#actuallydependent

[venty-times17]

kiss your own bruises, nobody else will heal them for you.

[dependentcharacteroftheday]

kokomi teruhashi from the disastrous life of saiki k?

Excellent choice!

Today's Dependent Character of the Day is Kokomi Teruhashi from The Disastrous Life of Saiki K!

[dpdcharacterootd]

first DPD character of the day is Stelle from Honkai Star rail! she has separation anxiety when not with march 7th

submitted by anon! submit a character here !

[dependencypersonality]

Petdepense - Pet DPD Archetype

ID: A 5-stripe flag with its stripes angled downward toward the bottom in a V formation. Coming down from the top-center is an arrow, with the top containing a downwards obtuse triangle with an icon inside. The icon is a pet collar with a bell, colored a dark mulberry pink. The arrow is a medium-dark mulberry pink, and the triangle inside is slightly lighter. The stripes, from top to bottom: Dark brown, dark pink, pink, brown, dark brown.

Depense are labels that describe one's relation to DPD and their dependent identity. It may be a gender experience, orientation experience, or any other identification: even its own category altogether.

Petdepense, or the pet dependent archetype, is a dependent identity related to pets, considering oneself petlike, and/or being seen as a pet. It may feel beloved, loyal, and inhuman / beastlike, but may also have other interpretations.

The modifier symbols are: 🐾🌷

The tulip as a symbol for DPD is representative of how gardens are dependent on their gardeners and often lovingly tended to in turn.

Depense coined by @epikulupu. Also tagging @cupidcoining and @revenant-coining.

[kitteacafe]

Really sick of going into the DPD tag and only finding posts specifically about cluster B disorders. Please let us use our own tag and stop tagging DPD if you're going to exclude us purposefully. Please use your own damn tags.

[actuallydependent]

I don’t know how many people will see this as it has been many years since anything was posted on here, but!

If anyone would like to take over ownership of this long inactive blog (that I was not equipped to handle when it was passed to me at 17, admittedly), send me a message!

I am open to anyone who wants it :)

[wilting-blossom-heart]

do you know how much it hurts to oversexualize yourself as a way to make yourself desirable and STILL not be desired

having the one person you want paying attention to you, not attracted to you that way. but attracted to others that way

because it hurts. like a lot lmao

[vergess]

Tbh my suggestion for self DX is to meet people who have the diagnosis already and see if the skills they've picked up for coping are working for you too, if the experiences they describe are familiar to your life, etc. If you have the same symptoms, and they're eased by the same treatments, then for all intents and purposes that's the same DX.

You might try the 'actually' tags like 'actuallydependent' to find people to hang with.

The best part about this method is at the end even if you don't get a DX, you get to meet people in a low risk environment.

....erm

Personality disorder havers, I need your help. Due to the psych industry and diagnostic processes being absolute hell where I live, I wanted to ask if anyone knows of a...i guess..."self diagnosis help" thing, as in, what to look for if seeking a serious self diagnosis route aside from checking out the dsm.

Which, yeah, I've been looking down the dsm, tests and experiences related to AVPD and DPD and while I relate to both, I know how serious personality disorders are, and I suppose I wanted to know if any of you know where I could find stuff like, on comorbidity or overlapping symptoms, what they could be mistaken for, extensive signs/symptoms?

because i have a hell ton of social anxiety, rsd, which could stem from ADHD so that is a risk id rather avoid

[rottingnausea]

i know i’m a burden. i’m sorry.

[thesadmeow]

this hell cycle of trying to bond with friends and people then suddenly wanting to delete all social media and disappear from everything and feeling like everyone sucks and no one gives a shit about me

[venty-times17]

and I’ll keep coming back no matter how many times you spit garbage at my face because I love you no matter how much your words wound me.

[dependentcharacteroftheday]

shin tsumuki from your turn to die?

Sure thing!

Today's DPD Character of the Day is Shin Tsukimi from Your Turn to Die!

[dpdcharacterootd]

Read Before Interacting/ Submitting a character

please be respectful and kind

please no characters who have/ were abusive or mistreat the people around them most of the time, thank u

please do not send multiple requests of the same character if u do not see it posted, i'm disabled but i try my hardest to get to every submission fast as i can :3

please be respectful in asks/ submissions

submissions are received by main blog but posted here

will add more when i think of some! this is a new blog and am still setting it up!

Thank u so much! and lots of love! 💙

[dependencypersonality]

Yandepense - Yandere DPD Archetype

no id provided for spoons' sake, if someone else has time I will add any that are made

Depense are labels that describe one's relation to DPD and their dependent identity. It may be a gender experience, orientation experience, or any other identification: even its own category altogether.

Yandepense, or the yandere dependent archetype, is a dependent identity related to yanderes, considering oneself yanderelike, and/or being seen as a yandere.

The modifier symbols are: ❤️‍🩹🌷

The tulip as a symbol for DPD is representative of how gardens are dependent on their gardeners and often lovingly tended to in turn.

Depense coined by @epikulupu. Also tagging @cupidcoining and @revenant-coining.

[martianmoonboy]

Why do psychologists talk about personality disorders, only discussing how they affect other people and not how they affect the person with the disorder, and then blame us when we struggle to get treatment and be honest about our feelings? It is so hard to live in this world with a personality disorder.

The judgment from all sides hurts so much and finding people who understand without judgment is a breath of fresh air.

[hauntedselves]

My personality disorder info site is live!

It's still a WIP, but pretty much everything is up that I plan on putting up.

If you have any suggestions, let me know!