#Conversation Starters

[agirlwithglam]

The secret to actually being interesting and fun:

Is to be interestED

Guys fr tho, talk about others. Ask OTHER people questions, react to what they say, get interested!! You may think that they are super interested in what you have to say, but most of the time, they dont actually care if ur someone who talks about yourself a lot.

Normally you can tell when somebody isn’t as interested as you’d like and if you start to see that. Stop talking immediately and ask THEM a question.

Also remember that if you have nothing to say but you want to keep a conversation alive, don’t insult them, don’t desperately compliment them as a way to get them to like you, ask about them. TAKE AN INTEREST IN THEM!! And if you genuinely do like something about them, then do compliment it + ask a follow up question!

(And esp if you find that they start getting excited/ passionate about that subject, encourage them to talk about it more!)

Compliment + follow up questions:

“omg i love ur (hair) curls, what’s ur secret!”

Your neckless is stunning it goes with your vibe so well! Where’d you get it from? (Might be a present, and then you can ask about that person!)

You’re so good at [school subject], how??

Questions examples:

Any plans when you get home?

What did you do over the weekend?

What’s your fav song? / do u like Sabrina carpenter/ Taylor swift? (Then proceed to bond and fangirl over the songs)

How’s your day been so far? (Sometimes asking the most simple questions can make a person feel seen)

What do you want to be when you’re older?

How would you describe your dream partner?

Etc etc etc

Also I found this on Pinterest and its all you need: Pinterest link <3

[nenelonomh]

tips to make friends with people you find cool:

⋆ take initiative. don't wait for someone else to make the first move. initiate conversations, share a little about yourself, and listen to what they say. even small interactions can break the ice.

⋆ show friendliness and be approachable. smile, maintain eye contact, and use positive body language. people are drawn to those who radiate warmth and openness.

⋆ be a good listener. when someone talks, actively listen. show genuine interest in their stories and experiences. being a good listener helps build trust and connection.

⋆ have a sense of humour. light-hearted humour can break down barriers and create a comfortable atmosphere. show that you enjoy having fun and appreciate laughter.

⋆ when you cross paths, give them a friendly 'hello' or a smile. keep it light and natural.

(and more specifically) tips to start a conversation:

⋆ compliment something specific about them. it could be their style, a project they're working on, or even their smile.

⋆ as open-ended questions instead of yes/no questions. try to talk about their interests, hobbies, or opinions.

⋆ if you're in the same class or have mutual friends, use that as a conversation starter. "did you understand today's lecture?" or "did you know when [mutual friend]'s birthday was? i just can't remember."

[femmefatalevibe]

How do I sound and appear more intelligent and sophisticated? I've read books and stuff but how do I apply the knowledge in real life? How do I make my everyday vocabulary more sophisticated? Ik the general advice to read books and converse with people etc, but how do I actually apply it irl?

Hi love! Here are some of my suggestions/tips:

How do I sound and appear more intelligent and sophisticated?

Keep your language and explanations simple & concise

Speak slowly & deliberately: Take your time between sentences, and pause between your thoughts. Always think before you speak. Silences, while slightly awkward, are not always best avoided

Use the proper propositions when speaking: Avoid small grammar mistakes (know when to use less vs. fewer, I vs. me, graduated from an institution, etc.)

Articulate complex concepts into layman's terms: Break concepts down into different parts of the conceptual equation – chronically, from beginning to end or outcome to origin, simultaneously moving parts/micro-stories or situations; Use analogies (metaphors, mundane/real-life examples, or hypothetical situations) that require the same thought-process or methodology)

Apply conversational "show don't tell" when sharing a story: Describe the situation using the 5 senses to convey the implied meaning (e.g. "I could feel the pit in my stomach." vs. "I was nervous.")

Use subtle tonality to convey particularly emotional or significant points while speaking

I've read books and stuff but how do I apply the knowledge in real life?

Relate cultural references or learned concepts to add clever humor to everyday conversations

Create parallels and analogies to outside information to convey your understanding of what someone is saying, ask more thoughtful follow-up questions, or smoothly transition into a new conversation topic

How do I make my everyday vocabulary more sophisticated?

Use everyday/simple sentence structure and replace one simple word choice with another more sophisticated word that is equally apt to the message you're trying to convey

If you're ever confused about whether a particular synonym makes sense to use IRL, look at how it is used in the dictionary sentence examples and in other books/articles

Ik the general advice to read books and converse with people etc, but how do I actually apply it irl?

Reiterate a concise, simplified version of the other person's anecdotes to convey your understanding. Drive the conversation forward by asking specific follow-up questions based on one "part" of the idea or story

Use cultural parallels to convey your understanding of what the other person is saying (sounds like this TV show character, like a certain artist, historical/current event, etc.)

Leverage metaphors to connect the dots between the points you and your conversation partner are making. Make an insightful connection to break up the air time between their anecdote and contribution

Conversational word choice should be used to create vivid images in people's minds – to paint a picture of the concept, scene, emotions, or sensations one would engage with or experience if the person was living your conversation in the present moment

Learn how to use wit conversations – context and delivery are vital to its success and positive reception

Hope this helps xx

[midgeo]

40+ Good Conversation Topics to Talk About With a Guy

40+ Deep Conversation Topics You Can Use to Talk to a Guy

Travel: Favorite destinations, dream trips, travel experiences.

Hobbies: What he enjoys doing in his free time.

Books: Favorite genres, recent reads, book recommendations.

Movies: Favorite films, actors, genres, recent releases.

Music: Favorite bands, genres, concerts attended.

Food: Favorite cuisines, restaurants, cooking experiences.

Sports: Favorite teams, memorable games, sports he plays.

Work/ Career: His job, aspirations, achievements, challenges.

Technology: Gadgets he likes, latest tech trends, favorite apps.

Family: Siblings, childhood memories, family traditions.

Pets: If he has any, favorite animals, funny pet stories.

Fitness/ Exercise: Workouts he enjoys, fitness goals, sports he plays.

TV Shows: Favorite series, binge-worthy recommendations.

Dreams/ Goals: Short-term and long-term aspirations.

Art: Favorite artists, art mediums, creative hobbies.

Current Events: News topics, recent developments.

Philosophy: Existential questions, life perspectives.

Funny Stories: Embarrassing or humorous experiences.

Gaming: Favorite games, gaming experiences, latest releases.

Cars/ Vehicles: Favorite models, dream cars, driving experiences.

Nature/ Outdoors: Camping experiences, favorite outdoor activities.

Fashion/ Style: Clothing preferences, fashion trends.

Languages: If he speaks multiple languages or wants to learn one.

DIY/ Home Improvement: Projects he's worked on or wants to do.

Relationships: Views on dating, friendships, or family dynamics.

Finance/ Money: Saving tips, investment interests, financial goals.

Health/ Wellness: Healthy habits, self-care routines.

Education: Favorite subjects, memorable school experiences.

Science: Fascinating scientific topics or discoveries.

Cultural Differences: Discussing diverse cultures and traditions.

Social Media: Favorite platforms, online interactions.

Volunteering/ Charity: Causes he cares about, volunteering experiences.

Conspiracy Theories: If he's into that sort of thing, it can spark some interesting conversations.

Spirituality/ Religion: Beliefs, experiences, or philosophies.

Home/ Living Situation: Decor preferences, dream homes.

Humor: Favorite comedians, types of humor.

Memorable Trips: Sharing travel stories and experiences.

Future Plans: Where he sees himself in the future.

Technology Trends: Emerging tech or gadgets he finds exciting.

Astrology/ Zodiac Signs: Whether he believes in it or not, it can be a fun topic.

Remember to gauge his interest and comfort level with each topic and keep the conversation flowing naturally!

[onlycringepost]

im sorry i have ZEROOO knowledge of pop culture. do not talk to me about it. i want nothing to do with it.

im here for the woods, the stars, the sea, the ancient kingdoms

[doodle-belle-thorn]

It would appear Cupid neglected to mention that Venus is really bad at conversation starters

Like did she want me say "good for you" or to one up her and say I made out with a jester or what????

[treasurem]

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[gleefulpoppet]

A New Year's Gift for You!

This is a "game" I created for one of my stories that I wanted to share with everyone! You can print the cards (detailed instructions included) or use the questions digitally! Please feel free to make copies or share the file with whoever you'd like. Wishing you the best in the New Year! ⭐💖

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[xxhypersomnia]

About the Tumblr...er?

I love talking with others - so strike up a convo with me about any of these things! MDNI +18

Nice convos only. If you say anything just to be a turd, I will not reply. I’m not here for negative energy. ☮️ ☮️

Name: Ray Age: Early 30s Pronouns: she/her Occupation: Animal Shelter Professional Sign: Aries Favorite Color: cerulean blue Favorite Animal: Coatimundi, Orca Hobbies: Warhammer, Dragon Age, Reading Non-fiction, Painting, singing, theatre Favorite Fictional Characters: Din Djarin, Inigo Montoya, Paddington, Megara Fictional Characters I Identify with (Can you see a theme? - it may not be the theme you're thinking): Korra, Ellie Williams, Sailor Jupiter, Cassandra Pentaghast, Leslie Knope, Nadija of Antipaxos Favorite Online Personalities: Shane & Ryan, Brittany Broski, Miles Bonsignore, Safiya Nygaard, Trixie & Katya Celebrity Crush: The one and only Pedro Pascal Fanfic Favs: Joel Miller, The Mandalorian Favorite TV Shows: The Last of Us, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Drag Race, Community, The Mandalorian, Sailor Moon, Adventure Time, Regular Show, The Dick Van Dyke Show, Dexter, Parks and Recreation, Spongebob, Futurama Favorite Movies: Just Friends, Howl's Moving Castle, The Labyrinth, Nacho Libre, Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent, Dumb and Dumber Favorite Travel: Norway, Iceland, London, Utah Music On Repeat: anything Classical, Post Malone, Orville Peck, Elvis, Amelia Moore, Magic Sword, Doja Cat, The Chicks, Carly Rae Jepsen, Ashnikko, Lauv, Lady Gaga, Miley Cyrus, Audrey Nuna, Yung Gravy, Peach PRC, Reve, Kim Petras, Kah-Lo, WILLOW, My Chemical Romance, Paramore

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[daisychains334]

questions that aren’t just “what do you want to be when you grow up?” 🌟

what thing about your life right now do you hope never changes?

what color is your life right now? and what color do you think it should be?

who do you think would come to the hospital first for you if you got hurt?

are you a sad person with happy moments or a happy person with sad moments?

would you rather change the past or see the future?

when’s the last time you cried?

is there anyone who you think deserves to hate you?

is there anyone you think you deserve to hate?

[agirlwithglam]

becoming a good conversationalist

Tips and conversation starters!

TIPS TO BE A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST + BE FUNNY

lil tips:

a huge part of people wanting to be around you again, is how they emotionally feel when they're around you.

go into a conversation not thinking "i hope they like me" but thinking "i hope i have fun!"

remember that they are just people, just human. they aren't a whole lot different to you! you live, you die; they live, they die. dont be so scared and uptight about talking to someone.

conversation starters:

things that they've never done but they want to do

find out about their interests

find out what they like and dont.

which places do you really want to go to?

what is the best place/ country you've been to?

what are your fears?

ask about food

what foods and drinks do you like?

your favourite restaurant?

favourite chocolate?

recommended youtubers/ videos:

Joshua Otusanya (self improvement + the BEST conversation tips!)

Tam Kaur (mainly talks about self improvement but also has socialising/ becoming an extrovert content)

Xoxo, Vanilla

[hosh-rubaa]

Everytime it's not about "I love you, u r beautiful, I like u"... bla blah

Sometimes it's all about – "hey u okay?" "I don't think so.. wanna talk?"

—It's not always about expressing love or admiration; sometimes, it's about showing empathy and concern.

[femmefatalevibe]

Femme Fatale Playbook: Simple Tips & Tricks To Seduce A Prospective Lover

Embrace direct eye contact. Hold your gaze when either one of you is speaking. Build tension by glancing, staring away for a few seconds, then giving them a second look. Use the triangle method (look to the left eye, down to the lips, and then the right eye)

Smile, laugh, and use gentle, friendly touch (on the shoulder, arm, knee) to indicate interest.

Twirling your hair while giving an upward glance can be really hot, but this is a very direct move, lol.

Engage in conversation, and ask questions about their interests and favorite spots. Share where your mutual interests lie and places/activities you're interested in exploring sometime soon (whether that be a cool wine bar, museum, a shared love of mini golf/tennis, etc.).

Conversationally ask what the rest of their week/weekend looks like. Allow them to take the lead with making plans if they're interested and not already busy with pre-planned activities or social gatherings.

[jorilovesfun]

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[thevoidstaredback]

Whenever it's quiet in Discord, I send this picture to spark conversation

26/28 of us all agree that this man Is perfect and should be protected at all costs. We love him.

1/26 is jokingly terrified of him and 'dies' for a bit before coming back.

The last person doesn't like Ryan Reynolds. But, she's pissed me off several too many times, so what she thinks doesn't matter

[onlycringepost]

life hack: if youre going out, wear something a little interesting

eg: a bright-coloured hoodie, bright-coloured shoes, glasses with uncommon frames,

it allows people to have a conversation with you.