#If you’re ever stressed
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have speed painting of a galaxy noot
(This took like ten mins💀)
Nightmare belongs to jokublog
Edit: background?? Don’t know if I like it or not so take both :^
#utmv#Nightmare sans#watercolor chaos#ut au#dreamtale nightmare#dreamtale#undertale#bad sanses#traditional art#sans aus#If you’re ever stressed#speed draw the most chaotic thing intentionally mindlessly#Doesn’t have to look good if it makes you feel better :)#(Yeah I added a background after posting pft)#My art
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Also have another “first words spoken to you are on your skin” soulmate AU idea where Kara is a journalist assigned to shadow the controversial CEO of L-Corp for the day. It’s a big deal for her to get this assignment, so of course she trips the second she’s near the other woman and tries awkwardly to redeem herself.
The CEO stares at her almost in shock, and then says nothing. At all. Ever, for the entire day.
Kara spends hours following Lena Luthor around trying to fill the silence, but no amount of questions get her to talk. Lena almost seems to be running away at some points - like she’s trying to lose her? - and the few times she’s managed to catch her actually talking to someone she goes silent the second she sees Kara.
She asks around if Miss Luthor is usually like this and everyone looks at her like she’s crazy. Apparently she’s the only one who gets the silent treatment. By the end of her first day shadowing she’s walking away with half a page of observations and not a single quote. Miss Grant is going to kill her.
But that’s okay. It’s fine, this isn’t over. She has four days of shadowing ahead of her and she’ll be damned if she doesn’t finish this with a quote from the woman herself. It’s only a matter of time.
#what if you were an over stressed billionaire who feels like your existence must be a constant apology for the sins of your family#and you’re about to be followed around and studied by some no named baby reporter sent from a fashion magazine#you’re battling the migraine of a century you have five crises to settle all at once and also that baby reporter just said your words#the ones you’ve carried for the last decade - the ones you’ve feared and hoped for ever since#and it’s wonderful probably - this is what people dream of - but the problem is you just don’t have time for this#you can’t have your big soulmate moment#not right now. definitely not with this reporter. it’s not the right time#so I guess those words will just have to wait until it is time#if you can someone manage to resist. it’ll be hard#she does seem like someone it’d be really easy to talk to after all#good luck to you both#soulmate AU#Supercorp#fun shenanigan that I shan’t be writing#mine
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i am a COWARD. and a PUSSY. and PATHETIC. why don’t i SPEAK UP MORE. why am i so AFRAID. (tags for mild clarification grrhhhhh)
#this is about a certain someone who sent like four needless asks which i then privately responded to with yeah you’re right so they’d stop 😭#i ended up blocking them cuz. yeah. But like i should not have tolerated that#i did though LMAO#if you ever see me backing down and agreeing with someone who is in the wrong it’ss cuz im terrified at all times#grrhrhhjj. man why do i tolerate this junk.#tmw my anxiety ACTUALLY alters how i process stress#i back down way too much#whyyyy do i end up agreeing with needless criticism and hate because im scared of getting into fights or drama#WHYYYyy am i scared of being yelled at online#WHY!!!! am i scared of people#i get. so scared of people
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sometimes i’m like, do i even sim. do i even like the sims. do i know what a sim is. do i know anything. and then i close the game and take a break and suddenly i’m normal again
#we’re not letting a hobby stress us out like.. huh.. no way... right?#anyway if you’re ever stuck in that mode of ‘everything i make sucks’ i highly suggest taking a few days away from the game#forcing something doesn’t work#it’s supposed to be fun!#you're allowed to take breaks from this hobby/take your time :)#let this be your reminder
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what’s there not to understand about hypomania? you know when you get overtired, and like a toddler, you get all hyperactive and also want to cry or do Every Fun Thing you can think of and it actually becomes harder to sleep? like as a result of too much overwhelm or being so emotionally exhausted that’s how your body makes you able to cope, the aftereffects of too much adrenaline? just imagine being stuck like that. and every day it triggers itself more, overload of emotional whiplash and energy and you’ve lost all ability to think rationally and you can do anything at this point, because why not? you’ve got nothing left in you to hold back on any idea that could be exciting and stop you from falling into the void where the wiredness you feel has nothing to latch onto to burn off that nervous energy in a positive way, emotionally. for days or weeks or months on end. you don’t need to have ever experienced this fully to extrapolate and be like. yeah. I can see how it would suck eventually to get stuck like that
#at this point I’m begging people to see the overlap with adhd too bc anecdotally it seems like everyone I know also has that#and the overlap with bpd and hpd but I think the main difference is. being stuck in that high energy state. even when the energy turns sad#and bitter and hopeless. it’s essentially just overstimulation from your own brain. gets stuck overstimulating itself to cope maybe?#like i know people say it’s not triggered by life events but they sometimes can trigger it. but imho depression is gonna trigger it too#eventually. anything where everything is Too Much can start the positive feedback loop that’s almost impossible to turn off#which if you don’t know what a positive feedback loop is. means smth triggers smth which goes back and triggers its original trigger#thus getting bigger and bigger in magnitude. it’s like the chicken and the egg. egg makes chicken and chicken makes egg. more egg more#chicken and more chicken more egg. as opposed to a negative feedback loop which by the time there gets enough of smth it stops triggering#making more of it. your body relies on negative feedback loops for smth called homeostasis which is basically keeping everything stable#so obv positive feedback loops are gonna do the opposite of stable. in this case for your energy and your mood#most people are able to sleep better when they’re tired. my hypothesis of hypomania is when being tired makes you less able to rest#and that obviously spirals in on itself. mania would just be an extension of that I guess? but in some people it does happen really fast so#I get the narrative that it’s a chemical imbalance bc it is. but the specific imbalance being the tendency to a positive feedback loop make#more sense to me too. and can be why predictability and external cycles to ground yourself to are so important#there’s also never a 0% chance of you ever having a manic episode btw. anyones brain can theoretically get into this loop it’s just that if#you’re genetically predisposed to bipolar you’re much more likely to! and that’s okay. you can manage it with meds and lifestyle#but it makes sense why lowering stress (which can trigger this cycle) is such an important part of treatment and management#anyway. hopefully I’m not like. horribly horribly wrong or smth. in the end I can only speak for my experience so lmk if I’m missing smth#bipolar awareness#bipolar 2#hypomania#personal mental health tag#neurodivergence#would you believe I was reminiscing about a concert I went to once. and it made me think of all this
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#the cryptid talks#one of those days where you’re irritated by everything and everyone#I had to lay on the floor while playing one of those angry/mad playlists as i dissociated#the kids annoying me then my dad spewing about whatever I don’t even remember#mainly how me n my sis are trying to raise the kids in a way different form his past#like sorry you were abused as a child and thought it was fine but we don’t wanna do that for these kids#cuz that parenting style TOTALLY worked for me n my sibslings and totally didn’t give us fucked self esteem issues that we have to carry#through our adulthood#WHOOPS#and don’t address me as a friend we are not on that level#I wouldn’t even want to be associated with if we were strangers let alone related#i was already annoyed before that and just wished he’d stop talking#doesn’t help I’ve having a headache ever since the election too#just fuck me i guess#played some borderlands 3 as a stress reliever#even at the cost of seeing Ava again and the storyline ughhh#I miss my bird#I wonder how she would’ve grown by now
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Can we send requests of our own plushies for you to rate? :)
Thanks so much for asking first of all. I’ve been thinking about this a whole lot (even before I drew the first plushie here) and I think I’ve finally decided that at least for now, I won’t be taking submissions for plushie ratings. Without getting too serious, the main reason is that I’m afraid that it will stop feeling as fun as it does now. I also really enjoy how happy people seem to be when they see a surprise rating that they weren’t expecting, which would happen much less often if I was spending time drawing submissions, too. I really hope that everyone understands
#I love seeing all your plushies regardless and you’re always free to show me them through asks or dms#I wasn’t able to draw for a few years without it feeling very stressful and I think the anxiety of drawing for others made it much worse#im sort of taking baby steps while I get used to drawing again and this blog has been a huge help#everyone ive interacted with so far has been very kind and I have almost 100 followers already! which is super cool#if you’ve already submitted a plushie or were planning to im very sorry. I hope you understand#I really love drawing and am so happy that it feels fun again after so long#I’ll hold onto my current few submissions in case this ever changes someday#sorry for getting all serious gvutfd5fuq#I love you guys a ton! thank you for all the follows and reblogs and kind words#i see all of them even in tags and appreciate all of you so very much#not plushie#mouse answers#mouse speaks#mouse rambles
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Ya gal officially has 4 jobs🤪
#personal*#jess talks#you’re not looking at a full time freelance illustrator/graphic designer | Etsy shop owner | early years playworker & Sainsbury’s employee#😂😂😂#so happy honestly cus it means I’ll be earning like £1k a month with both part times combined#AND still have time to run my shop/do commissions!!#I genuinely thought I’d have to give up my art stuff#but low-key this is the best outcome ever#I can finally start saving to move out and get my license😭#even just a motorbike will do me wonders#and I can drive that without a full license#but omg guys I’m so fuckin happy#the new job is legit 2 seconds from my house too😭 (it’s the village shop on my road)#so I can pick up more shifts if I want and not stress about travel#AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH SCREAMING
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#we’re stress testing babes#they should take away my ability to make polls#sorry did I say polls#I meant post#just delete my account while you’re at it#anyway#I love y’all and I hope you have a wonderful night <3#god help you if you see this post it’s the worst thing I’ve ever done#hmm… I wonder if there’s a limit on the amount of tags a post can have?#a smart man would just look that up#but I am not a smart man#…however that is a test for another day#skate fast and eat ass folks
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Sometimes… sometimes I wonder how someone can look at another person, hear that they’re struggling, and then somehow make it about themselves. Subtle enough that it’s not “who cares, let’s talk about me” but direct enough that the other person has to swallow down anger and frustration as to not escalate the situation
#I’m not feeling great. we all know this yes okay#how does me sharing that my elbow hurts lead to you asking if I can even go to the concert with you if I’m feeling so shitty#what does these two things have to do with each other#also how is that the priority? I paid for my own ticket. I’m not costing anyone else money if I don’t go#also when did I ever say I’m not going??? when did I even as much as hint at it??#because I am going. we’re still going. me being on sick leave isn’t changing that#I need things to look forward to as well. therapist’s order actually#but like. sure. how does my acute stress and burnout affect YOU. and your plans#even if you wrap it in ‘I’m worried about you’ vibes I can still see what you mean#if YOU don’t wanna go that’s fine. just say so. I’ll go without you#if it’s because you’re worried I’ll abandon you just say that#I’ll reassure you#am I rambling because I’m sensitive? yes#misha rants
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i feel like the way ‘dogtok’/‘dogstagram’ talks about reactivity makes reactive dog owners feel a lot more ashamed than they ought to
#idk i just.. don’t really see anything to be ashamed about? and i hate the ‘your dog is reactive because you FAILED’ mindset#sometimes you do absolutely everything right and the universe still throws some shit at you that leads to reactivity#and it’s just a thing that happens sometimes#dogs are animals with teeth and claws and fur and tails#they shit outside and roll in dead things and sniff each others butts#and sometimes have big feelings about things#and that’s just part of being a little critter#it’s not a moral failing on anyone’s part that your dog is a dog instead of a cardboard cutout of a dog#not everything goes smoothly 100% of the time and sometimes you end up with an extra Thing that needs to be worked on#and yeah of course Working On It can be stressful. no one wants to see their dog having a hard time. which is exactly why we don’t need to#-be pushing the added stress of GUILT#it’s not helpful to anyone. it doesn’t prevent reactivity in the future. it just makes someone who’s already having a hard time have a-#-worse one#this is not a situation that needs blame#idk if any of this makes sense#my meds are making me a lil weird lmao#@ everyone who has a reactive dog: you’re doing a great job and if anyone tries to make you feel guilty#eat them#keep Workin On It and remember that Dogs Is Dogs#kill the goblin in your brain that tells you you’re the worst guy to have ever done it#you’re normal your dog is normal. give both of you a cookie rn
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Milkvans on Twitter < 48 hrs ago: Byler stans HATE El, they just pretend they don’t. At least us milkvans are honest about hating Will.
New tumblr account < 2 hrs ago: El is useless and she should die. Also Will has powers.
#byler#me a willel twin truther: am i a joke to you?#honey#sweetheart#if you hate will then hate him#no need to project onto bylers to feel better about yourself 😭#we love el in these parts#get used to it#you aren’t gonna find anyone wishing death on el or anyone in the party here quite frankly#give it up#you ever think that hating Will vehemently is probably not the way the show was intended to be watched…?#and if you feel that way you’re probably watching it wrong?#same goes for el#theres a reason bylers don’t hate el to the degree milkvans hate will#you guys feel threatened over a ship…#ppl only get hostile and start harassing complete strangers when they are feeling insecure#unbothered ppl stay in their lanes and eat their food in peace#maybe go do the same instead of stressing yourself out by projecting hate with pettiness#im willing to bet the antibyler account and this new one are the same person..
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so 😕 about how Tessa has all these moments in internal monologue about how deep down she’s always known Aunt Harriet making excuses for Nate wasn’t right and that he didn’t deserve all they both did to coddle him and that she always compartmentalized to see him as a good older brother, and how that’s all come to the surface now she knows he was willing to sell her out (though not the full scope of that) but then when Mortmain comes she still instinctively doesn’t tell Nate and goes instead ‘to protect him’ ugh. Like it feels so real as a depiction of a woman internalizing societal norms even though part of her is aware…
#it’s so real you can have moments of recognizing patterns like that and then just.. repeat them even though you’re aware. I love this arc#Of hers. I think Nate on his own would be a pretty pathetic villain but the internal work for Tessa in relation to him supports the#Storyline/makes it compelling#S speaks#s rereads tid#tessa gray#(also feel like this is one of the reasons tid is so much more successful than tmi I could be wrong because it has been ages#But in my memory tmi stresses J*ce and his daddy issues re: Valentine sooo much and Clary’s narrative about him which would be more#interesting is barely ever touched on maybe like… two passing moments.#vs it’s a very consistent conflict for Tessa in the first two books)
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Okay hold up, I get it, the next four years are gonna be kinda chaotic. Is this just a cover up for stealing more money? Idk maybe lmao it’s trumps Oompa Loompa ass. And I know at some point one of his plans were to make it harder to elect democrats. Harder, not impossible. I personally don’t believe it’s impossible to eradicate the Democratic Party. Laws and stuff like that are reversible. Like it might take a few months but everything’s reversible. I don’t know what else people want to hear, like I have sympathy but I’m also trying to look at this from a logistical point of view.
#us politics#idk I’m yapping#everyone’s reactions are bugging me a lot#it’s both parties but I’m a fucking asshole soooo#everyone needs to get out of their ever powerful or end of the world mindsets and go back to living your lives#like people have done during the rest of previous presidential terms for years#idk if you look back at trumps shit from 2016 it’s similar to the shit he’s saying now#nothing lasting happened then and I doubt the soon to be dementia riddled bitch can do anything that will be long lasting now#please go live you’re lives and stop stressing about stuff like this#it’s not healthy for anyone
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you know what? the best compliments always come from kids. they are the most genuine compliments.
#and the best kind of feedback#i am constantly stressing out that i’m not doing enough or doing something wrong#but then a small child thinks you’re funny so you must be doing at least something right#i am always so touched when kids tell me nice things#one time a kid described me as funny and kind and beautiful#that’s like the highest compliment ever#can i put that on my resume
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Now mildly freaking out bc the accountant we used decided my partner and I were married even though we told them it was a common law cost for filing and now the CRA thinks I’m married and wants me to update the date except we’re not married and not common law by the laws of our province and idk what to do…
#I mean it’s fine that rent is split that’s all we needed#and we just assumed that it said that bc it was equivalent but now the Cra has emailed me???#so uh… yeah that’s… stressful#I mean it’s fine but we’re not married#we’ve been together for just over a year#officially#weve been living together for a year starting tomorrow#so like….#I wasn’t trying to lie? we didn’t notice until we got home#anyway if you’re ever searching through old documents and something like this shows up#know that there’s weird things
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