#a headache Multiple Times

[venomgender]

my actual new years resolution js to read + finish the orv novel so i can stop being scared of spoilers

[starwarjotta]

Cody surrounded by family and the people he loves, because that is what he deserves

[canadiancryptid]

I had a dream last night where there was an official Hestu twitter account where you could ask him questions and this was the only post I saw from it. He started answering an innocent question and then he seemingly got his head slammed into the keyboard and abruptly switched to whatever this is

I'm so sorry for bringing this to life

[sapphic-agent]

The ATLA fandom is interesting. There's been uproar about Katara's personality changing in the live-action... Besties, don't you think there's a reason why they did that? Maybe due to a certain influx of people bashing Katara every time she breathed in 2020? She was shamed repeatedly for being angry, outspoken, and confrontational. Not to mention how many of you defended her being a docile healer instead of a fighter in LOK (hell, some of you preferred Katara in LOK over Katara in ATLA, don't think I forgot). Why are we backtracking now?

(Yes the live-action could have done better with her. But they were probably trying to appease the people who whined in 2020, which they shouldn't have since this fandom would find something to rage about no matter what)

Istg, Renaissance fans and their performative activism. Again I say, the ATLA Renaissance sucked

[proshipconfessions]

Responding to your last post about proshippers complaining about other proshippers. You didn't provide this option, but I really think it should depend on the content of the ask... And yes, this is a confession blog for proshippers/profic, etc. aligned people. Telling us to go to antiship confession blogs is horrifically stupid and is only going to put us in dangerous positions.

The proship community is not immune from being shitty. There are proshippers who act just like antis. People who think they can change their race and give themselves disabilities are straight up infecting the community as well. There are proshippers who are horrifically ableist against pwOSDDID, schizospec disorders, etc. There are proshippers who straight up use slurs they can not reclaim. There are proshippers who call people the r slur. I especially think proshippers with these disorders (including myself) should have a safe outlet to talk about the toxicity and abuse within our own community without telling us to basically become an anti. Because what the hell???

Of course, I can't read every single anon that you get, but if they are anything along the lines of what I'm talking about here, consider not deleting them. Especially don't tell people to "just become antis" or "just go to antiship confession blogs." That's harmful as fuck.

If anything, these confessions should serve as a reality check that our community isn't perfect. Or serve to remind people that this behavior shouldn't or won't be tolerated in the proship community. Not every self-proclaimed "proshipper" is actually a proshipper, especially if they act abusive, ableist, or harass people like antis do. I will die on this hill.

If you don't want to house confessions about these topics, that's fine. Just say so, and I'll make my own confessional blog where these topics are allowed.

You’re right that there are plenty of people who are proship and also shitty af. It’s something that I’ve both posted plenty of confessions about and have actually even—in case you haven’t been familiar with my blog for a while—made my own post about! It’s like one of just a few posts that I have made speaking directly from my mouth and not a confession. It’s just a post that I wrote about behavior that I hate seeing pop up far too commonly in this community. I literally can’t count how many people I have blocked, which includes not only antis, but also shitty proshippers and pricks who claim to be them while supporting harm caused to others in real life.

You’re also right that you can’t read every anon that I get. I would have much preferred that you even just ask what kind of thing I’m talking about instead of acting like you’re some secret second mod and I’m just some asshole who refuses to hold anyone or any behavior accountable as long as I agree with them on some level.

I really do wonder what you would think about one of the (many with a similar tone) asks that inspired this post.

Do you know how many anons I get with the same fucking attitude and the same fucking insistence that they’re right and I’m wrong and evil, and yet I’m somehow the perfect mouthpiece for their beliefs? What reality check is this supposed to be giving me? Please either stop assuming that everything I say is in bad faith or genuinely try to explain to me what the good content for my followers is in this ask. This is the behavior that I mocked in my post. I also have an old one that I think is somewhere in my drafts(?) where the evil behavior that they’ve seen among a bunch of proshippers that has made them hate all proshippers is venting about harassment from antis. The fake post I made mocking them is an amalgamation of those two, but you only get this one since I’m way too tired to go find the other one rn lol. If someone reminds me, I can reblog it with it later.

Also, I really can’t tell where I said in my post that I would tell these people to go to antiship blogs (other than my reference to a comment where I said that if all that people send to my inbox is how much they hate proshippers and basic proship ideology, then they should probably take that to an anti blog) instead of just deleting the ask, like I actually said in the post. The post that was really more of a way to let off some steam while getting some use out of the Tumblr polls that I practically never get to do anything with. Do you think that the person in those screenshots that I put above is more at home here than they’d be sending this to some anti’s blog?

But like to try to put myself in your shoes, you could’ve been having a shitty day when you sent this, you could be young, or hell, you could’ve seen someone say something similar to my statement recently while meaning this shitty completely different thing. Or maybe you’ve never seen my blog in your life and have no clue what kind of stuff I do/don’t post. My response might sound super defensive, and I hope that it doesn’t, and that I’m not jumping to conclusions, too. I’d hate to blow this out of proportion over what could easily be just a misunderstanding. If I’m being too harsh, sorry. I aim any coldness towards all of these bigoted ideas and the idea that I hold them, and not at you as a person, as I’m willing to believe that you’re an entirely rational person who just misunderstood me and lashed out at me bc of it. But if there is a next time, please try to give me the benefit of the doubt. I don’t ever intend to do anything harmful, and what I said wasn’t intended to imply anything like what you’re saying here at all. I’m not talking about proshippers venting. I’m talking about actual antis coming into my inbox with the “I’m like TECHNICALLY a proshipper, I guess, but I just despise proshippers and think that people who engage with certain types of fiction are inherently bad!!!” So unless you’re one of these people coming into my inbox, then I am NOT telling YOU to go to antiship confession blogs. And if you are… well, then you’re probably not gonna see this, since I’m going through and blocking all of these dickheads soon.

[chalkrub]

Pixie had to be put down yesterday and it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced, she was such a special gentle little girl and I’m going to miss her so fucking much it’s hard to really comprehend right now. I’m so thankful I got to spend 20 years of my life with her, which is basically as far back as I can really remember – love her more than I can say

not sure if i'll post more or less art over the next while, depends on how i cope with it but heads up either way.

much love, give your pets a kiss for me

[ghcstcd]

I would love to hear Alundra lore! Is she a demon? I saw something about her being summoned. She chooses a unicorn form, how does that work when in folklore unicorns are typically associated with purity and goodness and hell isn’t? (She seems like an amazing character and this isn’t meant to be an antagonistic question I genuinely do wanna know her lore 😊)

I'm honestly so glad you asked! Alundra is actually a fallen angel. It wasn't sin or any action on her part that made her fall. She was born innocent. As an angel took shape from stardust and space stuff, another angel grew jealous of her wings, and plucked them from her back to wear as their own. Alundra plummeted from heaven, and through the earth into hell, when it was new.

She remains pure, perhaps from her love for mankind and the demons in the underworld. Alundra became a guiding light for wayward souls in hell. Regardless of where she goes, hell or earth, she still feels the urge to help people. This is why she chooses the form of a unicorn.

[sitten1115]

you weren’t kidding about In Stars and Time doing something to your brain oh my god. I downloaded it a few hours ago and proceeded locked the fuck in on it for a solid hour and twenty minutes after I ate dinner. What. How.

I laughed in a totally normal way for maybe a whole minute when I got this. I’m glad you’re enjoying yourself, and tbh I think Siffrin just has that effect on people. Love to see a little guy go through the horrors. Love to project your own mental health issues onto them. The rest of the party is great, but we get to see all the thoughts of this enby and be like, ow.

[exponentialcrisis]

honestly what frustrates me the most about taz:amnesty is that even after the news breaks and the whole town knows about Sylvain, no one properly explains to them the difference between Sylphs and abominations. like even setting up for the final battle hollis and zeke and everyone are still saying "people from Sylvain came over and started killing people"

[realnielsbohr]

if i pass my midterm im attributing it to gay baroque st sebastian

[bowithoutadaemon]

Oh btw lately my stomach has been acting up again. So I paid closer attention to how I ate (because what or when I ate seemed to not make much of a difference).

Turns out if you barely chew and practically inhale two servings of food while standing hunched over your kitchen counter and then go lay down. Well, turns out that makes it hard for my stomach to digest.

Been actually chewing my food and eating slower (still ends up being the same amount, so I guess I have gotten good at judging how much food I need). And no more stomach problems so far!

[aria0fgold]

Anyway... it happened... I now have a Cain in there -> 🧠 It's... it-- it's... it's been an Experience today honestly.

[frozenambiguity]

Anonymous asked:

Does he believe that he would be spurned by the archon if his heritage came out?

Ask me anything and I’ll answer honestly, but only with yes and no.

«No».

[wickershells]

sorry to be one of these people but. if you watch more than two films a day do you pay attention to what it is you're watching. can you digest them a little bit

[stringbeans-and-peas]

My headaches are like a curse. I mention it and it hits me.

[absentmoon]

i think also like the jump to blocking longtime mutuals or people you talk to just bc they draw a character you like and themselves together is so like. Like