#This problem is very fixable

[jamie-elbowz]

Whenever a cis dude gets hit in the nuts, I like to casually remind them that "You can just have those removed, you know?"

The look of horror on their face sustains me.

[winepresswrath]

shang qinghua transmigrating into su she and working his way around to fucking jiang cheng... yes.

[heireign]

what subtle way of saying “ I love you “ are you ?

“ are you sure you’re okay ? “ — you wear your heart on your sleeve. you're probably the first to tell a person you love them in an unsubtle way -- because you love them, and they deserve to know it! maybe you're not entirely open about what you feel all the time (it depends on the situation and the person you're with) but you're generally comfortable around emotions. your own and others' -- and you'll make sure to encourage the people you love to be honest about how they feel, too. you'll check in with them to make sure they're okay, and you know your closed-off loved ones well enough to check in with them again when they've assured you that yes, they're fine, don't worry. because guess what? you'll happily worry about them, and they'll get it in the end. your love is the healing type; you're patching up scars you might not even know exist.

tagged by: taken from @glorytragedy 🫶

tagging: @wornkindness , @maidmyth , @dioica , @calantar , @lcerys and @daekarys

[king-wilhelm]

See the thing about rsd is that sometimes, sometimes when you explain it to people who matter to you, they'll understand. And they'll reassure you and tell you they love you and when they do that, believe them. Believe them with your whole heart.

Because yeah maybe if they really care for you, they'll take the time to reassure you multiple times but even that has a limit. Because the demon really, is in your mind. And it's not fair for you to put that on them, not every single time.

You have to find it within you to meet them halfway, my for them, but for you. Because this feeling will eat away at your peace and make you feel fully shattered.

[syn4k]

You okay man??

i genuinely do not fucking know. leaning towards no however

[army-of-bee-assassins]

bought an office chair for $30 on fb marketplace since my current one is falling to pieces, and this is mostly a good chair except it was definitely installed to the base backwards so it tips forward instead of back lmao.

[andrebearakovsky]

Bro I simply do not understand why it is so hard for the Leafs to get right handed defensemen like it’s so baffling to me

Like, I’m half convinced Brad Treliving called the Caps, knowing they had an excess of right handed shots (we have 4 of them on the roster - Carlson, Jensen, TvR, and Bear), and tried to get one of them, but something went horribly wrong in the negotiation and the Leafs walked out of there with Edmundson instead

I can imagine a few scenarios happening: 1) GMBM simply lied and pretended Edmundson was one of the many RHD to trick the Leafs and they fell for it, 2) When Brad asked for one of the RHD GMBM laughed in his face because he was not giving up any of those guys and said “lol no. But we can offer you this Joel Edmundson instead,” 3) They were negotiating for one of the RHD but then Brad offended him somehow or lowballed him so hard that GMBM rescinded the offer and the only thing Brad could get out of it was Edmundson, which he took to salvage something out of the negotiation, or 4) Brad called about some RHD, and knowing that the Leafs were in desperate need of them GMBM set the asking price ridiculously high, which Brad balked at and so instead took Edmundson at a lower price

OR, in the most insane and somehow most likely scenario, despite needing RHD and everyone knowing they needed RHD, Brad called up the Caps and did not ask for one of the RHD and instead asked for Edmundson. And GMBM, who is sitting around with his hoard of right handed shots, says “yeah okay sure” while laughing his ass off and thinking Brad is either insane or incredibly stupid

[transcakeoutintherain]

i brought my notebook downstairs to write & i have my red lights on that hurt my eyes less &. i forgot. i have a red pen lol. that thang is unreadable

[captainsparklefingers]

It feels really weird doing this xD but I guess talking about asking for help/feedback/generally venting about stuff (minor or otherwise) is always gonna feel weird? Is that what I'm doing right now? I have no idea. But anyway, writing it all out will hopefully help get it off my chest and I can try to move on to practical things. Mregh.

So I'm working on a series of oneshots about the first year of Kingsley's life (it was initially gonna be just the first six months before M9 Reunited but then I had some ideas that would only make sense after that, so here we are), and I've managed to get exactly one of them done so far. Which is good! I've got a second one in the works and a list of ideas for the others, buuuut I've managed to get myself stuck in the middle of the second one. Turns out it's hard to write Caduceus and Kingsley interactions when you have nothing to base them on XD and I guess that means I need a beta/somebody to bounce ideas off of. My regular beta (who is a wonderful person and one of my closest friends and who I love very much) is busy with real life stuff like work, so I don't want to bother them, and the people I want to ask to take a look at stuff and get ideas from are busy with their own fics and projects, and I don't want to bother them either. So here we are. I have anxiety up the wazzoo for a lot of things, including this, so it feels weird just putting a Tumblr post out there asking for help with something as silly as a fanfic...

And I'm always sort of afraid of writing Kingsley 'wrong', if that makes sense. Like, I know he's not Lucien or Molly, he's himself and there are echos of them in him, but with my whole belief that the memories of the previous purples are still there (just locked up until he's ready and comfortable enough as Kingsley to take them back and not get overwhelmed by them) and they sometimes leak out (the problem traveling with your past lives family is there's plenty of triggers there for stuff to slip through the cracks without context), and I worry that that makes it seem like I'm trying to turn him into Molly when I swear that's not what I'm thinking at all. So there's THAT layer to the anxiety as well.

So here I am with one one shot done, one about halfway done that I need a bit of a push with, and a list of ideas that I haven't started in on yet because I haven't gotten the second one done, and a lot of nerves about never getting anything done. Like, I'm not even gonna tag this because this is mostly just me trying to work out my anxiety about stuff (but uh if anyone is interested in helping or looking at some Kingsley stuff lemme know I guess), and I hope it helps. I've been having a lot of anxiety and nervousness about a lot of crap lately, and compared to other stuff, this is just such a minor bullshit thing to get wound up about.

God, anxiety SUCKS, y'all. It's the stupidest most irrational thing. Like 'ooh you wanted to do this as a fun lil side project to keep the creative juices going during downtime at work NOPE YOU'RE OBSESSED AND NERVOUS NOW ENJOY FEELING WEIRD WHENEVER YOU'RE AT YOUR LAPTOP FOR UNRELATED REASONS'.

[deeisace]

Bluh

[leguin]

3 weeks into working 55+ hours a week and it is. uh. really something.

[steampunk-raven]

drawing oki rn and he’s looking more like how I imagine skyler lol

[whirligiga]

Well that. Explains some things about my cycle lately

[whatafirefeelslike]

i ran 11 miles today which means i’ve done 63 miles over the past 7 days 😤 feeling pretty good, taper starts this week so i’m running 30% fewer miles than usual, then one last long run (8 miles no problem) next saturday. then i cut my mileage 50% next week. and then my race is on 10/21 and of course that’s the day my period is supposed to start 😔 i just hope this works and i’m fast on race day. and i’ve noticed such a difference in how i feel during/after my runs now that i eat a lot beforehand and bring a water bottle and drink during the run. and i also started using gels. last week they didn’t seem to help too much but they definitely helped today

i think for my next training cycle for my late april half i’m going to keep a journal or something so i can better keep track of things and actually use a training program or something bc i want to get a little faster

[kudravi-nesit]

Fellas, is it normal to almost black out because you have to go to your college administration office?

[hellfrczencver]

“ sshhh, come here… “

send me   “ sshhh, come here… “    for your muse to gently pull my mine into yours’ arms to comfort my muse in a moment of high emotion… 

He's all too eager to wrap his arms around his beau tightly before burying his face in his shoulder. His voice comes through the microphone staff on his back instead of his own mouth, since it would have been terribly muffled otherwise, all while tears start to soak into the other demon's suit:

"I saw her today. My mother. She's here and she found me and she's just as mean as she always was and I-- ...I hate her. I hate her so much, Alastor. I just wish she'd go away and leave me alone for good!"