#...advice can be helpful of course
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Me: sees writing advice
Writing advice: DO this. DON'T DO that.
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Me: Imma do the opposite? How about that? Fucking Fight me.
#writing#fanfic writing#fic writing#writers on tumblr#writing advice#there are no rules#there is no spoon#...advice can be helpful of course#but any superlatives in writing advice rub me the wrong way#“this is the right way to do it” yeah that doesnt fly with me - theres a million ways to do “it#“ whatever it is
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these lines hit different when you read utena as transmasc
#i mean the first one is really awful regardless.#pretty sure i read somewhere that the words akio uses means something along the lines of 'you really should remain a child'#as opposed to 'you really should remain the gender that you are.' which speaks to his whole thing about keeping these kids from growing up#and there's So Much in anthy's line even without hypothetical misgendering#anyway the au where utena has already transitioned by the time he gets to ohtori is really good#and i of course have lots of headcanons about post-ohtori utena and gender#but i've been thinking about one where he's actively questioning while he's there and is not out to anyone.#and i guess not a lot would really change but akio's attempt at making utena more feminine would have a whole other layer of awful to it#and unfortunately i think in this scenario the first person he would come out to would be akio. which is so sad#like maybe it could be anthy but idk. i think it would be something he'd be apprehensive to be open about with her#(in the show utena does tend to be more vulnerable with akio than with anthy. at least the vulnerability with him comes first.#he's her go-to person for advice in the black rose arc and utena doesn't really begin opening up to anthy like that until the third arc)#maybe i should write something for this au. i can see it so clearly.#utena talking about his confusing gender feelings in one of those black rose scenes in the planetarium#and akio doing that thing where he sounds supportive and helpful but absolutely isn't.#that fake sympathy that's actually really patronizing and condescending and dismissive but subtly enough that utena doesn't realize it#and THEN the contrast when utena finally talks to anthy about it and she empathises by talking about her own confusing gender feelings#(transfem anthy realness !!!!!)#oh wow i did not mean to write so much in the tags#revolutionary girl utena#utena tenjou#my posts
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Hey if you can give any tips to beginner artist what well they be? (Note: I need tips because I'm starting my own comic)
Just draw. A lot. Draw what you like, use a whole lotta references, and don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t take off immediately- these things take time. Which objectively sucks and is extremely annoying, but it’s true- and it’s the best advice I can possibly give. Don’t get discouraged. Just draw. Unfortunately, practice really does work, even if that “practice makes perfect” phrase sounds stupid…
idk, yeah, the best way to get real good at art is to do it a whole lot.
#im sorry cos ik this is probably obvious lol#ig I’ve been drawing forever so I don’t really remember what advice woulda helped as a beginner? just stick with it is all I can say#cos that’s what I did and that’s how I got good at it#(Course that also applies to most things you do- but yk persistence really is the key to everything skills-wise)#rambling#ask
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any updates about your fics?? :0
(pls don’t feel pressured to respond to this if you’re busy!!)
!! hello anon :3!! <333
ive been writing a specific part for Unstoppable Force, where volition and harry talking to each other. and oh holy shit this fucking conversation is like!!! YEAH it's in character and i know what to write, but it hurts so fucking bad to actually write it, help me hgkjg
while the volition and electrochemistry thing is the main plot, on the side there's also kim who just transferred precincts, and harry who has a crush on him. and the kim/harry parallels to volition/echem... "i'm putting up a front of reserved responsibility and i have to repress any emotion that could compromise my commitment to my duties." immovable object and "i feel like the worst kind of mess and i want to get better but i don't know if i deserve to be helped or loved because im a mess." unstoppable force :']
but VOLITION IS STILL A SKILL, SO HE'S ADVISING HARRY WITH THIS PERSPECTIVE. so when harry says "kim shouldn't like me, huh?" then volition (who is projecting himself and echem onto kim and harry's relationship) swallows and says, "you're right. kim shouldn't like you, and if he does, he feels like he's making a mistake. he probably wants - more than anything in the world - to stop feeling that way, and for you to stop feeling that way about him."
and harry (who is taking this literally because he doesn't know what's happening between voli and echem) sadly agrees "yeah. liking me will probably get in the way of his work. he shouldn't want to love me, that just... wouldn't make sense for him. im only making him worse."
BOYS. ITS A FEEDBACK LOOP. ITS AN ECHO CHAMBER. YOU'RE ONLY FUELING EACH OTHER'S ISSUES. STOP STOP STOP HGJKG
#DOES THIS MAKE SENSE. HELP HGJKG KIM AND ELECTROCHEMISTRY COME GET YOUR GUYS THEYRE SPIRALING.#see originally i wrote the scene going smoothly. volition going oh don't be like that. i'm not the guy you go to for love advice so we can#talk about it more during dinner so empathy and the other skills can give you advice for you and kim. it'll be okay.#and then the scene carries on. but like?? NO. as much as i'd love this conversation to end nicely‚ volition starts off this scene really#stressed!! he's so worried about letting this love affair with echem compromise his duties that /THE WORRY/ IS COMPROMISING HIS DUTIES.#WHY would he wait for other skills? all skills think they know what's best for harry!! of COURSE he'd be eager to give his advice here.#he's volition. harry needs him and he has to prove he can still do his job. so he overcompensates his role: boring responsible skill#harry you shouldn't love kim and kim shouldn't love you. everyone should just focus on their work and go back to normal!!!#he's accidentally letting himself project his own problems on harry's problems and THAT'S FUCKING UP HIS ADVICE!!!#it's in character but AURGH i can't WRITE THIS ANYMORE (/j) its causing me morale damage hgjkg its so HARD writing conflict :']#or at least conflict that isn't like. external. i just want everyone to be happyyyy but i /must/ create problems for them for plot :']#task: unstoppable force#inland drabbles#still dont know if this makes sense? i'll think on it some more...#sorry this took so long anon hgkj <33#volta transmissions
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kind of want to start a sideblog where we give system advice (specifically on how to gain functions/dispel disordered symptoms) but we have no clue what to call it
#we wanna give advice and info to newer systems who need help doing stuff like building a headspace or learning to switch on command#bc it took us a long time to learn that stuff ourselves but we sure did and it's very helpful to us and we like helping others with info#also a lot of system advice blogs we know of aren't super. active a lot anymore#whole thing will be pro endo and especially pro willo of course#we'd be hypocrites if we excluded the exact group that helped us with so much of this stuff in the first place#also willing to take other mods for it but we wanna make a little application form bc we want mods that can fill in gaps in our knowledge#bc like. we're going for functional multiplicity. some people who ask for advice might not be going for that#as well as we're a HUGE system. we might need small(er) systems to help give advice to small systems#and probably other things like we have some experience with willogenesis but not a whole lot#we wanna make a little google form application and see who's a good fit
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Hello, maybe you were asked this before, but how can I stop forgetting to drink water? I definitely don't drink enough, but I usually don't feel thirsty either so I simply don't remember about having to drink more often than ≈4 times a day??
hm! this does seem to be a somewhat common issue from what i have seen.. well, you may have heard this advice before, but i know it helps some people to set alarms or reminders on their phones or computers that will remind them to drink water every once in a while. it may also help to have a cup of water or water bottle on standby wherever you spend the most time. for example, if you spend a lot of time at your desk, having a water bottle there on your desk in your line of sight may help you remember or at least be there conveniently for you! if you are not already drinking water with your meals then that may be helpul as well. if you forget or simply dont feel thirsty for most other times of the day, then at least having water with each meal will be much better than nothing if you are not doing that already. finally i am thinking if you dont feel thirsty but you do feel hungry then it may be helpful to eat foods with more water already in them like certain types of fruit and so on....
#more advice welcome as always#i do hope this helps#i think drinking some water is of course better than nothing#but if you are dehydrated then#getting that hydration however you can is important!#the doc is in#important
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How to kill all of the Pikmin 3 Bosses with ease, aka, how to drop kick six toddlers
Yes, I'm doing one for Pikmin 3, because I also have played this game too much. SHUT, I had quite a while to play this game, and I have learned the ways to beat the shit out of the local six children of this game, aka, the bosses. (Spoilers for Pikmin 3 and it's bosses down below, btw)
FIRST OF ALL, I'm just going to say this once. Unless a boss fight demands you use Rocks, never bring them to a boss fight*, they are ASS at fighting. Bring Reds, trust me.
*There is an ONE exception, and we'll get to them
Armored Mawdad
So this boi is really easy after the first ten seconds. You basically go for the very back of his tail (The tip thing) and break that. He will shake off Pikmin and rest on a wall. Rush the creature with your Pikmin (Reds first) and watch as he gets capped at 1 HP. Then when he comes down again throw one rock at it and dead
Vehemoth Phosbat
Fun fact, you only need to build half of the bridge. No joke, choose which pile you want to bring over. You can put one Captain in the dark to lure the Phosbat over, just keep in mind that you should rush the pile as soon as it starts to try and eat the Captain (It will fail.) Once half of the bridge is built, wait for the Phosbat to try and eat the Captain in the dark again, call them over, throw 20 Yellows and the Captain over and light the room up. From there, you can just bully the Phosbat with the lights you never turned on because yes they still stun the poor bat. GG easy no re.
Sandbelching Meerslug
Easiest boss in the game, like not even by a long shot. The strategy is simple, bring 100 Reds and win. That's it. Just bring 100 (I think 60 should still work, you just got to be more careful), and when the slug does his sink hole thing, RUSH THE MOUTH. It shouldn't kill any Pikmin, and it forces the slug to come up. Bombless and way easier than before.
Scornet Maestro
First of all, why do you need help with this boss. Second, if you are having trouble, just bring another Captain and have the attacks go onto them. Just remember the attacks the Maestro does don't lock in immediately, they can still switch.
Quaggled Mireclops
Alright, you got two options. ONE: Bring 100 Wingeds, and some Spicy-Spray and auto win, or two, Use Blues and Suffer. I suggest the Winged strat, as it's easier and more funny to pull off. Just rush the guy, then rush him again. Also keep an eye on his health as half way, the tonuge attack changes.
Plasm Wraith*
*(THIS IS THE EXCEPTION TO THE ROCK RULE)
ROCKS. This is the only boss fight I'd recommend using Rock Pikmin, for the shear fact that the main attack this Wraith does WILL NOT KILL THEM. The only things that can kill them are the elemental attacks and as long as you don't suck, you should be fine. Rocks can take out Fire and Rock elemental attacks at any time, electricity you gotta be fast, and Water is a don't even try. Other fun facts with this fight, one, if the Wraith is floating, just walk away. If it has nothing to attack, it's forces to land back down, and two, if the Plasm Wraith feels as if it's surrounded, it will walk into one of the elemental attacks. Try to whistle your Pikmin back BEFORE that happens.
#pikmin#pikmin 3#strategies#how to murder bosses#help with bosses#Just some things you can do to make Pikmin 3 just a bit easier#for the funni#of course#Red Pikmin for the WIN#advice#Make the Plasm Wraith your bitch with these tips!#unhinged as HELL tags let's go#sorry just thought I'd do another one of these cause I love Pikmin 3 a bit too much#LET'S GO BIKMIN THREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE#swearing#cause I'm old enough let's go
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h-hold on -- wait, uh, hang, hang on, I just need to uh. to I just ne ed a moment to um.... help
(this one fucking ambushed me I just walked into the apartment and was emotionally attacked. the sad thing about colt's life is of course that this could be referring to several different situations/people and probably does :') but the message does appear over frank's note on the table there so. perhaps some context in that. 'she always liked the view' shows up on the outside of the building roughly in this location too, so that's a lila tie in quite possibly. I second everything I wrote in this post actually this system is SO good and more games should play around with it. hard to capture in screencaps but the effect of the kinetic typography element here especially -- that 'try to forget' flickers into being around 'always remember' and then flicker out defeated as 'you were loved once' appears and stays... it's just so cool.)
extra gut punch for the road: this part lingers on by itself for a long time even as you walk around doing other stuff

#deathloop#colt vahn#colt x frank#as with 'we're born alone to die alone and nothing good can stay' is not a sentiment I'd expect to see from the end of a relationship#that was only or even mainly about casual sex' this hits me in the 'oh there was some fr fr shit there once actually huh. damn'#just to drive the dagger in even deeper I got this while doing otto's shop part of frank's visionary quest lmao. maximum emotional damage#wistfully thinking about bae as you're plotting his demise through something he loves and that you used to help him with#as an added betrayal. but at least you're not going to have to look him in the eye while it happens#ouchies. (*colt voice* listen I TOLD him to read the damn safety manuals because I might not always be there to fix things#and of course he fucking didn't. so. this is kind of on both of us. if you really think about it)#I had a real updaam heavy day and just sat folornly listening to frank sing outside the library for a while post offing charlie lmao#city lights/ode to somewhere is so deep in my brain now I keep humming it under my breath all the time#it's okay charlie. you can have some rights. one right maybe.#frank's VOICE when he tells harriet about colt and the fireworks... he sounds so young there (SO funny when harriet calls him out#for trying to pull the 'hey kid. some advice from a guy who's been around for a while' with 'dude we're literally the same age -__-'#a voice like an angel and the organs and world-weariness of a man twice his age god bless. I love their weird little friendship it's so fun
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any tips for a new author to the DM and Eric and Assad fandom? I am terrible at social media, so any words of advice would help so much! thanks, Jillian!
oooh okay so i know this one is going to get out of hand but i will try to keep it from getting so terribly unwieldy.
as for practical advice:
if you don't have any ideas but still want to write, check out the kinkmeme for ideas! (no rpf on there, but still a bunch for all manner of pairings)
curating your online space is super important. check out the tags, maybe even follow a couple of general interest things you like, but on tumblr especially it's so important to curate who you follow to create the ideal experience for yourself. take some time scrolling through blogs and finding a place where you'll feel fulfilled and inspired fandom and writing wise. it's soooo worth the effort.
as for more abstract advice:
genuinely just have fun!!! don't shy away from interacting with other blogs, making new friends, discussing headcanons, etc. whatever having fun in a fandom space means for you.
for me specifically it has been huge to talk about my writing on my blog rather than just shyly posting on my ao3. in particular the iwtv fandom (or at least everyone i've interacted with) is SO incredibly friendly and encouraging and supportive and i think it helps both the writer and the audience when you like. idk go through the writing process together? everybody has fun. it feels scary and intimidating but it feels so good esp in this community. and definitely the kind of thing where engagement grows over time.
i hope this was helpful!!! i'm glad you're here 🫶
#asks#if there's any more specific advice i can give let me know 💗#i also am new to this but i can put you in touch with admins (? i think) of a DM writers server i just joined! if you'd like!#OH also one more practical thing: if you want to post snippets of your wips or anything like that you can always do it on fanfic friday!!!#and feel free to tag me or put it in the 'iwtv fanfic friday' tag#you can also do this at any time of course. but fanfic friday is a fun way to dip your toes in#wait i just realized you could have been asking for advice on how to write them. i really hope this was helpful SKFJBDDJFHBDJHBF#if it wasn't come back. ill do better
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I was thinking about a reply I wrote once that had no dialogue at all, and how I managed to do that. It was topical for the thread, it only accidentally had no dialogue (I didn't set out to write it with the intention of skipping dialogue, and it also was not a sex or fighting scene where it might make sense to reduce or skip it), but it was nonetheless still something that could be replied to as with any typical reply. It's an unusual thing in roleplay.
It makes for a good challenge, though: write a reply with no dialogue, or think about how you'd write a reply with no dialogue. Write a drabble instead? Up to you.
The idea is this: your character is a whole person, and people are distinct even when they're not directly interacting with anyone. People also interact with each other without using words (whether spoken, written, signed, etc.). You should be able to write something where your character shines through as uniquely them without actually having the character externalize their thoughts verbally. In fact, you should be able to make different characters be distinct without them speaking at all.
This doesn't mean that you can't write out their thoughts as usual, though for a further challenge, you could withhold that inner monologue too. It just means you should also focus on things like mannerisms, how they carry themselves, facial expressions, little things they do and ways they react to situations. How do they interact with objects? What about people, are they touchy or do they keep to themselves? Are they up in the other character's personal bubble or do they increase it beyond the boundaries the other character establishes? Do they sit? How do they sit? How do they stand, walk, run, jump, etc.? Are they easily startled by sounds? Do they visibly teact to pain, smell, temperature, touch? What is their body language? Are they inviting or closed off, hesitant or confident? Are they skilled, dexterous, limber, agile, graceful, clumsy?
Can people get a read of their personality just by watching them go about their day?
#rph#writing help#rp help#writing advice#character development#resources#ooc#tagging it publicly so others can see in case it helps them#ok to reblog of course
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hi besties I need some advice. So there’s this university I applied to in the early admissions cycle and when I got the invitation they said that if I was “not shortlisted in this cycle, I could apply again in the regular admissions cycle.”
After applying I was shortlisted for interview for one of the uni’s scholar programmes I applied to (the degree I applied to doesn’t have an interview, that’s only for scholarships/scholar programmes etc) and I had my interview one day after the regular admissions cycle opened.
it’s been one week since the regular admissions cycle opened and I haven’t heard anything from them, and I’ve only got a little less than 3 weeks until the regular admissions cycle also closes. No where in their email did they state how/when they would inform if I’ve been accepted/rejected from the uni or the scholars programme I applied to, so now my dilemma is:
Do I just take it that I’ve been rejected from both the uni and scholar programme by default? My interview wasn’t the best so I get it if I’m being rejected from the scholars programme but I should at least get into the uni?? Cuz like why would they go through the effort of shortlisting me for the scholars prog if I wasn’t even going to be accepted into the uni? And also if my grades/essays were good enough to get me shortlisted for the scholars prog surely they would be good enough to get me accepted for my degree??? (Early admissions is based on prelim grades and I literally got only 1 B in a subject that’s so unrelated to the course I’m applying for)
do I email them to ask? My parents think I should but that’s just generally stressful and not a fun time for anyone but also I feel like it’s basic decency to let me know if I’ve been accepted/rejected, esp since the regular admissions are ongoing? Since they said I could reapply in the regular cycle that sort of implies that I would know their decision by then, but also my interview for the scholars programme was one day after the regular cycle opened and idk how long they’ll take to make their decision but also their regular cycle closed on 19 March???? So what then?????????
pls help if anyone has any nuggets of wisdom, I’m kind of peeved w this uni cuz it’s pretty good but also I think it should be basic decency to tell me if I’ve been accepted or not esp since the regular cycle is open, or at the very least say smth like “if you don’t hear from us by this date, your application might have been unsuccessful” and on top of that THEY know when they’re done processing my application, I don’t, so why should I have to email them?? If they’ve come to a decision they can tell me!! I’m just shooting in the dark here w my email shxnxkkxkx
#any and all help/advice is appreciated 🙏#I feel like they’re acting like they’re too good to get back to me#Well 2 can play that game! Maybe IM too good for YOU!#pls help besties idk if im being too prideful/lazy here sjmxlxlsmd#It’s just that the regular admissions cycle is exactly the same as the early admissions application#The only difference would be me submitting all As instead of 3 As and 1 B like last time#Which is so infuriating!!! All As isn’t even a prerequisite for the course!!!! (Allegedly)
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I gave a whole illustration critique for free and honestly... I like doing this kind of stuff a lot... I actually really like doing critique and feedback for people who are learning to draw...
#just thinking thoughts...#I think I'm reasonably good at it too??#I think especially for people who want to draw comics#Pacing and composition can be tricky early on#But even if like. read order is bad or something you can see what they WANT it to be through what it is#and it's very satisfying to get it to that point of ' YES this is what I was envisioning'#I just don't know how to like. idk. get paid for this#because I don't like teaching courses that much#I don't like telling people 'this is the right way to do things' because my advice might not help everyone because art is subjective#but when I'm able to see what someone has it's much easier for me to give feedback because I can see the path they want to walk
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i swear having a body is that one audio with the "one of you will betray me tonight." "is it me, jesus?" etc
eyes? new glasses
adhd? medicated
stress shaking? medicated
and coming in with a steel chair: it's the too low blood pressure!
#the fucker didn't cause problems in forever so of course when im away from home and didn't pack the medicine against the symptoms#thats always when they strike#i spent like twenty minutes lying on the floor w elevated legs to finally feel better#now i can feel the blood rush back into my legs and they're all prickly#can't even google what might help because all the results either just explain why it happens#and every third minimum is about HIGH blood pressure#which is the exact opposite of my problem#while im ranting im also annoyed at all those blood pressure charts that have the ideal as the lowest#being like 'this and below is perfect '#bitch im dizzy and sick because there isn't enough blood in my brain there is such a thing as too low!#i found like two sources with advice i can apply#and a bunch of stuff about what not to do when you have too high blood pressure that i might try#my fingers are numb at the tips but i don't want to lie down again#i have about fourty minutes to get better before i have to get going and i don't even have anything salty
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top 3 pieces of advice i would give to my younger self:
you're a girl (obviously)
smoke more weed
make more bad art
#lavender manna#caught myself wishing i had made more bad art when i was a kid#my creative output has been slow but relatively consistent over the course of my life#but i cant help but feel like i would ahve done more if i were less of a perfectionist#my real problem is i am incapable of finishing anything#these problems can be solved by simply doing it worse#once i started framing this as 'giving advice to my younger self' it took me embarassingly long to remember that im trans lol#also i should totally have been a stoner in high school i would have been way cooler#i smoked when other ppl had it but i never bought my own
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Unpopular opinion
I am actually a fan of T3 Fuuta
#both his current personality and his design#his design definitely takes some getting used to at first#but then you're hit with multiple different realizations as you start analyzing different parts of it#for example how the slip on shoes might be a reference to Haruka's slip on shoes from T1#or he picked em because they're most simple style but still keep a part of what he's comfortable with (they have sneaker-like sole)#and then his socks. people hate on them socks so much but honestly? they don't actually look that bad#yall are just too used to basic ahh white/grey/black socks that any variation from it upsets you#and also given how his clothes‚ a button down shirt and slacks‚ look like a uniform (school uniform? work uniform?)#the socks still being the same are like symbolic that there's still part of his old self under this current self#back to uniform tho. Again. Feels like a nod to Haruka. But also potentially to Mikoto?#since an important part of Mikoto has been ripped away‚ it's like he's practically dead now (one missing shoe)#Fuuta wasn't particularly close to anyone there but he did try to talk with both Haruka and Mikoto before#Wait I mentioned how it could be a nod to Haruka but not Mikoto. Uh.#Something something Mikoto's stress (and John's birth) related to work.#can't really formulate it properly#Man I almost died just few (2) days ago‚ of course I'm not well enough yet to properly. Like. Write.#Uhm. Ann ee ways#Wait also didn't add why I like his personality. Or. Well. It's not really his personality exactly?#Not sure if that makes sense. Like#You can tell its him in a way. But like. Blurred. And from his voice lines it makes it sound like he's not quite present mentally while he#he talks. Like he's basically running on autopilot. Partially. Not sure how to explain it.#If you've experienced it you know what I'm talking about. Like‚ when it feels like you're watching yourself and others simultaneously from y#your actual perspective but also from third perspective and things you say feel only vaguely connected to you but not quite?#Like. You know what I'm talking about? Does that make sense?#I don't know. Well anyways. I love him and think even his current self is great and I hope he does actually manage to be helpful.#Unfortunately‚ I feel like other prisoners will find him annoying and likely even distance themselves from him.#but maybe he'll be able to help ease the mental pain of at least one person by being there to listen to them.#He likely wouldn't be able to give any proper advice or anything tho. But he'll listen.
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ramble in the tags about a situation if anyone has any thoughts on how to navigate it (possibly have mentioned this before but it came up again)
#so i found out a little while ago that my one of my roommates a years ago immediately assumed i was autistic and navigated our#relationship and disputes with that front of mind and also talked to her girlfriend (also my friend now) about it#and like. it helped? i think? because before i knew this i always considered her the most thoughtful and understanding friend i had#and i felt really comfortable with her and like a really strong trust that i only have felt for my sister before#and then she tells me that this whole time she was treating me differently on purpose because she thought this#and like. um? i don't know what to think about it#because it did help but also i feel bad that she was putting in all this work that i wasn't#and also it makes me wonder what i was doing that made it seem like that because i only even started thinking i might be the summer after#the year she assumed i was. and like it's my fault for asking more but i did because i was just so curious#and like of course i would be surprised or offended by the things she might say#but like she told me i rarely make eye contact with her - but i literally do? somewhat frequently as far as i recall#or she also said my pitch only varies when i talk to people i like and otherwise it's monotone#like i would think if i actually were autistic that flat affect would appear when i'm more comfortable#but she said she thought i was masking but also so unmasked that i didn't even notice some things#idk it was confusing#but also i just can't stand people telling me they think i'm autistic when they've not done extensive research and i can immediately tell#like this friend my sister and my childhood friend all said they thought i was but they don't know more than the most surface level info#like how can you say i'm autistic if you don't even know what a meltdown is. like i don't have those. and you can't say i do if you are not#using the right definition.#idk this is rambly but if anyone has any sort of advice on how to think about this it would be much-appreciated#cocoa things
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