#Autism Support Items

[noisycowboyglitter]

Puzzle Sloth: Advocating for Autism Awareness Until All Pieces Fit

Discover the enchanting world of the Until All Pieces Fit Puzzle Sloth. This captivating puzzle invites you on a whimsical journey through the lush rainforest, where a lovable sloth patiently works on piecing together the intricate details of its arboreal home.

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The design celebrates the slow and steady approach to life, a quality often associated with sloths. Just as the sloth meticulously assembles its puzzle, we encourage you to embrace a mindful and patient approach to your own challenges. Each piece you connect brings you closer to completing the picture, much like the steps we take in achieving our goals.

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The Until All Pieces Fit Puzzle Sloth is more than just a game; it's a reminder to appreciate the journey and find joy in the process. It's a gentle nudge to slow down, take a deep breath, and savor the moment. Whether you're a puzzle enthusiast or simply seeking a relaxing pastime, this puzzle offers a delightful escape into a world of tranquility.

Let the sloth's serene demeanor inspire you to approach life with patience, persistence, and a touch of playful curiosity. As you piece together the puzzle, allow yourself to unwind and connect with your inner peace.

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April is designated as National Autism Awareness Month to shed light on autism spectrum disorder (ASD). This neurodevelopmental condition affects communication, social interaction, and behavior. The month-long observance aims to increase understanding, acceptance, and support for individuals with autism and their families.

By raising awareness, we challenge misconceptions and stereotypes surrounding autism. It's an opportunity to celebrate the unique strengths and abilities of individuals on the spectrum. Through education, advocacy, and community involvement, we strive to create a more inclusive society where everyone feels valued and supported.

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Join us in spreading awareness about autism throughout the month of April. Let's work together to build a world where individuals with autism can reach their full potential and live fulfilling lives.

[8irdies]

hi reminder that there’s no shame in needing a comfort object to function!

i’m a full adult and still have meltdowns when i’m separated from my plushies for even a few minutes. i never go places without them. i cannot exist without them.

it’s not a flaw in my being! it’s just my autism! needing a comfort object doesn’t make you lesser. it doesn’t make you weak or childish or a failure. i wish courage to anyone who needs it to bring your comfort items with you wherever they can help!

[inkwell-illustrations]

This is my Sir Hop A Lot plush! He's my main comfort item, I love him so much!! He makes me so happy! He's helped calm me down when I'm anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed many times and I'm so grateful to have him 💚🐸 💚

[germplush]

10/15/24 | us and Nibble!! been blurry a lot lately. really struggling. we are doing our best.. we gotta keep trying..

[crazycatsiren]

Unfortunately, Lijjian the capybara Squishmallow is too big to fit on the bed when the husband and I are both on it.

[mattiautistic]

Miren lo que encontré en un mercado de segunda mano! Es hermoso recién lo compre con la esperanza de que aún funcionará pero lamentablemente el teclado no responde por completo ¿Creen que haya alguna forma de arreglarlo? Realmente me gustó es adorable! Y perfecto para mí colección!

Look what I found at a second-hand market! It's beautiful, I just bought it with the hope that it will still work but unfortunately the keyboard is completely unresponsive. Do you think there is any way to fix it? I would really be very excited to have it.

Estaba tan feliz cuando recibí un correo de mango

[turtley-ausome]

Waiting for my medical procedure today im so nervous got medicine but not helping and not know what time i go makes me more anxious scared frustrated!

[littlethingsmart]

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[mental-illness-bingo]

Would like advice on what to name this lil dude (frog bracelet my partner got me to accompany my lil autistic and anxious self when we go run errands and such)! Full disclosure he will not be named exclusively by highest votes, but it will help lead my decision. Additional name ideas in tags or replies are welcome as well!

[followerofmercy]

Networking/Knowing A Guy: A Guide

This is the autism website. Now, as an extension of the power of love and friendship, there are few things more useful than Knowing A Guy. Knowing A Guy means you have a support network. Knowing a plumber, or a tax accountant, or just that one dude that's really fucking good at finding the information you need when you're really overwhelmed, can be the difference between being able to pay rent and having a fun party with friends to fix your shit.

How does one end up Knowing A Guy? It's a skill you can develop called Networking and it is one of the foundations of society. Unfortunately making those connections with people is fucking hard and nobody makes a tutorial for it. So, here you go:

The golden rule is you scratch my back and I scratch yours

It is necessary for survival to seek out useful people

Great news! Everyone is useful in some form or fashion - including you! When given the opportunity to learn about someone, do it! Extroversion does not come naturally to some people and that's okay. Just take whatever falls in your lap.

Types of usefulness: trade skills, connections of their own, personality you jive with, pleasant to talk to, niche interest in shared hobby, security - the list is pretty much endless. I know a guy that lives in the metro area - no job, no major hobbies, inoffensively annoying to me personally, kinda ignorant, not attractive to me, but you know what? He knows how the fuck to get around the city by foot. My rural-raised ass APPRECIATES the guide.

Remember important information: general personality, background, skillset, likes and dislikes. You can find this information by making smalltalk about their life. There is no such thing as pointless conversation. (Yes, even the annoying smalltalk)

The more people you know, the higher the likelihood that one of them will be useful in a given situation - or will know someone who is.

It is overwhelming. In a given clique/community/workspace/whatever, there is A Guy Who Knows The Other Guys. This Guy is a shortcut. Find them. They're often elderly, extroverted, a little bit annoying, a secretary or in some otherwise forward-facing position. Look for people that are gossipy/talk about other people a lot but not in negative ways. If they constantly talk shit, they'll talk shit about you too. They're still useful but be careful with the information you share

You do not have to like someone for them to be useful.

You do not have to like someone for them to be useful.*

If you have low self esteem, you're going to feel like you're using people. You're not. That's the devil talking. People like feeling valued and the connections you are making are the threads holding community together. Recognize people for their talents. It's only a problem when you're taking advantage of people

So: don't feel scummy about it. You're an animal. You have to claw out your right to survive and people will respect you more for it.

Luckily mutualism is the name of the game in the animal kingdom. Offer something back. The foundation of a Know A Guy relationship is Mutual Benefit

Sometimes that Mutual Benefit is just spreading news of the The Guy far and wide. My plumber friend is my actual friend and I love her to death, but I'm maintaining our backscratch relationship by pimping out her plumbing business to anyone that'll listen

Food is a good Mutual Benefit. People across cultures for all of human history have bonded over food. I have good success asking people for a favor and then offering to buy them lunch in return **

General compensation is also good. Offer a service in return and always do your best to offer financial compensation as appropriate. Having your plumber friend take a look at your drain: doable with a case of beer. Having your plumber friend redo the pipes in your entire house? You need to pay for that.

Being transactional is not necessarily a bad thing. I would advise against keeping an itemized list of things owed, but fish don't seek out cleaner shrimp just because they enjoy their company. Everyone gets something

Unfortunately being extroverted and generally personable is a huge benefit here, but that's the value of the Guy That Knows A Guy. There's someone out there that has consolidated All The Guys so you don't have to be the local expert. Always remember nobody can do everything and you don't need to master every skill

* This is the foundation of a functioning community. I have many acquaintances that I find incredibly annoying. They include doctors, welders, artists, social workers, lawyers, construction crew and random fuckers at the grocery store. I do not hang out with them. I do not have to in order to maintain a civil Know A Guy relationship. I can drop them useful tidbits and fuck right off so I don't have to spend any more time than necessary with them

** People may assume romantic intent. Be prepared for that. I generally denote that it's a friendly/work lunch by calling them bro at some point if they're my age. Otherwise my general demeanor is sufficient to show that I do this with everyone

Source: personal experience, mother's teachings of crime, booth vending and poverty

[noisycowboyglitter]

Empowerment Through Art: "I Wear Purple for Someone" Butterfly Products

"The Purple Butterfly: A Symbol of Solidarity and Remembrance"

The sight of a purple butterfly holds profound meaning in the realm of awareness and remembrance. This hue, often associated with the fight against Alzheimer's disease, becomes a unifying emblem that transcends individual experiences, forging a sense of collective empowerment and support.

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When someone wears purple in honor of the butterfly, it is a powerful declaration of their commitment to standing by the side of those affected by this devastating illness. The purple butterfly represents the resilience, compassion, and unwavering spirit of the Alzheimer's community, serving as a touchstone for the shared journey of those living with the disease and their loved ones.

This symbolic gesture becomes a rallying cry, amplifying the voices of those whose lives have been touched by Alzheimer's. It is a testament to the enduring human capacity for empathy, a acknowledgment of the challenges faced, and a steadfast promise to continue the fight for a cure.

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As the purple butterfly takes flight, it carries with it the collective memories, hopes, and determination of all those who wear it. It is a poignant reminder that, even in the face of unimaginable adversity, the human spirit can soar, finding strength in the embrace of a community united by a common cause.

"Raising Awareness, Fostering Understanding: The Fight Against Alzheimer's"

Alzheimer's Awareness is a clarion call that echoes through communities worldwide, uniting individuals in a collective effort to confront this formidable challenge. As this devastating neurodegenerative disease continues to impact millions of lives, awareness serves as a powerful catalyst for change.

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Through educational initiatives, support networks, and advocacy campaigns, Alzheimer's Awareness shines a light on the realities faced by those living with the condition and their caregivers. It dispels misconceptions, fosters empathy, and mobilizes resources to advance research, improve care, and unlock the mysteries of this perplexing illness.

Most importantly, Alzheimer's Awareness empowers those affected, giving voice to their experiences and inspiring a sense of hope. It recognizes the resilience and adaptability required to navigate the journey, while also championing the tireless efforts of those dedicated to finding a cure and bettering the lives of all touched by Alzheimer's.

"Ethereal Elegance: Butterfly-Inspired Gifts that Captivate the Senses"

Butterfly-themed gifts hold a captivating allure, seamlessly blending the delicate charm of nature's winged wonders with timeless sophistication. These enchanting offerings cater to those who appreciate the beauty of the natural world, becoming cherished keepsakes that infuse spaces with a sense of wonder.

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From delicate jewelry pieces featuring intricate butterfly motifs to whimsical home accents that flutter with grace, these gifts transcend the boundaries of mere decoration. They serve as touchstones, evoking cherished memories and fostering a deeper connection to the fragile yet resilient cycle of life.

In the embrace of the butterfly, these gifts become a celebration of the ethereal elegance that permeates the human experience.

[genderqueerdykes]

Disabled homeless trans lesbian artist in need; new items added to our Ko-fi shop!

We are currently homeless and living out of a hotel- I am spending $38/night every night that I'm here. I'm working with an apartment complex that is waiting for approval from the government to get me my unit. I still haven't been approved and I have been working with them since October. I am severely disabled with having autism, hEDS, fibromyalgia, schizophrenia, PTSD & other conditions. Even reblogging this post helps. We've added a lot of new items, we're very excited for these! We hope you enjoy them as much as we do! Thank you if you decide to support us, it goes a long way!

[stuffieautism]

i’m a level 2/3 autistic who was not diagnosed until a couple months after i turned 18. instead, i was labeled as severely mentally ill and put through years of hospitalizations, day treatment, and therapies, and institutionalized for months. leaving me with trauma worse than i went in with, precisely because i was autistic, and they treated me with ableism for it despite not knowing what it was.

my semiverbality was seen as dissociation or plain old defiance. my meltdowns were seen as intentional and me being bad and disruptive and i was punished for them or called manipulative. my stimming was seen as a behavior that needed to be targeted and shamed and mocked by staff and peers alike. my sensory issues were just things i needed to be “desensitized” to (which doesn’t work that way). i was yelled at for sensory aversions and overload. i was berated and bullied if i asked them to stop blasting music or making so much noise. all while continuing or increasing the intensity of the stimuli to get back at me. i was forced to eat until i threw up nearly every day at one place and then yelled at for throwing up and having access to comfort items taken away.

my needs were ignored. support was denied or removed. i wasn’t able to take care of myself. and rather than being treated with compassion and given actual help, i faced more and more restrictions and punishments and shaming.

no one listened to me when i said how much it hurt, that i was actually trying, that i was in pain, that i couldn’t control it, that i didn’t understand what i did wrong, that SOMETHING IS WRONG.

my autistic traits were a problem with me. they said it was my fault i couldn’t do this or kept doing that. i was doing it because i was a problem child. i was lying about not being able to control it. i was lying about how hard things were and the harm they caused.

i was diagnosed when i was 18. after experiencing torture for years. higher support needs autistics can go undiagnosed. and it doesn’t mean we have the Smart Outcast experience. it can also mean we’re put through a different path of abuse for disabled children. not having an autism diagnosis did me no favors. it kept me safe from nothing. late diagnosis doesn’t always mean people thought you were normal. it doesn’t always mean you grew up low support needs. sometimes it means they would rather have a “mentally ill” child who’s problems are a moral failing of its own lack of effort than admit you weren’t lying.

[germplush]

8/29/24 | Olive Dot here. spend time with my owners Dreamdrop but later went out to a bar with their roommate. i was there for support. we went to a bar for the first time and ordered a drink. after we had subway. good day! proud of them - Olive Dot

[crazycatsiren]

Taking a plushie with me when I leave the house, 5 stars, highly recommend!

[mattiautistic]

Bolsa lista para intentar sobrevivir el dia! Hoy mango no pudo acompañarnos ya que hay demasiadas cosas en la bolsa por lo que Pan pan será mi apoyo emocional de hoy! Sean amables con Pan pan es tímido! Solo espero que Pan pan no se quede dormido en mi bolsa, miren su adorable carita mi pobre bebé siempre tiene sueño como yo.

Bag ready to try to survive the day! Today mango couldn't join us since there are too many things in the bag so Pan pan will be my emotional support today! Be nice to Pan Pan is shy! I just hope Pan Pan doesn't fall asleep in my bag, look at his adorable little face, my poor baby is always sleepy like me.