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If I was Lily and saw the Marauders attacking my best friend…
#Lily’s “defence” of Sev was pathetic#Shows up with all the energy of “now you stop that”#Come on Lily#That’s your best friend being hurt#Start kicking some balls#Lily was a terrible friend and I will stand by that statement#Severus Snape#pro severus snape#anti marauders#anti lily evans
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best BEAST!!
#fanart#Xuanwu#in case it does not show credits: Thank you to Minilisko#And a huge thank you for letting me post this to The Blog <3#The best is real! The details and edits are so on point! What a marvelous creature!!!#There is an innocence to the beast...A porcupine dilemma of being unable to be close without hurting others.#The knife is protection and the knife is isolation. Safety over companionship...#It was just sleeping in cave when the cultivator's showed up. It woke up to arrows and swords!#Did it mean to harm anyone or did it just react to the world around it?#(speaking of the actual beast in mdzs now:) There was a tunnel to leave the cave and it stayed.#Do you ever wonder if the beast found it's way inside but grew to big to leave? If it entered to be safe but ended up trapped?#This is all to say: Hey Madam Lan I think I have a new friend for you. She understands your plight.#Forfeit your worries to the turtle. Let the turtle bring you joy
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I feel a deep sense of anger and grief for Palestine. I’m angry at God, at the world powers donating to those who are killing civilians, angry at people looking away and encouraging you to worry about yourself when people can’t even walk down their streets without being attacked. I’m angry that my friend donated, only for it to be stolen and taken by the soldiers abusing Palestine. I’m angry that I can’t do much of anything but tell you to at least CARE about the people being bombed and slaughtered. Please, if you can’t do anything please just CARE about these people and listen to their stories. Hold them in your hearts at the very least. Don’t pretend they don’t exist or just brush it off as “its been going on for centuries, there’s no point in stopping it.” I want to do more, I want to make people care and love those who need it, rather than continue spreading anger and hate.
These are real people I’ve drawn. Keep the people of Palestine in your heart at the very least please.
#two of my best friends had to run away from their homes because they were Muslim#it was too dangerous for them to stay#but in leaving they also had to leave behind large parts of their families#they tell me about their friends and loved ones that have died and how empty they feel to it#that they also feel a deep sense of hopelessness and guilt at not being able to help#I have a friend now who teaches me about the qur’an and how it talks about having peace and not being afraid in times like these#so please DONT BE AFRAID TO SAY SOMETHING#Please talk about this with your friends#please educate yourself on what’s happening#please please please just CARE about the people of Palestine#even if it’s scary and even if it hurts you#do it for those who don’t have a choice to be afraid or hurt#free palestine#palestine
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i ache for katara so deeply, she deserves so much better than her canon fate. i cannot express in words how much her story and how the fandom views/treats her physically hurts me
#anti kataang#katara deserved better#i know she’s a fictional character so ppl can say think and feel however they want about her and it the end of the day it shouldn’t matter#cus she’s not real but i just feel for her so deeply it hurts#katara my beloved#katara#katara my best friend who i have a DEEP parasocial relationship with i will always be on your side#they can never make me hate you#WE COULDVE HAD IT ALL#yes i’m being dramatic but also 100% serious#truly my favorite character of all time and she has been done wrong not only by the writers but by the fans too lord give her a break#i need her to get justice so bad against bryke and everyone who speaks ill on her#god please take all her suffering and give it to bryke#am i being hyperbolic right now?#your guess is as good as mine#zutara#for exposure ig#anti bryke
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More ddvau by @kitsuneisi and @xmaruu11 because the guys have taken over my brain
#hermitshipping#trafficshipping#ddvau#desert duo vigilante au#ddvau fanart#scarian#sjkfhkdjfs hope you lovely artists dont mind me @ing you im losing my mind over here /pos#ANYWHO HI OMG#so while i was drawing i thought about like#the aftermath of the... mother spore situation??#like.... hOW much trouble is grian going to be in for not being catalogued as a witch??#will this affect his powers long-term???????#will he be fired????#what if he's fired???#hotguy will probably be the one to reach out to him when all is over because he'll lose sO much#BUT WHAT IF HOTGUY HAS TO ARREST HIM AFTERWARDS??#HOW WOULD SCAR LIVE WITH HIMSELF IN THAT SITUATION#UGH. THE TURMOIL. IM HURTING IN THE BEST WAY.#at any rate seeing one of your friends being taken over by some fungus THING cannOT be good for your longterm mental health and safety#first pic is really a study in expressions#second i had fun with poses#third i like seeing cuteguy saving people in the mundane :)))) like the peoples superheroooo
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ok ok just let me have this
#fleetway super sonic#knuckles the echidna#sonic#sonic the hedgehog#sonic the hedghog fanart#art#doodle#i want to put them thought so much suffering you have no idea#what’s better than calming down from supernatural rage by being hugged and hurting your best friend REALLY bad#nothing#im being very self indulgent tonight but thats good actually
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Feel like making people miserable today. Anyways, here's Gon experiencing like. Textbook symptoms of trauma in the CAA, in case there was any lingering doubt about this or anything:
Initial denial that the experience happened or was traumatic
[ID: A screenshot from episode 85 of HxH 2011. Gon, eyes bright and with a smile, says "Kite is alive!" End ID.]
Flashbacks
[ID: Two screenshots from episode 95, and a third from episode 110. In the first, Kite's arm is shown in the foreground, bleeding and blurred. In the second, a close of Pitou's wide eyes, looking animalistic. In the last, puppet Kite's mangled and scarred face stares emptily ahead - the scene is greyed out. End ID.]
Intense distress at real or symbolic reminders of the trauma
[ID: Two screenshots from episode 116. In the first, Gon's fist can be seen in the foreground, with Pitou shielding an unconscious Komugi just barely seen. The narrator says "The girl lying before them brought back". In the second, Komugi has a medical respirator on. The narrator continues "images of a broken Kite to Gon's mind". End ID.]
Physical sensations such as pain, sweating, nausea or trembling
[ID: A screenshot from episode 116. Gon's fists slam into the ground as he says "That isn't fair...". Sweat drips down his arms. End ID.]
Extreme alertness/hypervigilance
[ID: A screenshot from episode 116. Part of Pitou can be seen in the foreground as Gon stares at them intensely, crouched on the ground with his arm resting on his knee, obscuring his lower face. End ID.]
Angry outbursts or other extreme behaviour
[ID: Two screenshots, one from episode 116, and the other from episode 127. In the first, Gon shouts "Is something wrong with you?!" as his face contorts with rage. His aura floats black around him. In the second, Gon, his face shadowed eerily with thin lines, says "The next time you try to delay me, I'll kill her." End ID.]
Feeling like you have to keep busy
[ID: A screenshot from episode 94. A close up of Gon's face from the side as he says "I want to focus on my training." End ID.]
Doing things that are reckless and self-destructive
[ID: Three screenshots, one from episode 95 and the other two from episode 131. The first is stylized as a black outline of Gon's figure over a background like parchment or a projector - he's been hit in the face and sent to the right from the force of the blow. The second is a close up of Gon's face, almost completely shadowed, with intense and vacant eyes - he says "I don't care". The third continues with a close up of his eye filling with darkness - "if this is the end..." End ID.]
Feeling like nobody understands ("since it means nothing to you")
[ID: A screenshot from episode 116. In a whitish-room with a crack on the wall between them, Gon stands ahead of Killua, facing away from him. They are both in shadow. End ID.]
Ignoring offers of help and shutting out loved ones... poor Killua :(
[ID: A screenshot from episode 136. A spotlight on both Killua, in the foreground, and Gon, walking away from him in the background. Killua thinks "I wanted you to ask for my help in defeating Pitou!" End ID.]
Self-loathing, self-punishment, and lack of self regard
[ID: Three screenshots, two from episode 110 and the third from episode 131. The first is a close up of Gon's face over Morel asking "When would you try to hurt yourself?" The second is a continuation. Morel looks down at Gon who is facing away from the camera as Gon replies "When I couldn't forgive myself." In the last, adult Gon, staring ahead, is animated in black and white with the only colour being the blood from the stump of his right arm. His left hand grips his shoulder. End ID.]
Blaming yourself for what happened
[ID: Two screenshots, one from episode 95 and the other from episode 130. In the first, Gon hugs puppet Kite around his waist. In the second, Gon stares blankly ahead with tears streaming down his face as he thinks "I killed Kite." End ID.]
Overwhelming feelings of anger, sadness, guilt, and shame
#all this wasn't going to fit into my gon analysis but i still wanted to cover it#when i say he was genuinely traumatized i. actually seriously mean that.#note that this does NOT mean he had ptsd!!! ptsd should only be diagnosed if symptoms continue for several weeks to a month#after being removed from the traumatic situation#given that the trauma was ongoing this does not count! we could only say he has ptsd if somehow these symptoms persist when#he's back on whale island after the fact. but honestly i doubt they would#however. in caa? yeah 100% he was very traumatized by kite's death#hence all the trauma symptoms i listed above. poor little guy :(#storyrambles#hxh#gon freecss#this post hurt me to make btw. ow. ow.#i also. cruel as it is i genuinely like that gon's trauma fueled breakdown was. not palatable. like he is genuinely really scary there#and it's REALLY hard to watch and listen to#i really get why killua felt so helpless there.#like. your best friend is incredibly fucking volatile and very obviously wants to and is intending to run himself into the ground#because he feels he deserves it#what the hell is the other thirteen year old supposed to do here. :(#random thoughts
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The 1x00 AHiB -> 4x06 glowup
#this just reminded me I need to make a ''being there for your friends when they need you'' post#because that shit is EVERYWHERE#LIKE THAT'S ALL THEY FUCKING TALK ABOUT#''It's okay sandy! You're always there for us when we need you. The least we can do is be there for you when you need us.'' (4x06)#''No! Mei is my best friend. I'd never abandon her when she needs me—we're heroes! It's what we do!'' (3x10)#''You don't know! We'd risk it for sure! I won't abandon them when they need us'' (4x02)#''As long as I'm doing something to help out a friend- I don't mind what it is! I just want to be there for 'em when they need me.'' (2x08)#''Wukong only values people by how useful they are to him'' (3x08)#''No no honestly—this is exactly what I need right now. I'm trapped under a mountain- but the 6-earred macaque brought me a peach!''#(4x11)#Literally just the shit off of the top of my head#and then. And then that in contrast with#''I get it. I'd do anything for my friends! But at the cost of the world?'' LIKE GOD DAMMIT LEGOS#You took the basic bitch ''Help you friends'' theme and went ''But what if helping your friend hurt others'' like come on man#Hello#Where am I#I'm dying. I'm dying#Okay imma go do hw......I guess....whatever....#lmk#lego monkie kid#lmk parallels#lmk Sandy#lmk Mei#lmk Pigsy#lmk Tang#OH GOD ALSO. ''I will become someone they can depend on...the way I can always depend on them!'' (3x08)#AND#''But you're always there when I need you- so it's time for me to return the favor!'' (2x04)#Which also just ties into ''we'll figure this out together'' as a whole right#what. ever.
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I find it really interesting the way Ted Lasso portrays charism. Ted and Rupert are both great at disarming people and winning them over, but they do it in very different ways for very different purposes and that means everything
#rupert is your best friend until you're no longer valuable or controllable - and then he burns you#but ted is ride or die and wishes you best even when YOU hurt HIM (re: jamie in season 1 and nate in season 3)#and thats say everything#ted lasso#my posts#liveblogging#if im being brutally honest i didnt really enjoy season 2 but im barely into season 3 and enjoy it way more
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#THIS IS SO ADORABLE 😭😭😭#THOUGH I REALLY HOPE YOU DON'T MIND BEING FRIENDS ONLY TvT#IM LIKE NOT EXACTLY BEST FRIEND MATERIAL T^T#I'M LITERALLY ALMOST AM NEVER ONLINE ASIDE FROM SCROLLING THROUGH A COUPLE OF ARTS AND FANFICS BUT THATS IT#I DON WANT TO ACCIDENTALLY HURT ANYONES FEELINGS IF I SUDDENLY DONT RESPOND TO ANY OF YALLS TAGS OR MESSAGES#i always get terrible anxiety from that TvT#STILL THOUGH YOUR ART IS ADORABLE AND I JUST WANNA SWALLOW IT WHOLE#😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️#ILY#KJJWHbJIEJDOEOJOJDWOHHEWJOHEF#YOU NEVER FAIL TO MAKE ME SMILE ALONG WITH EVERYONE OF YOU HHHHHHHHHHHHH#Lemme breath for a moment#AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH
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DP x DC (Or Marvel) Prompt: Smells Like Teen Spirit
(Inspired by the Pan cover of Smells Like Teen Spirit)
The King of the Dead.
The title was one that didn't need to demand respect, it immediately possessed it. The title grew in power and intensitiy the more the team looked into it. The more they learned the more they feared - the more they respected - the King of the Dead.
Stories of the King of the Dead Pariah Dark was known far and wide. From the furthest Galaxy, the most distant dimension, all over the world. Anywhere where the King of the Dead had been mentioned the terrors behind Pariah Dark's reign echoed.
He ruled the land of the dead with an iron fist, controlling all who fell under his reign. For a while the King of the Dead seemed to vanish, return for a short time, and then rumors suddenly changed. They heard it first through Constantine (or Loki) about the new King of the Dead. How they possessed more power than the previous King and had defeated the King of the Dead in a way that no other ghost had been able to do.
The more the team looked into this new King.
The more the new King seemed to know about them until one day the team got a formal invitation in the form of a sticky note on a magic floating scroll.
You are hereby invited to the realm of the dead. If you wish to understand all you must do is hold onto one another and burn this scroll.
With anxiety and apprehension of where they were about to go or what was about to happen they burned the scroll as it lit with a vibrant green fire, a portal forming under them before the world around them warped, and like that they were transported to a realm unlike anything they'd seen before.
Everything had a kind of glow to it, the sky was a toxic green, and their tech began to warn of low level radiation. Nothing deadly, but not something they should spend a lot of time exposed to. What had them the most concerned though was the fact that there was a figure standing in front of a castle in the distance. A glowing crown covered in ice, a shimmering blue ring, and a long starry cape.
The King of the Dead didn't need to demand respect because he immediately possessed it.
That respect only grew further when they discovered that the King of the Dead - the one responsible for defeating Pariah Dark was a 14 year old teenager. Anybody who could defeat the feared tyrant Pariah Dark, was a threat not even their team dared piss off.
Thankfully, the teen seemed more excited about meeting "Other Heroes" than he was anything else.
#dp x dc prompts#my prompts#dc x dp prompt#dp x marvel prompt#if you want#Danny is the Ghost King but he's also just a kid#give this kid a comic book some soda and ten minutes to take a nap and he'll be your best friend#he's like a cat that way#that being said don't piss him off#because Phantom *will* show the power that gave him that title#mostly because if he's scary then nobody will hurt the ghosts in his realm.
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timeline wise it doesnt match up at ALL but i desperately want jon kent to be born the same year jason todd died
#going to your best friends house to welcome his newborn son while neck deep in yawning grief for your own.... delicious#clark being excited to tell everyone EXCEPT bruce because he knows theres no way to tell bruce without hurting him#and it would only hurt worse if clark DIDNT tell him#and bruce already agreed to be jons godfather so its just layers of pain and grief and guilt#how can clark ask bruce to be there for his son as if bruce isnt drowning in grief?#how can bruce promise to care for clarks son when he failed his own so horrifically?#there are no photos of baby jon with bruce where bruce is smiling but jon grows up knowing bruces loves him regardless#bruce wayne#clark kent#jon kent
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truly I don’t understand the idea that people should always prioritize their partner over their friends
#I’ve been trying to spend time with a friend but she’s always like oh I’m busy but she sure does find time for her bf#I feel like I’m just a last resort if he’s not around#and they haven’t even been dating that long#it feels like I don’t matter to her anymore#and like yes obviously you should spend time with your partner but that doesn’t mean your friends don’t exist anymore#and I love her. I love spending time with her. so I’m trying to be fine#and I don’t want to be the “jealous best friend” trope#but it hurts. it really does#but then again I always end up being people’s last resort so what else is new
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I get the whole thing about self-deprecating jokes and things not being laughing matters and there are some really fine lines there. And that this is probably some cultural or generational thing, snd so on.
But there's something so deeply normalizing and freeing about taking the piss out of something that feels like it should ruin you.
#obvs context is everything. bullying etc#but it hurts me a little when some people (young people on the internet perhaps in particular) take everything to be so genuine#that a harmless good-faith joke is interpreted as bullying - by a bystander#(if the jokee sees it this way then it is. indeed. bullying.)#the example i cant help but coming back to is my pentecostal fundie christian-raised best friend#came out as gay and asked us. very specifically. to NOT STOP telling gay jokes. for anything in the world#not in an 'haha dw im still cool' type of way but because being gay. in his family. meant choosing to spend eternity in hell#homosexuality is an illness to pray your way out of. its not even life or death - its a question of your immortal soul#something you can't really discuss. much less confess to.#and we JOKED about it. we talked about it in plain words and LAUGHED about it like it was the most normal thing in the world and that#made him feel safe. and reminded him that he was accepted. because with us it was an utterly harmless thing to be.#and just. you know.#diversity of experience i guess
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beyond grateful for the people that are surrounding me in my life, just as i am grateful for the people i’ve parted ways with, for without them, i would not be the person i am today.
#i have left so many people throughout my life#and#if someone would ask me if i’d regret any choice i’ve made i would say no#i regret hurting people yet i wouldn’t change a thing if i could#without the suffering the sacrifices and the lessons i would not be the person i am today that i can finally say i’m proud of#whenever i read the question “would you want to be your friend if you’d meet yourself?” deep down my answer was no#i was a good friend and i always tried my best to be there for everyone#but i was so blinded and overwhelmed by my pain that i tried so hard not to project on others that it was exactly the thing i’ve done#i was extremely caring sensitive loving and selfless but my ”bad“ traits were just as extreme#my emotions were so overwhelming that they were scattered all over the place that it didn’t allow me to have any control over them#i used to be so terrified of being alone. all i’ve felt was a great loneliness that was residing within me#until i’ve gathered the strength to leave an entire friendgroup with people that meant the world for me#they weren’t good for me anymore just as i wasn’t for them#since that day i’ve grown a lot i became a better and healthier version of myself#i learned how to be alone and to find the peace in it and in myself#all i’ve had was Allah swt. and He is all i will ever need.#without the hardships in terms of friendship i wouldn’t have been able to learn how to be alone and love and enjoy it#without it i could not say that i could easily give up the people in my life#i could if i had to bc i have Allah swt.#but i’ve learned how to choose and to choose the right people#i don’t need you and never will but i choose you bc i want you in my life and i think that makes it so much more special#i can finally say that i love the person i am today and can’t wait to see myself grow even more as the cycle of growing is never ending#I still have so much to learn and I will let it come to me with open arms#an open mind and an open heart#above all the most precious gift i’ve earned is to learn how to have tawakkul.#everything that happens every trial that is afflicted upon us has meaning#and it’s beautiful.#being able to pick out the khair in everything is the biggest blessing#alhamdulillah for the things that bruised my soul alhamdulillah for the things that mended it#alhamdulillah for everything bc truly; Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear.
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What do you think of Hylia? I’ve seen fans paint her as the true villain of Zelda series. Many of which blame her for the reincarnation cycle, and pretty much every bad thing that happened after SkSw’s era.
I have strong feelings about the fandom’s treatment of Hylia, but I’m gonna try to keep this chill.
Long story short, the hatred for Hylia doesn’t make logical sense.
It’s based on the erroneous assumption that Hylia caused the curse (fun fact, if people bothered playing the game they’d see that it was Demise who did it), or it’s based on botw Zelda’s struggles and frustrations because the story is told from her point of view. Oh no!! Hylia is evil because she didn’t listen as Zelda pleaded!! That’s not how prayer works, guys. You don’t get what you want, you get what you need, and Zelda’s major issue stemmed from her father, the pressure on her, her own insecurities, her lack of training and guidance. It’s a two way street to make things work - for all we know Hylia was trying to reach out to her but Zelda couldn’t hear her over the beratement from Rhoam screaming in her head or the whispers of the people echoing in her brain or her own questioning if she could even do it.
So basically, fandom’s Hylia bashing is based on poorly thought out arguments. Also they use characters who don’t even know who she is??? Like, Time, Legend… they have no freaking clue who Hylia is, guys. Her character didn’t even exist when their games were made. Maybe people are trying to make continuity or something, but Hylia was never mentioned in those eras.
Now! Did Hylia do questionable things? Yeah! Yeah, she did! But you know what else she did? She sacrificed herself multiple times to save her people, she fought her own war to protect everyone and the Triforce. She sent people to Skyloft to protect them while fighting alongside those who likely chose to remain. She died in her battle against Demise. She planned on coming back as a mortal, giving up everything she is, so she could finish the job and eliminate the threat. Yes, she used Link - she took a calculated risk, choosing someone with a pure heart who had the fighting prowess necessary if the need arose, and she befriended him. Yes! She used him! It’s messed up! But she also did everything she could to guide and protect him, and she tried to just do it herself without him if she could.
All that being said, sometimes Hylia bashing makes sense in the context of the narrative and the narrator. If your character/narrator has a beef with her for some reason, then yeah, they’re gonna criticize her. Doesn’t make them right about her. 🤷🏻♀️ But the idea of the fandom vilifying her is just… stupid.
Sometimes I don’t think it has to do with the stories at all, it’s people venting frustrations they’ve had with religious groups. I can’t fault them for that, but when I see that connection it kind of feels like a smack in the face and really freaking hurts, because God and Christianity aren’t people’s bad experiences, but I’m not opening that can of worms. I can’t control everyone’s experiences and nobody wants to hear me say that just because a person or group of people acted like hateful morons doesn’t mean that’s what Christianity is about. So anyway.
I like Hylia. Demise caused the curse. Hylia was trying to stop him before he even had a chance to utter a word. Demise’s curse led to bad things happening.
#you ask skye answers#lovely anon#hylia#watching people use hylia as a means for religious bashing is like watching people talk shit about your best friend#because garbage human beings who claim to be your bff’s friend did awful things so somehow this is your friend’s fault#It’s… frustrating and hurtful to say the least#and is probably the main reason I have strong feelings about this issue#But also the fandom’s complaints just make little to no sense???#Hylia is a complicated character THAT IS WHAT MAKES HER INTERESTING#A lot of the turmoil in the heroes’ lives is because EVIL INCARNATE WAS CAUSING PROBLEMS#what are the goddesses supposed to do just twiddle their thumbs and be like ‘well sucks to suck 🤷🏻♀️’
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