 months ago

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some fake screenshots I drew in 2022 for the fic that is leagues better than drv3, I’d trade my life for yours by grayimperia! this fic changed my life

depicted: [spoilers] the end of the chapter 5 trial, and the chapter 3 handcuff incident

#I purposefully added in some wonkiness for extra authenticity #danganronpa #drv3 #danganronpa v3 #kaito momota #kokichi ouma #kaede akamatsu #itmlfy #i’d trade my life for yours #oumota #fanart

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hussyknee · 2 years ago

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SOUTH ASIANS ASSEMBLE

E.g: Best Bollywood movie of all time!

#the replies and QT added several years to my life through nostalgia alone #please do not plug your white people musicals on this post. i assure you they are inferior #except Mulan Rouge because Baz L based that on Bollywood and the man understood the assignment #bollywood #kollywood #tollywood #barbie #south asia #desi #twitter #knee of huss

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shimmershy · 11 months ago

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Hiiiiii your chara & frisk are two of my favorites, 10/10 very blorbo of them to be rendered in your art style

If that made any sense, I really like your art! Okay byee, have a nice day/afternoon/night!!

Ahh wow, thank you so much!! I'm really glad you like them!! :D This made me realize I haven't drawn them in a bit so here's a little sketch I did!

Well um. It was supposed to be a sketch but then I liked it and wanted to color it. You know how it is. They're reading together, but Chara can't stop complaining about how poorly-written the characters are or something, and Frisk can barely hold in their laughter, either because of how bad the book is, or the fact that Chara's so passionate about bashing it.

Anyway, I hope you have a nice day/afternoon/night as well!! :]

#ask #idrawgaystffs #my art #undertale #chara dreemurr #frisk dreemurr #chara #frisk #chara's corporeal here because. well. because I said so. I was gonna draw them as a ghost but I liked it better this way.#sorry for turning your ask into an art post by the way I didn't mean to do that lol. I was just like. 'oh I'll draw something for this ask'#'because I think it's cute when other people answer asks like this with little doodles'. and then I accidentally added colors and shading #and everything. ahh. such is the life of an artist I guess?#silly :3 #I like the cat alarm clock thing. I think that was a very epic idea on my part.

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novantinuum · 1 year ago

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