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Roddy Doyle || The Women Behind the Door
Spoiler alert: I do have to reveal something of the context Though The Women Behind the Door is the sequel to The Woman Who Walked Into Doors the novel can be read separately without a problem. I had no clear memory left of Doyle’s previous novel, I just remembered that he had accurately written about a wife being beaten up. In his last novel he repeats this feat: his portrait of Paula Spencer…
#reading is fun#abuse#addiction#Domestic abuse#Great Novel#Great reading#Irish literature#Irish writer#literature#Roddy Doyle#The Women Behind the Door
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I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.
#was going to make a post about how much i hate that women aren't allowed to hate their oppressors but i decided to spin it into something#positive instead#this is supposed to be the feminist site that makes reddit mgtow piss their baby diapers so let's go back to despising men and not coddling#their feelings and let's dye our hair blue while we're at it#i am so tired of this new wave of guilt-tripping and gaslighting women who hate men and don't trust or want to be around them#i hate how we're made into villainesses or the problematic ones for not valuing them in our lives or for wanting to guard ourselves or be#safe from our oppressors#and i'm tired of people who don't know the first thing about feminism being like 'BUT THAT'S TERF RHETORIC WHAT ABOUT X MINORITY MEN'#guess what women can also be x minority that you're trying to protect the men of and we get to hate men too#trans women are included when i say women btw and trans men are included when i say men#if anyone has the right to hate men more than anybody else it's trans women esp trans lesbians because they put up with so much shit#from men that even cis women do not and they especially know how vile men are behind closed doors#so#terfs fuck off#radfems fuck off#and if anybody tries to make this post more appeasing to men or 'not all men's this post you are getting blocked and hit with a hammer#feminism#misogyny#sexism#patriarchy#tw men#tw rape#tw abuse#misandry#terfs dni#radfems dni#feminists need to go back to being scary and unpalatable for men none of this 'but some of them are good!' bullshit#men are entitled to nothing from us#and if you try to prove me wrong then you are just proving my point if you have nothing good to say then simply keep scrolling#ok? ok.
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Undress me here :)
#cutie w a bootie#smiling girls#sexy babygirl#gurl next door#girl butts#bootie peach#curvy body#baddie with a phatty#sexy peachy bum 🍑#assworship#beautiful women#phat butt#ass so phat#beautiful ass#assthetic#spankable bottom#pantylover#fuck me from behind#stretch me out#peachellaa
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I know WWX has a traumatic past with dogs, but sometimes you see that the dogs just want his attention, and a part of me is unsure who to feel sorry for more. Who's more pitiable, the dejected dog, or WWX who jumps into LWJ's arms?
Ran the numbers, and it turns out they are both equally pathetic.
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#ask#I could keep the list going for ages.#Digs around in the dirt#will claw at the door if a loved one is behind it and you can't see them anymore#gets to zoomies and needs to run around for a bit#Women want to approach you if you are accompanied by this beast#and so on and so on#If your man is sitting outside your door growling at strangers who get to close while you sleep#if he's tracking mud into the house and your bed#if his nose is always kind of wet#that's either a dog or wwx. think about how you would feel if a cute stray dog waddled into your house and repeat with wwx#the feeling is comparable. for me at least#A dog wants pets and a wwx wants to not pet the dog. its a vicious cycle. both suffer and no one wins.
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Anne's ability to hold the king off for seven years is part of her legend. The brilliance of her strategy was to cast herself in the role of the courtly lady, requiring Henry to play to perfect knight. Henry was nothing if not dogged in the pursuit of all the roles in which he cast himself—philosopher-king, warrior, even husband—and 'this persona of courtly lover...was fully formed in Henry and had been signaling...for an answering adept to come and lift its latch. In Anne, he had her: she was the mistress of Petrarchan contraries [...] the perfect [player] for the king's tender interest.'
Renaissance Prince: Elizabeth, Lisa Hilton
#henry viii#lisa hilton#'even husband'- that's all folks closing theme.mp3#so we see the relevant argument a lot that the seymours 'successfuly' replicated this which is kind of...yes and. no?#tl; dr it is really difficult to conceive jane managing to balance this tightrope for seven years (not to mention. three years thereafter#in a series of increasingly challenging circumstances)#(before edward vi is born i don't think their rise is comparable to the boleyns in the 1530s or the howards in the 1540s insofar as#the promotion of the queen-in-waiting's/queen's family members)#(it can be argued the seymours did maintain for longer bcus there was a plateau. in favour and rise. iyw. after edward vi's birth. or more#specifically: jane's death.)#is it possible? ig we don't really 'know' definitively#but considering anne was a successful intercessory agent even in her role as mistress#and jane was not even as queen. i...highly. doubt#there is of course the mystery of behind closed doors to be considered#(DID either of these women fully 'hold him off'? did they necessarily...want to?#but no pregnancies out of wedlock- well. elizabeth. ig. depending on who you ask- broadly speaking then#would suggest both did. and it's more likely in anne's case despite rumors for both bcus#seven years is a much longer period of time)#tl; dr the original quote is 'her blowing hot and cold was the perfect environment' WHICH#perhaps fits better for that argument- (they were the perfect players for those moments in time~ in henry's psyche as it were...#that by 1536 henry's tolerance for being 'challenged' by his lover had. worn pretty thin#however since we don't have anne's letters. i don't like summaries like that lol#we have no way of judging ourselves whether she was 'blowing hot or cold' or if henry was - maybe even willfully- misinterpreting her#whether they really were 'mixed messages' or henry was mixing them himself bcus they weren't what he wanted to hear#'my great folly' and all that. sooo.......
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giggling kicking my feet twirling my hair at Imogen consistently being so trigger-happy hihi
#imogen temult#cr3#i'm sorry women choosing violence first sorry later does it for me ok#ludinus making a speech? LAVA WALL! otohan got distracted & doesn't confront them? PSYCHIC LANCE!#there's still noise behind the door? PUSH THE FIRE TRIGGER FOR THE THIRD TIME!#critical role spoilers#c3e75#immult speaking tag
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when you know french ‘women and femmes’ become a 100% times funnier cuz it literally just says ‘women and women’
#i know the history being it and all that but even then you know they dont think it means what it actually means#*behind#‘women and femmes’ crowd when a feminine man comes through the door 😧#queer terms#solsthoughts
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Good lord the women you put on tumblr to engage with feminist theory are obsessed with 4chan style confessionals
(4chan style - the kind of confessional where u don't confess ur own issues or struggles but instead confess how much you hate other women and want them to suffer)
#my posts#nasty ass confessional blogs actively delayed my feminist awakening bc its literally broadcasting the very worst and misogynist takes of#self proclaimed feminists!!#i remember being 13 and being like oh so ur transphobic bc u hashtag support women but behind closed doors you HATE women and enjoy#their suffering??? ok so u mean exactly the way conservatives justify their transphobia 🤔#and now im 20 and YALL ARE STILL FUCKING DOING IT#and all the ppl who try to push back against the misogynistic garbage coming out of these blogs gave up long ago#so now these woman hating takes are only spread by people who Agree?!#im having a fiona apple moment omfg. with feminists like these who needs menemies?
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i wouldnt say that pretty privilege is fake i would just say that it doesnt protect you from misogyny
#being perceived as attractive has all sorts of advantages please inform yourself on lookism#doors open to attractive women that dont open to unattractive women but#you will still experience misogyny at the door and behind it#mine#pretty privilege
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I hope the Zuko movie opens with Mai and Zuko getting married, but you can just tell something is wrong. They’re smiling and greeting guests but there’s this distance between them. Cut to Mai, and she’s thinking about right before the wedding and Ty Lee is helping her get into her wedding clothes.
And Ty Lee’s like “I bet married life’s going to look great on you.” Mai just gives her a look, initially it seems cold, impassive, but then she frowns and Ty Lee giggles and says “You make a beautiful bride.” Mai’s brows furrow and all that, “You don’t have to lie.” Ty Lee; “I’m not lying, you’re beautiful, always were”. And then they lean closer and closer, eyes hooded and right when you think their lips are about to brush the door of the dressing room opens and Mai’s mom comes in and she fixes up Mai’s clothes and checks on everything. She’s like “Don’t mess this up.” Mai says “I won’t, obviously, what’s there to mess up?” AND SHE’S LOOKING RIGHT AT TY LEE.
The wedding’s done, but the Fire Lady is in love with a Kyoshi Warrior who is her personal guard and the entire thing is about them realizing no fuck this we’re done(Zuko knows okay he knows, or he eventually finds out but his ain’t about him).
(eventual divorce, mailee elope, Zuko’s like ‘I should’ve seen this coming’. Gaang, everyone in the FN court and Azula who saw this coming miles away: ‘I’m not gonna say anything’)
#mailee#mai x ty lee#I am a SUCKER for when women think they're trapped in the patriarchal fate thrust upon them but they escape through sapphic love#'Marriage?' yeah that's not enough to stop LOVE#I hope y'all know I am making a MOVIE PRODUCTION out of this in my head#I am imagining Mai in the final scene getting rid of her crown the jewels the everything- scattered everywhere#and she opens her extremely organised and precise weapons drawer and adorns the knives with care#and Ty Lee is waiting at the door in her pink clothes like 'ready to go?' and mai says yeah and leaves a letter behind and they RUN#across a hilly flower field and to the docks#and the palace is in uproar over where the fuck the Fire Lady is#but Zuko's like 'nah call off the search' and he's watching the docks#then we see mai and ty lee at the deck watching the ocean with the sunset and they're standing super close#like a parallel to the opening#and THE END
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Time to Read
#reading is fun#Ali Smith#Christine Dwyer Hickey#Christmas#Gliff#Great Novel#Great reading#Inspector Gamache#literature#Louise Penny#Our London Lives.#The Grey Wolf#The Women Behind the Door#There Are Rivers in the Sky#Time to Read
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I don't know if it's just me, but I think it's weird the amount of women who wear makeup to the gym. I saw a post on reddit the other day, where people were pointing this out (in less than kind ways, to be fair) and the number of women who were like 'well I like makeup in the gym! I feel so empowered and freed by wearing it while working out!' astounded me. Like, I'd understand if you're coming off of work and didn't have time to change, but there are literally so many women who just straight up say 'I don't want to feel ugly, so I put on lipstick and mascara!!'! It's the gym? No one is looking, why are you concerned about how you look? Especially because it messes with your pores when you do? Like you shouldn't go out to someplace like the gym in the mindset of 'how I am without makeup is not good enough for the GYM.' When I brought this up, someone compared it to having matching clothes, which I feel is kind of silly? You need clothes in a gym, and a matching outfit can often just be what you have. You're putting effort into having foundation, mascara, lipstick, eyeliner, or whatever else you use on you!
Like you can say it's empowering and freeing all you want, but if you say in the next sentence how you feel you can't go outside without it, I think that's insecurity and not empowerment.
#anti makeup#anti beauty standards#I think the gym should be the place where you can go as you are and not feel bad about it. The gym is a workspace#I also don't like how bringing up how silly that practice is is viewed as 'judgmental' 'misogynistic' and 'rude'#like no I'm just saying that you should not have to be dependent on makeup and other practices to feel you're good enough to go into spaces#that are literally made for no judgement#Like part of self confidence is being able to accept yourself as you are wherever you are! Not just behind closed doors when no one's there#I think more women need to hear that
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OOOOOH so will is like def bi then?
//He'd never admit to it while sober, but yes. Will is bisexual. But, again, he's also wildly queerphobic, so there isn't really a circumstance outside of being black-out drunk where he would willingly admit to that.
#mod talks#Christy was pan like Merle as well#but in the way a lot of older women seem to be bi/pan where it's just ''wait not all women are attracted to ladies as well what??''#like she was pan but she thought that was just how everyone was haha#literally no one in that family as actually straight haha#but Will is a man from the deep south raised by bigots so while he was fine with Christy 'cause she could do not wrong in his eyes#and also it's more okay for women to have a fluid sexuality than men (more misogyny and Toxic Masculinity)#but he and his *sons* are not allowed to be anything but cis and straight#Merle is neither and not exactly fully in the closet about it#he keeps his gender identity behind a blast door but his sexuality is very much out there#Daryl while cis is very much gay#it's an area of contention
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No, y'know why else we need gender neutral bathrooms? Because there's always a line for the women's bathroom and never for the men's.
Like it seems common sense to make two identical sized bathrooms for men and women but. it. is. not. Female bladders are smaller on average so women have to pee more often, not to mention the fact that going to the bathroom to pee takes longer for women usually (an urinal is a lot faster). So if there are as many toilets in the men's room as in the women's bathroom, the women will have too little space and the men too much. (And usually the men get more because of the aforementioned urinals)
Therefore gender neutral bathrooms with closed off stalls and maybe a small room with urinals on the side.
#like at my korfball club the men's room and the women's room are the same size#but the men have 4 urinals and a regular toilet and the women 2 toilets#this has not been thought through#lgbt+#<- adjacent like my argument is actually for the people who do not care about lgbt+ people but it would benefit them#feminism#imagine how much more time men have because they wait so much less for bathrooms#anyway so I have on many occasions went to the men's toilet because fuck waiting if there's a free toilet right there#especially when there's just two doors with a regular toilet behind each there's literally no difference#oh well the men sometimes don't get a bin#which can be a problem if you're menstruating#which is another reason why we need gender neutral bathrooms so that every bathroom gets a bin#good for transmen and non-binary people who menstruate and also for cis men who need to change bandages#a thought that occurred to me when I had to get rid of the bandage I got after donating blood#like my blood is safe otherwise I wouldn't be able to donate but still cleaner to drop it in the special blood bin#anyway all new buildings should only build gender neutral bathrooms#I can't get over the fact I called the bin in the toilet the blood bin just now#I made an original post
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jonathan sure does avoid confirming where that blood on dracula’s face came from! honestly I’m very impressed at how active he’s able to be after the implied blood loss
#jonathan harker#dracula#dracula daily#I’m forcibly reminded of blood donating having all the drinks and snacks#and that one post that made me remember that throughout all of this—dracula has been personally ensuring jonathan’s meals#jonathan is not only trapped and reliant on the count’s polite facade for his own safety but for basic needs like food and water#I’m reminded of ibsen’s ‘a dolls house’—the door closing behind the wife—the implication that she will die without her husband’s support#which can be missed very easily by a modern audience who doesn’t remember how completely reliant women were on their men until very recently#personal finances! suffrage! the right to own property!#to say nothing of historical social expectations#gothic heroine jonathan harker strikes again
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Remember! If you share, more answers will be there!
#gale chatter#poll#polls#urban legends#creepypasta#oh this one is a classic.#gonna clarify again this is about the early internet/word of mouth story & not the concept of high beam headlights#bc if i have multiple names for these & one has notably less characters i use that one & it looks a bit odd here#anyhow. this one's name is more descriptive than the spider bite story from earlier BUT i have never heard it referred to by these names#so i will also describe this one roughly#it's a story about a woman driving home at night with a car behind her following her home & flashing her occasionslly#with their high beams#as the other name implies‚ there is a killer in her backseat & the person following her is flashing their high beams#every time they rise up with their knife because it makes them duck back down#yeah i. i think this one was told to me & either the person telling it or i took it as a joke i didn't register it was meant to be scary#violence against women ment#yea this one's p old. classic. right next yo man door hook car OH SNAP I FORGOT BUT WHO WAS PHONE HOLD ON
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