#a weight has been lifted

[wyrm-with-a-why]

How it feels to leave a server that despite knowing a guy or two that you wanted to befriend, so many people, discussions and rp bots made you uncomfortable:

[b0bthebuilder35]

[cyberthot666]

omfg anytime I think back on our relationship I’m like damn I’m glad that’s over lmfao. not one good memory. soon as I stopped drinking it opened my eyes and I was like damn this mf annoying fr.

[happy-hermit]

Quit my job this morning and I am actually so happy right now AKJSJJD

[coolasakuhncumber]

My underperforming staff member called me to resign 2 hours before their 3 month probation discussion :')

[gifti3]

SNOWY BLISS YESSSS

[thefoxysnake]

Just got through a whole bunch of asks on the confession blog life is good

[thegaythespian]

okay the dates I was freaking out about yesterday(?) seem to have been fixed thank god so now I can put everything in my planner

[bellespawn]

AT LONG LAST, I’M DONE

i attempted to get shulk and the gang out of challenge mode, but apparently that requires you to be a god at this game, so i’m not doing it.

wish i could, but oh well. point is, i’m satisfied and i can do something else with my time now yippeeee

[teaboot]

Sometimes at work it's not my place to tell people the things I want to say, and I find I often go home at the end of the rougher days to stand blankly in my shower and tell myself over and over what I wish I could pass on.

This accomplishes very little, and mostly just gives me a tension headache, but through it all I think I've narrowed myself down to a few solid things I'd like to tell people the most.

You can't change people. Not permanently, not for anythig. You can support them, encourage them, love them, give them tools and opportunities and resources, but you can't make them change. They can change themselves if they want to, but they have to want to, and they have to want it for themselves, because they're the only one that's certain to be with them forever.

For better or worse, you make your own choices, and blaming bad choices on others doesn't only work to absolve you of responsibility- it also robs you of control. Because if you say you only did something because I did something, then you arent only shifting blame- you're admitting that you cannot control yourself, that you cannot truly make choices for yourself, that other people can control you- and as long as you truly beleive that, you'll keep facing the same problems over and over. You'll keep letting others dictate your choices, because you'll beleive that they can, and you'll never be free.

White knights on horseback are from fairytales. Nobody can help you if ou're not willing to help yourself. To try, to put the dirty work in, to belive you're worth that effort- Act as though nobody is coming to save you. From a struggle, from pain, from bad relationships, from yourself. And when you do save yourself, because you will, because failure here isn't an option if you want to survive, you'll never find another dragon that can keep you prisoner.

Don't say anything to anyone that you wouldn't want them remembering forever.

Doing the right thing in bad circumstances is hard. It's the hardest thing. But if you make the choice to do that hard thing anyways, despite your fear, you'll go on the rest of your like knowing that you're the sort of person who did something.

The present only seems the hardest because the past I over and the future hasn't happened.

There's so much joy ahead of you, the kind you can't possibly understand until you see it yourself.

The responsibility of consequences is often disguised as the power of permission. "I won't do this if you help me", "I'll work on my anger if you do this for me", "I promised you I'd quit, but can I have just one?". The unspoken question is, "Can it be your fault if this goes badly?"

You cant make someone love you the way you need to be loved. Someone can love you very much and still be bad for you, even if you love them very much in return. Two people can love each other very, very much, and try their very best, and still be wrong for each other.

Sometimes being near to someone changes you, even in good ways, and the people you become don't fit together as well as the people you were.

Caring takes work. Even if it's real. Especially if it's real. And the most important gestures aren't the grand, poetic, songs-and-flowers-and-tears moments; they're getting out of bed even though you don't want to. Paying attention to things you don't enjoy. Scrubbing pans, or opening a window, saying "thank-you", or helping carry groceries into the house. The small things fill the big things- without the small, boring, mediocre things, big things feel hollow.

Thrre is honour and dignity in humble work.

If you are a cruel and spiteful person, then you will find every place you visit to be full of the same cruel, spiteful people. This is not because the world is as cruel as you, but because everywhere you are, you will be disliked. This is the curse that comes with being persistently cruel and spiteful.

If you are a kind and ppsitive person, you will repeatedly encounter kind and positive people, because as they grow familiar with you, they will be happier to have you near. This is the reward of being a kind and positive person.

When splitting paths with loved ones, briefly or forever, aim for your last words to always be "I love you".

[nelsonwoodlane]

today is the last day of the contract period for my major project at work before we have a 2 and a half week break before starting the next year which means finishing off literally everything we’ve been working on and it feels so good to just be checking things off my massive to-do list instead of continuing to add to it

[writeyourdarlings]

an early christmas fanart🤭❄️

[risingsunresistance]

who would win, god of the realm or one (1) hog 🐖

[person25]

Never mind i lied i do know how i feel about these stupid leaks.

Katsuki deserves so much more than whatever this has been. He literally (technically) died for Izuku. He spent 8 YEARS saving up money so he could live the dream he always wanted. Just for that symbolism of Izuku walking out of his life?!

If i was Katsuki i would be crashing out hard. I know this man wouldn’t even say anything either bc he doesn’t think he deserves Izuku.

If Izuku won’t take him i will.

[maretriarch]

Just in time for 4/13 here's the second line of my r63 dolls, this time CREEPover themed with bonus accessories! in an ideal world they would come in adorable recuperacoon shaped packaging. and probably a sopor slime making kit because kids love slime. which one are YOU picking up from your local Goreget today?

[phregnancy]

wait why was the thumb wrestling card an auto dan win?

they’ve thumb wrestled on camera five times before then and arm wrestled a few times (and once with dan’s non dominant arm) and dan won every single time because he’s physically stronger than phil, phil didn’t fight back when dan pinned his finger because once dan got it down he would not be able to get it back up. challenges of physical strength are automatic dan wins.