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excellenthomevlasses · 3 months ago
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Academic Coaching: A Catalyst for Student Success
Academic coaching has emerged as a powerful tool to support students in achieving their academic goals. This personalized approach goes beyond traditional tutoring, focusing on fostering independent learning skills, building self-confidence, and developing effective study habits. By empowering students to take ownership of their learning journey, academic coaching has become an invaluable…
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excellenthomeclasses1 · 3 months ago
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Academic Coaching: A Catalyst for Student Success
Academic coaching has emerged as a powerful tool to support students in achieving their academic goals. This personalized approach goes beyond traditional tutoring, focusing on fostering independent learning skills, building self-confidence, and developing effective study habits. By empowering students to take ownership of their learning journey, academic coaching has become an invaluable…
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cosmicpuzzle · 9 months ago
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Planets in Cancer ♋ and your Mother 👩
If you have planets in cancer, it describes your relationship with the mother better than the placement of your Moon.
Sun in Cancer: Your mother is inspiring but could have had high expectations of you. She is honest and is a woman of integrity.
Moon in Cancer: Your mother is nurturing but can prevent you from becoming an independent person. Probably a bit moody mother. She was a home maker and a good cook too.
Mars in Cancer: Your mother probably had temper issues and your relationship was heated. She could get irritated often. She could push you often beyond your limits and was demanding often. She was however protective of you
Mercury in Cancer: Your mother was probably intelligent and was interested in your academics and schooling. Probably not an emotionally close relationship but active one. She could have been a teacher herself. She had many cousins and relatives.
Venus in Cancer: Your mother loved you and spoilt you with everything. She was loving and sweet but possibly self-indulgent herself. She desired to live a luxurious life.
Jupiter in Cancer: Your mother guided you well and was an inspiration to you. She was generous and forgiving. She could have been extravagant. She helped you make the right decisions. She could have been a lecturer herself.
Saturn in Cancer: Your mother disciplined you and did not show much affection. She could have had lot of emotional issues herself and had difficulty expressing love and affection. She performed her role functionally in your life or she was absent due to her busy career.
Rahu in Cancer: Mother was probably overboard and eccentric. Your nurturing was inconsistent, and she was a different person everyday which kept you guessing. She had psychic difficulties. She may have liked everything that was foreign.
Ketu in Cancer: Mother was probably quite distant and isolated herself from you. You never felt her presence and support. You could feel disconnected from your mother. In some cases, might have lost mother early. Mother was emotionally absent and was intuitive.
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astrolovecosmos · 8 months ago
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*Saturn Natal Aspect Snippets*
Sun Trine Saturn: Likely a persistent, disciplined, hardworking, and reliable individual. They tend to easily earn the trust of others. They may have good luck with networking or having a positive reputation. But they can be overly cautious to where they stifle spontaneity and creativity. They can also have a judgmental side.
Sun Opposite Saturn: Can struggle with self-doubt and may feel frequently restricted throughout life or may self-impose limitations, especially once they are older. Can struggle to have close relationships with authority figures, maybe parents, or teachers. Finds it difficult to tap into creativity or go after their desires, being pulled away or stifled by obligations. Can have a lot of inner strength and their ambition can be their guide and light.
Sun Square Saturn: May find frustration when trying to express themselves, could easily feel misunderstood. Is associated with low self-esteem, a feeling of bad luck, or a feeling of heaviness or burdens. Can be a very persevering individual who works hard and when/if they develop more confidence plays hard too. Discipline balanced with creativity or warmth and generosity can make them into a very insightful and encouraging person.
Moon Trine Saturn: May be stable, mature, and highly responsible. May have grown up faster than others in their life but took this with grace and reap benefits from it. But could look down on their softer side. Can be self-critical. May have a lot of emotional reserve and inhibition. Will still have to heal or face their fast-lane maturity as an adult. Ultimately this is a harmonious and comfortable aspect boosting practicality, patience, and self-respect.
Moon Opposite Saturn: Can come off or act emotionally distant, always finding it hard to express their feelings and love. Has a huge fear or rejection or being judged. Can easily feel misunderstood. But is highly logical, calm, and has their life and self under control.
Moon Square Saturn: Was certainly forced to grow up too quick and may deal with many challenges in life due to this, especially emotionally. Can have a lot of self-doubt. May struggle with isolation at times. May be overly private and hates to ask others for help. They are reliable and they desire close and supportive bonds. Even with their struggles they will put in the work in relationships.
Mercury Trine Saturn: A logical and structured individual. This aspect fosters reliable and precise communication skills, making it easier to convey ideas and earn trust through thoughtful and well-organized expression. May be overly serious or practical. Can struggle with innovation or imagination. Could be closed-minded or stubborn in their opinions. Saturn puts walls around fast-moving and flexible Mercury. Many times with a trine this is expressed as a supportive influence, but it can still sometimes jail one's spirit.
Mercury Opposite Saturn: Can easily feel misunderstood or criticized. Might jump to assumptions easily. Can be highly self-critical or have a harsh inner voice. But may be highly intelligent and do well under pressure.
Mercury Square Saturn: This aspect can lead to mental blockages and difficulties in communication. Can struggle with confidence especially in terms of communication or intellect. They might struggle to tap into their creativity or flexibility. Can be very detail-oriented and pragmatic in their thinking. Becoming disciplined in how they learn or pursue knowledge and academics is very useful when dealing with this aspect.
Venus Trine Saturn: Encourages a realistic approach to love, with a focus on long-term goals and responsible choices. It's beneficial for building enduring relationships and finding structure in creative or financial pursuits. Not being honest with oneself and/or falling into being around those who do not share your values or goals can be a challenge.
Venus Opposite Saturn: It can be difficult to express romantic feelings and accept love, gratitude, or generosity. Can easily feel lonely, isolated, or negative in their relationships. May need more reassurance than they are willing to admit.
Venus Square Saturn: May have challenges in establishing stability and commitment in relationships. Saturn's restraint and seriousness can clash with Venus's desire for warmth and affection. This square makes it hard to fulfill emotional needs in relationships. Expressing wants and needs more is vital.
Mars Trine Saturn: This aspect promotes disciplined action and sustained effort, allowing individuals to work diligently towards their goals with patience and persistence. Can be very ambitious and strategic in life. But being overly cautious or rigid can be a challenge for this more comfortable aspect.
Mars Opposite Saturn: Can be highly impatient and easily irritable towards their willpower and ambitions. They may feel like they can never reach their goals. Could struggle to balance caution with action or assertiveness. May easily get into conflict with authority. But their determination may outweigh other Saturn aspects. 💪 Discipline and patience can be their friend as they grow.
Mars Square Saturn: Can struggle to assert one's self. Can easily get discouraged from their goals. They need to work harder to get in touch with their ambitions. It may be that their ambitions are not accepted or supported somehow. But can be a very hard worker. Independence, finding those who can support or help them in their goals, and embracing a potential cautious or patient nature can be helpful.
Jupiter Trine Saturn: This individual learns their lessons quickly. They may have a good balance of optimism and skepticism. Can have a strong work ethic or healthy amount of ambition. Known as a favorable position for finances or going after your goals. May have good relationships with authority figures or becomes an authority figure themselves quickly or early in life. May struggle with impatience at times or favoring discipline over impulsiveness or vice versa to an unpredictable extreme.
Jupiter Opposite Saturn: Stuck on a rollercoaster of high optimism and low pessimism. Can run into a lot of frustrations or delays in their plans for life. Can easily overexert themselves and face burn out. Associated with both financial struggles and success, is commonly cited as a position that goes through booms and busts throughout their career. Learning strategic long-term planning can help them cope with these struggles. Relying on practicality and discipline can be very useful for these individuals. Battling self-doubt is common, they can have big dreams but must KEEP GOING to achieve them.
Jupiter Square Saturn: May struggle with a lack of responsibility or discipline. Can experience push-pull dynamics where they feel caught between their aspirations and the practical realities. Can be conflicted between their desires and a need for freedom. However when they win in life, they tend to win big.
Saturn Trine Uranus: This aspect combines innovation with practicality, allowing individuals to implement original ideas and progressive changes in a structured and sustainable way. May have good luck with technology, abstract ideas or theories, and thinking or doing things outside of the box. Even though this aspect is harmonious, conflict between old vs. new can still exist within them. Tradition vs. the nonconventional, sustaining vs. change, order vs. chaos can still happen when these two planets interact.
Saturn Opposite Uranus: A need for freedom and frequent change and a need for predictability and stability may haunt them. They can have conflicting desires and expectations with who they are in their society and what they want out of society. May find it hard to commit to long-term plans or goals. Life may seem unstable for them often. They can be highly adaptable, enduring, and enlighten individuals as they grow.
Saturn Square Uranus: Can swing back and forth from being highly rebellious to a rule follower. Can be resistant to change but have a disdain or fear of stagnation, causing internal conflicts. Can equally fear and be fascinated by the unknown. This placement can pave the way for understanding structures and systems in their life or society and how to break free of them. Has a great desire for liberation and inner authority.
Saturn Trine Neptune: This aspect allows people to balance practicality with imagination. This is the artist who is business savvy. This aspect can also make one highly compassionate and purposeful in their giving and actions. They may have a strong drive to join a career of healing or helping others. Or they may be part of charities and nonprofits. However they need to be careful of being around controlling and restrictive environments. This can stunt their growth and happiness.
Saturn Opposite Neptune: This aspect can create confusion and tension between idealism and practicality, leading to feelings of disillusionment or uncertainty when reality does not align with dreams and expectations. Without grounding they can fall into vicious cycles of disappointment. But they can be highly compassionate and empathetic. With a grounding influence they can be a responsible healer or spiritual leader.
Saturn Square Neptune: Conflicts between the spiritual and tangible side of self and life can cause them frustration. May struggle with getting in touch with their spiritual side OR their more logical, down-to-earth side. But they may master introspective skills and become highly enlightened as they grow/mature.
Saturn Trine Pluto: Makes individuals perceptive, hardworking, diligent, strong, and determined. We have two powerful planets working together. Pluto brings depth, destruction, healing, transformation, empowerment. Saturn brings wisdom, maturity, strategy, lessons, and realism. They can be blessed with self-mastery and a strong, effective willpower. But they may be overly serious, negative, or controlling, and easily stressed.
Saturn Opposite Pluto: May struggle with inner power struggles. They may swing from intense confidence to crippling anxiety or self-doubt. Can easily feel overwhelmed or restricted by responsibilities and limitations, resulting in periods of frustration and potential burnout. These individuals will likely experience many profound transformations in their life. Introspection and honing their intuition will be helpful to them.
Saturn Square Pluto: May feel like they never have enough control or power over their life. Leaving their comfort zone, sticking to discipline or a routine, inner authority, independence, and ultimately empowerment may seem extra hard for them. But they can learn to be resourceful, perceptive, and enduring over time. They may find empowerment in unexpected ways.
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obsidian-pages777 · 6 months ago
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Academia [829] in your Astrology Chart
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The house and sign placements indicate where academic pursuits and intellectual endeavors are expressed in life.It shows how you will show up in your educational journey and where you would reap the fruits of intellectual pursuits.
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Academia in the Houses
1st House: Self-expression through intellectual pursuits. Strong academic identity.
2nd House: Value placed on education and knowledge. Potential for financial gain through academia.
3rd House: Strong communication and writing skills applied to academics. Interest in local education or short-term studies.
4th House: Home environment supports intellectual growth. Interest in educational foundations and history.
5th House: Creativity and self-expression through academic pursuits. Enjoyment of teaching or mentoring.
6th House: Practical application of knowledge. Interest in health, nutrition, or scientific research.
7th House: Partnerships in academia. Collaborative research or teaching.
8th House: Deep intellectual exploration. Interest in psychology, philosophy, or occult studies.
9th House: Higher education, philosophy, and religion. Love of travel and foreign cultures.
10th House: Career in academia or a related field. Public recognition for intellectual achievements.
11th House: Group learning, networking, and social impact through academia. Interest in social sciences.
12th House: Research in hidden or esoteric subjects. Potential for academic isolation or challenges.
Academia in the Signs
The sign reveals the quality of the mind and how it approaches learning. It further shows what your archetype is in the arena of academia and learning.
Aries: Enthusiastic and competitive learner. Quick-witted and independent.
Taurus: Practical and grounded approach to learning. Patience and determination.
Gemini: Versatile and curious mind. Excellent communication and writing skills.
Cancer: Emotional connection to learning. Strong memory and nurturing approach to teaching.
Leo: Creative and confident learner. Enjoys the spotlight in academic settings.
Virgo: Analytical and detail-oriented. Strong research and organizational skills.
Libra: Diplomatic and social learner. Interest in law, philosophy, or ethics.
Scorpio: Intense and investigative mind. Interest in psychology, research, or occult studies.
Sagittarius: Adventurous and philosophical learner. Love of travel and foreign cultures.
Capricorn: Ambitious and disciplined learner. Strong focus on career goals.
Aquarius: Innovative and independent thinker. Interest in technology and social change.
Pisces: Intuitive and imaginative learner. Interest in arts, humanities, or spirituality.
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aventurineswife · 23 days ago
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Hello, I've been thinking about this for a while but how do you think the Wuwa men would be like as dad's, if you can please include Geshu Lin because there are not many posts about him
The Weight of Legacy
Tags: Geshu Lin, Jiyan, Fatherhood, Headcanons, Parenting Dynamics, Emotional Distance, Tactical Parenting.
Warnings: Mentions of Emotional Distance (Geshu Lin), Themes of Rigorous Expectations and Tough Love (Geshu Lin), Subtle Themes of Anxiety and Self-Doubt (Jiyan), References to Past Trauma and Lingering Guilt (Geshu Lin and Jiyan), Exploration of Parenting Styles.
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Geshu Lin would be a demanding and no-nonsense father, believing that life’s challenges should be faced head-on. He would teach his children the value of strength, discipline, and resilience, pushing them to be self-reliant from a young age.
He would have high expectations for his children, expecting them to excel in whatever they do. However, his praise would be rare, as he would focus more on improvement than celebrating achievements.
Geshu’s emotional presence would be somewhat distant. He may struggle with showing affection in traditional ways, focusing more on instilling a sense of purpose and duty. His love would be expressed through actions, such as ensuring his children are well-prepared for the world.
While he may seem indifferent to the emotional needs of his children, Geshu would ensure their safety and success by preparing them for harsh realities. He would not coddle them but would ensure they are ready to survive and thrive in a dangerous world.
Being a former general, Geshu would likely teach his children combat techniques from a young age, emphasizing discipline, strategy, and the importance of decisive action.
Geshu’s own tragic past would color his approach to fatherhood. He might overcompensate for his perceived failures in leadership, and his lingering guilt could drive him to push his children too hard, trying to make up for his own lost opportunities.
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Jiyan, despite his stoic exterior, would be a deeply compassionate father. He would always ensure his children’s emotional well-being is a priority, offering support and understanding even when he is under pressure.
Jiyan would teach his children the importance of justice and protecting those in need, but in a gentle, caring manner. He would want to ensure they understand responsibility but also feel loved and nurtured in the process.
As a strategist, Jiyan would approach fatherhood with a logical and thoughtful mindset, planning ahead to ensure his children are well-prepared for the future. He might be the kind of father who has a long-term vision for his children’s development, balancing their academic and physical growth.
Jiyan would show his children the importance of balance in life—how to be both strong and kind, and how to be a warrior while maintaining compassion. He would work to avoid the mistakes of his predecessors and ensure that his children never lose sight of their humanity.
Jiyan would be a forgiving and patient father when it comes to discipline. He would prefer open communication, understanding his children’s perspective and offering guidance instead of harsh reprimands.
Jiyan’s own doubts about his role as a general would carry over into his fatherhood. He might constantly worry about whether he is doing enough for his children, driven by a desire to avoid the emotional and physical sacrifices he endured growing up.
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glowettee · 8 days ago
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💌 glowettee hotline: issue #001: navigating cliquey vibes: finding your light in chilly uni halls
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welcome to the very first edition of glowettee hotline, where we fix your study slumps, productivity spirals, and it-girl dilemmas with a mix of soft discipline, coquette motivation, and glowettee philosophies.
i’ve been obsessed with the idea of creating a space where we can romanticize self-improvement, push ourselves academically, and embrace that girl energy, without the burnout. and after receiving 17 (!!) submissions already, i know we’re onto something magical. love you all <3 - mindy
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hi darling, hope you're having a lovely, wonderful day!!
i'm so excited you reached out with your q today, because i literally know how challenging it can be to feel adrift in a sea of cliquey vibes at uni. it really sucks when you're surrounded by friendly faces in one circle but then find yourself in classes where almost everyone else seems distant, unwelcoming, or even downright snobby. i totally understand the weight of feeling unsupported especially during group work or oral presentations. so, let’s chat through some super detailed strategies to help you not only survive but thrive rn in these tricky social settings.
navigating cliquey vibes: finding your light in chilly uni halls
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by mindy @glowettee (glowettee hotline, submit here for personal advice: https://bit.ly/glowetteehotline)
⋆. 𐙚 ˚appreciating your core circle & celebrating your uniqueness⋆. 𐙚 ˚
firstly, your core friend group is such a precious gem. remember, having a close-knit set of people who know and love you is more important than being universally liked. here’s how to make the most of your supportive tribe:
• before tough classes or presentations, lean on your close friends. even a quick pep talk or a smile exchanged across the room can boost your confidence. • use your circle as a sounding board for your ideas. they can help you rehearse presentations or give you tips on how to navigate group assignments. • celebrate your wins together. even if it’s after a brilliant group discussion or just overcoming a day that felt isolating, take some time to share those moments. • remind yourself daily that your worth is not determined by the acceptance of everyone around you. you are a unique, clever individual radiating positivity. never forget that.
2. ⋆. 𐙚 ˚turning group projects into a positive challenge⋆. 𐙚 ˚
group assignments can be super intimidating when you’re unsure whom you can rely on. but think about it as an opportunity to discover parts of yourself you might not have met otherwise. here are some practical steps for navigating group work:
• start by introducing yourself warmly. a simple "hi, i’m [your name]—i'm excited to work with you all" can set a friendly tone. • initiate a casual group chat or a quick get-to-know-you meet-up before diving into the work. suggest grabbing coffee or even meeting in a quiet corner of the campus to chat. • assign roles based on everyone's strengths. this not only clarifies who is doing what but also gives everyone a chance to feel valued. propose clearly defined tasks by asking, "what part do you really love doing?" or "which part feels natural to you?" • if some group members remain distant or rude, focus on collaborating with those who are engaged. sometimes, it’s okay if one or two people are enthusiastic. quality over quantity. • always have a backup plan for situations when group dynamics falter. perhaps create a personal outline for the project and set aside time to rework any loose ends. this helps you retain control over your part of the assignment, even if others aren’t as invested.
3. ⋆. 𐙚 ˚building personal resilience and managing class anxiety⋆. 𐙚 ˚
feeling out of place in classes where few familiar faces exist is completely normal, but there are some really neat ways to boost personal resilience. i like to think of these techniques as little self-care rituals that build your inner strength:
• start your morning or class prep with affirmations. say something like "i am enough" or "i belong here" as you look in the mirror. these affirmations can be surprisingly powerful. • cultivate a mindfulness practice. even just five minutes of deep breathing before class can help center your energy. use mindfulness apps or even a simple timer to guide you through a quick meditation. • keep a journal of small victories. jot down every little win, like speaking up in class or even smiling through a challenging presentation. these notes become a lovely reminder of how far you’ve come. • set up a pre-class ritual that calms your nerves. even if it’s listening to your favorite song, enjoying a cup of herbal tea, or just giving yourself a gentle pep talk, these rituals let you enter class with a positive mindset. • acknowledge that it’s okay to feel anxious. instead of trying to push the feeling away, wrap yourself in understanding and self-love. after all, every uni student feels the pressure sometimes.
4. ⋆. 𐙚 ˚creating meaningful connections beyond your immediate classes⋆. 𐙚 ˚
even if certain classes feel socially isolated, there are countless ways to build community on campus. sometimes, the most unexpected connections can blossom into the most sincere friendships. consider these avenues:
• join uni clubs, societies, or interest groups that resonate with your passion. it can be a creative club, a study group, or a casual meetup for a shared hobby, these environments tend to be super welcoming. • attend campus events, workshops, or talks. these can be fantastic settings for meeting people outside the rigid structure of classroom interactions. it's a chance to meet someone who shares your vibe and interests. • volunteer for student-led initiatives. taking part in projects or community service can show you a side of your peers that you wouldn't normally see in a lecture hall. • look into mentoring programs or campus counseling services. many unis offer support that not only helps with academic stress but also with social challenges. sometimes, sharing your struggles with someone who understands can be incredibly reassuring. • consider creating a little interest group of your own if you notice others who feel similarly isolated. even a small, informal study or discussion group can help you forge lasting bonds.
5. ⋆. 𐙚 ˚reframing challenges into growth experiences⋆. 𐙚 ˚
it’s natural to feel disheartened when you face exclusion or cold responses. but often, these challenges are little nudges guiding you to develop a thicker skin and a stronger sense of self. try out these reframing ideas:
• view each uncomfortable encounter as a step towards personal growth. every time you overcome social hurdles, you’re building resilience and learning more about yourself. • remember that some people’s unfriendliness is more about their own insecurities than any shortcomings on your part. their behavior says more about them than it does about you. • channel any negative energy you encounter into creative or academic pursuits. write down your thoughts, doodle your feelings, or even consider a blog post about your journey. creativity is a wonderful way to turn pain into something beautiful. • celebrate your uniqueness. the qualities that set you apart are what make you valuable. sometimes, it’s exactly those differences that will eventually attract the right people into your life. • let every difficult experience remind you of the person you are becoming. each challenge faced is a victory in building your inner power and empathy.
6. ⋆. 𐙚 ˚personal rituals that keep you grounded⋆. 𐙚 ˚
i believe in creating a few personal rituals to help navigate the ups and downs of uni life. these little practices can serve as anchors on days when everything feels overwhelming:
• before class, take a quiet moment to enjoy a comforting cup of coffee or tea. let that be a moment just for you, a time to gather your thoughts and breathe. • keep a small token or journal with you. it could be a piece of jewelry, a lucky charm, or even a handwritten note that reminds you of your intrinsic worth. whenever you feel isolated, hold that token and feel the support it symbolizes. • make a mini “positivity checklist” for turbulent days: 1. take three deep breaths. 2. text or call a friend from your trusted circle. 3. quickly jot down one thing you’re proud of from the day. 4. give yourself a moment to reflect on a past success. • if ever the weight of anxiety feels too heavy, try a quick self-soothing exercise like stretching or taking a brisk walk between classes. little bursts of movement can reset your mind. • remind yourself that self-care isn’t selfish! it’s essential. investing time in nurturing your well-being pays off in your academic life and beyond.
⋆˚ 𝜗𝜚˚⋆final thoughts & encouragement⋆˚ 𝜗𝜚˚⋆
i know how overwhelming it can feel rn when every class and group project seems to amplify your insecurities. but darling, every challenge is also a lesson in disguise. use these moments as opportunities to cultivate your strengths, build resilience, and discover new facets of yourself. your uni journey is uniquely yours, sprinkled with little moments of growth, learning, and even unexpected joy. sometimes, the journey might seem rocky, but every bump is teaching you how to rise a little higher each time.
remember, you are not alone. even in moments where you feel isolated, your inner strength and your supportive circle are there to hold you up. take these strategies at your own pace, experiment with what feels right for you and make adjustments as needed. your story is still unfolding, and every challenge you overcome adds another beautiful chapter.
sending you the biggest virtual hug and all the good vibes!! keep shining in your own unique way and know that these hurdles are just stepping stones to an even brighter future. i hope these detailed tips bring you some comfort and clarity, and if you ever need to chat or dive into more ideas, feel free to send more asks!! remember to take care of yourself and keep believing in your incredible journey!!
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and that’s a wrap on glowettee hotline: issue #1. i am so obsessed with this already, and i can’t wait to dive into more of your guys' questions.
if today’s advice helped, let me know in the replies/reblogs: what’s one habit you’re changing after reading this? let’s romanticize self-discipline together. ✨
and if you have your own it-girl dilemmas—submit them here: https://bit.ly/glowetteehotline
(psst, i read every single one. 💌)
stay soft, stay productive, & stay glowing. 🌷 – glowettee
xoxo, mindy 🤍
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jackiequick · 5 months ago
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In The Shadows / Marvel Comics OC ⌚️
Elias Drake-Thorne
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Face Claim: Jonathan Bailey
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Full Name: Elijah Henry Drake Thorne
Age: 26
Height: 5’11
Zodiac Sign: Virgo (reserved, analytical, and observant)
Nickname(s):
“Elias” (tends to have a softer, more modern sound compared to the traditional)
"Eli" (a casual version of his name)
"The Silent Observer" (due to his quiet and observant nature)
“Eli-Bear” (it’s what his mother used to call him)
Relationship Status: Single
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Personality
Elias Drake is a figure of quiet strength and subtle complexity. His reserved nature allows him to carefully observe and analyze situations from the sidelines, stepping in only when he feels he has a complete understanding. This calm and stoic demeanor often masks a more impulsive side, revealing a slightly rash and temperamental edge when things don’t go as planned.
Despite his reserved exterior, Elias exudes a quiet confidence. He doesn’t need to be loud or overt to make an impact; when he speaks, people listen. His calm and gentle mannerism makes him approachable, yet he tends to be soft-spoken and slightly sarcastic, especially around new people. His empathetic nature allows him to offer kindness and support, though this is reserved for those he truly believes deserve it.
Reserved and Observant: Prefers to stay on the sidelines and notice details that others might miss, giving him an edge in understanding complex situations.
Quietly Confident: Makes a strong impression without needing to be overtly loud; his thoughtful insights and calm presence often capture attention.
Independent but Collaborative: Enjoys working alone but understands the importance of teamwork and collaboration when necessary, balancing solitude with cooperation.
Slightly Rash: Although generally measured, he can act impulsively when his temper flares or when faced with significant challenges to his principles.
Kind but Selective: His kindness is genuine but selective, extended to those who earn his trust and respect. He is gentle and supportive but discerning about who receives his warmth.
Protective and Loyal: His loyalty is unwavering for those he cares about deeply. Elias’s protective instincts ensure that he stands by and defends his loved ones, even if he seems distant to others.
Quirks and Interests:
Wears Glasses: His glasses add a thoughtful and intellectual touch to his appearance.
Bookworm: Though he enjoys reading, he has a stronger passion for films and often uses them as an escape.
Slight Temper: He tries to keep it in check but can be a bit hot-headed when frustrated.
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—Background 🗞️
Elias Drake-Thorne grew up in a gritty, crime-ridden neighborhood of New York City, an environment where survival demanded caution and sharp instincts. His family lived on the fringes of society, often struggling to make ends meet, but they instilled in Elias the importance of resilience and intelligence. The loss of his parents instilled a deep desire for justice, but unlike the flashy superheroes he saw on the news, Elias preferred to operate in the shadows.
His quiet and observant nature helped him navigate the dangers of the streets, but it also set him apart from others his age, who often resorted to louder, more aggressive means of coping.
Struggles in School:
Academically, Elias was never the best student. He found it hard to focus on traditional subjects that didn’t capture his interest. However, when it came to technology, engineering, and creative writing, he thrived. Teachers often noted that while Elias lacked discipline in some areas, he excelled when left to explore topics on his own terms.
He was the kind of student who would rather figure things out through hands-on experience than by reading textbooks. His self-directed learning led him to develop a keen understanding of technology and electronics, often repairing gadgets or inventing small devices for fun.
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Career at Stark Industries:
Eventually, Elias’s natural talent with technology earned him a spot at Stark Industries as a tech consultant. Despite his unconventional academic background, his skill set made him an asset to the company. Elias was particularly valued for his ability to think outside the box, offering creative solutions to complex problems.
While he kept a low profile, preferring not to attract attention, he found satisfaction in contributing to projects that supported the Avengers and enhanced Stark’s technology. His job allowed him to quietly play a part in protecting the world, even if he was never on the front lines.
Passion for Writing:
Though technology became his career, Elias’s true love has always been storytelling. He developed a passion for writing early on, finding solace in crafting narratives that explored justice, corruption, and the complexities of human nature. In his free time, he began writing investigative pieces, focusing on the darker, hidden parts of New York’s criminal underworld.
His reserved nature made him an excellent investigator—people rarely noticed him, and he was adept at blending into the background. His articles, though often published anonymously or under pseudonyms, became a way for him to expose the truths others were too afraid to confront.
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Iced Coffee: Elias has a penchant for iced coffee, which keeps him alert during long nights of work or writing.
Drama Shows: He enjoys drama shows, particularly those with complex characters and intricate plots. He finds them a great escape and a source of inspiration for his own writing.
Mac & Cheese: A comfort food that reminds him of simpler times; he often makes it for himself when he’s feeling nostalgic or in need of a quick meal.
Simple Fashion: Prefers understated, practical clothing—jeans, simple tees, and comfortable shoes. He values functionality over fashion trends.
Homebody: Elias enjoys staying in and tends to be a homebody. He finds solace in the comfort of his own space, away from the chaos of the outside world.
—Dislikes 📌
Loud, Crowded Places: Due to his reserved nature, Elias dislikes loud, crowded environments which can be overwhelming and stressful for him.
Disorganization: He values order and tends to be irked by disorganization, whether in his personal space or in his work environment.
Unnecessary Attention: Prefers to stay out of the spotlight and avoids situations where he is the center of attention.
Overly Sweet Foods: While he likes mac & cheese, he’s not a fan of overly sweet foods or drinks, finding them cloying and unappealing.
—Nerdy Interests 📼
Films and Series: Elias is a film enthusiast who enjoys everything from classic cinema to modern blockbusters. He often analyzes films and series for their storytelling techniques and thematic depth.
Video Essays: He enjoys watching video essays on a variety of topics, including film theory, technology, and social issues. They provide him with new perspectives and insights.
Music: Music is a big part of his life, and he has a diverse taste ranging from classical to modern genres. He often listens to music while working or relaxing at home.
Tech Gadgets: Beyond his professional work, Elias has a deep interest in the latest tech gadgets and innovations. He enjoys keeping up with the latest advancements and understanding how they work.
Comics and Graphic Novels: While not a superhero himself, Elias enjoys comics and graphic novels for their storytelling and artistic value. They provide him with creative inspiration and a way to unwind.
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—Elias Drake-Thorne's Soundtrack Playlist 🎧
“Sweater Weather” – The Neighbourhood
Perfect for Elias’s cozy, laid-back, and home-centered vibe. It’s atmospheric and moody, reflecting both his introverted nature and subtle complexity.
“Sure Thing” – Miguel
This track brings out Elias’s grounded, nurturing side. It has a sensual yet chill vibe, showing his capacity for caring deeply and being there for those he holds close.
“Saturn” – Sleeping At Last
A beautiful, introspective track that mirrors his thoughtful, reflective nature. It hints at his connection to loss, his desire for justice, and his emotional depth.
“Leave The Light On” – Tom Walker
A perfect fit for the more intense, emotional side of Elias, where he wrestles with personal struggles. The song’s message about holding on through tough times connects to his quiet but strong resilience.
“I’ll Be Good” – Jaymes Young
This song matches Elias’s inner conflict, balancing his quiet demeanor with a desire to do better and strive for justice, even in his more discreet ways.
“Flares” – The Script
An emotional, heartfelt track that speaks to Elias’s experience with loss and his gentle side. It captures his vulnerability and the quiet strength he draws from those experiences.
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—Style & Background Insights 🔓
~Style
Casual and Practical: Elias's style is understated and practical. He favors simple fashion choices—think well-fitted jeans, casual shirts, and comfortable sweaters. His look reflects a preference for practicality and comfort over flashy trends.
Subtle Elegance: His wardrobe includes pieces that are stylish yet subtle, with a preference for muted colors and clean lines. This aligns with his reserved personality, emphasizing functionality and a low-key elegance.
Tech-Influenced Accessories: Given his tech-savvy nature, Elias often wears minimalist tech accessories, such as smartwatches or sleek glasses, which complement his practical and intellectual style.
~Background
Challenging Upbringing: Growing up in a tough, crime-ridden neighborhood in New York, Elias witnessed the harsh realities of life early on, despite trying to see the light in the darkness. This environment shaped his cautious and observant nature, instilling in him a deep-seated desire for justice and a resolve to make a difference in his own way.
Dual Career: Balancing a career in tech consulting with a passion for journalism, Elias has forged a path that reflects his diverse interests and skills. His work at Stark Industries showcases his technical prowess, while his journalism endeavors highlight his creative and communicative side.
Quiet Heroism: Elias’s approach to justice and heroism is understated. He works behind the scenes, tackling issues with a subtle, yet effective impact. His focus is on creating change quietly and meaningfully, rather than seeking the spotlight or overt recognition.
Homebody Nature: Preferring a quiet life at home, Elias finds solace in simple pleasures—like enjoying a cup of iced coffee, indulging in drama shows, or spending time with his favorite books and films. His home is a sanctuary where he can unwind and recharge, away from the demands of his professional life.
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—The Soft-Spoken Journalist 🖥️
Elias Drake-Thorne, much like a male counterpart to the iconic Lois Lane, embodies a blend of strength, determination, intelligence, and kindness. His journey reflects a deep commitment to storytelling and a passion for uncovering the truth, making his transition from tech consultant to journalist a natural evolution of his career and interests.
~Career Transition
Shift to Journalism: Elias's career initially centered around tech consulting at Stark Industries, where his technical expertise was invaluable. However, his true passion has always been storytelling. Recognizing that his heart lies in writing and reporting, Elias has made a deliberate shift towards journalism, focusing more on his love for writing and storytelling.
Focus Areas -> Elias's new role allows him to explore a range of topics:
- Entertainment and Celebrities: He writes engaging stories about the entertainment industry and celebrities, providing fresh perspectives and in-depth coverage.
- Technology: Combining his tech background with his journalistic pursuits, Elias covers the latest trends and innovations, offering insights that bridge his technical knowledge with his storytelling skills.
- Real-Life Events: His investigative work delves into significant real-life events, uncovering hidden truths and presenting them in a compelling manner.
- Lifestyle: Elias also explores lifestyle topics, sharing stories that resonate with his audience and reflect his understanding of contemporary issues and interests.
- Passion for Truth and Impact: Elias is driven by a desire to make a difference through his work. His stories aim to inform, inspire, and impact readers, emphasizing authenticity and the search for truth.
-> Narrative Style
- Thoughtful and Insightful: Elias's writing is characterized by its thoughtfulness and depth. He brings a nuanced perspective to his subjects, combining detailed analysis with engaging narrative techniques.
- Empathetic and Relatable: His approach to journalism is empathetic, focusing on the human element behind the stories. Elias’s kindness and sensitivity enable him to connect with his subjects and readers on a personal level.
- Commitment to Authenticity: Elias prioritizes honesty and integrity in his reporting. His commitment to presenting accurate and meaningful content reflects his dedication to making a positive impact through his work.
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—Fun Facts 🖇️
— Multilingual Skills: Elias is fluent in both English and Spanish, a skill he picked up growing up in a multicultural neighborhood. He enjoys using his language skills to read international literature and connect with a diverse range of people.
— Phobia of Public Speaking: Despite his career in journalism, Elias has a deep-seated fear of public speaking. He prefers written communication and finds large audiences daunting, often opting for written articles over speaking engagements.
— Collector of Vintage Cameras: Elias has a growing collection of vintage cameras. His fascination with photography extends to collecting old and rare models, each with its own unique story and history.
— Night Owl: Though he often forces himself to adhere to a morning routine due to work demands, Elias is naturally a night owl. He finds that his creativity and productivity peak during the late hours, which is when he does most of his writing and thinking.
— Unusual Hobby: Elias is a bit of a “house husband” at heart. He takes pride in keeping his living space organized and enjoys the routine of household chores, finding them oddly therapeutic.
— Pet Peeve: He’s easily annoyed by loud or chaotic environments, preferring quieter, more serene settings where he can concentrate and feel at ease.
— Dream Destination: Elias dreams of visiting Paris, France someday, drawn by its rich cultural history, iconic landmarks, and vibrant arts scene. He’s eager to explore its museums, architecture, and culinary delights.
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academiclifexd · 3 days ago
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"Navigating Academic Life: Challenges, Growth, and Success"
Academic life is a journey filled with discovery, challenges, and personal growth. Whether you're in high school, college, or pursuing higher education, the experience is a mix of intellectual stimulation, deadlines, social interactions, and self-discovery. While it can be demanding, academic life shapes us into more knowledgeable, disciplined, and resilient individuals.
The Challenges of Academic Life
One of the biggest struggles in academic life is balancing coursework, extracurricular activities, and personal responsibilities. Deadlines pile up, exams bring stress, and sometimes, motivation dwindles. Many students face the pressure of maintaining good grades while also managing part-time jobs, social life, and mental well-being. Procrastination and burnout are common pitfalls, making time management a crucial skill to develop.
Another challenge is adapting to different learning styles and expectations. Each subject, professor, or institution may require unique approaches to studying. Some thrive in structured environments, while others struggle to keep up with fast-paced lectures and independent learning. The key to overcoming these obstacles is resilience—learning how to adapt, seek help when needed, and continuously refine one's study habits.
The Growth and Rewards
Despite the challenges, academic life offers immense rewards. Education is not just about memorizing facts; it's about learning how to think critically, solve problems, and communicate effectively. The knowledge gained from academics serves as a foundation for future careers and personal growth.
Beyond academics, students build lifelong friendships, network with mentors, and develop skills that extend beyond the classroom. College and university life, in particular, expose students to diverse perspectives, fostering cultural awareness and open-mindedness. These experiences help shape character and prepare individuals for the complexities of the real world.
Keys to Success in Academic Life
To make the most of academic life, students should focus on effective study techniques, time management, and self-care. Here are some essential tips for success:
1. Develop Good Study Habits – Find what works best for you, whether it’s group study sessions, note-taking techniques, or online resources. The freedom to explore various subjects and activities allows you to discover your true passions. For many, this period is a time of self-discovery—identifying what truly drives you, what you care about, and how you wish to contribute to the world. It’s a time when failures are reframed as learning opportunities, and success is measured not just in grades but in personal fulfillment and growth.
2. Manage Your Time Wisely – Prioritize tasks, break them into manageable parts, and avoid last-minute cramming. Time management is more than just a productivity hack; it’s a cornerstone of academic success. By managing your time wisely, you can reduce stress, improve your academic performance, and create a healthier work-life balance. It enables you to allocate sufficient time for studying, engaging in extracurricular activities, and enjoying personal downtime—all essential for a well-rounded academic experience.
3. Seek Help When Needed – Utilize professors' office hours, join study groups, or seek academic support services. Academic life is often associated with long hours of studying, tight deadlines, and the constant pressure to perform well. While pursuing education is a rewarding journey, it can also be physically and mentally demanding. Many students push themselves to the limit, often neglecting their health in the process. However, one of the most important lessons in academic life is knowing when to ask for help—especially when it comes to health.
4. Stay Healthy – Sleep, nutrition, and exercise play a significant role in concentration and overall well-being. Good health plays a crucial role in a student’s ability to focus, retain information, and perform well in their studies. When students neglect their health, whether by skipping meals, sacrificing sleep, or ignoring stress, their academic performance can suffer. Fatigue, difficulty concentrating, and weakened immunity are just some of the consequences of poor health habits. On the other hand, a healthy lifestyle enhances brain function, boosts energy levels, and improves mood, making learning more effective and enjoyable.
5. Embrace Challenges – Academic setbacks are part of the journey. Learn from mistakes and keep pushing forward. Every academic challenge encountered is also a lesson in perseverance. Learning to navigate through these challenges not only prepares you for professional success but also equips you with life skills that extend far beyond the classroom.
Conclusion
Academic life is not just about achieving grades or obtaining degrees—it’s a vibrant chapter in the larger story of who we are. It’s about cultivating curiosity, overc
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rabbidbunwy · 5 months ago
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Yuji,Megumi and Nobara as a big siblings headcannon ദ്ദി ≽^⎚˕⎚^≼
Tags:fluff,brotherhood,sibling stuff,comfort?
i'm no english native so sorry for some mistakes
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YUJI
Yuji would be the type to dote on his younger sibling, ensuring they were always well cared for. When his younger sibling would cry, he would be there to comfort them, offering hugs and words of reassurance. He would also be playful, often making them laugh with silly jokes and antics, which would sometimes even include pranking.
He'd also be strict about enforcing rules and boundaries. While he wouldn't hesitate to discipline his brother or sister, he would still offer love and understanding, making sure they understand why certain things are not okay.
Yuji would also be protective of his younger sibling, looking out for them in any situation. He'd even teach his younger sibling self-defense techniques to help them stay safe, and remind them of various safety practices like never going off with strangers.
He'd also love to see them grow and learn new things. Yuji would actively encourage and support his younger sibling in their pursuit of hobbies, talents, and interests. He'd often listen intently when they'd excitedly share about their progress or achievements.
Yuji would be there to help his younger sibling with homework and studies, ensuring they were on the right track. He'd offer advice and assist with assignments they struggled to understand, as well as help them prepare for exams or other significant academic events.
He'd also be a good role model, showing them various life lessons through his own actions and words. Yuji would make sure to impart important values such as honesty, integrity, patience, and tolerance in his younger sibling.
Yuji would first try to address the tantrum calmly, asking you what's wrong and attempting to talk it out. He'd explain patiently why the tantrum isn't productive and offer you alternative ways to express your feelings.
If you continued to have a tantrum, Yuji would become more firm, clearly letting you know that this behavior is not acceptable. He'd set clear boundaries and communicate consequences if the tantrum continued. But even then, he would always make sure you understand that he still loves and cares for you deeply.
When you're sick, Yuji would immediately become concerned and attentive. He'd make sure you're comfortable and provided for.
He'd check on you regularly, making sure you have food, water, and medicine if needed. He'd even sit bedside to keep you company and offer words of comfort and humor to lift your spirits.
Yuji would also make sure to do chores around the house, handling any tasks that might otherwise fall on you, so you can focus on your recovery.
MEGUMI
As a big brother, Megumi is highly protective of his younger siblings. He would ensure their safety and well being at all costs. He is a firm but gentle authority figure, setting rules and boundaries for the younger siblings. He also provides guidance and support them in their schoolwork and other activities.
Megumi would teach them basic skills like how to defend themselves and handle basic domestic chores. Due to his reserved personality, he may struggle with expressing affection directly, but would show his care and concern in more subtle ways like watching out for them and cooking a meal for them.
Megumi knows the value of responsibility, so he also encourages his younger siblings to become more independent and responsible in their own ways. He is a stern and serious figure, but he secretly loves and cares about his younger siblings greatly. He would make every effort to keep them away from any trouble and make sure they are well cared for, even if his expression is usually stoic and neutral.
When his younger sibling have a tantrum, Megumi will generally remain calm and composed on the outside. He might give them a stern look at first but would not scold them directly. He would then try to assess the cause of the tantrum and see if there is any way he can help to diffuse the situation. If necessary he will try to use logic and reason to explain the situation to the younger sibling and find a resolution. If the tantrum persist, he might take away something they like or give them a little timeout but will also make sure they understand why that was necessary.
When his younger sibling is sick, Megumi is extremely attentive. He will try to determine the severity of their illness and consult a medical professional if necessary. He will make sure the younger siblings are resting, eating well and taking their medicine if needed. Megumi will also try to make them comfortable by providing them with blankets, pillows or other items to soothe them. He would also try to keep them entertained with activities or stories to help make the time of being sick go by. He will also check on their temperature, energy and mood regularly throughout the day.
Megumi will also try to take care of his younger siblings by doing things like cooking for them or cleaning, so that they can focus on resting and recovering. He will also tell his younger siblings stories or play games with them to keep their minds off the illness and make the recovery process more bearable. He will also comfort them if they feel scared or sad and reassure them that they will get better soon.
NOBARA
Nobara would be very protective and caring. She would always be looking out for her younger siblings, making sure they stay safe and have everything they need, whether it be emotional or practical support. She would definitely be strict with them at times, but would also have a soft spot for them and would never let anything bad happen to them. She would also be the type to spoil them with gifts and treats, even though she might not want to admit it. In general, she would be a very nurturing and loving big sister.
If her siblings had a bad day at school, Nobara would be the first one there to comfort them and listen to their problems. She would also be eager to help them with their homework or study for tests, and would always encourage them to do their best and believe in themselves. If her siblings had a disagreement with other kids, Nobara would definitely take their side and defend them, even if they were in the wrong. She would never stand for anyone bullying or harming her younger siblings, and would do everything in her power to make sure they felt loved and protected.
Nobara would also like to take her siblings on adventures and trips, whether it be to explore nearby parks or cities, or go on trips to the beach or mountains. She would enjoy doing fun and exciting activities with them, and would always prioritize their happiness and enjoyment. Additionally, she would go out of her way to spend quality time with them and make sure they know how much they mean to her. She would be proud of them and their accomplishments, and would be there to celebrate every milestone and success in their lives.
When their younger siblings have a tantrum, Nobara would try to handle the situation calmly and rationally. She would first try to understand the cause of the outburst and then try to soothe them by speaking in a calm and gentle manner. If the tantrum is caused by something small or unimportant, Nobara would try to distract her little siblings from the issue and redirect their attention to something more positive or enjoyable. However, if the tantrum is caused by something more serious, she would try to reason with them and help them to express their feelings in a safe and productive way.
When her siblings are sick, Nobara would go into full-on caregiver mode. She would fuss over them constantly, making sure they have plenty of fluids and taking care of any fever or other symptoms. If they needed medicine, she would quickly get them what they needed and make sure they took it properly and at the right times. She would also try to make them feel better by bringing them their favorite foods and drinks, and would watch movies and play games with them to keep their spirits up.
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etcetraetcetra · 1 year ago
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I am sorry everyone. I will be inactive for a few months which may roll into 1 (or 2 years). I have decided it’s high time I start making a positive effort to achieve my dream of becoming an AIIMSonian and for doing so I need to minimize all distractions.
In order to do so I am going to sign out of Tumblr and hand my devices to my parents. I strongly believe that consistency and discipline are better than motivation and I can only attain it if I dissociate myself from the Internet wholly and push myself to my limits.
Thank you everyone for supporting me always. You all have helped me fall in love with the subject I used to fear the most, and have inspired me to keep going. But what I need now is not inspiration and motivation but self discipline. Wish me luck and I wish the studyblr community all the best for their academic journey too.
I will return only after I have made it to my dream college and I will return for sure. It’s a promise to myself and you all.
Sending love and well wishes to everyone one of you, who are my mutuals and who I follow or who follow me, or who have just stumbled upon my blog.
I will do it. I can do it. No matter what. That’s why, it’s not a goodbye. It’s a see you in a while :))
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justtrash202 · 2 months ago
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Teenager! Nigel Uno
Building off the Teenage! Sector V headcanon, here’s my take on Nigel as a teenager.
These headcanons reflect my personal interpretation of him—his personality, style, relationships, and how his childhood traits have evolved over time. This is something I’ve been working on for a while, and I’m excited to share it! I hope you enjoy this little glimpse into my version of Teenage Nigel. (This will be updated as it develops ^^')
Appearance: Nigel is 5'4 1/2" with a lean, wiry frame that complements his sharp and composed demeanor. His smooth, fair skin and slightly pale complexion reflect his focused and disciplined nature. His iconic bald head remains unchanged, serving as a timeless and distinctive feature. Nigel's outfit exudes a balance of maturity and practicality: he wears a red button-up shirt, neatly tucked into khaki pants, and pairs it with a black, unbuttoned blazer that adds a sense of authority. A black belt with a gray buckle provides a polished touch, while his black loafers, a sleek upgrade from his childhood brown ones, complete the look. Adding to his refined style, Nigel sports a black wristwatch with a gray face on his left arm—a subtle detail that hints at his meticulous attention to time and detail, as well as the possibility of hidden KND tech for quick access. Finally, his iconic black sunglasses rest confidently on his face, symbolizing his sharp, strategic mindset and adding an air of mystery to his presence.
Personality: As a teenager, Nigel has matured into a more composed and thoughtful version of his younger self while retaining his serious and determined nature. His time in the Galactic Kids Next Door (GKND) has deepened his sense of compassion, balancing his once rigid, all-business demeanor. While his leadership skills remain sharp, he’s learned to approach challenges with patience and measured judgment, valuing teamwork and support. Nigel is no longer as high-strung, focusing on nurturing those around him while still pursuing his goals with determination. Now a more approachable and empathetic leader, he listens before speaking, knowing when to be stern and when to offer reassurance. Though still a meticulous strategist, his experiences have shaped him into a leader who leads through understanding as much as intellect.
Headcanons
Obsessive Organizer: Nigel thrives on order and precision. He organizes his day with color-coded schedules, to-do lists, and planners to balance his school, GKND, and personal life. His friends often tease him for being too rigid, unable to adapt when things don’t go as planned. Despite their jokes, Nigel firmly believes his structure is essential to his success, helping him control every aspect of his life.
Struggles with Relaxation: For Nigel, relaxing feels unnatural. His idea of unwinding usually involves reading strategy books or planning hypothetical missions, which is more work than relaxation. His friends encourage him to take it easy, but Nigel struggles to stop working. He feels guilty when not being productive, making it difficult for him to relax, whether it’s watching TV or hanging out without feeling like he’s wasting time.
Takes School Too Seriously: Nigel feels the weight of academic pressure as the only Sector V member in a private school. He throws himself into studying, debates, and academic competitions, earning praise from teachers but eye-rolls from his friends. While his friends try to get him to relax, Nigel sees school as a competition for self-improvement, where perfection is expected. His intensity often makes him seem out of place socially.
Gravity Mishaps: Despite his intelligence, Nigel often underestimates gravity’s effects. After spending time in space, he forgets the physical limitations of Earth. Whether throwing objects too hard or trying zero-gravity stunts, his overconfidence leads to mishaps. His teammates find his gravity mistakes both hilarious and endearing, but they often lead to embarrassing situations. Nigel’s lack of awareness creates funny moments that highlight his occasional overestimation of his abilities.
Respected by Teachers, Feared by Peers: At school, Nigel earns respect from teachers for his intelligence, leadership, and work ethic, becoming a role model. However, his sharp wit, no-nonsense attitude, and high standards for others often make him intimidating to peers. They tend to avoid him unless necessary, finding his expectations overwhelming. Despite this, Nigel remains committed to doing things the right way, even if it means distancing himself from his classmates.
Still Hates Swimming: Despite all his space adventures, Nigel’s dislike of swimming remains. The unpredictability of water makes him uneasy, and he avoids swimming unless absolutely necessary. His aversion is a running joke among his friends, who try to convince him to embrace swimming, but Nigel stays firm in his resistance. Swimming still causes him more anxiety than any space mission, making it an ongoing challenge for him.
Student Council President: As president of the student council, Nigel takes his duties seriously. He views the role as valuable leadership training, similar to his experience in the GKND. He applies his meticulous planning and strategic thinking to governance, aiming to make a real difference. His dedication often clashes with peers who see the position as a title, but for Nigel, it’s a serious responsibility he takes to heart.
Advisor to Kuki and Abby: Though not part of the Teens Next Door, Nigel lends his expertise to Kuki and Abby when needed. He offers tactical advice, plans, and guidance from his extensive GKND experience. His strategic approach is invaluable, even if his calculated methods frustrate them at times. Despite his serious nature, he enjoys helping the girls, even if it means stepping into dangerous situations with them.
Keeps a Tactical Notebook: Nigel always carries a small, worn notebook filled with strategies, mission ideas, and personal observations. This notebook is his personal database, a habit formed from his GKND days. He uses it for everything, from school notes to potential threats, keeping track of everything that might matter. His friends joke that he’s a walking encyclopedia, but to Nigel, it’s an essential tool for staying prepared.
Trouble Adjusting to Earth's Simplicities: After years in space, Nigel often struggles with simple Earth tasks like using a phone, cooking, or driving. He asks his friends for help, which they find both amusing and endearing. His lack of familiarity with basic conveniences highlights his time away from Earth’s routines. While his friends enjoy teasing him, they’re also happy to help him adapt to the little things he missed out on.
Excels in Academics: Nigel excels academically, consistently ranking at the top of his class. He pours his energy into studying, competing in academic events, and impressing teachers with his knowledge. However, this makes him a target for teasing, particularly from Wally, who calls him a “teacher’s pet.” Though he’s often mocked, Nigel takes pride in his academic achievements, seeing them as part of what sets him apart from others.
Keeps a Photo of Sector V: Nigel keeps a weathered photo of Sector V in his locker, a reminder of the bonds and experiences that shaped his childhood. This photo symbolizes his roots, reminding him of the loyalty and friendship at the heart of his leadership. Whenever school life gets overwhelming, Nigel looks at it for comfort and motivation, reaffirming that his leadership is built on trust and shared adventures.
Can’t Cook to Save His Life: Despite his intelligence and abilities, Nigel’s cooking skills are non-existent. He once tried cooking for Lizzie, but it ended in disaster, with a mess in the kitchen and an inedible meal. Lizzie kindly suggested they order pizza instead, and this mishap became a running joke. Although Nigel dislikes admitting it, he knows he’s better off leaving cooking to others and sticking to takeout.
Second to Get His Driver’s License: Nigel, second only to Abby, earned his driver’s license with his typical thoroughness. He studied the rules, practiced diligently, and passed the test flawlessly. However, his methodical driving style isn’t thrilling for his friends. He follows every rule, checks mirrors, and drives well within speed limits, earning teasing from Wally about his slow pace. Despite the jabs, Nigel believes safety and precision are far more important than speed.
Designated Driver: As the responsible one in the group, Nigel often takes on the role of the designated driver. While he doesn’t mind this responsibility, he secretly wishes his friends would let him enjoy the night too, without always relying on him to drive. His friends know they can count on him to get them home safely, but Nigel longs for a chance to relax and not always be the responsible one.
Has a Secret Sweet Tooth: Nigel’s disciplined, health-conscious nature hides a secret—he has a sweet tooth. Despite his usual resistance to indulgence, he can’t resist cookies, ice cream, or sugary treats. Kuki often catches him sneaking sweets when he thinks no one is looking. It’s a small guilty pleasure that Nigel rarely admits to, but when stressed, a few cookies or ice cream bring a rare, contented smile to his face.
Relationship with Lizzie: Nigel and Lizzie have a complex but enduring relationship. Their on-and-off dynamic has tested them both, but over time, they’ve learned to understand each other like no one else. Lizzie helps Nigel relax when he gets caught up in work, while he provides structure and focus for her. Though challenging, their deep connection and respect make them stronger individuals, committed to their unique bond.
Struggles with Emotional Vulnerability: Despite his emotional maturity, Nigel struggles with vulnerability, especially about his fears. As a leader, he’s used to being composed and strong, which makes admitting weakness hard. However, Lizzie offers a safe space for him to open up, albeit slowly. He’s learning to embrace vulnerability with trusted individuals, though it’s a continual process for him, one he’s committed to improving.
Coffee Enthusiast: Nigel has developed a passion for coffee, treating it as a hobby rather than just a caffeine fix. He experiments with different beans and brewing methods, always on the lookout for the perfect cup. Lizzie supports his interest, enjoying visits to coffee shops with him. Though she doesn't share his passion, she encourages his experiments, and he enjoys the ritual that coffee has become for him.
Coffee as a Reward: After a tough day or challenging task, Nigel rewards himself with his favorite coffee. It’s a small indulgence that allows him to relax and recharge. Lizzie knows that, when stressed, a good cup of coffee is the best way to help him unwind. Whether it's black coffee or a complex brew, Nigel savors these moments, acknowledging his hard work and taking time to rest.
Fluent in Five Languages: Nigel is fluent in five languages: English, Spanish, French, German, and Italian. His interest in language began as a way to connect with different cultures but became a lasting passion. He enjoys watching foreign films, reading international books, and conversing with people in their native languages. His linguistic skills provide him with a unique perspective, helping him understand the world in a way few others can.
Not Great at Small Talk: Although Nigel excels at formal speeches, he struggles with small talk. As student council president, he’s comfortable addressing groups, but casual conversations make him awkward. He prefers discussing ideas, strategies, and plans, which sometimes makes him appear distant. While his friends appreciate his focus and intensity, they know he’s more suited to structured conversations than spontaneous chats about everyday topics like the weather.
More Self-Aware: Nigel is becoming more aware of how his pursuit of excellence affects his relationships. He’s realizing that his drive for perfection can distance him from friends like Wally, who sometimes feel overlooked. While still learning to balance his ambition with personal connections, Nigel is committed to improving his relationships. He’s beginning to understand that success is not just about achievement but also the strength of the bonds he shares.
Not Into Sports, But Active: While not interested in traditional team sports, Nigel keeps active through individual activities like yoga and running. These exercises help him maintain both physical fitness and mental clarity, providing calm and focus. He enjoys the solitude they offer, allowing him to clear his mind and concentrate on personal goals. Nigel values discipline and mindfulness, preferring these activities over the chaos of team sports.
Decent at Texting: Nigel is a thoughtful texter, taking his time to craft well-considered responses. He avoids one-word replies, instead favoring clear, concise communication. He rarely uses emojis, seeing them as distracting, and prefers to stick to the point. While his friends might find his style dry, they understand it reflects his focused, purposeful approach to communication. For Nigel, text messages are about getting information across efficiently.
Reluctant Socializer: Nigel enjoys spending time with close friends but dislikes large social gatherings. He prefers intimate hangouts where meaningful connections can be made, and he avoids crowds. Hosting a party or mingling with many people makes him uncomfortable. Instead, he enjoys quiet nights with friends, working on projects or having deep conversations. For Nigel, it’s not about the number of people but the quality of relationships.
Picky Eater: Despite his adventurous experiences, Nigel is surprisingly picky with food. He prefers simple, familiar meals like pasta, sandwiches, and pizza, avoiding anything too exotic. His friends often tease him about his limited tastes, but Nigel sticks to what he knows. He doesn’t enjoy trying new foods unless he’s sure he’ll like them. His pickiness is part of his unique personality, and though it’s a quirk, his friends accept it.
Trivia Master: Nigel is a trivia master, always ready with an obscure fact or bit of knowledge. Whether about history, science, or languages, he’s full of random information, which comes in handy during social situations. His friends often joke that he’s a walking encyclopedia, and although it can be overwhelming, it’s one of the traits that define Nigel. He uses trivia to keep conversations going and break awkward silences.
Always Second to Last Show Up: Nigel’s punctuality is a bit of a joke among his friends. He’s always the second-last to arrive at events, often caught up in tasks or projects. His focus on work leads him to lose track of time, though he’s always quick to lecture others about being late. Despite his timing quirks, his friends have learned to accept it. His lectures, however, continue, even if he doesn’t follow his own advice.
No Nicknames: Unlike others, Nigel avoids nicknames, preferring to address people formally by their first or last names. He reserves this formality for everyone, except Wally, whom he calls by his full name, and Abby. For Nigel, it’s about keeping things professional. His friends know this is just part of who he is—no nicknames, just straightforward interactions, even if it makes him stand out in a group full of casual, nickname-heavy relationships.
Word-Based Intimidation: While not physically imposing, Nigel is incredibly skilled with his words. He can reduce someone’s confidence to nothing with a well-placed comment, using his sharp wit to control conversations. Whether exposing embarrassing details or manipulating a situation, Nigel’s verbal prowess makes him formidable. He doesn’t need to resort to physical strength; his ability to turn a conversation in his favor is often enough to leave a lasting impact.
Secret Helper: Nigel prefers working behind the scenes, quietly supporting his friends without seeking recognition. If a friend is struggling, he’s the first to step in and fix the issue without anyone knowing. Whether covering a shortfall in a fundraiser or taking care of a problem, he ensures his friends succeed, though they often don’t realize the extent of his contributions. He finds satisfaction in being the unseen force behind their achievements.
Minimal Affection: Nigel shows his affection through small, subtle actions rather than grand displays. He’s not one for hugs or public proclamations of love, preferring instead to demonstrate his care with a pat on the back or a quiet gesture. While not overtly affectionate, his actions speak volumes. Those close to him understand that these subtle expressions are his way of showing love and support, even if they’re not grand or obvious.
Dislikes Surprises: Nigel doesn’t like surprises. He thrives on structure and predictability, so unexpected changes unsettle him. If a plan is altered or something unexpected happens, it causes him stress. His friends know that giving him a heads-up about surprises can help avoid anxiety. He prefers to know what’s coming, and surprises feel like disruptions to his carefully planned life. It’s not about controlling everything—it’s about comfort in structure.
Quietly Competitive: Nigel is competitive, though it’s often not immediately obvious. He enjoys proving himself, and when others underestimate him, it fuels his desire to succeed. It’s not about winning for glory, but about showing his capability. He can get frustrated if someone doubts his abilities, and while he might seem reserved, his competitive nature is strong. It’s a quiet drive, one that pushes him to meet challenges head-on, even in subtle ways.
A Bit of a Perfectionist: Nigel is a perfectionist, always striving for the highest standards in everything he does. Whether it’s academic work, missions, or personal projects, he expects excellence from himself. This desire for perfection often leads to frustration, especially when things don’t go as planned. He’s his toughest critic, constantly pushing himself to do better. While this mindset drives him to succeed, it can also create pressure, leading to moments of dissatisfaction when results fall short.
Very Protective: Though he doesn’t always show it, Nigel is fiercely protective of his friends, especially those closest to him, like Lizzie. He’ll go to great lengths to ensure their safety, whether it’s covering for them, taking risks, or handling difficult situations. He’s not impulsive but will take calculated steps to keep them out of harm’s way. His loyalty runs deep, and while he may not make a big display, his protectiveness is always present when needed.
Not a Morning Person: Nigel is not a morning person. He’s groggy, grumpy, and generally uninterested in having long conversations when he first wakes up. He likes quiet mornings and needs some time to process before engaging with others. It’s best to leave him alone for the first half hour after he wakes up, as he’s not ready for interactions. His mood improves as the day progresses, but mornings are usually marked by his need for solitude.
Dislikes Compliments: Compliments make Nigel uncomfortable. He doesn’t seek recognition or validation, preferring to focus on the task at hand rather than basking in praise. If someone compliments him, he’ll often deflect it or redirect attention back to the work. It’s not about humility—he simply prefers to let his actions speak for themselves rather than engage in self-promotion or recognition, which he finds unnecessary and distracting from his goals.
Reluctant to Ask for Help: Despite being a capable leader, Nigel prefers handling problems on his own. Asking for help feels like a weakness to him, though he’s learning that it’s okay to lean on others. He only asks for assistance when he trusts someone deeply, knowing they can handle the task without judgment. Even then, it’s not easy for him to admit that he needs support, but he’s gradually realizing it’s a natural part of leadership.
Sarcastic Sense of Humor: Nigel’s humor is dry and sarcastic, and often goes over the heads of his friends. He delivers witty comments with deadpan precision, adding to the humor. While some might not catch on right away, those who do enjoy his wit appreciate the way he uses sarcasm to lighten the mood. His humor helps diffuse tension during difficult moments, though it’s often layered with subtlety, making it a unique form of expression for him.
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Hoagie (Numbuh 2): Hoagie and Nigel share a bond that goes beyond friendship—it’s a brotherhood forged through years of teamwork, shared experiences, and mutual respect. While their personalities differ—Hoagie’s laid-back, inventive nature contrasting with Nigel’s focused and serious leadership style—they complement each other perfectly. Hoagie’s inventive genius often helps Nigel find solutions to problems that would otherwise seem insurmountable, and Nigel’s leadership brings structure to Hoagie’s creative chaos. They’ve seen each other through thick and thin, having fought side by side in countless battles. Hoagie is not just Nigel’s best friend, but his emotional anchor, someone who makes him laugh, challenges his thinking, and helps him stay grounded. Though they occasionally clash in their approaches to leadership, their bond is unbreakable, and they always have each other’s backs when it matters most.
Kuki (Numbuh 3): Nigel has always seen Kuki as a younger sister, someone he’s protective of but also incredibly fond of. Her free-spirited, vibrant personality brings light and joy to their sometimes serious and stressful environment, and Nigel often finds himself balancing her impulsiveness with his own more calculated and strategic nature. While he appreciates Kuki’s infectious enthusiasm, he feels a strong sense of responsibility toward her well-being, always making sure she’s safe and that her sometimes reckless actions don’t put her in danger. Despite their differences—Kuki’s playful nature versus his serious approach to leadership—Nigel deeply cares for her and often serves as both a guide and protector, stepping in when things get too chaotic for her. Their sibling-like relationship is one of unwavering support and loyalty, and Kuki knows she can count on Nigel when she needs him most.
Wally (Numbuh 4): Nigel’s relationship with Wally is rooted in mutual respect, trust, and a shared history. While Wally and Nigel have very different personalities—Wally’s fiery, impulsive nature often clashes with Nigel’s more methodical approach to leadership—they share an unspoken bond that goes beyond just friendship or teamwork. Their connection is one of deep understanding, built on years of working together and facing challenges as a team. Wally, like Hoagie, is one of Nigel’s closest allies, but their relationship is also more professional due to their shared roles as leaders. Despite their occasional disagreements or differences in approach, Nigel trusts Wally implicitly, knowing that when it comes down to it, Wally will always have his back and vice versa. There is an unspoken communication between them, an understanding that they don’t need to explain everything in words because they know each other so well. Their bond is one of respect, loyalty, and a shared commitment to the mission.
Abigail (Numbuh 5): Nigel shares a strong, sibling-like bond with Abigail, who he sees as one of his closest allies. Her level-headedness and practicality offer him the grounding he often needs, especially when he becomes overly focused on the intensity of his duties as a leader. In many ways, Abigail is his voice of reason, offering advice that helps him balance the weight of leadership with the everyday challenges they face. Their dynamic is rooted in mutual respect, trust, and a shared sense of responsibility for the team. While their personalities may differ, they have a deep understanding of one another, and Nigel knows he can always rely on her for support, perspective, and even a dose of tough love when needed. He often turns to Abigail for guidance, knowing she’ll provide honest and thoughtful feedback. In return, he looks out for her, recognizing how hard she works and how much she sacrifices for the mission and her friends.
His family
Monty: Nigel has always shared a close, supportive bond with his father, Monty, who has served as a role model and idol in his life. Growing up, Monty’s unwavering dedication to the KND inspired Nigel to follow in his footsteps, instilling in him a strong work ethic and sense of responsibility. Monty is the one who encouraged Nigel’s early leadership skills and allowed him the space to develop into the leader he is today, offering guidance while respecting Nigel’s independence. Their relationship is built on mutual respect, trust, and a shared passion for the KND’s mission. Monty is a constant source of inspiration, reminding Nigel of the importance of family and legacy. While Monty’s role as a KND legend often looms large, Nigel cherishes their moments together and always looks to him for advice when the weight of leadership becomes heavy.
Mrs. Uno: Nigel has a loving and deeply emotional connection with his mother. She is the steadying force in his life, offering a sense of stability and unwavering emotional support. Whenever Nigel feels the pressure of leadership or is overwhelmed by his responsibilities, she is the one he turns to for reassurance and guidance. Their relationship is filled with quiet moments of understanding, where words aren’t always necessary, but her presence alone provides Nigel with a sense of calm. While Nigel’s commitment to the KND often keeps him occupied, Mrs. Uno remains a crucial part of his life. Her belief in him never wavers, and she continues to be an essential pillar of support, even if she sometimes feels overshadowed by his dedication to his KND role. The bond they share is one of unconditional love and mutual admiration.
Grandfather: Nigel’s relationship with his grandfather is one rooted in respect and admiration. While their interactions are not as frequent as those with his immediate family, Nigel highly values the wisdom his grandfather imparts. His grandfather’s legacy within the KND is something Nigel takes great pride in, and he cherishes every moment spent learning from him. Though their bond is not as emotionally close as with his parents, Nigel looks up to his grandfather as a source of family history and tradition. He is a steady reminder of the strong foundation that has been laid before him, and Nigel often finds himself reflecting on the past as he carries the family legacy forward.
Benedict Uno (Father): Nigel’s relationship with Benedict, is fraught with tension and emotional distance. Benedict’s past as a villain and his role as an enemy of the KND is something that Nigel cannot reconcile. He deeply resents Benedict’s actions, particularly his involvement with the Delightful Children from Down the Lane, and struggles to understand how someone so close to him could stand for everything he opposes. Their interactions are cold, and his strained relationship leaves Nigel feeling conflicted, as he knows that family ties are important but cannot overlook the pain Benedict’s choices have caused. As a result, their connection remains distant, and Nigel continues to distance himself from Benedict’s influence.
Numbuh 10: Nigel shares a friendly and professional relationship with Numbuh 10, although their bond isn’t especially close. While he respects her contributions to the KND and acknowledges her skills, he keeps their interactions cordial and professional, mainly due to his awareness of potential tension or jealousy with Lizzie. Nigel is mindful of the dynamic between the two women and goes out of his way to avoid anything that could create conflict. Although they don’t share a deep personal connection, there is mutual respect between them, and Nigel values her support and input within the team. He makes sure to keep the relationship strictly professional to avoid any misunderstandings or unnecessary complications.
Lizzie: Nigel is deeply in love with Lizzie, though their relationship can sometimes be complicated by their differing perspectives. Despite their occasional disagreements, their bond is built on a deep emotional connection that goes beyond just romantic feelings. Lizzie has a grounding influence on Nigel, helping him relax and unwind when his responsibilities begin to take a toll. Her calming presence offers him the balance he often needs to stay focused and emotionally steady. Though their personalities can clash—especially when Nigel becomes too absorbed in his duties—Lizzie’s love and support remain a constant in his life. She is his rock, the one person who can challenge him in a way that helps him grow while also providing the comfort and reassurance he needs. Nigel relies on her more than he admits, and he values her unwavering support, often seeking her out when he’s unsure or overwhelmed by his leadership role.
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cosmicpuzzle · 2 years ago
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Planets in Cancer ♋ and your Mother 👩
If you have planets in cancer, it describes your relationship with mother better than the placement of Moon.
Sun in Cancer: Your mother is inspiring but could have had high expectations of you.
Moon in Cancer: Your mother is nurturing but can prevent you from becoming an independent person. Probably a bit moody mother.
Mars in Cancer: Your mother probably had temper issues and your relationship was irritating. She could push you often beyond your limits and was demanding often.
Mercury in Cancer: Your mother was probably intelligent and was interested in your academics. Probably not an emotionally close relationship but active one.
Venus in Cancer: Your mother loved you and spoilt you with everything. She was loving and sweet but possibly self indulgent.
Jupiter in Cancer: Your mother guided you well and was an inspiration to you. She was generous and forgiving. She could have been extravagant.
Saturn in Cancer: Your mother disciplined you and did not show much affection. She could have had lot of emotional issues herself and had difficulty expressing love and affection.
Rahu in Cancer: Mother was probably overboard and eccentric. Your nurturing was inconsistent and she was a different person everyday which kept you guessing. She had psychic difficulties.
Ketu in Cancer: Mother was probably quite distant and isolated from you. You never felt her presence and support. You could feel disconnected from your mother. In some cases might have lost mother early. Mother was emotionally absent and was intuitive.
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astrolovecosmos · 2 years ago
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Planets' Detriment
When a planet is detriment in a sign that planet is uncomfortable, it is hard for its energy to be expressed. Some describe a planet in detriment as being weakened. There are a lot of challenges for these placements, but every placement has its strengths. The detriment can be like the planet is playing on hard mode, sometimes the planet's influence or area of life can feel like a test. But there can be unexpected advantages and insights by overcoming and understanding the detrimental position pros and cons.
Sun is detriment in Aquarius, finding that it spends a lot of its time thinking about others, especially their peers. Despite Aquarius being famous for their independence and aloofness, their humanitarian trait and focus on the group can make them less self-focused. The Sun is about self-expression and when in Aquarius that expression becomes unconventional. It's interesting that the Sun (personality, ego, vitality, self-expression) is detriment in a sign associated with individuality. But the Sun is a warm, gregarious, generous, powerful, authoritative, possibly traditional, leading planet. The Sun wants to be the influence, the change, the heat. Aquarius is about innovation, the unknown, unpredictability, curiosity, and progress. Sun in Aries is confident, action-taking, and self-focused and Sun in Leo is exuberant, brave, and proud. The self is potent and defined in these two fire signs, whereas in cooler, chaotic Aquarius the self or personality may be hard to understand by others. Aquarius may have times of being confident and sure of their personality, they can be willful, stubborn, and opinionated - I would not describe them as being subtle or fluid but they are extreme, windy, and their desire for change can bring misunderstanding, recklessness, and loneliness. This desire for change or even mayhem coupled with their focus on the group can also make them a passionate and devoted follower of trends, ideas, beliefs, maybe people. Their follower side brings a huge detriment to the royal Sun. But this placement is still highly emotionally and socially intelligent + traditionally "book smart" or academic as well. They are original and has a keen intuition for trends, technology, and general societal changes. The Aquarius-Leo axis is all about leadership, individuality, society, collective vs. individual. Aquarius can still be an amazing and inspirational leader. They can be charismatic, convincing, a visionary, supportive, utilitarian, intelligent, communicative, observant, ready, and accepting. Aquarius is the leader you want during unsure times. When the Sun is in Aquarius it experiences both being with the in-crowd and being the misfit, it has a chance to plug into the hivemind as well as complete disconnection. Here the Sun must live inside and outside labels.
Moon is detriment in Capricorn, here it feels restricted. When the Moon is in Capricorn there is an attempt to control emotions. Moon in Capricorn is self-disciplined, pragmatic, critical, and tends to try to control their home and family. The Moon here struggles to tap into intuition, express feelings, and may brush insecurities and sensitivities under the rug. Unaddressed issues are likely to be common. Moon in Capricorn's internal world is an attempt to dry out or contain the ocean. Moon in Capricorn can see their emotions as a weakness or as unimportant. The detriment for this placement is clear - surrounding control and emotional blockage. Moon in Capricorn should aim to be a lighthouse or sturdy boat vs. an attempt to silence, calm, or direct their own waters. It is important to note Capricorn Moon does not struggle to understand and feel their emotions or inner, private self but struggles with accepting, expressing, and utilizing it. The Moon is a symbol of the magic and power that comes with our emotional self. While Moon in Capricorn can face many challenges, they are still dependable, loyal, hardworking, and responsible. Capricorn's seriousness, logic, and sense of duty when accepting of their vulnerabilities and willing to listen to their intuition can be insightful, resourceful, calm, patient, and maybe even wise and imaginative. Capricorn like a lighthouse can help guide others, be a mentor, leader, protector, or provider. Capricorn is adaptable, dynamic, and enduring - they can be an unsinkable ship on a wild ocean, but they can only do this by getting familiar with their own waters vs. ignoring or trying to control them. All of these positives are associated with growth, even without active growth Moon in Capricorn can have a unique perspective in terms of the emotional world. They try to manage themselves entirely, leaving little room for mistakes. They are hard to embarrass, intimidate, and shake. They have strong survival instincts. They tend to be good listeners, can take their character or integrity seriously, and at the end of the day they are the least likely to allow their emotions to blind them. While other signs may be more in tune with their emotions, Capricorn at least won't drown or be impulsive.
Mercury is detriment in Sagittarius, pushed into asking the big questions and operating in a broad, abstract, and spirited way. Even though Mercury is a flexible, curious, and sometimes scattered influence, it still tends to deal with the factual, details, logic, and what is said or shared. Sagittarius is a sign of theory, philosophy, beliefs, ethics/morals, truth, exaggeration, storytelling, impatience, risk, and freedom. Mercury is about the words said, the facts from the textbook whereas Sagittarius is the meaning or intention behind the words and the impression or belief surrounding a text. Mercury rules over all communication, the mind, and learning but it is most associated with gossip, tact, wit, debate, eloquence, humor, persuasion, friendliness, and reasoning. Whereas Sagittarius is all about being forward and blunt, their honesty can be brutal. Sagittarius can be an eternal student or student of life and has plenty of traits or associations that can keep up with this high-energy planet, but they are brazen and are always looking to the future or asking "what ifs". Mercury in Sagittarius frequently puts their foot in their mouth, may be clumsy, could lack manners or just tact, they can trip over words or frequently interrupt others. But I should be careful not to paint a picture of this placement as being purely awkward, rude, and/or a bad communicator. The challenge or weakness Mercury has in Sagittarius is more about the sign's expansive nature and always thinking within uncertainty and the intangible. Mercury in Sagittarius can fall into hypocrisy, bigotry, self-righteousness, haughtiness, can become opinionated, be zealous and overbearing with their beliefs, may develop a temper, and may face challenges surrounding factual truth vs. personal truth. Sagittarius is closely connected to both an open mind or a closed one. Mercury in Sagittarius struggles to focus, can be insensitive, can have a forgetful side, is hard to satisfy or calm, may be carefree or unbothered by how things work which can offer a unique perspective on things but also be an area of restlessness or nervousness. Mercury in Sagittarius can also be motivating, optimistic, funny, catches and keeps others' attention, can be a great teacher, inquisitive, deep, exciting, playful, trusting, and sometimes honest to a fault. Mercury can learn to be adventurous and brashly confident in Sagittarius. Here Mercury must rely more on instinct, action, and luck than knowledge.
Venus is detriment in Aries, becoming self-focused, not afraid of conflict, and at times may prefer separation, independence, competition, and confrontation. Venus in Aries tends to be attracted to those who are a challenge or "hard to get"- a reward or competition to win. They can also be attracted to those who are confident, passionate, and Aries-like. This placement also finds flattery, admiration, attention, and being desired attractive and some may define these as a must in their relationships. At the center of this placement is the love for the self and/or pursuing one's desires. Venus does not like conflict, tends to not be the most competitive, is all about attraction and magnetism vs. action, and finds itself strained and heated in Aries. Venus in Aries can struggle with cooperation, compromise, rejection, and is known for being a selfish partner. But Aries is also known for generosity. This placement can be very ardent and romantic and is famous for having a high libido. They are known for falling in and out of love fast. They tend to burn through relationships quickly, can easily confuse lust for love, gets carried away in new relationships, and gets bored easily. Venus is about relating, persuading, connecting, charming, attracting, loving, and intimacy. Venus in Aries weakness is in struggling to join and relate. They have no problem standing on their own and may need to learn how to listen, give, relate, and sympathize in their relationships. They need to be more open to depending on another or taking care of others. But Venus is also about rivalry, and Aries has this down. Venus being about relationships does not always = a good relationship, harmony, or peace. Venus in Aries embraces competition in the social realm and in love but needs to be careful of always competing against or fighting with their loved ones. They can also be bossy and demanding of loved ones. But Venus in Aries can be a powerful placement for self-love, boundaries, and may have a lot of strength and motivation to leave a toxic relationship. When devoted Venus in Aries will always keep the passion burning, can be adaptable in relationships, can be fun and spontaneous, has confidence in their partner, and may find surprising joy in pleasing a partner or feel needed and important in relationships.
Mars is detriment in Libra, finding it hard to assert themselves and act decisively. Here Mars wants peace and harmony and while this can be positive, this Mars placement struggles with conflict and pressure. Mars in Libra can be easygoing and patient. They can give into people pleasing or may be highly evasive. Mars in Libra may swing from being changeable to opinionated easily. But Mars has a chance in Libra to become persuasive, cooperative, compromising, and understanding. Justice being associated with this sign gives Mars a chance to play judge or lawyer. They can have great mediating and/or networking skills and are usually logical and level-headed. While they may struggle to stand up for themselves, with confidence, and putting other's feelings, impressions, or needs above their own, Mars in Libra is usually not easily excitable, intimidated, or shaken. Mars in Libra may protect themselves through a laidback exterior, a dispassionate or detached approach, or with adaptability, distraction, and deflection. Mars in Libra also gives this fiery, passionate, sometimes brutal or aggressive planet an appreciation, maybe confidence, and intensity or willpower behind beauty, romance, giving, connecting, and equality or complementing. Mars in Libra could have a dependent side but the air element does crave independence and space, having a balance of this is very important for this placement. Being an air sign conflict typically lives in the realm of intellect, gossip, communication, arguing, ideas, and social issues or socialization. But Mars in Fire and especially its native signs Aries or the maelstrom Scorpio wants to win or conquer in conflict. Mars in Air and especially Libra wants to tie, compromise, debate, solve with rules, laws, maybe even boundaries, and sometimes make a deal. Mars in Libra - a sign associated with Venus the planet of love, lust, and desire can be something the planet Mars can relate to. Mars is also connected to intimacy, lust, desire, and romance. While Libra/Venus represents many opposites to Aries/Mars even when Mars is in detriment in Libra it can fall deeply, quickly, and recklessly in love or infatuation.
Jupiter is detriment in Gemini, here Jupiter may feel weighed down by the mundane or technical, or find it hard to stick to one path or continue to move forward. Jupiter in Gemini can be scattered with growth, individuals with this placement may struggle with patience, listening, or focus. Jupiter in Gemini can struggle to not only stick to a goal but find one. Jupiter is the planet of growth, abundance, luck, prophecy, religion, travel, indulgence, knowledge and wisdom, optimism, generosity, and faith. Here Jupiter lacks ambition, belief or trust in others, a system, or self, and possibly bravery or passion. Jupiter in Gemini at times may struggle to see the big picture or gets easily distracted by everyday stresses and worries, curiosities, learning, trends, or short-term fascinations. This age group may be very familiar with flakiness, gossip, petty drama, talkative people or conversationalist being admired or common, obsession or concern with social status, experiences the pros and cons of rivalry, fears misunderstandings, isolation, or exclusion, but also may have many friendly people, could frequently be supportive of one another or causes, embraces new ideas, can easily understand and get on each other's wavelengths, and may value community, friendship, education, and open or free communication. Jupiter may find itself unsure and find it hard to learn lessons in Gemini, but it still can find luck, positivity, and/or growth by being open-minded, flexible, social, staying curious or constantly learning, and playful. Jupiter is an indulgent and spirited planet that acts on instinct. Gemini is spontaneous and energetic. When Jupiter is in this buzzing, quick-witted sign it can be impulsive or reckless. Jupiter in Gemini can overpromise, tell tall tales or exaggerate, be mischievous, hypocritical, and opinionated. One of this placement's biggest weaknesses is a struggle to plan and commit. They may be opportunist, have an entrepreneurial spirit, maybe have con artist tendencies, fit in well within the gig economy or temporary work, and may have a knack for networking. Jupiter in Gemini may be forced to live in the moment a lot. They need to make change, excitement, and newness their comfort zone. Jupiter in Gemini finds confidence in intellect, sciences, or studies, and may live a life of constant growth through change.
Saturn is detriment in Cancer, frequently struggling to leave behind the past. Saturn is the planet of maturity, growth, boundaries, responsibility, purpose, and structure. When in moody, watery Cancer Saturn can find it hard to keep up their boundaries, may give into immaturity, childish selfishness, or insecurities. Saturn in Cancer puts their emotional wants and needs above all else. In some ways Saturn in Cancer's devotion is to emotional wellbeing and stimulation, coming in 2nd after that is devotion to loved ones. They may not fit into society's standard of "maturity, authority, or success". Saturn in Cancer also easily gets stuck in sulking, self-pity, nostalgia, and grudges. But this placement has an amazing ability to embrace and even use their vulnerability as an advantage. They can get in touch with and heal their inner child. Saturn in Cancer likely cares more about their family than society, community, career, or reputation. Cancer makes Saturn more imaginative, gentle, introspective, and intuitive. Speaking of intuition, following their heart or hunches may be key to maturity and survival. The responsibility of caring for others may be a hallmark for them. This may be a group of protectors and healers. While discourse may exist from subjects of betrayal, abandonment, family drama, and general bad blood, they can be an adaptable, cooperative group who mostly value patriotism, loyalty, hard work, practicality, and compassion. Saturn can surround important themes of protection and providing. In this way Cancer can fit in almost naturally despite all the detriment the placement can bring. Saturn can feel out of control, messy, unbalanced, and hypersensitive here, but there is stability and wisdom in Cancer's connection to heritage, tradition, roots, and family love.
Uranus is detriment in Leo, finding that themes of arrogance, selfishness, and abuse of power are common. The most confident and charismatic with this placement tend to make waves and changes during this age or in this part of a generation. Uranus in Leo can also find a new appreciation and fuel for creativity and originality. This time period or people may ask a lot of questions about individuality, taking care of the self, needs vs. desires, and self-love and empowerment. When Uranus is in Leo the planet of change and chaos brings upheaval in leadership, politics, royalty, power, influence, and fame. Uranus's weakness in Leo is in the separation and division of a collective or a person's ability to not be part of a group due to competitiveness, cocky behavior, a feeling or belief of superiority, being bossy, and maybe a temper. But Uranus in Leo has a lot of willpower, and these individuals will likely make a major or unforgettable impact with their lives. Uranus in Leo is all about independence, freedom, personal authority, and self-expression. They can be brave and inspiring but most with this placement tend to act alone or are purely motivated by self-interest. Those with fragile egos, who struggle with speaking their mind, the timid, overly trusting, open-minded and open-hearted, and blunt or overly honest may struggle a lot during this time period or with this placement. But this is a time or placement that shows how important people are on an individual level and the power they hold. Artistic freedom or celebration, recreation, passion, respect, affection, generosity, and the promotion of joy and excitement are all tools that are important to any rebellion or revolution this Uranus placement brings. Those topics are also helpful for healing after the mayhem. Uranus's exaltation is in Scorpio who is a group or time that focuses on the regeneration of the self, psyche, and collective emotional understanding. Uranus's detriment in Leo focuses more on a group's ability to stand on their own with outer power. Both are actually very self-focused. But Leo is a sign of creation, life, rule over life and Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth. Change, transformation, and liberation usually are surrounded with themes of death in our stories and beliefs for a reason. But even with this common idea, Uranus in Leo signifies change that is usually hopeful. An example is all of the celebration, hope, excitement, and liberation but also power struggles of the late 1950's and the early 1960s.
Neptune is detriment in Virgo, finding this structured, organized sign feels restrictive or tiring. Neptune in Virgo tends to swing from being hypercritical and overly realistic to getting lost in unrealistic expectations and fantasies of perfection. Neptune may feel less imaginative, soft, or fluid when in Virgo. Neptune in Virgo may get easily impatient or disappointed with their peers and loved ones. Neptune here doesn't like to bother with the random, ridiculous, taboo, or impolite. Neptune in Virgo finds that in their search for truth, purity, and goodness or wholesomeness there can be a lot of illusions, distortion, and surprises. It is in Virgo's rationality, logic, attention to detail, and its association with the mundane, reality, or everyday life that makes Neptune feel or express weakly. Neptune was in Virgo during the crash of Wall Street and filled the 1930s with harsh reality checks and struggles. But this time frame also gave way to needed changes and policies. This generation is now known for their strength, frugality, and cooperation. Neptune is about higher causes, dreams, illusions, sacrifice, spirituality, imagination, and more. When in Virgo Neptune is pushed to focus on intellect, facts, and discernment. In general when Neptune is in an earth sign, there is an opportunity to become a generation that makes dreams a reality. There can be a complementing dynamic of imagination, visionary ideas and being practical. Neptune in Virgo individuals can be giving, self-sacrificing, and understands how to work with others towards a goal or may have a desire to help their fellow man. Neptune in Virgo can have a knack for teaching or guiding others, they are supportive, and gives constructive or helpful advice. Despite Neptune in Virgo's troubles, this is a placement that gives back, is adaptable yet tough, likely made up of two extremes of being down-to-earth or highly uptight and proper, and has powerful healing, serving, and crafting capabilities.
Pluto is detriment in Taurus, finding that it is frequently pulled to play it safe. Pluto in Taurus can find it hard to let go of the past or current situations, can be materialistic, may have a vain streak, is cautious, practical, and values security, stability, and possibly loyalty above all else. Change is hard during this time period and a generation with this placement may be highly resourceful - and this may come from being forced to be resourceful. Pluto hates predictability, stagnation, passiveness, indecision, or hesitation. It is the planet of power, rebirth, compulsion, obsession, elimination, destruction, and regrowth. It is a planet that demands action and transformation. In Taurus though things take time. These individuals can be persistent, enduring, practical, and will likely have a good eye for quality. This may be a time period where the real, high-quality, or sincere is asked for. The economy, wealth, and possessions will likely be greatly transformed under this placement. Pluto in Taurus can become grounded, is hard working, stubborn, maybe opinionated, and extremely determined. Pluto in Taurus may ask questions about values, what is valued, worth, beauty, and security. Taurus is known as a peaceful sign, associated with contentment, attraction, and relaxation. But Pluto will always be about death and rebirth, the last time Pluto was in Taurus was during the American Civil War and during industrialization. The changes, suffering, and power during this time may bring some form of peace or it may improve standards of living, but it won't spare a generation of transformation. Even though Pluto feels weak or strange in Taurus, this placement embodies willpower. The beliefs these people hold will be guiding, they may overcome challenges or make changes by sheer force, necessity, and perseverance.
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avissapiens · 1 year ago
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How to be a Bull Ch 7: Work
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((FINALLY got to this one. Sorry yall.)) (Model is Elton Mota)
A prejudiced view might find it strange to see a Bull at such lofty heights in the corporate ladder. The uninitiated would see their size and assume that they have nothing to offer but eye-candy.
But our market research has shown that a large percentage of bulls actually thrive in high-achieving positions. Advertising, PR, R&D. Skilled professionals from doctors and lawyers to esteemed academics often get bit by the bull bug.
There is a clear set of transferable skills acquired when you spend your non-working hours totally gym obsessed. Discipline, Patience, Self-direction. Being able to work yourself, withstand the strain of constant progressive overload and always come back the next day ready for more.
Couple that with the bull lifestyle being more expensive than one would expect; with tons of protein, supplements and something’s extra. With specially tailored apparel because normal stores can’t contain your bulk any longer. With hyper-exclusive gym memberships and competition fee’s because that unending lust for growth requires constant improvement of facilities and community who shares your addiction.
The end result for the company is a driven, growth obsessed highly skilled worker who excels in handling large, well defined projects well ahead of the deadline because they know their muscle is at stake if they don’t.
*insert abyssal chanting*
Elton is the go-to guy for those big accounts at the Avis Athletics Agency. The look of absolute focus and fire in his eyes is sometimes frightening. Total dedication given to both sides of his life. They synthesize so naturally for him. It's like he puts every muscle and sinew into his work, and lets his work fuel every inch of growth. 
The gym at Agency HQ is state of the art, an obvious requirement given our team. But for Elton it basically functions as a secondary office space. On the phone talking with clients while he reps out a new PB on company time. He says his mind works best and is clearest when pumping iron. That pure euphoria of the mind-muscle connection truly boosting his performance through the roof. It’s such a potent addiction that when the gym was closed for maintenance for a month, the CFO offered to let Elton use his private suite just to keep his numbers high.
Company meetings with Elton are likewise a key to his productivity. The tight business attire straining around his form does end up distracting and reducing the overall work done by anyone else in the room, yes. But something about the attention drives our highest earning bull into a frenzy. Like his own personal audience. Intimately aware of how he outsizes every single man in the room. Going through the plan for an acquisition or a partnership deal that’ll PUMP PUMP PUMP the stock prices through the roof. Unconsciously flexing every time he gestures for a prop, veins visible beneath the sheer fabric of his dress shirt. Excitement palpable in the air as sweat trickles down that massive back, the fabric of his slacks starting to tighten even more. The rest of the boardroom doesn’t even need to speak. They know he’s got it.
In one wild 9-5 he gets the project that was slated to take 2 weeks on the CEO’s desk. Without a word he packed up and headed straight to the gym to unleash all that pent up energy. The CEO made a mental note to schedule more board meetings with Elton, and to make sure that his Holiday bonus was more than enough to ensure he came back from vacation 20lbs of pure muscle heavier 
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battelcry · 4 months ago
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(Tw for suicide again)
One thing i really love about Father Ares being my patron deity is how he's always there when I'm studying for my especially Greek and Latin exams and drives me even more to be better in terms of work ethic, productivity and discipline.
I mean... I'm sure for many of you He's definitely not the first go-to deity to seek help for academic matters but when you pray and let him guide you he's just amazing (like in everything) like teachers you had when you were little who were somewhat despotic and annoying in the eyes of little students but as the end of the year approaches you just realise how endearing and full of love he is. He is legitimately that when you're studying with him and his guidance.
I've heard a lot of times that many other Ares worshippers or devotees experienced his love as tough, which wasn't the case for me—Until i studied... I shouldn't have any shame to admit that I'm sometimes like a sloth and unfortunately very perfectionistic so i end up being extremely overwhelmed about my studies and my future anytime i fail doing the littlest thing and spend weeks in academia-induced existential dread where i can make space for studying more instead of worrying. That is for sure something I'm practicing in order for consistency and proper discipline in every aspect of life.
Thankfully, my dear father holds my hand there too. It wasn't even until a month ago i started my major in Classics and i was totally estranged and scared of everything even if it was my interest—and in some way a religious practice, Isn't it? I was contemplating ending it all honestly, again but when he's right there i just know that he won't let me, not even by a single chance.
You can't defeat the army of your unwanted self who serves you not by deserting. In the battle with the self deserting will only bring the army with you. No victors nor winners, then you will ask yourself what was all the fighting for if at the end both are obliterated. Dostoevsky wrote in Crime and Punishment 'And your worst sin is that you have destroyed and betrayed yourself for nothing.' What victory will it bring deserting if not only the excruciating betrayal to oneself? Will it ever worth?
Father made me ask these questions to myself in my times of distress and crisis. His warning was rather tough this time, but crucial for sure. Slowly I'm breaking my patterns of perfectionism stemmed actlessness. My harsh process of regulating my fear towards the future as well. It's tough but I'm learning discipline and consistency in my work and I'm so thankful that he holds my hand and leads the way.
He is like a father holding his little baby by their arms and making them take little steps until they are walking on their own even if they will evidentally fall within seconds. The baby will cry and scream with pain but their father will ease the wounds and hold their arms for more steps.
The baby is you. He will make you cry, he will let you feel your worst. But only for the things you will learn at the end, he will keep teaching you regardless.
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May this be an offering in the name of him. I'm again, so lucky and thankful for having his support no matter how stubborn and insufferable I can be sometimes. Praise be Father Ares. My love for him is just unexplainable with the words of human vernacular.
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