#SHOULDN'T BE ASHAMED!!! ^_^
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ive had the young ones theme song stuck in my head all day
#ONCE IN EVERY LIFETIMEEEE#COMES A' LOVE LIIKE THISSSS#OH I NEED YOU#YOU NEED ME#OH M YDARLING CAN'T YOU SEEEE#YOUNG ONESS#DARLING WE'RE THE YOUNG ONESSS#THE YOUNG ONESSSS#SHOULDN'T BE ASHAMED!!! ^_^#TO LIVE#LOVE#THERES A SONG TO BE SUNGGG#CUZ WE MAY NOT#BE THE YOUNG ONES#VERY LOONGGG#shut up mars
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whumpee holding back their cries for mercy, because they know they don't deserve any mercy, and won't be given any anyways.
#and they feel so very ashamed and wrong because of their sense of self-preservation!!! like all they deserve is punishment!!!!#they shouldn't even hope for anything else!!!!! they should just take it!!! they deserve it!!! they don't deserve to even cry!!!!#and “know” between quotes if we're talking outside of whumpee's pov of course🥰 its just that i want it to be inmersive#whumper turned whumpee#villain whumpee#whump#whump idea#whump prompt#cat says stuff#....#deidamia rotari (oc)#I KNOW I KNOW ITS ALWAYS HER BUT HER BRO. HER...#whump scenario#emotional whump#what other tags....#previously evil whumpee?#hated whumpee#idk
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Space themed System ask game based on common fakeclaim "criteria" because these things are valid and cool actually
🛰-Do you have a large headcount?
👾-Do any alters in your system have typing quirks?
🚀-Does your system have any Non-human alters?
☄️-Is your system neurodivergent?
🔭-Does your system use neo Pronouns?
🌠-Do any of the alters in your system have dyed hair?
🌙-Are there any nonverbal alters in your system?
🪐-Does your system have Angry or "dangerous" persecutors?
💫-Do your littles use 'little-speech?'
🌌-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches?
🌟-Does your system have fairly clear communication?
🌘-Do you have a large or complex headspace?
🛸-Do any alters in your system have exo-memories?
👽Does your system have any tics?
☀️-is your system bad at masking?
✨️-Do any alters in your system have an accent?
🌎-Do any alters in your system speak in a different language?
☁️-Does your system use things like pluralkit and simply plural?
⭐️-are you out about being a system?
This will probably flop but!!! I had fun making it<3
Endos and their supporters dni :')
#Again to clarify I think all of these things are valid and wonderful. And you shouldn't be ashamed of these things if they apply to you#Sincerely a diagnosed system#system stuff#traumagenic system#Traumagenic system#plural system#osdd system#actually did#System ask game#plural community#system community#sysblr#system#actually plural#Endos dni#Sorry so many tags I'm learning which ones work and which ones don't:')#plural ask game
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I hear sometimes people saying things like "I want a partner but I don't want to hide my fanfiction habits so I guess I'll stay single" and I always want to be like "no... there is a better world... date someone who will write thousands of words of self-insert fanfiction with you... find the ones who will be cringe on main with you..."
#this is mostly a joke post about my relationship with my partner#but also all jests aside even if you and your partner don't have the same interests#they shouldn't make you feel ashamed of the things you love#i recognize that it would feel very awkward for many people to talk about fanfiction on the first date#but honestly Would I Feel Comfortable Telling Them About My Fanfiction is a pretty good litmus test for trust and support in a relationship#this is true for non-romantic relationships too btw
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RPF is actually evil
I was gonna put a rant under the cut, but I'm so disgusted i was ever a part of this culture.... bleugh... and this video sums it up pretty well anyway
#anti rpf#anti phan#I'm so ashamed of my past mould-induced actions :(( aw man#how could i do this to these random guys??? honestly I shouldn't care cause they're just some guys so like#but STILL#writing fanfiction about real people?? sick!!
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Idk I just hate when people get offended when someone says "Sasuke was mentally unstable" Like okay 1- he broke out into genuine LAUGHTER and I dont understand how you can't be a little weirded out by that and 2- Being mentally unstable isn't like??? A bad thing???
Like??? Being unstable or mentally unwell is in no circumstance a bad thing. You're sick. Would you refute it with the same vigor if I said he had the flu too? Like idk it might just be me but Sasuke finally breaking down makes so much sense for his journey. Like I get people who just explain it away or don't like that hc. But people who outwardly get offended and hurt by me saying he was unwell like? Its really not that serious and it says a LOT about you that you can't handle your favourite character being sick.
#Like it might just be because of my personal experience#But if someone started yelling on my behalf and saying when I started trying to tear my skin off and pull my hair out I was completely-#-Sound of mind I would be kind of pissed off#Like can we stop treating mental illness like its some shameful thing#"Oh yaya mental illness is a sickness and u shouldn't be ashamed of it! Oh... but no my favourite character doesn't have that... bc#“He's really cool sooo that wouldn't happen to him!!!”#Do they know#LOOK AT HOW RIDICULOUS THAT SOUNDS LIKE... MY BROTHER IN CHRIST PLEASE SAY YOU KNOW#Its like when people try to pretend Sasuke has both his arms bc its too difficult to write someone who only has one#HMMMM????? OH YEAH IT IS A LITTLE DIFFICULT TO LIVE WITH ONE ARM YEAH#Like Sasuke is physically disabled after shippuden lets stop trying to erase that#Naruto has like. No disabled representation. Why are you taking away the one character we get??#I'm not here to shit anyone even if it seems like that a little#I'm a bit sour about it- but that doesn't mean I won't read and like and comment on a fic that gives Sasuke his arm back#But I feel like its been way too normalised to just try and erase that from Sasukes character#Imo Sasuke was mentally unwell in his actions but his choices were justified. He is disabled and -as most disabled people are- is strong-#-enough to live with it and thrive#pro sasuke uchiha#pro sasuke#It's a difficult concept to try and understand if you're not disabled or ill yourself but if you're able bodied please try to get it#It's a little hurtful when people try to erase all representation of the community#I'm not missing any limbs myself- but I do have a physical disability that severely impacts my ability to maneuver#And seeing people avoid writing about it and skimming over it like it's nothing feels a little off#sasuke uchiha#naruto#naruto shippuden#moldy-flowers#Sasuke
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the fact that currently helena is probably the closest to being an allie to the innies is truly so funny to me
#she's learning that she is helly and that she shouldn't be ashamed of that part of her bur embrace it#and mark s ofc#the trojan horse wasn't a person it was love#the love hellyna feels for mark is gonna bring the company down#helena eagan#severance#hellyna
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oh im being so lazy and useless and shit hnnnngnnnnrff I'm even trying to finish a thing for my class but im so behind on everything I literally do nothing for these classes idk ughhh
#im so ashamed of myself every. time. and i never change i never ever ever ever ever ever ever change for the better ever#i am a machine who turns the tiniest bit of effort into no effort into negative amounts of effort#my prof is going ti see how little I've done i haven't done shit#whatever whatever whatever it shouldn't matter it really shouldn't but I'm insane about this and i can't be normal about feeling#ashamed for a SECOND
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"as silly as a lamb, as clumsy as a goat, in the palm of my hand, mine to never share.”
"ah ah, don’t cry lamb, don’t cry…please..”
--DNI NSFW--
♠︎ blows smoke rings in your face and when you scrunch up, boops your nose with a little giggle
♠︎ often grabs you by the back of you collar when you try to run off down sketchy alleyways (that he was going to go down anyways, he just doesn’t want you to run ahead)
♠︎ primarily calls you lamb. because you are frail and weak but above all, persistent and headstrong just like one.
♠︎ hates your street clothes. he dresses you in suits, shoes, and other expensive things that remind him of what it would be like to be him when he was young and way less poor.
♠︎ once he decides to pick you up off the streets and take you under his wing, he immediately dumps you in a vat of warm water and just starts scrubbing. you are unthinkably dirty and he cannot deal with dirty things.
♠︎ he doesn’t like it when you cry, in fact, he hates it and doesn’t know what to do with himself. he’s inquisitive though, so he lifts your hair out of your eyes with a gloved hand and puts the tip of his finger on your chin to tilt your face up so you can look him in his eyes. endless darkness meeting a watery baby face.. he begs, pleads you to not let another tear drop. He can’t take it.
♠︎ enjoys being called mama over papa and taking you to fancy places where you can “expand” your palate. it most often ends in a dine and dash but that's nothing new to you.
♠︎ seeing as he’s known everywhere, the managers can’t really deny him for fear of violence, and so they let him in, take everyone’s orders, and pray for peace.
♠︎ dances with you. a lot and everywhere. to some imaginary tune he makes up that he hums. he grabs you by the hands on the sidewalk and starts moving them back and forth as he crouches down, down, down, with every shift, obscure humming getting louder and louder until you’re giggling on the street and being spun around by a firm hand on your wrist and another on the small of your back
♠︎ hates card games. too many ways to cheat. and too many ways to win. the concept should be rid of at worst and completely burnt to the ground at best
♠︎ he teaches you his business practices. if he’s allowing your presence into his life it has to permeate its very fiber and everything in its existence. not a secret between you two exists.
♠︎ he hates smoking, but is, at the very least, addicted to it. he read somewhere that smoking is bad for a child’s lungs and while not particularly in favor of your endangerment, can’t help himself. he also is a raging pyromaniac and you are quickly taking up that mantle with how often he teaches (and allows) you to set buildings on fire and explode things.
♠︎ won’t sacrifice you or send you out to do his bidding, contrary to popular belief: he cherishes your innocence and despite touching your face with dirt under his fingers, you remain carefully unscathed. in fact, everywhere he goes, you go, and everywhere you go, he goes. you’re the child wrapped in his stiff coat, the extra two legs not too far behind him. his shadow, waiting and tightly tethered.
♠︎ overly protective of you, believing you're his consciousness come to haunt him, so he protects you. takes care of you.
♠︎ not actually very touchy, but when you’re in his vicinity his fingers twitch and ghost over your shoulders. almost as if he wants too, but is afraid he’ll corrupt you. Like rain to metal, ready to rust. Water to paper, ready to devour.
♠︎ despite his adult activities, you're his favorite company to keep. whether it be coloring or watching silly cartoons, there's just something about you that draws him in. of all the lackey’s that he shoots out of boredom, you never make that list.
♠︎ as said before, he finds you in an alley. rainy day in Gotham and all that jazz. and he passes you up multiple times. over and over again do your eyes meet his for no particular reason other than your staring. until one day he passes up the same alley and you're still there in that position–curled up to shield from the rain and still staring with that leveling gaze– probably got beat up for it if the bruises are telling. from that point on he knows you’re trouble, maybe more than you’re worth, and makes the split decision to grab you anyways.
♠︎ he doesn’t usually endorse kidnapping, especially not of little brats. maybe it’s because you're overly scruffy and an obviously struggling street kid, or because he’d just decided that it was a good day to take you. or maybe it was because of the way you came. accepting a fate you thought would lead to death one way or another. and in a way you weren’t wrong.
♠︎ from the get-go he was attached to you at the hip. leaning over you to whisper things in your ears. fluttering his hands over your arms. poking you… none of the ways he touches you are very firm (except for when he’s wrapping up an injury you sustained for being stupid.) he’s not touchy, as said before, but he is very helicopter-y.
♠︎ he teaches you how to wield multiple weapons and you find his overly performative fighting style annoying, but captivating- and you say as much. to which he replies with an indignant squawk during one of your spars, only to continue to do more of his schtick. dancing in and out of the way of your hands so you can never get a solid hit. “Are you sure it’s my fighting style or the fact that you keep missing, Lamb?”
♠︎hHe takes you to casinos, basements, bars, clubs, alleyways, fire escapes, dumpsters, beaches, subways, food spots, the bottom (and top) of rich and elite buildings, the elaborate underground of seemingly innocent mom n pop shops on the corner of busy streets in the narrows, bridges, rooftops, and anywhere else. all of it, just to find out your limits and what he can and can’t do around you. it’s revealed in a grandiose way, a metaphorical ripping away of the blindfold. the inner workings that keep Gotham’s cogs turning and probably most important of all, what keeps him afloat.
♠︎ turns out, you’re pretty good at handling the filth of the world! having grown up in it, having come from it. you know more about the navigation system than he’d originally expected, not that he expected you to know at all. it’s difficult weaving through alleyways and sewers and jumping into dumpsters but you make it look like art. an elaborate dance that he watches with barely a mind for anything else despite following you. it was as if, instead of you molding to the filthy city streets, they molded for you.
♠︎ his posture is bad, but he doesn’t like your posture to be like his, so he’s constantly telling you to sit up straight despite being the human equivalent of if a car crashed into a light post. “Do as I say, not as I do..”
♠︎ hates corporal punishment. would never put his hands on you and hates the idea of someone even insinuating that he has hit you or abused you in any way, shape, or form. It’s what gets one of his “volunteer’s” in trouble and dangling over a vat of corrosive acid.
#tw smoking#tw addiction#tw cigarettes#its joker whaddya expecttttt#but ya here he is#the guy :3#i feel like arthur fleck joker would be more of a regressor than a caregiver#he's was to unstable imo#heath ledger joker is much more acquainted and more likely to be a flip than someone who conceals/pushes his regression down...#unlike arthur fleck joker who would gladly resist and do anything and everything to avoid regressing not only because he's embarrassed or#ashamed but much more likely because he feels its the least of his worries and he shouldn't be so worried about it despite it probably#being a viable gateway for him to heal or something like that#🖇️ ; paperclips#🧃; scribblescrabbles
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Like no hate to shippers, I'm an unhinged shipper myself, but damn can we sometimes let upsetting moments for a driver just be for that driver without pushing someone else/the ship into it or watering it down with uwu they made eye contact he's going to be ok^_^
#Subtly not so subtly about#Lando norris#Like damn man had a horrible day crashing into the wall#Felt super ashamed#Lost a BUNCH of points and a chance to decrease the gap to p1 in the wdc#Was overly apologetic to everyone#Just having a shit time rightfully so#And here are some people just going ohhh oscar said he's a good guy our boys are gonna be ok THAT'S what matters#Like????? This ain't about him? Or them as a ship?#Oscar was told what to say to the media and he did not even express any overt feelings of forgiveness#Just that he appreciates the apology and lando's good for that#Like again no hate to the ship or oscar at all. This could've jeopardized his race as well and I'm glad it didn't#That would've just been a mess#But yall are really watering down landos troubles by making it seem like his relationship with oscar is the most important thing here cmon#Let's be realistic#This was first and foremost bad for him and his wdc hopes#And then bad for his image in a team he calls his family#Shipping is super fun and yall shouldn't stop but sometimes shit like this gets on my nerves so bad so... needed to rant ig#f1
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i always feel like my sexuality wasn't really impacted by uhh. everything that happened in my early teens. but looking through old stuff from back then im like hmmm. maybe it did
#i already had so much irl trauma that internet stuff never felt like it bothered me all that much#but i don't think i ever really processed any of it#there is something very odd about a grown adult man actively trying to groom you sexually at the ripe young age of 14 years old#well. not even try. he (redacted) (redacted)#i dont consider anything i went through “sexual abuse” bcuz like everyone was there. we all went through it to some extent#its just weird. it makes me feel panic attack-y looking back on all of it to delete stuff#some of it i just don't think i can talk about. it makes ME feel gross and ashamed#which it shouldn't but like 😭😭#but i also feel kinda responsible for it at the same time?? what a weird situation we went through together#txt#tw csa#<- ???
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2015 - 2024 Ten years of birthday illustrations for my favourite character ever, Superbi Squalo 🦈💙
Posting this while we wait for his birthday and for this year's illustration !
#this is kinda embarassing but i shouldn't be ashamed of my past style#btw idk why but i had a strong lineless phase between 2015 and 2018#i'm getting so old btw i was barely in highschool in 2015 how did I get here#btw if I ever miss squalo's birthday just know something bad has happened to me#digital art#digital illustration#artists on tumblr#khr#katekyo hitman reborn#khr!#katekyo hitman reborn!#tutor hitman reborn#superbi squalo#ah one more thing! you'll never catch me calling him superbia squalo superbi sounds better#superbia squalo#khr fanart#khr squalo#khr varia#squalo superbi#katekyo hitman reborn fanart#tyl
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hey google how do i google 'how to stop feeling violently ashamed of my body post-weight gain' without being fed a bunch of fatphobic ableist bullshit
#internalized fatphobia tw for all of these tags#it's so bad i hate it i know logically that i shouldn't feel this way but that doesn't actually stop me from feeling this way#as it gets warmer i've been forcing myself to still wear what i would typically wear but#sometimes i see pics or videos of myself and i am overcome with violent palpable shame#and like.. disgust tbh#i was always heavier growing up until around 17/18 when i lost a lot of weight cuz disordered eating/sensory issues/chronic stress etc#basically i starved myself into losing weight#i just remember being 8 years old and being heavier than other kids my age and my grandpa literally telling me 'you should start eating#better i don't want you to end up on the biggest loser'#at EIGHT YEARS OLD#my dad once told me i was 'the only one who was normal' out of my group of friends who were heavier than me????#and my mom ruined my self-image by describing in detail her own ruined self-image when i was very young#so there are multiple factors working against me here#but jesus fucking christ i'm so tired of being ashamed of this fucking skin suit that has very little bearing on who i am as a person#when compared to like. my thoughts and how i treat others in my day-to-day life etc etc#it doesn't matter it doesn't fucking matter but i can't make my brain understand that it doesn't matter#girl help#journal
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i've so often heard in my life, "don't listen to the bullies. don't let them get to you, and don't let them see that they got to you."
and i always felt bad, because... they do get to me. hell, they get to me to this day, even if they're not even in my life anymore.
i feel like that's not what you should tell someone who's being bullied. because bullies do get to us sometimes. it gets even the strongest of people. because bullying is abuse. it messes with our self-esteem! and not everyone can mask their suffering - i have such a hard time hiding how affected i am. so does that mean i'm too weak, then?
i don't like this moral high ground where you have to prove you're better than your bullies or abusers in general. why do i have to prove that? why can't i just feel hurt that people are in fact hurting me?
god, the fact adults tell this to literal KIDS is beyond me. kids are still young and they're going to internalize the trauma! stop telling them not to feel hurt or angry or sad at the bullying! DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. ACTUALLY COMFORT THEM! OFFER THEM EMOTIONAL SUPPORT!!!!
#actuallybullied#actuallybpd#actuallybipolar#venting#personal#my journal#my point being: we shouldn't feel ashamed if bullies/abusers do get to us#that is so victim-blaming to me... it helps no one and it never helped me#caps
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Where tf have Jude and Vini been this whole game!?!?
#kylian is the only one who shouldn't feel ashamed today#omfg#aurel i love you but wtf#real madrid#tchouameninga#aurelien tchouameni#aurélien tchouaméni#real madrid cf#jude bellingham#eduardo camavinga#football#camavingham
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Okay but good ending teen pregnancy when Ford comes back out of the portal, Stan is so excited to introduce their kids back into his life and have him meet his (great?) grandchildren
I MISSED ASKING QUESTIONS ABOUT MY ORIGINAL AU I HAVE SOME LEFTS STILL BUT IM STILL KEEPING THEM UNTIL I HAVE THE ENERGY TO ASK THEM 😭😭 Anyway THANK YOU THANK YOU ANON i really want to expand about this au!!!💖💖💖💖
So you see, In the teen dads au Ford's is still a mediocre father but not because he was violent or something but because he was absent in most of the life of his kids (even if it's not fully his fault) and his years separated with stan also make his relationship kinda hostile like in canon but less worst because he doesn't have so much resentment unlike the original ford had towards stanley. But even if Ford isn't so mad with Stanley because he also helped fucking up his own future Stanley IS madder than in canon with ford because now it's not only a thing of if he thanked him or not but for the bad father he was leaving him and his daughter for ten years without trying to contact them and also leaving the other kid he keep with his broken family while he was at that fancy college he dreamed about and then became crazy when he saw him again (of course,stan didn't know the full story and the fact ford was also kicked out and all the thing with bill lol), he wanted him back sure because he's still important to him but he's the one who was more defensive towards him and that protectiveness same in canon go for the kids, who he told him where his great-nephews because nor dipper and mabel know that stanley was actually his great-grandfather, he didn't let ford finish to ask of who if they were the only brothers they had or if ma had another baby but he will explain him that later when no one's around.
Stanley always wanted to get ford back and try to make things right again and raise their kids together as a family but things have changed a lot now and now he's not sure, seems its to late now and his family grew without the knowledge of Ford's existence. Shermie and Mariana can't remember him really because they're already grown ups and had their own life with only one father figure, Shermie decided to keep the lie he grow up with to his new family because he honestly didn't want his kid and grandchildren knew he was a product of an incest relationship of Stan with a twin he didn't even know existed (he loves stan and he knows he's his Pa, but he's also too normal to not be kinda ashamed of that and thinks it would be too confused to his kids anyway 🤷) and nor any of them could feel anything to ford because even if he was his other dad they'd really didn't meet him more than 2 years when they were babies.
About dipper and Mabel he's still protective, he's not sure if he wants that crazy guy that's always with dangerous creatures around him be near his great grandkids. He's happy with knowing that Ford was fine but honestly he wasn't so much to introduce him again to the family, he was, but that was 30 years ago. His kids are adults now, his grandson was also an adult and his great grandkids didn't know the truth, Ford seems to be more interested in continuing with those stupid journals anyway that spent time with his family. Stan was kinda sad ford didn't become the father or grandfather he dreamed once and wasn't sure if he would be a good great grandfather now even if it was a secret, his priority was to let the kids be safe, and Ford wasn't a safe place for them. He used to.
He may love ford, but he had to think of the sake of his family and be careful with a man he hasn't see in more than three decades.
#stancest#old stancest#stancest prompts#teen dads au#YOU THINK BECAUSE THIS IS THE GOOD ENDING IT WASN'T GOING TO BE SAD ANYWAY?#WRONG!!! its sadder#but ford will make his best to show Stanley he could be a good grunkle/great grandfather#and that his kids shouldn't be ashamed of him#he will try to fix all the time he lost with his family as more as he could...
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