#I have a black autistic friend
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just because you struggle doesn’t mean everyone else has to
idgaf how autistic you are stop being racist😭😭
#it’s not an excuse#nothing about it is justified#I have a black autistic friend#nobody listens to him when he tries to explain he might no get stuff and general autism symptoms#and they tell him he doesn’t have it#however people were quick to accept I have it#and me and him act the same#so I think there’s a little detail that I’m white and he’s not that’s contributing to this#actually people weren’t quick to accept me either#but it was faster than him#don’t be racist because you have autism and help out the black and queer people with autism#seriously though it’s a big problem and me and my friend noticed it#it may not seem like one but take another look#if someone does something weird ‘because they are autistic’ and don’t get judged/punished look at black autistic people and see what-#-happens when they say the exact same things#doesn’t work. right?#autism isn’t an excuse + listen to others#I’m not educated well on the topic#but I mean I see it and expirence it so
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Why the FUCK didn't Sasha apologize to Quinni.
#no im so pissed about that.#dude you don't give an autistic person a meltdown that big over something that hurtful#and just#walk away scot free#last time someone gave me a meltdown that hardcore I cut them off for a month.#that might just be the bpd tho#but still#quinni doesn't seem like the type to just. be chill without an apology and hearing sasha explain herself#and then she makes her her vice??????????#she already acknowledged sasha is only in it for the power trip#sasha didn't even do anything in the investigation she just followed quinni around#which as she should#but she hasn't made up for how she treated quinni AT ALL#in fact she's just gotten MORE of a performative activist#like why the fuck was she such a bitch to missy abt spider#i get it yea. ur friends sometimes have dogshit taste in men but you don't need to make them feel like trash abt it#and the way she was like 'he fetishizes u for being black omg its probably asian girls next omg i dont feel safe'#THIS ISNT ABOUT YOU????????.#also she 100% jumpstarted quinnis identity crisis#with how she was constantly switching between infantilizing her and undermining her autonomy over her own decisions#and treating doing things quinni wanted to do and the specific way she needed to do them as a chore#and then victimizing herself!!!!!!!#like from experience that relationship dynamic IS abusive to autistic people it just is#idk if nt people get it but it's really fucking awful to come from your partner#anyway. until sasha apologizes to both quinni and missy this will continue to be a sasha hate page.#heartbreak high#heartbreak high season 2#quinni gallagher jones#sasha so#missy beckett
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Thinkin of Meat Marionette Bruce and his relationship with the Justice League
It'd be hilarious if like, he was still a founder but doesn't go out for any meetings or whatever with the public so the new league members in the beginning have no idea about him lmao. They just see this giant cloaked thing crouching next to the computer one morning and understandably freaks out and brings Superman and Wonderwoman running to clear up the misunderstandings lol.
Also thinkin about @phoenixcatch7's idea of head rubbing portraying trust and the idea of Bruce leaning his head against Clark or Diana to get pets for comfort. Just getting real close and practically exposing his neck to show that he trusts the two of them with his life.
#Why yes he's injured- probably his wings that need to heal and is all bandaged up#The others are concerned because there's this black *goop* staining the bandages but the founders insist that's just a sign he's healing???#It's if the blood is red or has flecks of green that's concerning but the black is the equivalent of a wound clotting up to stop the bleedi#meat marionette au#justice league#superman#batman#I wonder how Batman feels to Martian Manhunter with how he's connected to an eldritch hivemind#Like does it actually infuence and make it harder to read Bruce's mind?#I mean I like to think autistic batman who thinks in pictures anyway but I also like to think the Tunnels have influence over it too#O h imagine if one of them meets Bruce Wayne (not batman but bruce) and having this weird deja vu moment with his movments#art#ibispaintx#sketch#Clark is just trying to write his report while his maybe concussed friend is pushing up against him for head pats and comfort/affection#Everyone else is freaked out because it's Batman lol#Maybe it's the first time they've seen him without the cloak covering his body
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Okay, does anyone have any headcanons for Sanji in a relationship with a neurodivergent reader who has sensory issues with food? Because I’m autistic/ADHD and have trouble with "fancy" food (like the kind of stuff that Sanji would cook) and I just wonder how he’d react to someone like that 😆
#mari speaks#sanji x reader#vinsmoke sanji x reader#black leg sanji x reader#opla sanji x reader#opla x reader#autistic reader#adhd reader#neurodivergent reader#feel free to send any headcanons you have into my ask box#I’m only tagging so much because I don’t have many one piece followers (yet) and I’m trying to make friends haha#I’ve only seen the live action tho!!
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It's crazy to me how apparently people think I look intimidating bc I have resting bitch face (god forbid you're black and have resting bitch face.) and have peircings and dyed hair and wear mostly black and stuff but like. I'm literally the world's most anxious creature??? Are people just too unconsciously racist to pick up on that or..?
I fr freeze like a deer in headlights when customer service workers ask if I need help finding anything 😭 least scary person ever tbh
#also thr autistic feeling of wanting friends and human interaction but also i fucking hate being around other people irl#that might be a living in small predominantly white area issue tho. lots of those#white liberals that get uncomfortable when u so mucj as mention race casually bc they have a white guilt complex#moth.txt#im black tag
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finished warnings at waverly academy again for the first time since it was released and throughoutly enjoyed myself!!!
#corine you autistic black woman 🥺 they love to villainize you#even tho you tried to kill me i forgive you!!! we could have been friends!!!#shes a horse girl who loves chocolate and researching obsessively i just love her okay#corine myers#nancy drew games#warnings at waverly academy#it was just really rude of them how i finished the game on juneteenth and the literal one black character is the conniving culprit
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u kno what really sucks
when self proclaimed toxic friend (friend A) catches wind of a conversation you had with another person (friend B). in which B says A is "kinda toxic".
A then comes to you upset about it. and asks why you didn't defend them.
there's no kind way to say "bc they right"
#girl you have literally been BLOCKED by FRIENDS for toxic behaviour#we have told you TO YOUR FACE to stop doing toxic shit and you just keep going because you think it's funny#“I know I joke about being toxic all the time but it's not like it's true!”#it literally is you may not be toxic to your friends but we see what you do/say to/about randos??#she's the kind of person to teabag people in pvp and start arguments in df#but I know I can't say she IS toxic because she'll just brush it off like everything else I say to her :)#“I can't believe you'd talk about that to group B instead of coming to me :(”#I d i d#and you brushed me off saying “noooo it's not like that!!!! they're super nice I promise!!!!! they didn't mean it!!!!!”#I like to talk to group B about this shit because they actually validate my feelings instead of just telling me what I think is wrong#if it's not how she sees it doesn't count#I may be autistic as fuck but even I know things aren't black and white. everyone is going to see a situation from a different perspective#you can disagree with the perspective you're being told and still be sympathetic/work towards a solution
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i survived my first professional conference and learned that the most evil thing about networking… is… it’s kinda good……
#it’s like oh i am meeting other people who do my same or similar job and finding out who is cool and who i want to talk shop with#and maybe even be friends with?!#also it was a multidisciplinary healthcare provider thing so also i am personally meeting people who i can refer my clients to#and i get to like. vet their vibes. like oh i have a client who’s looking for a new therapist rn and they’d really get along with you!#anyway. i met another person with my name who is also autistic and has a different job but similar specialty areas#and we’re gonna get coffee#oh also i’m still new to this profession so the weirdest part was meeting so many strangers who already knew who i was?!#this professional community is small and this was just a local event. and. i’m still the only black person with this job in this specialty 🥴#oh and i also did an unrelated work drinks thing at a bar after and it was fun!#anyway ANYWAY. look at me bein grown 🤠
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autism discussions on the internet are sooo fucking white
#just. i'm overhearing a bit of my bf talking to one of his close friends#who's black & autistic#and the way she talks about how she gets treated is just. so different from white autistics#like both in her own mannerisms#and just all of the discrimination and bad faith interpretations she faces because of her blackness#like she gets gaslit so much and i wont share her personal business but. even living in a liberal city w a high black population#she faces so much old style systematic misogynoir/ableism where institutionalization gets used against her#and that's. so different from the way autism is portrayed w a white pespectve.#and as though its a white-exclusive experience. it annoys me#shut up mega#also just when she talks about how she responds to things it sounds so logically correct to me LOL i'm with her on her approaching things in#literally the best way she could have.#while also being..yknow. a human being with thoughts feelings and emotions#girl puts up with So Much with so much grace
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You call it “repeating outfits”
I call it having consistent character design.
#my best friend called me a cartoon character last week#because I have bright pink hair and only wear black#I have 5 copies of the same shirt and pants#and I have 2 different kinds of black sweatshirt#and 3 copies of each of kind#yes I am autistic
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Sam is definitely autistic
#gap#gap the series#i should decide on a tag now i have started to properly watch it#meins#i just finished ep 3 and how she didn't understand the lion/ant story and said her friends often#laughed about her just strenghtened this impression of her being autistic#i am also a bit in love with her in general i think#and her black sleeping outfit asdfghjkl
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SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
You know what? Fuck you. I am a "men's rights activist."
I'm for trans men having gender-affirming marks on identification and paperwork and still being able to access OBGYN and pregnancy care, and contraceptives.
I'm for all men's restrooms including baby changing stations, because fathers exist and need to change their babies.
I'm for black men having a voice and being seen and heard, and not assumed to be predators for being both black and men.
I'm for fathers gaining custody of their children in the face of a court system which favors the mother, stating that a child should "never be without their mother," granting custody to even the abusive mothers while taking it away from their fathers.
I'm for boys receiving both 'boy' sex education and 'girl' sex education, so they know how periods and pregnancy actually work.
I'm for boys and men giving and receiving emotional checkups, hugs, and everything soft because boys and men both deserve softness. Boys and men deserve to express their emotions healthily. To know how to express emotions healthily.
Men deserve access to care, patience, love and kindness.
#Im a trans dude but I have been around a lot more men than women#mostly because I get along with guys more than the women around me trying to force femininity on me at every turn#and MY GOD my male family members and friends are DEPRIVED#my poor dad had to fight tooth and nail with a court system cause despite EVERYTHING POINTING TO MY MOTHER#BEING WAAY TOO MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY UNSTABLE#the court was still “the mother gets custody of her children because she is the mother”#if I recall. my mom's medical team gave multiple collective papers to my mom's lawyer saying basically “this woman is fucked up.”#and my friends have NEVER been given grace or kindness or anything. had a friend who basically had a target on his head at school#just cause he was a man and had that autistic “oddness” to him#he was called a rapist even though HE was the one SA'd. literally watched hit happen and in the same day the girl said “omg he touched#my boob!!“ girl I saw you try and pull down my friend's pants while he was telling you No#and all the black guys I have known who were treated terribly because of their manlyness. had a childhood friend who didnt perform#masculinity “right” and from what he vaguely hinted at. he was abused by his parents and was bullied when I wasnt around#even as a kid I saw how men were never given any kindness of any kind. only hatred and only malice#I UNDERSTAND WHERE ITS COMING FROM!!! but for men who have given you no reason to treat them like that. its just cruel.#I love my dad. I love my friends. I love all the men of color I have known and I want a better world for women AND men
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I think the most healing thing to do as a trans person is talk to other trans people (irl when possible) who have really different experiences with gender whenever you can. It's so easy to get caught up in your own head feeling like the only person who struggles with certain things, who hates some part of yourself, who's frustrated with society the way you are. It's so easy to feel like nobody else understands and spiral into your own head.
But I'm a firm believer that the more you talk to people with different experiences the more similarities you'll find in unexpected places and that can be so much better than someone who is like you in every way. It's me and one of my other nb friends who presents very differently agreeing that our genders are both very purple. It's my transfem friend and me discussing body hair being dysphoric for us both. It's talking to 3 other transmascs about how we want to transition, what's dysphoric and isn't, the worries about surgery and T that are uncomfortable to talk about with cis people. Even if it's just "we both really relate to this song about being trans", finding little things you can go "Same hat!" is a muscle that needs practice but it is very worth it.
#I'm lucky to be in an extreme transgender work environment rn.#And I'm finding it also rather entertaining that out of all the other transmascs there the people I vibe with most are transfem.#But I spent so long being like 'nobody can know that I sometimes still identify with being a girl but in a very not cis way'#Because nobody's going to believe or respect me. And having them both kinda guess that before I even said it.#Finding the similarities in our dysphoria and experiences??? especially being autistic and trans. I was so close to crying#I think this is something also to be said outside of just being trans I think it does a lot of good in a lot of conversations#esp about minority experiences because you can really find the overlap#the conversations I've had with my black friends. With my friends from other countries. With my disabled friends.#I really think there's always something you can go 'people have said to me too!' or 'I've felt like that'#even if it's not for the same reason. we can all hold hands. we need to find the solidarity.#it's why we need to support minorities we're not a part of because their oppression is our oppression and vice versa. it's all connected.#we can't fight for ourselves if we can't fight for everyone else too.#sorry I'm feeling really emotional about this. getting off my soapbox now lol
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I was late to a 9 am lecture on funny enough homosexuality in the context of ancient Greece and if we can even call it but that this this that and the 3rd because i spent the night before agonising over weather i was bi lesbian or just have ab inability to love before remembering the promise i made to my self at 15 that i was not supposed to care actually.
idk if im actually bi or nit but i have an 8 am class tomorrow cant worry about that
#rambling#i like that this is happening to more than just me#it used to paralyse me just the thought of identifying and how i didnt fit into any of them#before like connecting with other autistic people and realising that they dont really either#all my friends have or have had gender struggles who have issues fitting into the queer identities#and when I realised that all my people were struggling i took the view the black and white view of it just doesn’t matter#but every once in a while it will get me again
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good lord got a post put on my dash that was some Fandom Opinion blog talking ab how things irl shouldn't be mentioned in spaces where it's not meant for. curiously, i searched racism, and well, what you expected to happen happened,
#aria talkz#'what you expect to happen' was Associating the same things with racism or literally any talk of antiblackness.#Never trust a nonblk fandom-obsessed person god bless#because it is all about making White People Safe always and Forever. clearly. [sarcasm]#{ if you cant tell. im black . mixed black But jesus Christ. }#( esp bc i think its usually telling bc in the spaces its happened in for me they usually Hate talking ab racism but every other talk of-#bigotry is fine and Unpunished. so theres clearly bias. its just when YOURE criticized its the issue . )#anyways i never ever ever trust white fandom obsessed ppl the racism roots run deep. as they do always but. especially there christ alive#'fandom opinion blog' was already a red flag. but Jesus fucking christ.#also the general argument of media being always for escapism and fandom being always for escapism is weird.#theres always political messages and general messages in like.. a lot of media. and bigotry that is in media . This is an excuse.#its insane looking at people just be kind of racist and awful about palestinians and irl issues in the replies of that . what the fuck man#These are real world problems this isnt about your stupid discord fandom server shit get a grip holy fuck nonblk fandom obsessed ppl r craz#vent channels do suck in any server that isnt a close knit friend server i agree But given the rest of the context and wording of these...#whatever im gunna stop rambling bc it pisses me off as someone w firsthand experience multiple times it is just selfishness and racism. jf#being black bpd autistic in the ''nonpalatable'' way And aroace makes fandom as a space full of fucking landmines for me . always has been#( blog was my fandom reali tea w/o th spaces if you wanted to block. dont harass but jfc. )#its like peering in a dark hole i havent been back in since i was 14 . dont you have better things to do than run a fandom discourse blog.
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if you have a 'friend' and you don't like them but you act fake to them and you think that's fine chill-- they know. they can tell. they sense that somethings wrong. just stop being fake, it's less grief for everyone. you're not a good actor. its not better to be nice than real, your company and opinion is not such a tastemaker that it would hurt more to find out you don't like them then to always be in the uncomfortable grey limbo of knowing someone doesn't like you but it not matching up to their actions so you doubt yourself cycle.
#finally getting confirmation after 10 months that someone doesnt like me when ive know the whole time#but kept doubting bc sometimes they woudl be really fake nice to me#and i dont unserstand being fake to someone so i was like.... well#but the fact that i could tell they didnt like me made me so nervous and anxious and uncomfprtable#i never felt relaxed around them bc it was so obvious to me that they dont like me#btw we have mutual friends and do dnd together#and yeah my good friend was finally like yeah theyve said they apparently just dont like your 'vibe'#which my friend thinks translates to them not liking that im opinionated#i hate spending time with non adhd autistic people my age i swear to god#the most judgemental rude black and white thinking people ever#theyll just decide they dont like you and then do everything they can do find reasons to confirm their bias#bitch its not my 'vibe'#its my audhd
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