#Don't tell people to kill themselves
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Dear Tumblr users,
Please, please STOP telling people to kill themselves. I do not care what they have done or what they believe. I do not care how much of a shithead they are. this is a horrible thing to say to another living being.
Thank you, -Zohar from @headphones-lifeform.
#not star trek#tumblr culture#please. just stop saying this to people.#cannot believe how common this is#“but they said-” no. stop. this is your place to be a decent person#the world may lose a monster but more importantly it will lose a human being#please reblog#discourse#people being mean to each other#internet etiquette#don't tell people to kill themselves#tumblr
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Hey guys. Important message.
Do NOT tell ANYONE to kill themselves, regardless of anything. Plain and simple. I've seen a lot of this happening, especially to people who voted for Trump. Trump is a horrible, depraved monster of a person, and if you did vote for him, I will heavily question your morals and character, but that doesn't mean I get the moral high ground--or right--to tell you to end your life. Doing that is wrong and disgusting, pretty much in any situation and just because someone did something horrible does it mean you can tell them that they should kill themselves. Saying something like that about Trump, as in he should kill himself, I can understand, I have made such jokes, but I don't think I could be genuinely happy at the prospect anyone committing suicide. I can sorta see where people are coming from, because they're angry about it, just like the rest of us. Like yes, they did something awful, but wishing for the death of someone because they voted for someone else sounds kind of familiar.
Hate, but don't wish the death on. (Except trump)
#I would like to note that I think pretty much all people who voted for trump suck total booty. Like I don't like em either.#And#Just so you know#I don't think the hate for Republicans is the same as the hate for democrats and left leaning people. One is worse by the way#And seemingly more wide spread and accepted as a community when Republicans hate on democrats.#(Republicans are worse if that didn't get across)#fuck trump#the us election#the election#us politics#politics#donald trump is weird#Don't tell people to kill themselves#Pretty please#us elections#trump is a threat to democracy#democrats#republicans#kamala should have won#100%
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I don't care what your post or comment is about, I don't care about any of your other opinions or what you think you are defending, if you think writing kys or anything like that is funny or cool, you're instant blocked. Fuck off.
#tw kys mention#you suck#it's that simple#don't tell people to kill themselves#i just saw someone writing that on their art like it's a funny joke#fuck off
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Kill yourself,the world would be better off without you.weakling
Hey look! I got hate mail!
Fuck if I know why lol I just have to assume they're a libertarian.
#don't tell people to kill themselves#that's shitty#it doesn't bother me because I'm a 40 year old adult and got my mental health in order#don't be a dick#tw: suicide#suicide baiting#hate mail#lol this is hilarious#libertarians suuuuuuuuuck
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I'm not getting into The Giving Tree discourse...
#personal#delete later#idk i just saw a post of the “alternate ending” comic on my dash and everyone praising it as an improvement and “fixing” the original#which i kinda resent#while tulli and i was taking my nephew to a book store we walked around the kids section and found the giving tree and we read through it#and i was so stricken by how profoundly sad it is. it's not a happy story#in the end both versions tell the exact same lesson. but one flat out tells you and the other makes you sit with a pit in your stomach#and work to find the answer#i dunno it's kids literature but kids literature is important. i don't wanna discredit anyone's bad memories with the book but also i think#sometimes it's ok to make kids a bit sad and upset with fiction.#tweet that goes “what if romeo and juliet didn't kill themselves and explained to the audience that family feuds are bad”#idk you can't seriously read the original book as an adult and say it's glorifying self-martyrdom#when the final drawing of the book is of an old tired man sitting on arotting stump with his hat fallen to the ground#again i don't wanna invalidate people's feelings if they enjoy the alt version i think it's really nice too. but the original has its#purpose too. imagine if at the end of the lorax they show that the boy did it and replanted the world happy ending#wait they did that in the movie shit#i dunno i just love somber children's literature. tulli and i are talking about moomin right now and how the series ends with the moomin#family just leaving. and nobody gets to say goodbye to them. their friends have to find ways to live with the emptiness they've left behin
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okay because people have shown up in my dms talking smack I'm going to make one blanket statement on the 1000 year loli chilchuck thing.
yes, there has been a problem with young girls being put in suggestive positions in anime with the "uhmmm she's actually a bajillion years old" excuse. yes, other characters don't treat chilchuck like an adult. yes, he is short with big eyes.
However, chilchuck consistently acts like a grown man. he- in both the manga and the anime- straight up just is an adult. He looks like an adult when he is any other race during the swaps in the manga. When the other characters get turned into half-foots they look similar to chilchuck. He is explicitly stated to have more dungeon and general life experience than laios, and he acts like it.
The 1000 year loli trope explicitly functions as an excuse to prey on people who are inexperienced and unable to advocate for themselves. Chilchuck is a parent, is a union organizer, has explicit boundaries that he enforces rigidly, and he is treated as an adult man by everyone who doesn't have a fantasy racism-focused character arc/issue.
I can see how if you haven't read the manga and seen that he has an established life that he later reveals (and haven't paid attention to him in the anime lol) you could get a mistaken impression about him. Marcielle does too in the source material! It's part of her character at the start of her arc that she has issues with longevity!
The thing that irks me a little about this interpretation is that it leans into the child-coded discourse that was prominent a while ago (she's short!!!!! but has boob???? ILLEGAL!!1!) and it does a disservice to the themes of infantilization as a policy maneuver hurting the working class.
I saw chilchuck and his labor advocacy for half-foots both as a metaphor for racism (obvious take ik) and for ageism.
The working gen z as a cohort are being infantilized and pushed out of job markets due to infantilization, similar to half-foots in the show. gen z is being maliciously portrayed as too young to vote, enter office, know themselves, know their rights, and take advantage of their resources. Simultaneously, child labor protections and protections against workplace abuse are being rolled back in the US. In Japan, young people are being worked to the bone for nothing and are becoming disenfranchised as a generation while simultaneously expected to be the labor faction that supports the postwar generations in their old age.
Chilchuck's being treated poorly I saw as a clever commentary on the ways infantilization allows for protections to be stripped away under the guise that "oh it's just a job for teenagers- they don't need more than minimum wage" or "let the kids rescue the economy! they're always complaining about that job market!" while simultaneously stripping away rights under the guise of protection- "We can't have that on the internet! think of the children!" "to protect these young people we must raise the age of medical consent for hormones/reproductive health decisions!"
Kui's work with this series spoke to me on many levels, and specifically, the infantilization issue touched me in a way that few other pieces of media have. The struggle to be taken seriously in a stem field as someone young, as someone female, and as someone who had a high-pitched voice to the point I did years of voice training to be taken seriously, chilchuck's character resonated. I (kinda) understand your instinct to think "SHORT! CHILD! RALLY THE MASSES AND KILL THE PEDOS!!1!" but in this case, it's misdirected- mostly because the author was trying to use this misdirection to prove something to you, the reader.
Kui consistently makes cutting commentary on modern issues, the show's take on food neutrality as its headliner, but also the author's takes on cultural issues and the environment (with a focus on our place in the food web as animals). I feel that reducing chilchuck's very conscious position as a tradesman and an activist discounted due to his apparent age down to "1000 year loli ewwww let's send this random tumblr user suicide bait" just displays a lack of critical analysis of the show and a level of disrespect towards Kui and the work as a whole.
TL:DR- stop sending me kys messages I'm fucking that old man
#dungeon meshi#chilchuck#suicide mention#fandom critical#dw I blocked the person but please refrain from telling people to kill themselves over chilchuck#hes a cool character but he is- still- only a character#long post#I know he's short but short people can still have sex#shocking I know#the person who sent me the message also has a lot of weird opinions of laios#like that he's too 'pure to think about sex'#broooo nooooo don't have weird opinions about autistic people being unable to consent!!#that's weird as fuck! autistic adults are still adults!!! quit infantilizing an already marginalized class!!#you're falling for the blatant misdirects that legislate away our rights!!#I get that it's just an anime it's not that deep#but at the same time the analysis skills are not skilling!!!#the reading comprehension is not comprehending!! the media literacy is not FUNCTIONING!!!#i am WORRIED ABOUT THIS#YOU WILL FALL FOR A PSYOP YOU ARE NOT IMMUNE TO PROPAGANDA#your words and deeds online are indicative of a deeper issue in your thinking that reveals a lack of understanding towards your own biases#you retain puritanical reactions and instincts despite carrying a new title#your understandings of the world are deeply and evidently shaped by flawed and cruel systems that you have failed to examine or grow out of#AUUUUGH please learn and grow as a person suicide bait helps nobody
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the election results are basically confirmed and tensions are running high right now, but condemning people for wanting to exterminate entire groups then turning around and saying they should all slit their throats is... not something we want to be doing.
also, trolls are looking for rage bait or engagement. it's easier to report and block their comments, or delete them if it's your post.
#a lot of people fall into the “you're one of the Bad i am Good therefore you deserve everything that happens to you” trap#however this is not a trait you can condemn on the opposite side then exhibit on your own#yes some people have extremely shit opinions but telling them to kill themselves over it solves absolutely nothing#(and also proves you care about punishment more than reformation)#don't feed the trolls this year#kamala harris#donald trump#us elections 2024#2024 elections#us politics#surprise tag
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Heartwarming: Multicultural Couple Teaches Each Other About Suicide Baiting
#i don't speak german so the german thing is just from scouring hinative and reddit. apparently english speakers are the ones telling other#people to kill themselves the most. fascinating#anyway i don't think telling people to kill themselves is funny usually but uh. they're doing it in blue lock. i know this wholeheartedly.#it's the second japanese phrase charles learns from shidou#tw suicide mention#tw suicide baiting#<- jussst in case#isaness#nessagi#my art#blue lock#blue lock fanart
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as a schizophrenic osdd system i think it’s really really ableist, uninformed, and just plain rude when fellow antis call endos “delusional.”
like yeah, thanks so much for perpetuating the harmful stereotypes about my disorder that are literally outside of my conrtrol!
also telling anyone to kill themselves, endo or not, is not a good look and is pretty toxic imo :(
nod, we were going to make a comment on that but anger is anger. They aren't telling people directly to kill themselves (I should hope) and I did mention in the tags I dont agree with telling people to kill themselves. Thought crimes are not a thing though and this is infact a vent blog, we will allow people to vent their anger here since that's what this is intended for.
We do agree that calling them delusional is a little odd, but I do not believe they meant it in an offensive way,, do I agree with it? No. But I will let them be angry for now, people make mistakes when they are angry and I'm sure that person had no intentions of perpetuating sterotypes or being ableist. Not trying to excuse it, but trying to give an explanation for why I allowed it to post. I did try add trigger warnings too, but if I am missing any feel free to let me know
It's important to know the difference between uniformed and ableist, there is also a chance they simply do not realise that calling others delusional may be offensive
#anti endo#did#did system#endos dni#plural#actually did#alters#system#endos fuck off#did osdd#Sorry anon but also please read the tags of the post#I literally said I don't condone telling people to kill themselves and that thought crimes are not a thing#tw kys mention
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~ Batgirl (2000)
They are sad and disappointed in themselves and they should be. What they did is not justice.
So, I'm mad about this issue, like really mad for personal reasons I will explain later. For context: a young girl has been kidnapped by a thief who escaped jail. It's not the first time said thief kidnapps this girl. This young girl, around 10 years old, is an artist and her mother exploits her, making money by selling her daughter's art. They are rich. This woman doesn't love her daughter, she loves the money she is making from her daughter. The man that keeps kidnapping this young girl? Her father. Her father that loves and cares for her, that turned to crime to take care of his daughter, and refuses to sell any art she makes because she made it for him, because she loves her father. And she pleads, she pleads Batgirl to let her with her father and not bring her back to her mother who doesn't love her, she pleads her to not put her father in jail. And what do Batgirl does? She stops the father, gives him to the cops and brings back the girl to her mother. On those panels, they are looking at a sad child with her abuser they brought her back to.
My mother doesn't love me. She will say she does to others, but it's not true and it has been the case for a long time, since I was very young. I wasn’t unwanted, I was just not what she wanted. My life was supposed to be centered, until my death, around taking care of my mother (she is not disabled or anything, she just wants people to do everything for her). Raised to make money I would gift to my mother, so she could have luxuries, but I was not successful in that. I grew up pleading for love, pleading for people to listen to my pain. Nobody did. I learnt that people prefer the comfort and peace of their lives over helping others. I learnt to distrust authority figures (teachers, doctors, any adults/people at least 5 years older than me in general), because either they were power hungry assholes who abuse kids, either they preferred to look away, who would tell me to be nice and listen to my mother. It's too much problem to help children. In the end, I could count on nobody but myself to get out. I can count on nobody but myself. I hate the system, and I promised myself I would never be like those who look away, I will defend any child that needs it.
So, to read a story where a little girl pleads a HERO to not bring them back to their abuser, only for said HERO to still bring her back to her abuser, to tell her to be nice and stay with her awful parent... I am furious. This issue is literally telling me that, if heroes existed, the heroes you adore since you are a child, they would not have saved you. They would have bring you back to your mother and told you to be nice, like everyone else. They would have let you go through those years of pain. Heroes would have looked away.
What is the logic here? Because it's neither justice or the good thing to do. That it is the law? Since when do they follow the law? I don't remember vigilantism being legal, or assault and battery, or owning all the weapons Bruce owns. Yes, it was still a kidnapping, her father is a criminal, it would not have been a good life for a child. But, the Bats could have tried to find a solution, instead of simply giving this child back to someone who will treat her like shit.
I know it's just a fiction, so it's not like a real child is being exploited and will be more abused later when she stops being good enough because her mental health deteriorated, nobody is going to become depressed and lose trust in heroes because the bats brought her back to her awful mother. And also, it's not the characters who are at fault, it's the writers. It's not about Cass and Bruce being bad people heroes, it's about who the fuck decided to write that. New entries in my list of enemies, Keller Puckett and Dylan Horrocks.
#batman#bruce wayne#batgirl#cassandra cain#dc comics#my ramblings#and let's not even talk about the takistan storyline after that because I'm also mad at this#propaganda telling you that the people defending themselves against a violent gov are as bad as their gov#no a war criminal planning a genocide because that's what is going on is way more bad than the “terrorists”#reading this with what is going on rn in Palestine was a ride#“we don't do politics” than let the guy kills the war criminal who is genociding his people Bruce let him#it's not like justice will stop a gov from doing what they are doing if you don't stop it nobody else but those “terrorists” will let them#I'm furious I cannot even explain how much I'm mad#Screaming crying breaking shit like I'm Jason Todd high on pit's madness
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the disparity in kudos between a skk fic and a fic for literally any other bsd characters/ship :/
#like okay i get it skk is the most popular bsd ship by a longshot#but it does kinda suck that my skk fics will always end up being more popular than literally anything else i write for bsd#when i have way better fics tbh#okay i'm unleashing this from my drafts lol#like i get it kudos/hits/bookmarks counts aren't telling of how good a fic is#but out of my last five fics. my skk one has ONE HUNDRED kudos more than the next most kudos#and idk it also sucks that i know my skk is better than 90% of the fandom but. even my skk fics get significantly less kudos/etc#than big writers in the fandom who AREN'T EVEN GOOD#or are like. mid at best#i know in theory that the bsd fandom doesn't care about characterization but like. not only do they encourage bad characterization#it feels like sometimes they're actively against good characterization#even in j.jk and a.tla where there are major issues with bad characterization#more people seem to at least appreciate the good characterization. (even if they aren't good at it themselves.)#but i swear to god no one in the bsd fandom cares about anything besides whether dazai and chuuya are kissing. it begins and ends there.#it never ceases to amaze me (derogatory) how a fandom where the source media draws So Much inspiration from classic literature#can somehow have NEGATIVE media literacy skills#why don't you guys take a break from your edgy dazai x softboy chuuya fics and you fems.kk with dazai in skimpy clothes and your#beast chuuya sobbing and killing himself over dazai's death#and go read some of the books by the actual authors. and then write me an essay about the themes that has nothing to do with shipping.#and THEN you can come back to the fandom.#listen i love skk but oh my god sometimes the fandom makes me hate them.#anyway one of these days i'm going to get anon hate for complaining about the bsd fandom so much but that's fine#at least i know there are characters in the show besides dazai and chuuya. and when i do write skk AT LEAST I DO IT RIGHT.#hello grace here
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I genuinely hate internet censorship where people have to defang words on most social media platforms to avoid demonitization etc, but I think it would actually be really funny if an algorithm was implemented where everytime someone told you to "kill yourself" it changed to "unalive yourself."
You can still use the word "kill" but if you put "yourself" after it then it becomes the phrase above, and makes you look like the most embarrassing mfer ever when you're trying to seem threatening.
#this trend where people tell others to kill themselves needs to die#i don't care how horrible you think someone is#this is the piss on the poor website anyway where most of you are happy to twist things out of context to paint someone as evil#suicide baiting
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Thinking about how "self defence" is considered okay until a country the west is not allied with does it.
#yes this is about iran#israel attacked first and then they responded and now everyone is like “wait wait they can't do that!”#and I'm just sitting here looking at Palestine like ???#And look I'm not saying I condone any violence esp against civilians#but I am saying it's bery ironic and telling#when Israel fucks around and finds out#I am kind of here like damn finally tasting the taste of your own spit that you spat at another#must feel like throwing stones in a glass house eh Israel is kinda the feel I'm feeling rn#but anyway#also a note while I say I'm generally against violence I do think resistence is expected and deserved when colonial powers oppress people#I'm specifically talking about how I'm not condoning any attacks on civilians#BUT resistance is justified while Palestine is occupied#and long live the Antifada#both are two things that coexist for me here#and things I think are being honoured in the resistence the more I hear of personal accounts of said civilians#*civilians#When one military side says “oh this happened!” only to be proven as liars over and over again#then the hostages themselves say “no we were attacked with friendly fire from israel”#and for that to be proved??#Then hearing how said hostages say “Hamas put their bodies on the line to cover us from said friendly fire” like??#maybe Hamas aren't the aggressors when they treat their hostages like this and israel has killed their own just to get at Hamas and civ-#-illians alike#tag comments are a mess and probably don't accurately portray feelings fully but long live the antifada and down with colonialist lies
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Rant about Harry Potter and JK Rowling, stick with me here
Ok, so, I hate JK Rowling. I feel like that's a given, right? Like, she's a transphobic homophobic bigot who hides behind feminism and routinely denies massive parts of the holocaust, and I despise her in ways that I don't think words can even express. I can't stand her, but y'know what I also can't stand?
When someone implies that my mother, who is one of the most supportive people I know, and a massive part of the founding, organization, and actions of a local group made specifically to fight Moms for Liberty and school boards in our area trying to harm trans and queer people, is transphobic because she likes Harry Potter
Wanna know why my mom likes Harry Potter? Because when she discovered the series at 12 years old, she quite literally lived in a cupboard under the stairs and was in an abusive household. The magic of the wizarding world or whatever was her escape, it's the reason she's still alive, and by extension, the reason I was ever alive.
But, sometimes, not even often, when I try to express even the most minimal amount of appreciation of that, someone says to me "but isn't JK Rowling transphobic? Why would you support someone like that? Are you transphobic?"
Which pisses me off beyond belief, as one might imagine
In this situation, "separate the art from the artist" isn't exactly a good phrase to use, given the fact that the goblins or whatever run the bank are Jewish stereotypes and the house elves generally being happy to work under their masters being a straight rip from the whole happy slave myth, and those are very very important things to recognize and understand, among others
I feel like it's a lot closer to "separate the hundreds if not thousands of lives she's helped from the hundreds if not thousands of lives she's ruined", or even better, understand that the good she's indirectly done for people makes all the bad that much more horrid
My mother is the closest thing to a hero in this entire world and I will not stand to hear one more person accuse her of being transphobic purely because she thinks fondly of a book series that saved her life. I will not stand for people saying she's just as bad as a holocaust denier because she owns every book in the series. I will not stand for anyone going entirely against their point of not judging a group as if it's monolithic by saying all Harry Potter fans are bad people, including my mother. And, once again, it's not often at all that this happens, but it happens and I'm pissed about it and needed to rant
Anyways rant over JK Rowling sucks don't believe a single thing she says and don't support her unless you wanna support someone actively trying to make the existence of queer people illegal
#jk rowling#harry potter#screw jkr#screw jk rowling#rants#yeah so I saw one too many “if you like Harry Potter please kill yourself posts” (literal direct f+cking quote from one) and wrote this#like#in what world would saying stuff like that ever be ok#what kind of bubble do you live in where you think that's an actual productive thing to say#like have you never interacted with anyone who has slightly problematic opinions or behaviors in a positive manner.... ever??????#do you just live in an echo chamber of people who agree with every thought you have to a T????#difference in opinion and civil disagreements are the things that human understanding and kindness are built on#and saying things like “if you like Harty Potter you should kys” just says that you don't know how to handle that#that's not a good thing#and I know that more than a couple mutuals/followers of mine reblog similar things a lot and I don't wanna give the wrong message#JK Rowling is a horrid horrid person and nothing else could ever be argued#but my for you page is filled to the brim with posts like the ones I've referenced and I'm so mad I feel like crying#angry#angry rant#serious#AGH I just I am so so mad rn#I hate being this mad like outwardly and stuff but like#c'mon guys basic human f+cking understanding and decency can we try and learn that before telling people to kill themselves please
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Actually so fucking glad I don't look through the selfship tag
#i might use it but by gods i will not peruse it#people are assholes this community is no better#you'd think not? but gods.#hello chat. i AM anti telling people to kill themselves btw. why the fuck do people think that's okay#i dont care if you don't like them. that's fucked up. you keep that shit inside it is never okay to genuinely tell someone to do that#block them and move on like a normal person seriously#ill tag this w vent not di.scourse i don't want it in the tags#i am not thriving rn. need to go kiss an older gentleman about it /silly#screams into the void || vent#im still just like. astounded that people think this is okay. that's so gross
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Were seeing so many pro endo blogs belonging to traumagenic systems on our timeline and im just like STOOOOOOP KYS KYS KYS YOU DELUSIONAL BITCHESSSSSS ENDOS ARENT REAL YOU WHORESSSSSSSSSSS YOU FUCKING TRAITORSSSSSSSSSSS-Vinnie
honestly, we be feeling like that sometimes. The rage is,, intense
#We don't condone harassment or telling people to kill themselves btw#But thought crimes are not a thing#I personally don't think being angry is a bad thing when it comes to this#- James#anti endo#did#did system#endos dni#plural#actually did#alters#system#endos fuck off#did osdd#tw kys mention#cw swearing#CW caps#Not sure if we have to do those but we'll do so anyways just in case
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