#Moid is acceptable

[mezmer]

Unnmnpopular opinion for whatever reason. In feminist circles women will comment on men's appearances or wish and hope that they would die. I am off put by this. Sure, kill violent men who are beyond repair and pedophiles okay I'm on board. A reddit screenshot about a guy being a douchebag? He does no chores and cheated on his wife? "I hope he dies" "probably an ugly neck beard" ok. You are being no better than a misogynist. I just don't agree with it.

You can keep your mouth shut when anger consumes you without coming across as a doormat. It's actually very progressive. I feel it's often an individual who is yearning to shed the womanly doormat stereotype and show her anger in all the wrong ways. You can come for a man's hygiene and pathetic behaviors without wishing death on them. It doesn't make you less of a feminist or even a misandrist to be above those behaviors. It creates a more rotten world to perpetrate anger and unleash it needlessly. Shouldn't be normalized except in cases of democratic justice.

[femgoddess-hecate]

The way the tra side of the internet is all for being as "tolerant" and "kind" as possible (lies btw) until they have to defend a TIM saying ableist slurs. Like actually no I don't think the women who see that, or the disabled people who see that misunderstood it or took it out of context. Why are u defending that so hard?

A slur is a slur is a slur I hope that helps

[mizandria]

something that still makes me sick to my stomach is that nobody really needed any evidence for what they were accusing Amber Heard of, nobody bothered to verify anything, half of them didn't even know what the trial was about; they were just happy to unleash all the hatred they have against women once it was socially acceptable to do so. men wanted to torture a pretty female celebrity in a “kill the cheerleader” manner, prove that women are the actual abusers and liars and men are the poor victims who are never believed - conveniently after a wave of women no longer staying silent about the abuse and sexual assault they endured - and they succeeded, partially thanks to all the handmaidens who were happy to throw a woman they knew nothing about under the bus to prove that they are the good kind of feminist who fights for women and men alike and just cares so much about male victims. nobody cited anything else than the few tiktok viral clips that could have been easily disproven like Depp accusing Heard of cutting his finger off, or a few body language expert who were Just Some Guy concerned about their views and not the truth and who conveniently were able to make it seem like Amber smiling or crying or sitting and staring and doing nothing or moving her head by one degree to the side or looking at the jury when she's addressing them is a proof of her being the abuser. when asked what about Amber's testimony doesn't make sense, one of my friends just stared blankly for a good while and only came up with an answer like “oh, like when she said that her dog stepped on a bee”. yeah, we all saw that on a 20-second youtube short too. you'd think that before going on a crusade of death wishes towards someone and comparing her to serial killers people would learn anything about this woman at all, but they just knew NOTHING and it didn't stop them. hope the temporary validation you got from moids was worth all the women you scared into silence, hope it was worth all the rape victims you terrified with your “lol what is she complaining about that just sounds like a dream” tiktoks with Amber's testimony about Depp raping her used as an audio, hope it was worth what happened to Evan Rachel Wood and hundreds of other women, hope it will be worth it when you will just get mocked and called an Amber if you ever decide to stand up for yourself against your abuser.

[vegantinatalist]

HAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAAHHAHAAAAHHAA

OH MY FUCKING GOD RADFEM TUMBLR I NEED TO TELL YOUUUUUU

THE LAST MOID I DEEMED ACCEPTABLE COMPANY, THE LAST MOID LEFT IN MY FRIEND CIRCLE THAT I WAS TOLERATING, THE MOID THAT WAS HONESTLY CHALLENGING MY VIEWS ON MEN BECAUSE HE WAS SO STAUNCHLY ETHICAL AND KIND, I JUST FOUND OUT HE IS A FATHERFUCKING ACTUAL FOR REAL HARDCORE HOLOCAUST DENIER HITLER FANBOY WITH GIANT SWASTIKA BANNERS, BUNTINGS, AND AN ACTUAL LITTLE HITLER SHRINE WITH PHOTOS AND NEWSPAPER CLIPPINGS AND HITLERS BOOKS AND HIS OWN PERSONAL PROPAGANDA PAINTINGS AND EVERYTHING

HE MAKES LITTLE CHILL LOFI VIDEOS OF HIS HITLER PARAPHERNALIA

HE IS LITERALLY A POC ive literally never even SEEN THIS KIND OF THING BEFORE AND MY FAMILY IS FROM TEXASSSSS

AAAHHHHAAAAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA IM FUCKING DONEEEEEEEEEEE IT IS ON SIGHTTTTTTTT WITH ALLLLLLL MEN I DONT GIVE A FUUUUUUUCK WHO THEY ARRRREEE WHAT THEIR ETHICS AREEEEEE where they COME FROMMMMMM IT IS ON SIGHHHHHHTTTTTT HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAIMGOINGTOACTUALLYHAVEANERVOUSBREAKDOWN

[redditreceipts]

https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/zHWdvFAzQG

these moids are so gross 🤢

ah yes, of course, feminists actually secretly envy men, that's why they're so bitter!!1!1

Also, I don't know any feminists who can't cope with your femininity. The thing is that this doesn't make you a woman. the fact that you can't accept that sounds more like a you-problem lmao

oppression is not what makes you a woman, being a biological female who is human and of age does. have you ever listened to like one feminist in your life?

Who is making "womanhood" this magical mystical important thing? I honestly couldn't care less about my sex, and I also don't identify as a woman. I wish I could just forget about it. But I can't. That's the whole point of feminism. And for "walking into and out of womanhood at our convenience" - that's because you're men. A woman can't choose to just not be a woman anymore, and you're a man that can act like he's a woman and then tell women that they're making up all of the oppression, that is the exact reason why you can't be included in feminism. You can force the entire world to take part in your delusion precisely because you are a man. If you were a woman, you could not just walk into and out of womanhood at your convenience. But you can, because the sex class you belong to constructed and changes the gender hierarchy at their convenience. You are proving with every sentence that you are a man, better than I ever could.

Actually, he has a point. MtFs actually are really stupid men, and prove how little they know about being a woman by thinking that they could become one lmao And yes, I guess you could really call it a "sad mentality" to acknowledge sex-based oppression that exists in reality instead of acting as if everything was alright. Just like acknowledging climate change is a "sad mentality", in comparison to just pretending it doesn't exist. Also, I am not offended by FtM people existing lol

nobody is saying that you take away from anyone's womanhood. You can't be more or less of a woman, either you are or you arent. that's the whole point 😭

Yeah, right? All oppressed groups are just jealous, that's why they're fighting for liberation. Black people are also just jealous of white people and them not being shot by the police all the time, right? That's why they're angry. Because they're jealous

this can't be real life

YES! exactly what I'm saying! If something is not hammered into your skull from the age of two, it's of course super easy to see it as a funny little game that you can stop playing when you're bored. You can "walk into and out of womanhood at your convenience" exactly BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A WOMAN.

[sharp-rosee]

Hey funny story: I haven't been around Tumblr at all for months, but today someone told me menalez had deactivated or something so I came on here and looked it up. First result was a post by you, i checked out your blog and wouldn't you know it your most recent post had you defending me post mortem lmfao. I sent an anon to the other woman too but it seems she won't post it so to clarify to you: when I supposedly said "studies showing violence suffered by bisexuals are cringe and useless" what I remember thinking about that is that those studies that I've seen are never used to try to understand why bisexuals suffer such insane rates of violence (more than homosexuals) and trying to stop it. I've only seen them be used as battering rams in discourse when homosexuals criticize bisexuals. Which is crazy for such a serious issue and totally trivializes it lol. Also that my explanation for it was that such studies show that many abused people incorrectly id as bi for a time. You can disagree or wtv just those were my points, she made it sound like I'm cheering on women beating if they're bi or something. Also your defense of me (thanks queen lol) is accurate if you were wondering. I used to be sorta pro strict separatism but I outgrew the anger/ denial phase of "most women will partner with men" and reached acceptance. Most people are built for romantic partnership, that's just human nature, I can't be hating het women just because their lot in life in that means they're more likely to be abused. Just because I'm not drawn to men, or even much to romance, doesn't mean I should act like that's everyone else too and judge them on that standard, I accept reality and want women to be safe within that rather than pointlessly hate on them and get all worked up because some women have boyfriends..

Well I'm also a mean asshole, I'm sure you noticed, and I definitely would give the bi girlies on radblr a hard time here at the time lol. I don't have the "one side" sort of takes on this divide on radblr. It was funny but I can't feel the energy to that anymore since leaving tumblr, way too few bis or gays irl to care about that stuff. But at the end of the day these are my actual takes on all that disk horse. Funny to see it immediately on such a causal stroll around here lol

-sleep3r4gent

QUEEN I used to follow you ♡ at least when I was crypto a few years back I did.

Also, I'm glad you clarified because the way some women on here seem to hallucinate things they read almost makes me feel insane as well. Like you sending an ask saying you never thought of a certain perspective is not indicative of you agreeing and obviously one can change their opinions over time.

I really have no opinion either way tbh, I myself am straight and in a relationship, and have had others on my last blog send some anons calling me a "dick worshipper" and other misogynistic BS, but they stopped once I didn't let it bother me much. It's so obviously a group of trolls that it's embarrassing that they still believe it enough to keep bringing back the same users, some like you who aren't even misogynistic, to further their persecution complex.

It even is more annoying because these are the women who made Mena/Moideater leave, the above drama is a big reason why. The way radblr will still reblog posts from very racist blogs and not bat an eye but then freak out over a clique of women who aren't even radfems really does show what demographic makes up this site.

I know it gets exhausting to be involved in arguments, but it's nice to know you're still somewhat around. I hope you, Mena and Moid come back someday. If not I understand. But I'll never forget any of them and I haven't forgotten you 😭😭😭

[kkoffin]

Regarding your second to last reblog, did you see that person's last reblog of that post? And if so, do you still think she doesn't have the right to hate her mother and any woman who does what her mother did? I agree that the original post sounds misogynistic, but when put into perspective, doesn't she have the right to be resentful? It's always the man's fault first and foremost, that's not up for debate, but I'm asking if you think hating women who deliberately allow male violence to happen is still misogynistic.

This is not meant as an attack in any way, I just value your opinion so I'm curious. Your love for women is admirable, I'm simply wondering if it comes before anything else, including holding people accountable for their own actions.

I don't really want to pick apart and criticize other people's traumas in any way but essentially yes, she's absolutely allowed to hate her mother for that. I won't tell an abused individual whether or not they can hate their individual abuser - that's insane. But there's such a MASSIVE difference between a child begging her mother to stop her husband raping her and the mother ignoring it, and your average happy family, where either the father simply doesn't do that or he hides it so incredibly well that the mother doesn't have a clue. This kind of thing is not happening in vast vast vast majority of households or to vast majority of children. My mother raised me as a single mother, she went through many boyfriends. Nothing of the sort happened to me, and my mother protected me from the risk. There was one point which my mother could not protect me from, but I've chosen to forgiven her, and I'm aware this is not majority of cases. Her mother was a horrible women, but not all women, and all het-partnered mothers (almost all mothers) are anything like that.

Yes. for sure. you can hate women who let their children be raped. But that doesn't justify calling ALL het-partnered women "dick suckers" "moid worshippers" "inhuman roaches", telling them to die and telling them they're all to blame for what other men do. It's clear more of her rage lies with women than with male rapists. That is not acceptable, and if she wants to call herself a feminist, it's something she needs to work on. Again, I'm sorry for what happened to her, but when you see an article about a male rapist and you are more angry at a woman than the rapist, and you go on to sexually insult and berate this woman, there's a fucking issue, and that sexual berating and blaming of the woman is anti-feminist.

Ted Bundy was also abused by women, but that doesn't justify misogyny in any capacity. Maybe it gives context, but it doesn't excuse it, and you shouldn't be calling yourself a feminist if you are held back by resentment against women to this degree. Resent doesn't excuse misogyny against vast majority of women.

[auntyruckus]

The same group of feminists who created their slogan "Our branch of feminism is the most popular in the global south 👆" to prove their point to sexist shitlibs/libfems...

...are nowhere to be found when misogynoir goes viral.

T-yl-r S-if-, M-r--t R-bb-e, S-dn-y Sw--ny. I have seen so many women of all colors clap back at sexist hate content against them (this is good)

But it's 🤐 from them when Zendaya, Twigs, Halle, Kayla, Ayo, and Francesca are senselessly attacked by moids of all colors.

But of course "Misogyny is only acceptable when it's done to white women" 🤣 👍

[sexisdisgusting]

I really feel for the "omg so mentally ill" e girls. they are mostly abuse victims who seek approval of men no matter the cost of their health. they make sex their whole personality, letting everyone degrade them and overall act VILE to them as a person. calling themselves a "Sub" and laughing off the fact they self harm.

that being said.... I cant express enough how those women get people killed and otherwise groomed. its similar to anatwt. yes, they are struggling. yes, they don't deserve to suffer. but they cause others to suffer too by playing it off as a quirky personality trait.

I fallen into that trap of thinking and it caused nothing but pain. Now whenever I see someone letting themselves get humiliated and degraded whether it be pretending to be an e girl or practicing DDLG or age play or whatever, I feel a pit in my stomach knowing the men (and troons) who are getting off to hurting her. its like free candy to predators.

most of mainstream sex positivity is just thinly veiled self harm for women. its a lot easier to accept being nothing but an object than overcome your trauma. i wish I could give them all the strength to overcome all that so theyd stop feeding into the cycle of abuse. you are benefiting the most toxic people imaginable who literally see no worth in you. just because they say they care doesnt mean they do, they only "care" as long as you keep giving them what they want.

GHDDJDHHHHHHHHH YOU SAID IT PERFECTLY OH MY GOD!!!!!!

my heart goes out to those girls, they are perpetuating a vicious cycle in the worst of ways, i only wish for them to wake up

theres nothing that makes a moids attention worth it, i wish more women would learn this

[vouam]

just found this guy’s answer to a question on quora (“is misandry a problem in the US?” or something of that nature) and was wondering what your reaction to it would be. there are some points i wouldn’t be sure how to refute, though it’s certainly not enough to change my radfem beliefs lol. i’ll copy and paste it since i can’t send ss in anon

Q:“is misandry prevalent in today’s society?”

A:“I would say so.

Woman: doesn't want a child so she secretly aborts it.

Man: doesn't want a child and is forced to pay child support for 18 years while being ridiculed as a dead beat dad

Woman: my body, my choice

Man: has his genitals forcibly mutilated for no good reason at birth

Woman: free drinks at the club on ladies night

Man: there is no men's night. Drink prices increase to cover all the free drinks ladies get

Woman: oh please keep yourself safe

Man: forced to sign up for selective services (a.k.a. draft) at 18.

Woman: complains about low paying job

Men: 67% of work place injuries happen to men, 93% of work place fatalities happen to men. No one bats an eye

Woman: mostly automatically given custody of children no matter what

Men: you can see your children on the weekend only and pay for child support

Man: simply accused of abusing a woman and goes straight to jail.

Woman: beats the man senseless and if the man defends himself goes to jail. If he doesn't defend himself he still might go to jail or if he is lucky police will tell him to quit making a big deal about it. Has 1 place in the country to go to for sheltering battered men despite the fact that women are the perpetrators of domestic violence some 40% of the time. Woman, have countless battered women shelters to go to.

Man: gets raped by woman at gun point being forced to give oral sex and held captive for days. Society has a good laugh

Woman: gets raped and her perpetrator is rightfully punished. No one is laughing about it. Woman gets psychological help and all kinds of assistance from society. Also if she makes false accusations of rape, ruining a man's life, no one says a thing about it and she is free to go on accusing.

Men: penalties for the same crime as women are much longer sentences.

Men: comprise 60 some % of homeless population

Men: comprise of a majority of suicides

I could go on but it's only going to anger the feminazis more and more”

reading crap like this makes me so mad tbh, like i understand moids don’t have easy lives just because they’re moids but GOOD FUCKING GRIEF it’s like they just can’t fucking get enough of acting like society wasn’t built by men for men. 🙏🙏 sorry it just gets me upset. anyway love ur blog!!

Oooof this is a really great ask so thank you for sending this in! I guess I’ll approach this by answering each one individually (although I might repeat myself)

Men pay child support while women can just have an abotion

This is a very strange argument. Because firstly not every country has fully legal abortions. 47 countries only allow it for health reasons, 43 to save the mother’s life and 22 it is fully illegal. A lot of men like this seem to forget that there are other countries on this planet. I’d personally rather be the gender that has to pay child support for an unwanted baby. Even in the case of legal abortions, abortions are not easy to go through. It is mentally very difficult and can be an invasive procedure. Women are shamed for having abortions in every country, even the most ‘accepting’ places.

Circumcision

I am very against circumcision and this was probably his most valid point(?) But his point excludes the fact that FGM is practiced in many countries and cultures. And while male circumcision is usually done for religious reasons claiming its ‘hygienic’ and has little to no bad side effects while FGM can kill women and girls, and is done for far more malicious reasons that I can’t even begin to describe.

Men’s drinks night

Does he know the implications of what ‘buying a woman a drink’ means?? Yeah, I’d much rather be a man in this situation 😭

Drafted at 18

I am against anyone being drafted, and I’m against any military work period. But men made this rule because they deem men to be brave and strong - a stereotype designed to benefit them.

Work place injuries and fatalities

Most injuries and fatalities happen with manual labour, construction/factory work etc. Same stereotype as listed in the point before this.

Custody over children

Again, this happens due to a stereotype that benefits men. Women are ‘better parents/nurturing’ while men are not and should go out there and work and achieve their goals while women stay at home. Literally designed to benefit men. Also, a lot of men view the custody struggle as a privilege because they cannot be bothered to be fathers.

Going to prison because of a simple accusation and less abuse shelters for men

This is the craziest point because men do not go to prison over some random accusation pulled out from thin air. In order to accuse someone of abuse, you need extensive indisputable evidence. Even then, the police will not take it seriously or the defence will win the case for whatever reason. These are the hardest crimes to prove in a court and the statistics show this. Less abuse shelters for men because they are far FAR less likely to be a victim. Yes, its’s sad but this literally proves misogyny is a thing rather than misandry - because I know damn well which sex I’d rather be in this instance.

People laugh at male rape victims and women are given full support/legal justice

I addressed this in the previous point. Women are ridiculed and not believed/not given justice at an extremely higher rate than men.

Longer male prison sentences

Same stereotype that I’ve said before about being stronger/braver vs weak/nurturing. The stereotype was made to benefit them. Also this ignores that a lot of the time there are other aspects to a crime that result in a higher sentence given. For example 1st degree murder done for financial motive vs sexual motive.

Larger male homeless population and male suicide rate

I guess this is more of a question of why men are more likely to be homeless or commit suicide. Make suicide rate studies suggest it’s harder for men to admit mental health struggles/reach out for help. Again, it’s sad but the strong brave stereotype was designed to benefit them, like I’ve said before. Permanent homelessness is largely due to addiction, mental health, childhood poverty, financial crisis, loss of relationships to family/partner. These can all happen to women, except a lot of the female homeless population are trafficked, resort to prostitution, enter abusive relationships to escape the streets. In a lot of countries, people seem to think its 99% men that are homeless, but its usually not. You just typically only see male homeless people sitting/sleeping on the street in public spaces - that’s a more terrifying place for a woman to be compared to a man.

—

I guess this guy’s main problems is that he:

- Thinks USA/Europe/western countries are the only places that exist

- Can’t see that bad things that happen to men are actually a result of stereotypes designed to benefit the male population

- Makes up statistics in his head that aren’t true

- Has a crazy victim complex

- Can’t see that the women’s position in his scenario is actually worse

I hope this helps with any future debates and refutes! And I hope I explained myself well enough 😭

[stillarandom-radfem]

So, something that irritates the ever-loving fuck out of me is when I'm chatting online with another woman/make a post about some feminist topic (for example, child marriage of underage girls to adult men, or female infanticide), and some stupid lefty moid jumps in with some dumbass comment about "oh, that doesn't happen here, that only happens in (name of foreign country or region of the globe)." Always with the tone and general insinuation of "oh, you don't know those women, that doesn't happen here, don't worry your pretty little head about it." And I'm just... ugh. I can't be the only white, Western woman who is disgusted by this patronizing and incredibly racist (not to mention misogynistic) "argument."

Not only is it not even necessarily true (if we stay on the topic of child marriage, for example, then we would have to acknowledge that there are multiple states right here in the U.S. where child marriage is perfectly legal with parental permission), but ALSO, even if that was the case, the insinuation is also that if a woman or girl is from a developing country, if she is poor, if she is a minority, if she is far away from where I am, then she is an acceptable target to be treated as lower than an animal and to be stripped of her human rights. That is disgusting. And often, these are the same moids who will join the libfems in shouting about "white feminism" and attempting to counter feminist arguments with some racialized psychobabble about black men or some shit (usually on a topic that affects black women just as much, if not more, than white women). Please. You don't care about racism; your attitudes about WoCs are incredibly racist. You're merely virtue signaling about MoCs, and we both know it. You don't actually care about them. As for women, no matter their color, class, or what country they live in, they deserve basic human rights as much as I do. Making not being denied basic rights into a privilege that is only to be enjoyed by white Westerners is disgustingly racist. And yes, I have every right to be concerned about women's treatment "over there", too, because I am a woman. Like, let's say that I wanted to travel. There are definitely places on the globe where I would feel unsafe traveling alone because of my sex (for example, Afghanistan). Why? Because women in those countries are treated horribly, and I wouldn't want that to happen to me. Their treatment still affects me, albeit indirectly, because of my sex class. It's fucking patronizing as hell to act like women who don't live there should just not worry our pretty little heads about a topic that limits all women (yes, some more so than others), just because some male decided that anything far away isn't relevant to him. It's still relevant to me; I am a woman, and all women deserve basic rights. The reason you're uncomfortable with me talking about it is because you're a misogynist, and you therefore don't think we do. You see women as property, and why, in your mind, would property deserve human rights? You would behave that way to us, too, if you were given the chance; the only reason you don't is because we have enough power here to stop you, and you don't want women there to get that kind of power, too, or else what would happen to your sex tourism plans or whatever? So, yeah. The argument is racist, it is patronizing, and it is deeply misogynistic. I have no interest as a woman in listening to that bullshit. Fuck off, moid.

[papirouge]

How can you stand going into nazi discussions and reading all the crap they're writing? I hate them so much lol

I don't understand women who entertain those kind of men, I know some of them are men pretending to be women but some of them are the real deal... like they'll never respect and accept them as one of them except to be a white babies factory, yet these womens racism is bigger than their self respect and self esteem.

But what I understand even less is non-whites entertaining neo nazi ideology. I'm aware that just like with women some are just white people pretending to be PoCs, but I've known actual poc thta agree with nazism and some even post pics of themselves. It's so ugly lol but I've noticed that they always seem to be non-black PoC or if black they're light skin, they just seem to have the mentality of "at least i'm not a n*gger 🤪" thus why they think they can mingle with the whiteys and be accepted by them. Like many of them are usually pale-skinned latinos or east asians from what I've noticed. And neo nazis sometimes entertain them because they realize they're good for creating division between non-whites but they never really accept them as one of them - they're just their fighting dogs. These idiots need to realize many nazis and white supremacists barely accept white people with black hair and brown eyes as their own (sometimes they'll accept them but consider them less pure and beautiful than their blue/green eyes blond haired counterparts). That's why you'll see blond, blue-eyed neo nazi men constantly dunk on white women and brown-eyed dark haired people - even though they could be his allies he still needs to feel superior to them because he probably has nothing going for him except for his race and sex (which he has convinced himself makes him superior). He doesn't have to work for it or earn it he simply is born superior and everyone else should understand that too and treat him as such. When you think about it, it's really pathetic and stupid.

Last thing is I'll always laugh at neo nazis talking about black or brown people marrying white to "bleach/lighten their genes". Not because it's not true; many brown and black people do wish they could have light skin or white kids, hopefully with light eyes and hair too (mentol illness), but because dark skin, dark hair and brown eyes are DOMINANT genes!!! So are "black features". This is why they'll never make me feel bad about my features, God made them dominant and theirs recessive lol perhaps for a reason (this is why christians white supremacists are even more stupid to me).

I think women drawn to Nazi/misogynist see in it a form a "strong masculinity" they don't find in more liberal men. They're too dumb to realize those moids only talk smack from their socials but will shit themselves if confronted IRL with any of the demographics they shit on the regular. I mean, for so called strong men they, White nationalists are actually pretty meek when it come to display outward sign of their opinion in the real world. That's why they only do so in rallies. Standing alone they are scaredy cats that will play victim #antiwhitegenocide. You can bet that the person who made the tweet saying she went out of her way to say she was racist to that foreign bus driver whose only crime was being friendly, that if the bus driver would've reacted aggressively she would act like she was the victim. Because nazi & racists love playing the victim card whenever they initiate antagonization.¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

And yeah you're totally right about racist/Nazi non White rallying around the "at least I'm not Black" thing. It's very true for Hispanics (like Stonetoss) or Indians. No one tells them white Nazi will always consider them like inferior pawns they'll toss away the moment they're not useful. Same goes for women they'll shit on they do a step aside. Lauren Southern and Candace Owens are case study. I think dunking on other race help them cope with their otherwise shitty life : they're unemployed, broke, lonely...but at least they're not Black 🤪

And what's so funny with the so called superior aryan race is how hellbent they are to show they're superior. When you're truly secure in your superiority, you don't waste time trying to prove it. Lions don't run with dogs. I mean, I always found crazy they so much into the bio essentialist bs about IQ but yet oblivious to the fact that their own gene are recessive. Shouldn't nature favor high IQ Aryan gene instead? 🤔 Like- it never clicked to me how they flip flop around biological essentialism lol

[dirtied-perception]

Men are always trying to assert superiority over women, saying we are not aware of how inferior we are and feminists just can't cope with reality. Well, I can argue against that but I want to make another point- men by and large do not face reality at all. The reality of reproduction. Not every male gets to breed...it's nature's way of ensuring only the right genes get passed on. As well as a result of the natural disparity in sexual appetite. Women don't "gatekeep sex." We don't have less sex because we're prudes or "mean to men" or whatever corny shit these moids think. We just aren't acting like our lives depend on having sex. We aren't slaves to our desires. And many of us are too traumatized to want anything to do with the act. Men should accept this unfortunate reality instead of letting it turn them into everything we fear. Because after all, we fear them for a reason.

[blackpilled-modernwaste]

istg moids will say shit about how "femcels aren't real incels bc all girls are naturally pretty" or whatever the fuck their reason is, until they take a break from watching porn and see that hideous girls exist. imo most female incels are basically the exact same as male incels just with different reasons to hate the opposite gender, but the one thing male incels never realise is that basically all conventionally attractive women who call themselves femcels are fakecels, and aren't "accepted" as real incels. y'all are so fucking annoying and I hope you fall off a cliff :3

I agree that we should ostracize conventionally attractive people from the community.

But there is a great difference between a man and a woman's definition of "hideous" women. Search up the pig woman experiment, and before you say that dating app likes are worthless (which I agree with), i'd like to remind you that these men were willing to procreate with a disgusting, hideous woman. Reject sexual or romantic advances, (unless they have a gross STD) that makes you a volcel, which is what most 'femcels' are.

Also, assuming that I watch porn all day and stopping just to take breaks is pretty weird.

[lesbianp1lled]

it's so lame that we even have to identify as 'gold star' lesbians at this point in human existence. unless you live in an extremely homophobic country, there just isn't a reason for a gay person to force themself be intimate with the opposite sex, period. that's self-r*pe to any actual gay person and the mere idea has always disgusted me, even when I tried to convince myself I was bi because of comphet lol (I do live in a pretty homophobic country where I've never seen a gay couple hold hands publicly in almost 30 years.. ). I've never accepted even a single date with a man, 0 intimacy (ew), because even despite being able to realize/ accept that I was a lesbian only in my early 20s, I've always instinctively known I'm gay. most people do, and thus physical contact with the opposite sex who we're not attracted to is abhorrent. that's why I think women who've had het sex and still claim to be lesbians are either fakebians or have 0 self-dignity and a desperate need for attention to the point of jumping on a d*ck for societal approval, and I'll never understand that/ f*ck with that. that's the most anti-feminist bs, I know so many straight women who didn't have sex before like 30 because they hadn't met a man they loved and trusted enough. virginity is lauded in women so there's no pressure to be with men either. so there's no justifying being with males while claiming to be a lesbian lol.

I actually needed to went about sth personal as well and since I sadly have no lesbian friends, this is the best option. basically all my relationship attempts have ended tragically because all my crushes have been het or bihet women. I live in a tiny ass country so there simply aren't enough lesbians yet there are thousands of drop-dead-gorgeous het and bihet women and I am simply a woman with eyes, what can I say.. all the actual lesbians tend to be butches, and don't get me wrong, butches have my whole heart, but I'm a femme-for-femme kinda gal, I can't help it. I am conventionally attractive and work hard to stay in shape but I'm no supermodel either and actually insanely beautiful women scare me a bit so I'm just looking for sb on the same level. I don't want to feed into the stereotype about lesbians being unattractive, I don't think that's true. but in my country it tends to be the case, which is especially jarring because the straight women are outstandingly beautiful. ofc looks isn't the main thing I'm looking for but I don't want a romantic relationship with sb I'm not even attracted to. I've tried that and it didn't work, it isn't fair on me nor them.

I've also graduated from every level of education with the highest honors, I'm a uni lecturer since 20, I have my own company, everyone tells me I'm one of the nicest people they know and I still can't find a gf who'd like me as much as I love her?? that's what's truly enraging, to see all these amazing het and bihet women genuinely love and give their all to these misogynistic subpar beer-bellied males who use them as personal maids while I can't find one (1!!) woman to love me as an objectively good-looking feminist they could 100% relate to and be in an equal/ synergetic relationship with.

I'm sorry but heterosexuality truly is a masochistic self-destructive condition in women, I know it's innate but it's true.. inc3ls (including the trans kind) have no idea what real hardship is in dating women. it's seeing the fugliest moids get with the most kind, intelligent, ambitious and hot women only to drain them from life and self-respect and not even appreciate getting with a woman waaay out of their league. while you are on that woman's level but she'll never love you even if she's bi because ultimately you just don't have a nasty dangler in your pants which doesn't even satisfy her anyway. so you just seethe in your justified bitterness and try go on with your life despite feeling like no woman will ever love you, not because you're unlovable or in any way unworthy but simply because you're a woman.

it hurts so much to see all these hot lesbian couples online, it just feels surreal, like where are these women? all I see is obese goofy-looking 'polyamourous' aka promiscuous bihet she/they qWeErs who want to use me as a s3x toy with their disgusting boyfriend.

and this brings me to my ex. she was the one I gave a chance to because she was the first woman to make a move on me, she told me I was perfect, we talked for hours every day for months, went on dates, she fantacized about living in a house together etc, only to randomly ghost me, tell me our relationship meant nothing despite me having admitted to her I was already traumatized by bihet women leading me on. and then ofc she got with some receding neckbeard guy who looks like he could be her uncle not long after lmao. after legit telling me she detests men and would Nevvverr date one again, that I was her perfect woman. so all she gave me was trust issues that all women are secretly bihet c*cksuckers who will eventually leave me no matter how perfect and lovable I am. I know this can't be true but it truly feels like that. she just got married to that male (probably partly for a visa lol) but she certainly tries to convince herself and others desperately she's madly in love with him while watching all of my insta stories in 2.3 seconds for some reason, I've muted her so I found out about her marrying months later.

maybe she knew I was far out of her league and randomly sabotaged our relationship, because it was such a shock out of a blue sky to me. thankfully I wasn't fully in love yet and dodged her (mentally unstable) bullet but we need to address the trauma these bihet women leave us with. because that's entirely valid and not our fault, not everyone has the privilege to date fellow lesbians when finding a real one who isn't a fakebian feels impossible to begin with. I also hate the infantilization of lesbians, she definitely used me for her idiotic little 'sapphic daydreams', f*ck that, we are not some uwu fairies, we are grown women and we are just as entitled to only date people we're physically attracted to as het women. as I said, I wasn't even that attracted to her but the knowledge that she got hetero married while larping as some grand qWeEr feminist who will never date males again hit me like a truck. she's out to the world while I'm only out to my friends and some family because I could be discriminated against at my homophobic workplace. the fkn iront in that.. she even started identifying in plural after meeting him lmaoo, she must've realized that she really is just a measly hetero and no longer has a way 'in' to the lgbt thing she desperately wants to co-opt. she's 100% a poli-qweer lol.

I hate that I'm even allowing myself to be traumatized by her, she's unworthy of that but I can't help it, every romantic experience only worsens my trust issues with women and my current crush is bi as well.. at least she doesn't lie about liking men which is still off-putting but at least she's honest. idk what to do anymore. I'm just livid at this homophobic heteronormative world and the way the hets just keep getting away with it. I nearly threw up at the sight of all het couples today.

and bihets are the worst male-worshippers out there as well, they put up with so much more bs from men than decent self-respecting het women do. and they're desperate to be with a man at all times. some time ago I went out with a bi woman who I didn't know was bi, she presented herself half-virginal, did mention two exes, male and female. but turns out she has slept with every other man in town, brags about it online as if that makes her a 'bad bitch' , no hun, just an unpaid prostitute for patriarchal pleasure.

the only consolation is that het relationships are never equal so they will not have some idyllic marital bliss with their ugly moids as they desperately want to pretend. but still, they have such immeasureable social privilege being het-attracted and -partnered and then they have the audacity to larp as some great qWeEr activist publicly without any shame in their hypocrisy. god I wanna expose her fake ass so badly, tell everyone what a lying bihet charlatan she is. I might never be able to get married in my country because I'm actually gay and she's unapologetically prancing around with a husband when she said she'll never date a man again. as gay people we grapple with so much baseless misplaced shame while the het fakers seem to feel none. meanwhile there are lesbians all over the world forced into loveless het marriages to be r*ped by their husbands. unspeakably disgusting. sometimes I just want to vacate this abhorrent homophobic planet but can't let the homophobes win.

sorry for the long rant but what do you think I should do going forward? I feel like I'm succumbing to complete bitterness and despite not envying the misogynistic relationships of heteros, at least they have the opportunity to be in romantic relationships without fearing being discriminated against, disowned or hate crimed, no matter how flawed their relationships are. meanwhile I'm just getting older, I might still look 18 but I feel like I'll die before a woman of worth will ever reciprocate my love. where to move, where are the actual lesbians?? how to deal with the bilious defeatism and, tbh unfortunately justified victim mentality?

I'm sure a lot of lesbians can relate to my experiences and I would really appreciate them sharing how they got out of this hole/ repeating pattern of dating women who were beneath them and unable to actually love women romantically/ sexually. at this point I'd do anything to even have a woman sexually objectify me at least 😩

oh, and what's notable is that despite never having been in a proper committed relationship and having these failed traumatic attempts, I have never resented women as a whole. women owe me nothing, but the women who have literally thrown themself at me only to lead me on like I begged them not to deserve no remorse. and I haven't lost my mind or general will to live either, I thrive academically and at work, I entertain myself and enjoy my time with family and friends. I don't normally hate on other people in relationships for no reason either, just in a really bad place rn lol. I think it's important to note for all of the lesbophobes out there who call us 'lescels' and compare us to r*pe-loving misogynistic incels who think they should own women as sex toys. I've never resented a woman like that even if she's hurt me beyond words, that shit is just degenerate y-chromosome scrote coded. lesbians will never be able to oppress women, not even if some have unrightful disdain against women because we are the ones oppressed by hetero-attracted women.

also hate we have to identify as gold star lesbians because surely it makes sense that a lesbian wouldn’t ever sleep with a man? But so many call themselves lesbians even if they have slept with a man which is a false identity for them because a lesbian just wouldn’t sleep with a man. But the whole ‘gold star lesbian’ thing started as a way for straights to make fun of us. They’d say “Oh you haven’t slept with a man? Do u want a GOLD STAR?” so when I call myself a gold star lesbian i’m mostly just reclaiming it and saying yeah I am proud of it, and yeah give me a gold star! Lmao

I won’t go into everything you said because i’ll be here all night but I’m also a femme mostly attracted to other femmes and it is true most lesbians are butches which makes our dating pool even smaller. I don’t rule out butches completely, I have found some attractive I’m just mostly attracted to femmes and I’ve never met a butch irl I’ve known other femme lesbians though.

What I think you should do moving forward? Is not to lose hope. I believe there is someone out there for everyone. Get in touch with the local community, if you don’t like going to nightclubs u could always join any events or anything like that, a good way to feel in touch with ur local community can be things like volenteering and the like.

I know it’s hard out here for lesbians but you will find your person. My dms are always open if u wanna vent or just talk!

[runawaysiren940]

Long ask ahead:

Have you ever heard of the show The Bisexual that came out six years ago. It’s about, you guessed it, a bisexual woman who breaks up with her girlfriend of ten years and starts dating men. The overview says it tackles how difficult it is to come out as bisexual in the gay community.

When it came out, I did the biggest eye roll.

Not only did the show seem boring, but unnecessary. All this money spent on a production about how hard it is to accept your heterosexual relationship?

And?

I don’t know how homosexuals were portrayed in the show but I wouldn’t be surprised if it was not positive.

Anyways, people insisted bisexuals need this kind of subversive representation.

Personally, I think there’s no way to put a positive spin on this. Even if it happens in real life, same sex relationships are far too demonized to need any form of media reassurance like this. Who needs to be reminded that it’s okay to date men again after dating women. What planet are they living on because apparently homosexuality reins supreme there and I need to go.

What do you think? Should media explore bisexuality in that way? Female characters ending up with males after having lesbian relations. For me, a female and moid couple being end game instead of a lesbian couple should be illegal. And persecuted at the highest level. But that’s just me.

Considering that most bisexual women end up het partnered, I don't see a pressing need to 'normalize' heterosexual partnership- especially when you can find that anywhere, and the trope of 'bisexual leaving ss partner for osa' is a huge reason why so many gay men and women are hesitant to date bisexuals.

By all means, be happy; but I find it annoying to pretend that going along with the status quo is subversive.