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[semonx]

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[shakira-fan-page]

Shakira has surpassed 39 MILLON followers on TikTok.

[dragon-fly34]

My God! I had a lot of Mario celebrations, so I decided to put them all together in one post.

[daily-lightbulbii]

[etcnnante]

can’t believe it’s a certain boy’s birthday today … happy birthday to my dear mista whom is another year older and would hate to celebrate his birthday bc he’d be 42 today 👏🏻

[scootarooni]

Happy miku day! ^w^

[just-your-average-tangerine]

A queer newsletter from my hometown is posting about the lack of lesbian bars in this major city. But they're acting like this is a long-standing issue when it isn't. There was a lesbian bar in town. For many years, it opened sometime in the 80s. Then, around 2015/2016 trans rights became the hot button issue, and that bar took approximately 5 minutes to become a terf bar and start isolating itself from the rest of the local queer community. The petty infighting between regulars led to a gradual loss of business before the bar ultimately shut down in 2019. (Then relocated and reopened in 2021 as a straight bar).

It's great if they want to open a new lesbian/ women's bar, or otherwise create that space. But they've got to deal with this problem first.

[arabella-in-riot-van]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YELLAMO SALOHCIN!!!

[jeneverbes]

It’s the most Important day of the year

[vanosslirious]

Terroriser: *only one left alive* Should I go in there and die?

Ms Vixen: No, no, no, no!

Vanoss: Yes. Yes~ Lanai also says yes.

Ms Vixen: No! I don't ! *laughing*

Terroriser: Okay...least I'll...

*Moo chuckled*

Vanoss: It was her idea actually.

*Ms Vixen laughing*

[fragmentedink-archived]

wow just realized I'm actually turning 30 this year and it's not even my age I'm dreading. it's the fact it's a major milestone and there's a solid likelihood I'll be celebrating it alone unless I seek out people to spend it with me bec it's not like they're gonna do anything to show they care without me prompting it lol

[jpriest85-blog]

Getting older should be celebrated. Why should I cry over grey hair? Thank God I'm in good health and live comfortably enough to grow old! I pray that I will live long enough to see my children grow older and have a better life. Especially since a lot of people like me don't even get the chance to live to see 30.

the older i get and the closer i am to reaching 30, the more the people around me try to deny me my age. it’s a constant ‘oh you’re just turning 29 again teehee 🤭’ or ‘dont tell your SO that, he’ll leave you for a younger model 😉’ and i just???? hate it?????????

i spent my entire teenaged years fighting for my life. i crawled through the deepest pits of my depression to cling to the promise of a life beyond that pain. i was so convinced that i was going to die young, that i would never see the grace of my age starting with a 2, let alone 3.

so im going to turn 30, and there’s not a damn thing anyone can do to stop me from loving it.

[andyourhostkristenwiig]

Soo I'm sick at the moment. I basically started the new year with a very bad cold and I'm still sick. I've worked the total of 4 days so far this year. Sure it's my own fault because I spent like 12 hours in the freezing cold but its still sick.

And it just so happened that the day of my one sister's birthday, I was so sick and sleepy and completely drained of energy, that I forgot to wish her a happy birthday. I wasn't invited either though, but I drove my mom (what a weird thing to ask by the way).

But I didn't think anything of it. We're grown ups, I was sick, and after the entire thing with my 30th birthday last year, I didn't exactly feel bad.

Also I've approached her and our mom not once, not twice but three whole times that I'm physically and emotionally drained from our sister staying at my place and not leaving...I've asked them for help and to talk to her, make her see that by not moving out, she's also hurting me. But all I got was "well she doesn't answer our texts and I worry about her.". They could not care less that I'm dreading going into my own home because I've lost all privacy for 5 months now because she's always there. Meanwhile work is also complete shit, I'm basically nowhere and just being pushed from one office to the other. They wouldn't know though because they only care about themselves and after last year, I have no reason to believe they'd care.

But my sister went to our mom because I didn't wish her a happy birthday and told her she's mad at me now.

😐 While this wasn't exactly my style cause I don't usually forget birthdays...I was sick, I wasn't invited, and I have a million other problems right now that I couldn't care less about forgetting a birthday...one in my 30 years on this planet.

And this coming from the person that skipped my 30th birthday claiming she didn't know I had anything planned despite her threat being the only reason I planned anything at all???

[blackgirlslivingwell]

Judge Mathis's Wife Linda Reese Mathis Files For Divorce After 39 Years of Marriage

Judge Greg Mathis and his wife, Linda Reese Mathis, are divorcing after 39 years of marriage.

Linda filed for divorce in the Los Angeles Superior Court on August 22, 2024, citing irreconcilable differences and listing their separation date as July 17, 2024.

There's no mention of any specific incidents or conflicts that directly led to the divorce filing.

[girlwithrituals]

101 ways to improve self esteem

1) Master a new skill.

2) List your accomplishments.

3) Do something creative.

4) Challenge your limiting beliefs.

5) Talk to a counselor.

6) Don't worry about what others think.

7) Read or watch something inspirational.

8) Stay true to your character.

9) Let go of negative people.

10) Set healthy boundaries with others.

11) Care about your appearance.

12) Welcome failure as part of growth.

13) Be a lifelong learner.

14) Face your fears.

15) Become a mentor.

16) Accept compliments.

17) Eliminate self-criticism.

18) Practice coping skills to manage stress and big emotions.

19) Notice negative thoughts and beliefs.

20) Challenge negative thinking.

21) Think about what you learned from negative experiences.

22) Practice gratitude.

23) Exercise.

24) Eat healthy and limit junk food.

25) Get good sleep.

26) Spend time with positive and supportive people.

27) Encourage yourself.

28) Write a list of your strengths.

29) Don't compare yourself to others.

30) Avoid perfectionism.

31) Do at least one positive, enjoyable activity every day.

32) Celebrate small victories.

33) Be helpful and considerate to others.

34) Be honest with yourself and others.

35) Accept your flaws.

36) Don't give up.

37) Practice self-care.

38) Go easy on yourself.

39) Practice being assertive.

40) Practice saying "No".

41) Practice relaxation techniques.

42) Take on challenges.

43) Volunteer to help others.

44) Forgive others and yourself.

45) Set goals and work toward them step by step.

46) Seek balance in all areas of your life.

47) Discover your passions and purpose

48) Groom yourself.

49) Dress nicely.

50) Be kind and generous to others.

51) Practice good posture.

52) Change a small habit.

53) Smile.

54) Don't procrastinate.

55) Don't take things personal.

56) Organize your personal space.

57) Challenge unkind thoughts about yourself.

58) Spend time outside.

59) Notice the good things.

60) Celebrate your successes

61) Write a list of things you like about yourself.

62) Don't take too much on.

63) Do something for yourself every day.

64) Develop daily habits.

65) Remind yourself it's okay if not everyone likes you.

66) Practice mindfulness.

67) Learn to tolerate discomfort.

68) Use problem-solving skills.

69) Take responsibility instead of blaming.

Tell Yourself Positive Affirmations Such As:

70) I am grateful for every day.

71) I am worthy of happiness and love.

72) I am in charge of my own happiness.

73) I love, respect, and believe in myself.

74) I deserve to be happy and successful.

75) I approve of myself, right here and now.

76) I am learning and changing for the better.

77) I accept 100% responsibility for my own life.

78) Every day in every way, I am getting better and better.

79) I can learn to accept the parts of myself that I don't like.

80) I am thankful for my challenges as they make me a stronger person.

81) Write down three positives about each day.

82) Make a collage with your talents, goals, and dreams.

83) Practice laughing.

84) Be proud of yourself.

85) Say mistakes are an opportunity to learn.

86) Show respect to yourself and others.

87) Resolve conflict peacefully.

88) Ask for help or support.

89) Complete a daily task list.

90) Have a growth mindset.

91) Be optimistic.

92) Treat yourself with kindness and compassion.

93) Focus on the things you have control over and can change.

94) Get started on tasks you have been putting off.

95) Practice good daily hygiene.

96) Focus on solutions not problems.

97) Talk about your feelings with someone you trust.

98) Drink plenty of water.

99) Start a new hobby or join a club/sport.

100) Do random acts of kindness.

101) Create a dreams list.