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Fare Well
For @wannab-urs Hozier Song Drabble Challenge
Dieter Bravo x plus size female reader (Sweet Pea)
This fic is for those 18+ MDNI
Word Count: about 1.8k (Yeah so…I went past Drabble 👀)
Summary: Dieter has been working so hard. He still has an issue that might be because of his mind. What can he do about it? Do anything else.
Warnings: unhealthy coping, sexual dysfunction, sex work, teasing, pet names, sexual activity (actual and implied I think? I should know. 🙃)
Notes: I listened to this song 5 times in a row because I didn’t really listen to Hozier (now I do). The color this fic is purple or violet, whichever you wanna say it. 💜 I bolded lyrics I was able to put in the fic. 🤗 Thanks to Gin for giving me two Dieter fics to write back to back. ☺️ That little trash panda is always so giving.
Main Masterlist / Dieter Bravo Masterlist / Writing Challenge
Tapping his foot on his hardwood floors, Dieter Bravo is in an all too familiar place. He’s been purposely busy. Keeping occupied except for when he’s completely exhausted has kept him out of trouble, even in the tabloids. People are saying he’s changed for the better. He knows he’s keeping clean, keeping in the straight and narrow.
Bravo has run into a snag on his progress.
The last few paintings had done well in gallery showing, even selling for double than asking price, his last movie was well reviewed. These are both very good things, wonderful. He’s happy, proud even. Bravo is having plenty of sex, mountains of it. In his head. Reality has played out much differently. All this work he’s doing, he hasn’t been able to chase a different high. One he’s used to replace the drugs. It wasn’t that he couldn’t find people to have sex with. He’s been more careful about it, not something he’s been concerned about prior to his new leaf. In doing so, acts he’d normally attempt weight more heavily on his mind and keep little Dee from swelling when needed. Bravo knows the rumor that might be going around but it’s not true! Since his mind is clearer, he actually thinks about who he’s having sex with more and little D isn’t always on board. You know, one of those words his therapist mentioned – cognitive dissonance except it’s happening with his partner in pleasure little D. Big D when he’s feeling in the mood.
He knows he could just go to one of those discreate clubs, seek his needs out there, but he always assumed he wouldn’t need one. The Oscar Winner keeps looking for different projects, in his studio trying out new paints, trying to learn the saxophone (it was a bad idea, but sounded great at three in the morning when he called his assistant and told him what to buy), he then went to a spin class and damn near passed out after fifteen minutes and tried a cooking class but was kicked out for causing an oil fire.
Nothing was working so he called and asked to stop by, check the place out. The owner of course said that was fine – he’s Dieter Bravo, they’d love to have him. Dieter told the owner,
“I’ll take any high. Any glazin’ of the eyes. Any solitary pleasure that masks my sorrow. No drugs though, I’m not willing to backslide over it.”
The owner said they understood and had the perfect person for him.
So now Dieter waits in this room. It’s an array of different purples well violets since this is a more classy place. He wanted to undress to his boxers but was told by the front desk to leave them on. He did remove his shoes, socks and jacket, but otherwise he’s dressed. Simple black slacks and a white button-down shirt that had bellowing sleeves with a deep v-cut exposing his chest down to his sternum. He felt like dressing up a bit but still kept it simple, most of the clientele were in suits and dresses that Dieter saw. Soft guitar music played in the background, he closed his eyes as he waited curious who they might have matched him with based on what he asked for.
Dieter heard the clicking of heels first. Then smelled a deep woodsy fragrance, it approached slowly, matching the pace of the heels. They stopped in front of him and he caught hints of citrus and a flower. Using his aquiline nose to sniff closer to the source, feeling body heat radiating from whoever was in front of him. “It’s faint but you smell like a sweet pea.” He released a deep breath he’d been building from taking in and trying to identify the different components of their scent.
“Welcome Mr. Bravo. I hope my fragrance invokes pleasant memories. I’m told you want to rid yourself of sorrow. Correct?” The voice embraced him as soft fingers coiled around his neck, thumbs pressing into his chin.
“Yes, please. I need to forget, just for a bit. Then I might be able to get my body to function properly. Everything is fine, great even.” He kept his eyes closed and he felt them. Lips on his forehead, warm and plush. They lingered, “Can I touch you, please?” No answer was given as hands left his neck and were placed on each side of a torso. His palms roamed slowly tracing the lace that wrapped the body he had in his hands.
The lips left his forehead and he was tempted to reach for them, but kept his eyes closed, he would wait, trying to keep his breathing even. “Is this alright Mr. Bravo or do you want someone who might-“Dieter wildly shook his head.
“Don’t you go anywhere Sweet Pea. Stay right here with me. Just like this. Maybe more. Can I look at you?” He pulled the body toward him, sniffing more. “Call me Dieter. Mr. Bravo is the one having issues with his little D.” He made himself chuckle knowing what a stupid joke it was. Fingertips graced his cheek and tipped his chin upward.
“Look at me Dieter. How do you want me to drown your sorrows tonight? I usually go by Violet due to the room, but I like Sweet Pea when you say it. It makes me sound cute.” The giggle from this celestial being has Dieter wondering if she’ll still giggle if he’s buried between her legs. He wouldn’t need to come up for air, just search for what would be his reward: her moans and his tongue squeezed by her pelvic muscles. His palms ran around to her back, feeling the different rolls of her body.
“I want to see if I’m going to go into a coma from drowning in your nectar Sweet Pea. Can I be your first casualty? If I was going to go, I’d want to be surrounded by thick thighs and a woman’s cries I offer her.” Slipping her left heel off, Sweet Pea places her leg on the bed beside Dieter’s right leg. His hand slowly makes its way across the curve of her wide ass to her thigh, his large fingers dipping into the small holes of the fishnets, tugging on them. “Let me show you gorgeous.”
Smiling, Sweet Pea gives his lips a quick peck before bending to reach between his legs, “Seems just the thought is enough Dieter. Why come to me? I’m sure you’ve got many offers, especially if you’re asking like that.” She lowers her leg and stands back up, turning her back to him but looking over her shoulder to meet his eyes. The glint in them makes her lick her lips, she could ask him to do it, just to see if he will. Given how desperate he is, he might. He won’t say it, but his body betrays him, he said that ‘little D’ was having trouble but that didn’t seem to be the case at all from what she felt. Maybe it’s the scents, the atmosphere and that what happens here will remain here until he comes back. She crosses the room and drops her black thong, stepping out of it and her other heel, sitting on a violet velvet loveseat with her legs open wide. “This is what you want right Dieter?” Her elbows are on her knees with one hand beckoning him. “Come to me, but undress and crawl.”
Bravo doesn’t want control right now, nor does he want to think. He just wants to act, to perform. In this moment, he isn’t thinking about how lonely he is or how his career could crumble on some whim of culture or random video. There’s only this purple room he can melt into as he removes his clothes, making himself bare to Sweet Pea. Dieter’s actually hard, dripping onto her carpet as he lowers himself onto the floor on all fours. His knees are burning as he makes his way across the padded carpet. It’s worth his goal though, into her tender folds. “You like to see a man work, huh Sweet Pea? That’s more than fine.” Halfway there, his bobbing swollen cock made a mess of the carpet and his belly. Upon reaching her, he placed his hands on her knees and looked up to her, balancing himself on his knees so little D was at full attention. He wanted to show her what she’d been able to bring out of him so far. Something changed though, he was smiling but Violet recognized it. She used her fingers to rub circles into his biceps and shoulders before tracing the pronounced vein on his neck.
“You adorable man. This isn’t what you want. At least not now. You can’t seem to decide between the two Dieter.” Fingers run through his hair, and he knows she’s right but couldn’t she had said so after he’d had his fill, hear her cries?
“You’re not wrong, but I still need this. Need you.” He dipped his head to nibble on her thigh and she hummed but pushed his head back. In standing, she also helped him to his feet and brought him back to the bed, removing her lace corset and climbed on the bed.
“From behind, I’m not going to have your tears dripping where I can watch while you fuck me.” Now Sweet Pea was on all fours and Dieter’s sorrow returned. It was inescapable, but he wanted to see her face. He could block it off, just for a short while he tried to get the sunshine.
“No, I need to see how your face changes as you take me.” Crawling across the bed behind her, he pulled her back flush to his chest and turned her chin over her shoulder, capturing her lips. Slipping his tongue in, the warmth felt good. He hadn’t had it in months, he didn’t know why now, in this place with her, but he’d accept it. All of it. “Pleasure to mask my sorrow is why I’m here, Sweet Pea. Have me bask in the sun.”
Their kiss broke as Sweet Pea turned to put her arms around his shoulders, kissing his forehead once again as Dieter laid back on the bed, she fell forward as he took her hair out of the high ponytail it had been in. Her hair fell around her face, her wet folds grazed his shaft and he moaned. “I’ll be your dawn until the light shines on you Dieter.”
Coming unbound, feeling elated and devastated when he had to leave, Dieter had been able to bury his sorrow in pleasure for a time. Another appointment was made for later in the week. To quote Bravo, “I’ll deny me none while I’m allowed because I wouldn’t fare well.”
Bad ideas that Dieter could use: @katw474 @readingiskeepingmegoing @angelofsmalldeath-codeine @megamindsecretlair @pamasaur @ramblers-lets-get-ramblin @sp00kymulderr @mysterious-moonstruck-musings @titlee78 @tinytinymenace @magpiepillsjunior @soft-girl-musings @morallyinept @rhoorl @survivingandenduring @missladym1981 @yorksgirl @heareball @laurfilijames @maggiemayhemnj
#pedro pascal characters#fanfiction#pedro pascal#pedro pascal fanfiction#dieter bravo fics#dieter bravo fanfic#dieter bravo fanfiction#dieter bravo#dieter bravo smut#dieter bravo x plus size reader#hozier songs#Hozier Song Drabble Challenge#Gin made me do it#a Nerdie fic
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another rendering practice with a silly guy
#not as complete and cute as gin but i had fun#kostik draws#fun fact i have a cosplay of this guy. i made it myself in 2020#never got to wear it because im autistic and awkward as fuck. but i made it!#i like him a lot#rio ranger#yttd#your turn to die#kimi ga shine#fanart#i have a really gross wip of maple 2.0 and i Need to say that angry ai is 🫶🫶🫶#god theyre all so traumatised#i love you boy. mwa#i drew some alices and sous and a reko and nao but that was all on paper and im not arsed to digitise. sorrey!#those will stay with me unless i get arsed#im just enjoying my resurged interest i really do love this game
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hey now you cant just say gin also makes the scary face in your tags and not show us smh smh smh /lhj
youre right anon im so sorry. please forgive me here is the siblings doing their scary face together.
POV: You are Dazai and you just woke up. the post being referenced!
commissions!
#bungou stray dogs#bsd#bsd akutagawa#akutagawa ryuunosuke#bsd gin#gin akutagawa#akutagawa siblings#heheheheh#my art#memes#fanart#ask#anonymous#I HAVENT GOTTEN AN ASK IN FOREVER#THANK YOU <3 THIS MADE ME SO HAPPY#I HOPE YOU LIKE THIS DRAWING ITS A LIL BAD BUT ITS FINE#I WAS RUSHING#they wake up really early and watch dazai sleep#because they have nothing else to do#dazai has gotten used to just waking up to them#looking like theyre plotting to murder him#“what were you dreaming about dazai?”#in complete unison#first time drawing gin btw#i love her
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#God this episode is so so good.#Tachihara sweetie I'm sorry I never talk about you. I swear I love him so so much he's an amazing character. I love his story and conflict–#so much.#This arc is peak bsd writing / meta literature plot. The tearing page moment is insane. The sentiments expressed here are so–#deep and emotional. The theme of the ordinary man. God and the force of human spirit.#Fighting against one's own destiny and finding the reason for own's existence. It's all subjects that are so interesting to reflect over–#and they're elaborated on in such a cool and compelling way. I love Dazai's quote on the strength of humans who–#“are caught in the tempest of contingency and scream‚ run and shed blood” so much. It moves me deeply.#The animation was really neat. A lot of detailed sequences. The wind was animated beautifully. The colors were so pretty and the stained–#glass visuals still go so hard.#Again I love Tachihara's conflict so much!!! I'm so into tachi/gin too... I know it's more of a Tachihara x oc since. Well.#We know little to nothing about Gin. But there's still so much spice to it... What do you MEAN Tachihara stabbed Gin !!!!!!#I'm so into the drama. AND the kind of relationship born from the big brother complex™ they both (may) share. AND the work partners.#AND the hiding their true identities to the other. How could I not love them...#Still believe season 4 should have ended where episode 11 ends but spreading it all in 12 episodes to allow it all better pacing.#I really think this season is great but the pacing really is its weakest point.#Of the sky casino arc they could have made a movie if they wanted to. Or just a cool arc at the start of season 5 that can work too!!#(((and not put ch 84-88 at only ep3. And then animate it grossly. But that's another talk.)))#Anyways 100000/10 what a good episode. This really was peak B/ungou Stray Dogs. And Akutagawa isn't even in it!!!#random rambles#Very hot take but I don't think Lucy should jump off a sky casino for a man. Sorry#My feelings for atsu/lucy are so fluctuating. I could write a whole other tags rant on it.#Actually I will
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Happy New Year!
#i made the adult decision to turn down the offers to go places and do things tonight#because I am fucking exhausted#so I stayed at home#cooked some spicy noodles#and drank a couple of gin and tonics#hopefully next year is better for everyone#my face#alcohol#I need a ceasefire in Gaza#I need fewer wars#i need fewer deaths#I need less cancer#and I need more joy for everyone#got that universe?#don't make me come up there#It's nearly midnight and I am going to bed#hope everyone else has a safe night
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#There are days when I tell myself I am tired of being sad#like that will make it stop#it never does#like today#i did all the things i am supposed to do#i took a walk outside#i made a healthy lunch#i showered and washed my hair after days of grief and depression building on my skin#i drank water and had some fruit#i even wrote#and none of it stopped the sadness#i am once again unable to sleep#because i am *too sad*#too guilty#too something unidentifiable#i feel unwanted and annoying amd a burden and forgotten and#god so many things#amd the worst part is that logically i know none of these things are actually true#logically i know i have a place with my friends and loved ones#and in the fandom communities i call home#but logic isnt enough and the sadness wins#sigh#its 1am and i am tired#sorry for anyone who follows me for fun stuff and is continually assaulted with my late night oversharing lol#i give you squeezes and apologies#gin speaks
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I suppose the real reason Ginny Weasley’s like this is because she opened her heart and spilled all her secrets to an invisible stranger.
happy valentine’s day, doc
#tom x ginny#gin n tonic#hpedit#tom riddle#ginny weasley#hprarepairnet#slytherdornet#ginny x tom#hpshipsnet#did i make it out of spite?? because even decades later tomginny doesn't get enough credit?? maybe#did i use only book quotes to highlight how canon they are??? probably#but you know what?? i'm that meme 'a million number of fans i'm one of them ten fans i'm one of them only one fan THAT IS ME'#when it comes to gin n tonic i don't careeee#out of blood and tears and ink she made him and he'll never leave her#ANYWAYS thefudge dude happy a stupid marketing driven holiday#st valentine or other higher power unquestionably blessed the rhythm of your words because it is just fckng exquisite#thank you for stucking here with us mere mortals uwu#shitty things i do for love
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this coming from akutagawa.... you know he's been expecting he'll have to die to save gin ever since he lost them. also i reiterate: bsd beast is not about doomed yaoi. it is about how far characters are willing to go for their siblings and the inherent tragedy that comes with having a sibling in the first place.
#like i was kind of joking around when i made that first post about beast being about siblings#bc i was like 'haha it's just me making it about that bc that's the theme i care about most'#BUT NO. IT REALLY IS ABOUT SIBLINGS.#gin is the entire reason any of this is happening#gin saved aku at the beginning and now aku is doing everything he can to save them in return#i'm going to be SICK#grace reads bsd
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i love my private twitter account (half joke) bc half the time it's just me rambling about random shit that people don't really care about and just skim over. does anyone beside me and maybe one other person care abt my taylor swift/fall out boy playlist? no. absolutely not. but am i gonna tweet abt it anyway? hell fucking yeah i am.
#I JUST GOT FEARLESS (tv) RIGHT AFTER OF ALL THE GIN JOINTS ARE YOU. IGUHERSDJFKCM#also going directly from 'what a catch donnie' to 'no body no crime' nearly killed me (joking)#kitty rambles#i made my taylor swift/fall out boy playlist back in uhhmmmm. i dont remember. after smfs was released. but before i went to the eras tour.#so like. april? maybe when i was making bracelets (i need to do that again FUCK) but it's just my fun silly little playlist#spotify doesn't give you the artist's entire discography whenever you hit shuffle. so i slapped all their albums in a 20hr playlist.#YOU TAKE MY HAND AND DRAG ME HEAD FIRST FEARLESS AND I DONT KNOW WHY BUT WITH YOU I'D DANCE IN A STORM IN MY BEST DRESS FEARLESS!!!!!#sorry. sorry love that song. its so fucking cute.
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still not done playing ch 3 but the amount of changes there apparently is between the shin and kanna route is like. actually fucking wild. holy shit.
#mine#yttd#yttd spoilers#the game just scolding us for choosing shin/sou by making everything miserable like.#u fool this is what i wanted i played this game bc im brutally depressed ur just fueling me#also bold to assume i chose him for anything other than spite#he hates me for keeping him alive he aint special i too hate being alive bitch#suffer in this hellhole we call life with me u have no choice nor do i. little punk ass bitch.#anyway this game satisfies me greatly bc it finally gives me a chance to taste the timeline where distrust was made instead of dr#and it's delicious and beautiful and i love it very much and i will cradle it gently and cry#like damn im not used to having so much autonomy in visual novel games bro im usually just. kinda There.#just simply choosing to be a total jerk or not. and nothing beyond that.#this game rly said 'their fates are in ur hands and i rly do mean that. be responsible!'#controlling everyone's fates like this... yeah yeah yeah#i better have completely control over gin's fate stop FUCKING hurting him oh my GOD#im keeping him alive to the end no matter what bitch idc if everyone else has to die HE WILL LIVE HE WILL ESCAPE.#give him the sacrifice card in the final showdown and it's over for everybody else and he's taking sara w him bye bitches
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What are your top 3 favorite ice cream flavors? And do you like milkshakes too?
oooo okay from top of my head and probably bc i keep talking about them:
soursop
gingerbread
cookies and cream - a simple one BUT when in doubt. yummy :)
i also really like mango though and cookie dough ;; 7 ;;
and YES i looove milkshakes :D i dont get them super often though but if they're ever available that's always my go to drink lol i like the oreo ones :3
#food#...alTHOUGH this is making me realize you can turn pretty much any ice cream into any milkshake....#gin....gingerbread milkshake-#OH WAIT THERE WAS LIKE A SNICKERDOODLE MILKSHAKE AT THE COFFEE SHOP NEARBY MY HOUSE.... i#i really want that :(#ill just have to reward myself with it when i finish my practice exam on thursday 🤧 even if i do REAL SHITTY#answered#aldkfjshldkj saying mango made me really crave mango and sticky rice TT my most beloved#i think! i am just hungry LOL i should go get a snack lol
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i need to never drink again, i found my old journal entry from when i was getting wasted on gin watching the eurovision finale and "am i a god?" is a direct quote from it
#what was i on. WHAT WAS I ON#i was telling all my friends how that gin didnt even do anything to me. just made me sad and sleepy#meanwhile my writing had the dramatic delusion that would put lord byron in a casket
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good news! I have invented a cocktail that captures, exactly, the essence of Cucumber Melon Fragrance
bad news! that is a bad thing
#it is. UNCANNY. how much this tastes like 90s hand soap#the thing is: cucumber melon is exactly what I was going for! on purpose! I did it!#BUT LIKE... NOT LIKE THIS KJHFDKJHG#it needs to be sweeter... I think it also just needs More Flavor?#it's made with gatorade (don't @me that's what I built it around just for funsies)#and I guess I assumed the gatorade would be both sweeter and flavor-er#if I could find any fucking midori we might be able to get somewhere...!#or it might just end up being a stronger soap idk#I put a salt rim on it for thematic reasons (this was supposed to be an elyss one and evoke water lmao)#and hoo boy that just makes it so much worse fkjdghkdjfh#scoop up a nice glass of 90s bubble bathwater with epsom salts babeyyy#what's funny is the spirit is gin and you don't taste gin at all but I DO think the gin flavors have transmogrified into exactly soap#y'all it is uncanny#about me#potions
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godddd the cosplay event is quite tiring tho even i'm not the one who do the cosplay
#well yeah it's my first time i go to the event and some of my friends do the cosplay of chainsaw man characters literally#it's quite crowded tho and somehow a bit scared if i been messed up but glady it's not (:#but anyway it's really fun and i got to take some of them who cosplay some of my fav characters or animes#and also my self-dilemma made me to buy both keychains of aizen and gin because i cannot choose between one of them#well as always me being broke once again lmaoooo#iz being too random
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she's singing in another room and my dog is asleep at my feet. my grandma asked me why i haven't found a man yet and i laughed. oh, you know. i like my house clean.
my girlfriend is also my man is also "my partner" if i'm in a professional setting. yesterday we went to a ren faire and a man mimed at me - you're together? and at my delighted nod, his baffled, you're gay? made me laugh. a woman with rainbow hair said i love the two of you together. you're both so beautiful it's absurd.
my dad introduced my partner as my "..... friend. or whatever" the other day. he knows we're dating. in the same way, i was never able to get my sister's husband to stop saying that's gay like it's 2008. he still uses the word fa***t, and my sister's defense of him has always been well, he's just kidding.
my lover and i dance to old music in a tiny kitchen. we judge new music together and take food critique very seriously. we watch love is blind before we fall asleep and agree that if they had a queer season, it would be bloody but also make for excellent tv. of fucking course queer people would know someone for only 2 weeks and agree to get married. what are you saying.
at a bar with friends, a man puts his hand on my wrist. got a boyfriend? and yes, i do have a boyfriend, she's amazing. i am texting her while i wander around a gas station named after geese. i am visiting a swing state for a wedding. in the candy aisle i overhear: she's actually like a lesbian it's disgusting. two teenage girls with packaged sandwiches in their hands, giggling. no literally, like. i'm not, like. okay with her being there while we're all, like, naked and changing.
my girlfriend and i tailgate, drink gin and cider out of cups. from the frat group beside us, a man corrects himself with one of his friends: bro, i mean, nonbinary entity, and it makes everyone around him laugh, myself included. he razzes his friend the same way i would have killed for at 19 years old - like nothing happened, he continues: you apply sunscreen like an alien. he does a little sassy (and fairly accurate) dance interpretation of the motion. his friend is laughing so hard they're crying.
i am lucky, i live in a safe neighborhood in a safe state. my masc passenger princess comes up from DC. i drive her for an hour to where all the leaves are a violent arrangement of color. we walk along the trails, letting autumn into our blood. in this part of the state, there's a lot of pickup trucks and trump signs. when we chastely kiss before getting into the car, i accidentally make eye contact with a woman holding her child's wrist. she looks disgusted. she looks fucking pissed.
two hours later my girl and i are eating dinner on a patio, soaking in the last warmth of new england sun before the chill of winter sets in. we are giggling and trying to talk through plastic vampire teeth. at another table, i see a young woman sit up straighter. i watch her watch us. she blushes and takes her partner's hand from across the table. shy, like the taste of evening has just become something deeper.
it's worth it for this moment, i think. my lover is still humming the same song she's been singing for four days straight and i don't want to kill her for it. her guitar is beside my bed. her toothbrush is in my bathroom. in a few moments i will make us lunch. we are lucky enough to have found each other. it is lucky enough to be in love.
#writeblr#wlw#i often think about like.....#being happy in a gay relationship is sometimes so odd#bc u can forget how stupid ppl are.#bc ur so USED to being gay. and u forget other people GENUINELY ARE homophobic#so it's like. girl pardon?????#but also there are moments where it's like. ohhh the kids are alright#like watching someone razz someone else.... so fucking wholesome#“lemme get this bitche's pronouns before i make gentle fun of them” .... i would have KILLED for that.#THAT is how u know ur accepted#not just tolerated#..... when ppl are like. sure ur nonbinary congrats but WHAT is this fucking sunscreen application#ps idk if "razz'' is a real word but someone asked what it means -#i've always heard it as being a term for 'gentle & friendly teasing'' which like#i personally notice more from my guy friends but is like - when a person isn't#LIKE ACTUALLY teasing u (it's nothing personal/mean) they're just laughing w/you about something#my friends often put on a little voice and call me an anemic little bitch#like 'ooooo the anemic little bitch is cold??? does she need a mouse blanket#bc she's SOOOO SMALL AND ANEMIC???''#and it doesn't hurt my feelings (it makes me laugh very hard) bc 1. i actually called MYSELF that first#and 2. i'm not sensitive about it!!!#a proper razz is when you are ALSO in on the joke - i ALSO think it's funny#for some people i personally find that when they razz u it's when they love u -#they've noticed something genuine about u and love u enough that u know they're not being mean#this is cultural and personality based of course but i'm hispanic#if someone isn't making fun of me it means they hate me . obviously.
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