#I always mean it in a gay way
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cal is never beating the ‘bad habit of picking up strays’ allegations
#didn’t even realize that this picture is when he’s in the mantis too#memes that made it out of the discord#bode akuna#jedi survivor#greez dritus#cal kestis#spyscrapper#?#sure#I always mean it in a gay way
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ppl will really say shit like "astarion can't be attracted to women just look at the way he behaves" with their whole chest like they're not blatantly stereotyping gay men and erasing vast swathes of bisexual and pansexual men when they do that.
#remember when gay men were always feminine in media and we were rightfully annoyed by it????#bc gay men are not a monolith and being a gay man does not inherently mean one must adhere to certain affectations????#and we like knew it was shitty to assume a man was gay just bc he behaves in a way that's not traditionally masculine???????????#bring that energy back#bee.txt#baldur's gate 3#bg3#astarion ancunin#astarion#astarion bg3#i love him for who he is aka a pansexual king#good DAY sir
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Through out your posts you indicate that you head-canon Rex as gay, but who’s he got a crush on and or how’d he figure it out?
he likes anakin. hes not happy about it either lmao
#for years rex thinks codys a loser for being so down bad for his general that when he starts falling for anakin codys like OHH OKAY.#HOWS IT FEEL ASSHOLE#my art#star wars#tcw#clone wars#captain rex#commander cody#rexwalker#but yeah i mean since i hc the entire gar sans bly is fruity in some ways or other it was p normal for cadets to get crushes on the trainers#and so like. rex thought they were attractive but just didnt rlly care about romance or anything#so i feel like he always kinda knew but in like a passive way#even after he got deployed and got assigned to anakin he didnt rlly think much of him at first#but eventually his heart started fluttering everytime anakin stepped into his personal space and started smiling around him more#cody eventually had to sit him down and be like rex. vod. you are GAY
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when you and the homie wanna be detectives but neither of you know how to tie a tie ☹️
#YAY#trobed#abed nadir#troy barnes#annie edison#FIRST TIME DRAWING ANNIE WOAH ??#big fan of their trio dynamic#trobedison#but like platonic#idk you guys can interpret my drawings however you like#just not in a weird way#if yu get what i mean#as i always say ignore any weird looking parts in my drawings#please and thank you#yippee#teeheegeee#digital art#art#parker’s art#is it gay to try and tie yur bros tie??#community nbc#community tv#gay#community#fanart#trobed fanart
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The thing I respect most about Griffith Berserk is actually how ridiculously unsubtle with his hitting on Guts he is. Just IMMEDIATELY going up to him and literally grabs his face like "I realized I WANT you, now let me tell you exactly why." Like this isn't your typical suggestive homoerotic innuendo, this is just what he actually says. To the point Guts is just like, oh you mean like, in a gay way? And Griffith's just like... "*gay silence*" like idk you certainly can't blame the frustrating star-crossed lovers mutual piningness of their relationship on him being a bit too ambiguous about things or too cowardly to shoot his shot lol
#i mean#is his forcefulness ALWAYS admirable ahaha no certainly not#but whenever i first met him i was like dang i wish i had the gay cojones to do that#and this is why im not speaking to the 1997 anime by the way i dont know her#they ruined this moment by making it the regular kind of homoerotic subtext that can be read multiple ways...#like if i were Griffith i can just imagine thinking something like HOW COULD I POSSIBLY HAVE BEEN ANY FUCKING CLEARER#when it comes to so many of his golden age interactions with guts#berserk#berserk spoilers#griffguts#p
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I know what you are.
[First] Prev <--> Next
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#su she#lan jingyi#lan sizhui#jin ling#ouyang zizhen#nameless red disciple#Yeah that's right we are still getting a play-by-play of LWJ's fight#I have to set up the punchline somehow. another 'wait a bit and it will come' moment but I think I've build up a reputation now#My goal is to not let anyone get comfortable here. Always be on edge as to what poorly-draw-mdzs migh inflict upon you next#8 more days till the next anniversary post btw. Let that marinate and fester.#children and teens can sense aspects within you that not even you are aware of#i love how there is a clear shift within LJY’s opinion of wwx after this.#its small but apparently the realization that hanguang-jun trusts this guy with his money was enough#jin ling has always been on team ‘youre gay’ but slowly he’s starting to mean it in a less homophobic way#happy pride 🌈🏳️🌈🌈
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My life could’ve been very different, Lily thinks looking at Mary while holding James’ hand.
#marauders#marauders era#the marauders#dead gay wizards#harry potter#james potter#lily evans#mary mcdonald#marylily#jily#mary macdonald headcanon#lily evans headcanons#nothing wrong with that btw#it’s okay to acknowledge that#and it’s okay to sometimes grieve the life you could’ve had#from time to time#your decisions have an impact on your future#and that’s okay i think#doesn’t mean you’ve chosen poorly#it means your living#in a way at least#oh and ofc you’re always allowed to change your mind later#you got this#allie rambles
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out of curiosity, would you consider yourself butch?
used to be a blonde underweight twink and now I'm a based jock still got the chanel bag and the sick albeit matured mind of a suckpig to prove it so I'm gonna let you decide whether you wanna call me that word just cuz I got a pussy and short hair. I promise you that there have been enough advancements made in the art of lesbian sexual dynamics in the past 50 years to broaden the vocabulary used to describe the plethora of types of masculine females.
#being called butch just reminds me of how much males have the freedom to navigate between male archetypes and how people pay attention to#the distinguishing features of these varying masculinities#but when a female is seen as masculine it all gets lumped under the “butch” category#her masculinity is seen as unnatural and therefore incapable of being considered genuine or taken at face value as it is with males.#its always brought into question instead of taken in consideration with the rest of the woman's life and experiences and her particularities#Hence... Butch is still being treated as though its a huge lesbian cultural phenomena instead of a specific niche thing#also i dont mean to invite the “you dont pass!!” anons again bc that idiot is missing my point entirely (which is that im truly not trying)#but the fact is that for the past 3 years i have found myself increasingly navigating the male social world#and discovering what it means to me as a female to have access to the ability to take my “masculinity” for granted... relax#forget about it#etc#i think thats entirely antithetical to the Butch thing which seems to rest on the tension of other peoples expectations of her#people broadly are more surprised to find out that im interested in women just as much as they're surprised that im a gym queen iykwim...#ive worked hard for this and now that ive gotten the Woman Social Role thing pretty much entirely out of the way i am living the dream#i think a large part of that is learning as a dyke to appropriate the language of gay men theres a reason their terminology had#staying power even when their scene was *literally* dying meanwhile all that seemed to survive from dyke spaces was butch n femme ??#its because theirs didnt necessitate the building and maintenance of a scene in order for the subculture to hold its head above water#their labels *largely* weren't predicated on their relationships to gender roles and its telling that for dykes it was#their labels rested on the need to simply show up anonymous n be able to easily flag whether they were looking to fuck or be fucked#alongside the set of circumstances under which they would be fucking or getting fucked or what have you#it all comes back to the restrictions of female social blah blah blah and i think the sooner we collectively set down what we see as our#responsibility as lesbians and as feminists to Be A Woman the sooner we can step outside of that#n start thinking clearly about our individual circumstances and the necessity of putting on your own oxygen mask first before helping others
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shout out object shows with canon queer ships. I'm talking on screen kiss or even just verbal confirmation. all things considered it's a bit strange you don't really see them that much when you think about how gay everyone here is. I love you ii but c2bc did what you didn't and I think that's actually really nice.
#girl makes claims when there's 1 more ep for ii and many more for c2bc. police arrest her.#inanimate insanity#ii#osc#silver's mental breakdown#c2bc#c2bc spoilers#do we do that here or what#fireball c2bc#pound c2bc#i always misread his tag as pound cake. i am but a fool#also is firepound mildly fanbrush coded ir am i kind of losing it. it's someone and pb. because fireball is very pb coded. inspired? somethi#ng. also c2bc totally takes influences from ii and we all noticed that right. it's not a bad thing. ii is my favorite show. but like. “im nb#.“ ik there was like no other way to say it but that's exactly what pb says in s3. ”he wants to make a boys club!“ ”im nb.“ ”i mean... a no#girls club!!!!“ i think i lile c2bc but im bot 100% sure? i saw someone comment that all the chars are likeable but like. speaker isn't!! st#op bullying my girl corky!! she's literally not that bad! don't get me started on beerkeg. i dont feel bad that he was manipped bcus like. d#ude she said no. leave ger alone#!!#i dont feel bad for him at all snd even cheered when princess hat (?) started using him even though it was not the greatest move and not sup#er healthy. s2's cast is still mych better though. justice for portal though!!!!!!! gone too soon. i kinda shipped. princess hat (?) and tap#e measure in s1 btw i never told anyone that but I did think it. service bell is like a taco i like mych less. and shout out firepound and m#mirror book. pretty crazy how gay objects can just live in my head and i let them do that. anyways sorry for writing a whole nother post in#the tags i just haven't shared my thoughts yet and wanted to lol.#i like it i think#firepound#<- oh hey look gay people
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'I flirted with the idea that instead of being trans that I was just a cross-dresser (a quirk, I thought, that could be quietly folded into an otherwise average life) and that my dysphoria was sexual in nature, and sexual only. And if my feelings were only sexual, then, I wondered, perhaps I wasn’t actually trans.
I had read about a book called The Man Who Would Be Queen, by a Northwestern University professor who believed that transwomen who were attracted to women were really confused fetishists, they wanted to be women to satisfy an autogynephilia. And though I first read about this book in the context of its debunkment and disparagement, I thought about the electricity of slipping on those tights, zipping up those boots, and a stream of guilt followed. Maybe this professor was right, and maybe I was only a fetishist. Not trans, just a misguided boy.
About a year later, on the Internet, I come across a transwoman who added a unique message to the crowd refuting this professor. Oh, I wish I remember who this woman was, and I wish even more that I could do better than paraphrase her, but I remember her saying something like this: “Well, of course I feel sexy putting on women’s clothing and having a woman’s body. If you feel comfortable in your body for the first time, won’t that probably mean it’ll be the first time you feel comfortable, too, with delighting in your body as a sexual thing?”'
-Casey Plett, Consciousness
#this quote always moves me almost to tears when i remember it#i'm not a trans woman and i don't share the author's specific experiences with transition#but it really moves me that she frame transition as joyfully giving yourself permission to approach your body#not as something that has to be disciplined and deprived and made small in all these various ways#but as a means for experiencing pleasure and joy and delight and for insisting that our feelings and desires are worth#valuing and exploring and treasuring#i always used to think of prioritizing those things for myself as selfish and irresponsible#but who does it harm to want to experience pleasure in your own body?#it's such a beautifully simple and powerful switch to have flip in your head#and equally why are we forced to deny our own pleasure in transition and anything else related to our bodies in the name of moral rectitude#this is why i get so confused and pissed off when other trans people are fatphobic for example#like why are you so invested in politics of shame and disgust that never had any purpose other than#violently disciplining people as if they've violated moral codes by existing in a body#to say nothing of white people being racist in gay and trans communities#like again this system of violence is foundational to homophobia and transphobia#so why are you acting like it has nothing to do with you#even if you are unmoved by the urgency of other people's suffering which btw you should be moved by#what do you hope to gain by acting a collaborator and handmaiden to those systems#Casey Plett#she really is one of my favorite authors i wish more non-canadians read her#this quote is from a series of columns she did ont transition and every single one is a banger#i love when she talks about the people-pleasing elements of dysphoria and transition denial#she's so sharp about noting how many of us deny our own dysphoria on the grounds that others like and validate our bodies#that's how i always felt during my cis conventionally feminine era#it pleased other people so much and also that reception felt so hollow and joyless to me because i hated it#i get less of that positive feedback but that feels so unimportant next to the joy and pleasure i get to experience#said with the understanding that i'm very privileged in being able to prioritize those things without fear. but it was a switch flip#personal nonsense
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"Northstar made waves as the first queer superhero in Marvel Comics" Northstar wasn't even the first queer superhero in Alpha Flight.
#brieuc.txt#WANDA LANGKOWSKI I WILL ALWAYS GIVE YOU YOUR FLOWERS#I mean obviously Northstar was clearly gay way before the bodyswap but it does stand out to me#that Sasquatch was trans before Northstar was explicitly gay#I know that pisses him off to no end#alpha flight#jean paul beaubier#wanda langkowski#walter langkowski#Also Cloud. Obviously. Not taking away from the importance of Northstar#but it's a shame the focus is almost always on the binary gay characters and not the large legacy of transgender and genderfluid characters#that did exist before him#when will Cloud get their marvel pride appearance..... when will Wanda get to transition again...........
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Truly great moment was Ryo fresh out the hospital jumping out of his car and sucker punching this poor guy to steal his motorcycle. Imagine having to file that police report about how you got knocked the fuck out and your shit stolen by some shirtless blond severely injured 17 year old freak. I would just let it go. Thankfully that guy didn’t have to live with the shame for much longer though considering how the story goes
#ryos satan spidey senses telling him his ride or die is in trouble is one thing but him managing to grab a gun on the way out is always#funny also . i especially liked in the ova where he’s also wearing a black cloak that you have never seen him wear before . like did he stop#by his house on the way there#like I mean I guess it could have still been in his jacket. maybe hospitals in the 70s just didn’t care about that kind of thing#but in the ova he has a full on sniper rifle so. i think they had the idea for that one shot and were just like guys this has to happen#ugh guys I promise I liked devilman because of the themes and stuff okay I promise I’m a smart media comprehending boy but it’s just#of course I’m a little obsessed withthis gay freak . he’s entertaining until . uh until it isn’t fun anymore. yknow .#actually why was I embarrassed about liking a character in a story that’s actually normal
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I wanted to say that outside of semantics and divisions - I am simply happy to find communities that welcome with kindness - that welcome you by a good heart and not the ability to conform. I am happy for the opportunity to be surrounded by people who care. It's a funny world we live in - making the same mistakes over and over, multiplying the same suffering by billions. I don't think I hope for an utopia anymore, I don't think such a thing exists - but you can't call me hopeless either. And that's what matters.
As a side note - this piece is set in DanceAU, which might be better known to Patrons so far, but still it was the best and most fitting option for this occasion..... also there are 12 DanceAU pieces incoming, because I might be making another calendar so. get familiar with these mutts
#klance#voltron legendary defender#klance fanart#priDEMONth#you know there is always so much happening idk what to add in the tags#i made banana bread yesterday and almost burned the kitchen (right after i asked myself how bad can it be?) i am not kidding#and then burned my arm twice trying to avoid a burn which is top ten ways to get them#its okay tho it doesnt hurt anymore#there was also my nameday which I forgot about and had a headache thorough#also when i was drawing i was considering that lance is maybe a bit too tall on this piece#he IS taller but bending like that with keith standing straight?#i mean gay?#idk about that#but i decided not to worry danceau always has heels for that#i also have been so deep in wirting hex if you dont know whats hex dw you shouldnt#but i have this love hate relationship with it everyone knows it its a sinusoid#im on my happy phase with it lately#no one jinx it it better last#all i wanted was bamf rescues and cliche tropes and now im trying to do them justice in 200 thousand words or less idk why#they could have been just fighting demons and cuddling#either way happy pride once again!!
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It is truly fascinating how the common tumblr narrative around John and Paul somehow makes the guy who literally got violent multiple times over people insinuating he was queer appear more "on board with the whole gay thing" than the guy who said some awkward/dated stuff in interviews a couple of times.
#im not trying to defend paul here btw. or tear down john#i just find the reading of john as like the Self-Accepting King between them.... myopic#i mean. it touches on the whole Was It Reciprocated Thing really#the idea being: If We Assume Paul Reciprocated He Is MORE Repressed Than John Because John Hinted More Heavily That He Wasn't Straight#but like..#that's Exactly why some of us think.... maybe Paul IS straight 😭😭 or at least it's not nearly as big of a deal to him than it was to John#(perhaps because he's bi but treats it more casually than John ever felt capable of)#any reading of John and sexuality that concludes something LESS fraught than Paul's mostly benign slight weirdness/curiosity#seems to me.... like McLennon tunnel vision#like because John never gay panic attacked PAUL all that ugly stuff he did can be set aside.#also. look at the way people think about India#and the Get Back convo about it. it's all like JOHN'S NOT IN DENIAL. HE WAS CLEAR. HE WANTED IT. HE WAS ALL IN.#Was He?#anyways. i am becoming chatty these days.#as always people are welcome to discuss this with me even if we disagree#fiona.docx#jp speculation#discourse
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Caitlynn went from progressive to Vi's conservative boyfriend to a dictator realllll quick lmao. She rode the alt-right pipeline straight down to fascism like a goddamn slip 'n slide lmaoo
#But she's a gay so I still lover her#we support womens rights and womens wrongs lol#except for the physical abuse-that shit was not chill#I mean I knew she was going to get radicalized by her motehrs death but ooof#caitvi#arcane#these first 3 episodes were also wildly topical to America's new reality like wowow#felt very realistic tbh#what a way to kick it off holy shit#well written and beautiful animation as always
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY JIRO KIRISAKI!!!
#jiro kirisaki#yuri isami#jiyuri#tkdb#Tokyo Debunker#TKDB fanart#Tokyo Debunker Fanart#Jiro Kirisaki X Yuri Isami#I WILL SHIP THEM FOR AS LONG AS I LIVE.#Happy Birthday Jiro Kirisaki#TKDB YAOI#THEY MAKE ME SO SO ILL THEY MAKE ME INSANE THIS IS SO CUTE IM ABOUT TO DIE FROM MY OWN CREATION#I DREW THIS BY THE WAY!!! ME!!!!#My art account still needs some other posting and stuff so FOR NOW im posting this here!#i love men kissing#mortkranken#the GAYEST FREAKING HOUSE.#I mean its probably Frostheim considering theres Jin and Tohma AND Kaito and Luca#BUT ITS MORTKRANKEN TO ME IT WILL ALWAYS BE#LITERALLY THE GAY FLAG I FREAKING LOVE THEM SO MUCH YOU HAVE NO IDEA#i hope this gives you the idea of what kind of person i am#Welcome to the free land of yaoi and yapping and memes too maybe#tdb
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