#IM NOT EVEN JOKING AROUND ANYMORE

[mrcarmenile]

"what a great day to be a lesbian" i say, scrolling through my folder of sevika edits

[androgynouscomputerthing]

First Heats/Ruts

While many AU’s prefer to have presentations in the mid to late teens years, I’ve always found that I personally prefer them happening earlier.

Ages 10-14 makes sense to me, maybe even 12-14. I feel that first heats/ruts would be non-sexual, mostly focusing on settling into a newer dynamic within their own pack. Lots of cramping and awkward discomfort. Probably not unusual to see them curling up in their parents or closest pack members nest/den, heating pad on, and snacks close by.

Maybe around this time, parents or guardians, even older siblings may show how to construct a nest or build a den. They may take these not-quite-pups-definitely-not-grown kids out to nesting/denning material stores where they can pick out their very own favourite blankets and pillows and base mattress.

I think that it would be a major coming of age event. Maybe a party would be thrown or just a sit-down “you’re becoming an adult soon” talk that all kids get around that age.

Group scenting of new nesting/denning materials could be a bonding exercise, as well as pack members offering up already scented materials such as hoodies or pillows from their own nest/den.

The discomfort and awkwardness of early heats/ruts would likely remain for a while. Some pups might have to wear the occasional sanitary pad when slick or other fluids start to kick into gear. While definitely not ready for the intended uses, the body would probably do this in some way. Close pack members must be ready to assure these pups that it’s completely natural and nothing to be ashamed of.

Sexual heats specifically would not start until the body is able to physically support carrying a baby, while sexual ruts wouldn’t start until several Omega peers had also started getting sexual heats. If this happens too early, pack members are encouraged to do some at-home teaching about consent and self-control as a precaution.

I think that this time would also be a great opportunity for schools, as well as packs at home, to start teaching about sexual education. Starting simple, like talking about the birds and the bees (that I believe most pups would already have knowledge of from their pack), as well as making sure that no pups are getting too curious and making sure they know about consent and such. While I think that consent talks and conversations about sex would be more common, I believe that education wise, it would be somewhat similar to now.

At this time, the scent will also start to shift. Going from a regular pup-milk scent with a hint of what their future scent may be, to starting to get less and less milky as time goes on. This may cause some distress among pups’ own scents changing, as well as pack members and friends.

Scents will also start to take on those more “Alpha-like” or “Omega-like” tones. Whereas for Betas, they have their scent emerge just the same, only without a heat or rut to accompany it. In addition, I believe that overstimulation from scents would be common.

[flovverworks]

i shouldve made solo blogs for charas ppl know (person whos eyeing farmsim muses again)

[bokuwadekinaiko]

(advice appreciated + long ass tags)

this sucks this sucks this SUCKS FUCK. ive been hokeschooled / "unschooled" for the entirety of my 8th grade and school is starting again in 2 weeks and i really want and really need to be back in school but idk if im mentally at all ready. opening day would be best to go back obviously but i didn't spend anytime during summer preparing for the routine / fixing my damn sleep schedule but i really need this .

i also know its gonna SUCK because i have severe sensory processing issues (tldr my brain Cannot filter out uncomfortable noises / textures / etc andi go Fucking ballistic and melt/shutdown) and even at home im having multiple daily meltdowns / panic attacks from just the everyday noises / sensations so god forbid what it will be like around 300 teenagers who don't know personal space exists.. i also have a severe anxiety disorder / autism so itll be even MORE fun :-) yaAy (thats not factoring in PDA disorder which is made my dad drop me out anyways because its Fucking Hell trying to go to school with that)

but i want this. i need this . iwant to get an education. i wanr to be around kids my age instead of being forced to be inside all day. i want to have routine and make friends and feel normal. im just scared that because of circumstances out of my control ill never get that

[yunogf]

there's nothing like having ur boss chew u who is overworked and underpaid out for not doing enough :)

[phagodyke]

demand avoidance is so stupid. what do you mean I'm not going to do the thing I wanted to anymore just bc someone else wants me to......

[zoskas]

so

[yourbestdream]

I generally assume that the phrase "blood boiling" to describe anger is just metaphor and all that but then I get really genuinely angry about something and I remember that it is not.

[vanillabat99]

Sorry for the empty blog, it's been hard to keep up lately. I haven't been feeling well and my phone has been having issues. I've also been having more hallucinations than usual, and they have been much more involved than I'm used to. I'm still here, and I still want to post!! Things might just be quiet for a little while. Thank you for understanding 💕💕💕

[thebleedingeffect]

Clean bedding and covers genuinely one of the top 10 things to exist on this pristine earth... now if I could share this while cuddling with someone, it'd be up there for top 3 things to exist

[a-dash-in-the-middle]

i actually do like jewellery as a gift bc when i wear it i feel like i have a part of the people who gifted it with me

[im-tempted]

This song is going to be what makes me fucking **** ******