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Today!
One of my favourite mundane weirdnesses about Edinburgh is that we set the big clock visible approaching the station to be 3 minutes fast to make sure people are on time for their trains. My Favourite mundane weirdness of Edinburgh is that we check this by firing a cannon.
#oh my god! I can’t believe this showed up on my dash#I was about to go looking for it because I am currently in Edinburgh and got to see the railway station clock which used to always#be set 5 min early so people wouldn’t miss their trains#(I know that there is still one which does this! just cool to see the old one too#I do not miss high school and the terror of being a teenager attempting to orient herself in a foreign country#but I do miss Edinburgh#*parent not orient#though honestly orient also applies
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my little creature
#pangur#oriental longhair#she sleeps a lot of the day#it was really cute when we visited my parents. they have young cats that run around playing a lot#and she would parallel play from a few feet away. not interacting with them but just rushing back and forth in concert
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Prompt 281
I had a wonderful Ghosts are Dragons idea thanks to @fairy-lights-and-blobs
Nocturne, the great feathered wyvern of dreams, son of Morpheous, created of the sands of dreams itself, might be a bit, oh what’s the word, stumped. He had been twisting through the smog of the living world, and honestly should have been unseen. Keyword being should.
Because?
There’s a tiny? Hatchling? Growling at him when he slips into a warehouse, having been searching for a… misplaced item. And he says it with a question mark because? This is a hatchling, he knows his own senses, but they’re also… seemingly stuck in a human form.
Dear Dreams, this is worse than how Phantom was- and he had been so injured from too much ecto at formation, even for a baby Primordial, that… Ugh, Nocturne wants to slam his horns against the ground repeatedly.
Alright tiny red hatchling, let him just scoop you up aaand… alright, off to the Zone to see doctors, because really, he wasn’t expecting to get another child, but he’s also not going to just leave the equivalent of a chronically sick toddler!
Jason, currently Red Hood? No clue what the Fuck is happening, he just got kidnapped by an overgrown owl-lizard thing! And his comms are out and genuinely what the fuck-
#Prompts#DCxDP#DPxDC#Ghosts are Dragons#Nocturne is acting as Team Phantom’s ghost parent#And now as Jason’s too because it’s like coming across a feral toddler with a lung infection#Either the batfamily or the crime alley goonion is freaking out about Hood getting taken by *SOMETHING*#Like they heard CrackleHissPurrCracksofBoneAndWindsofSand & then their boss/brother/son is just GONE#Comm? Down. Trackers? Gone.#Meanwhile big wyvern Nocturne is wondering if he’s cursed/blessed because this is the SIXTH sick hatchling in the living world he’s found#Ghosts are very all for All-Flock-members-care-for-babies orientated#Nocturne’s babies from oldest to youngest: Jazz Val Tuck Sam Danny Ellie#And then they can’t tell with Jason until his sickness can be fixed- and no it doesn’t have to do with the Pits
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"I've decided I'm never getting married," Pacifica said. "I'll just find some guy to date my whole life and never let him move in. It's the only way to make sure he isn't just interested in me to inherit my money."
"What about looks?" Mabel asked. "How will you make sure he's into you for your personality instead of your hair?"
"Oh, that's not happening. Attraction to looks is the basis of all romance. First you find a hottie, and then caring about his personality is just to make sure you can stand actually being around him."
"Aww," Mabel groaned. "I thought you were into Dipper."
Pacifica gave her a stricken look; then processed what she said a second time; then said, "Wait. Did you just call your own brother ugly? The brother you look exactly like?"
"No, he just looks like a dork! And I don't look like him! Mabel squinted off into the distance, the exact same way Dipper did when he was trying to seem dramatic in a cool way. "I'm the cute one."
#(had a snip of dialogue that I have no place for yet; it amused me so I'm sharing it)#(note: the authorial intent of this scene is not to imply anything about Pacifica's orientation)#(rather it's a reflection of her ignorance and the jaded perspective she picked up from her parents)#about my writing
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category 5 jetko moment
#iroh isnt homophobic btw. hes just stupid#he has really bad gaydar but only with his nephew and close friends#Hes like why does my nephew always get frustrated when i set him up with girls...#why does piandao call jeongjeong babygirl....#i feel like even in an au where jet doesnt realize theyre firebenders hed still have beef with iroh. For comedic purposes#hes like i dont believe in getting the parents approval thats stupid and idgaf. But then zuko is family oriented#so its less of “get mushis approval despite us lowkey beefing”#and more of “do not let zuko find out we have beef or he will be upset probably#and iroh shares this sentiment and thats how they end up getting along. Kind of.#IDK#jetko#jet#zuko#iroh#avatar the last airbender#atla#alicias art
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MARRY ME. JUST MARRY ME WHAT THE HELL CALEB HUHUHUHU 😭😭😭😭
#“MOM AND DAD”#ARE YOU SERIOUS#OHHHH YOURE SO FAMILY ORIENTED “SHE TALKS ABOUT YOU OFTEN” IM GONNA THROW UP#GOD. MY PARENTS WOULD LOVE YOU LMFAO 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭#lnds garden 🌹#(this user thinks about caleb often)
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"I have something to tell you," Renee gently touched Vincent's shoulder as soon as he arrived home. The couple had been trying for a baby for a while now and today they were blessed with a special gift, "I'm pregnant!" Vincent had been waiting so long for this moment: tears welled up in his eyes. Words could not form in his mouth, so he held Renee close, not letting her go. She could hear the rapid beating of his heart slowly descend into a soft, calming rhythm ❤️
Start a family ✅
#ts4#sims 4#ts4 gameplay#ts4 legacy#postcard legacy#postcard gen 3#renee reichmann#vincent kingsley#im ugly crying hes wanted a child for so long and now shes pregnant and they will be parents and i cant believe it and AHHH#hes family orientated so it all means so much to him starting a family#the soft beating of his heart ❤️
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Family Nichelink or Familial Nichelink: an All-Ages nichelink relationship/relationship dynamic where the people in it consider themselves family in some way and/or emulate a familial dynamic.
this is both a standalone term and flag and a flag for a subcategory of Familial nichelinks.
this may include, but isn't limited to:
familial attraction
non-rose/tertiary attraction like cedural, tutelary etc
people who have been close friends for so long they'd earnestly consider each other family
people who identify as "found family"
the people in the nichelink being desirfamily, dissofamily, dissoage etc
headmates in a system who have a close familial-like bond but don't have completely accurate words for how they view their relation
nichelink carrd
two options for a flag. i hate them both. feel free to remake the flag.
my flag inspirations:
dissomother
dissoperpetualchild
parentagender
tagging: @radiomogai | @everythingarchive | @shrubmogai | @dreaming-of-mogai | @desirdae-archive | @dissodic-archive | @a-agere-archive could be useful? | @neopronouns // ask to be untagged or to be tagged in similar/subset terms
#Family Nichelink#Familial Nichelink#found family#Familial orientation#desirfamily#dissofamily#dissoage#plural#cedural#tutelary#family#parents#child#nichelink#nichelinks#my flags.#my coinings.
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Rice. From my plot that's literally just a game of chess. (he's a rook)
#my characters#CHESS BABIES#they actually had a tag here and i adore it bc it was in caps lock for a while#no idea why it was in caps but whatever it was thems the rules#rice has a younger sister named turnip and shes a pawn and then his coworker rook is a guy named cakes#and cakes has a huuuuuuge crush on him and doesnt think to hide it so rice just kinda puts up with it and then somehow#they meet with one of the white knights and are like well he seems mostly harmless#and since they dont attack or try to kill him he decides hes actually in love with rice as well so cakes is like oh no#im going to lose my years long crush to some foreign guy#but the white knight is just vibing cause out of the entire white army he has the least stake in it bc he was born in the land of red#so he doesnt really care but since one of his parents was a white native he got recruited kinda#look it sounds so bad to have colored nations and them being white black and red#but its chess i swear and my dad had a REALLY FUCKING NICE wooden chess set when i was a kid#and it was AMAZING AND BEAUTIFUL and each piece had red felt on the bottom to about scuffing the pretty wood board#anyway thats where the neutral land idea came from - all of his pieces had SOME red on them#and now i gotta go to work for more video orientation#guys theres been so many videos in the past two days#i have no energy for art#i have so many things i wanna draw but i havent managed to actually do anything yet#i need a fuckin schedule.....
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Parenchificest
Parent x Child shipcest flag
A flag for pairings/ships consisting of (a) parent(s) and their child(ren), even if they aren’t biologically related; this flag can also be used by selfshippers.
this label is for fictional characters only; this term does NOT support real life incest/consang.
#theme; orientation#Parenchilcest#parental shipcest#proship#shipcest#anti radqueer#comship#anti transid#radqueers fuck off#anti rq#anti consang
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Hi! So you can call this a rant or a vent or whatever I don't rlly care - I just wanted to put some of my opinions out there bc it is eating me inside out to keep my opinions on Alastor's sexuality and all of the discourse about him being shipped to myself.
Also i'd like to state that I'm writing this as someone who is aroace but has no actual wish to be in a romantic relationship and actually struggles to so much as picture what that's be like for myself. I would also like to state how I'm not speaking for the whole community and others will have different opinions to myself.
Firstly - aroace is a spectrum (as someone who is on the aroace spectrum btw) and I completely agree with ppl who say that it is a spectrum and shipping has always existed and you can't rlly stop an entire fandom. My only problem is when ppl completely ignore that he is aroace while doing this, bc to me it seems like there's so much potential to having him have to go through those types of emotions and to write him off as if he's completely allo not only can make some people feel unseen but also just isn't as fun.
Also I kind of believe that he'd possibly date someone for the entertainment - like even if he didn't exactly feel romantic attraction maybe he'd be willing to be around someone closely bc he might like the reactions he'd be getting. (example: he might've stayed in a relationship with Vox maybe not out of pure attraction but if he found out that affection could make the TV short-circuit? He'd be interested)
Adding to that, I personally do not actually ship him with anyone romantically due to his character + the fact that I am projecting my own distaste for romance on him but you do you ig.
Also, on the note of nsfw around him - sometimes you cannot stop a fandom, rule 34 exists and some people who are asexual sometimes may want to have sex and all of that stuff. Personally I think he'd probably be sex-repulsed due to the fact that he canonically has issues with being touched.
ALSO, i personally think that way too many people are brushing over the idea of putting Alastor in a QPR - like that would literally be so awesome.
Alastor x Rosie? Cute af (to me Rosie gives of aro vibes too, but more romance - favourable) like they're already besties and honestly I think that Rosie would defo help him figure out about his identity considering that he's quite obviously not all that sure about slang and stuff.
Vox x Alastor - It has the potential to be SO FUCKING FUN like, you get to experiment with how they feel for each other, maybe what Alastor's got going on bc he died before being aroace was rlly a thing and he'd be confused about how he felt about Vox for sure.
Lucifer x Alastor - I quite like it, ik that Lucifer is supposed to be with Lillith but she did take an extremely long hiatus on her family up in heaven so i think it's okay. Plus the idea of them bonding and becoming close due to Charlie is wonderful.
Even angel and Alastor - maybe after Val Angel doesn't want a super sexual relationship - maybe he's not all that interested in something purely romantic either and though I love huskerdust this would still be pretty cool.
Really all I'm saying is; be considerate. Incorporate the fact that Alastor is Aroace, even if you do ship him - in or out of QPRs - and ofc sometimes writing someone who is part of a group ur not in is difficult (coming from someone who often struggles in writing especially when it comes to romance) but taking a crack at it might actually turn out to be rlly cool.
But please don't ignore his aroace-ness, there's not a huge amount of aroace characters out there and acting like someone isn't can be annoying for ppl who want to find rep around their identity, esp if they haven't seen much before (I can relate and he was one of the first aroace characters I was introduced to after I found out what it meant).
So yeah, that's my piece.
#hazbin hotel#aromantic alastor#asexual alastor#aroace alastor#TW: opinions#Alastor is my fav character and I need to put my opinions about him somewhere#SHIPPING IS FINE JUST DO IT RESPECTFULLY AND DON'T TRY AND ERASE SOMEONE'S SEXUALITY OR ROMANTIC ORIENTATION#alastor in qpr#put this man in a qpr#pls#I literally can find only like 1 fic of him in a qpr from like 2020#someone make this content - I need it horribly#alastor and rosie's qpr is canon in my heart#they'd be adorable#like charlie's supportive aunt and uncle#or an extra set of parents for her idk#personally believe that alastor is sex-repulsed and not interested in romance#sex-repulsed alastor#also headcanon rosie as aroace#she's romance favourable and alastor is romance non-favourable#they're still besties tho
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welcome back casey stoner !
https://www.tumblr.com/verdemint/761549873456775168/same-interview-they-asked-him-how-does-he-deal
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asjddkh SEE this is what I'm talking about!! something about those incredibly neurotic ducati champions, eh. in the post linked above, pecco's talking about how he deals with media pressure... which, yeah, pecco and casey really do share a fair bit of competitive dna there - from the insistence that it doesn't affect them whatsoever to how they do in fact get extremely pissy whenever they feel misrepresented by the media. very sensitive to that kind of thing, those two are... but at the same time they're also both their own harshest critics. from casey's autobiography (all quickly nabbed from this post, which ofc expands on casey's perfectionism):
I got a lot of criticism over the years for being honest because I always felt I could do better. Even if I won the race, if I had made mistakes it was important for me to admit them and address them for next time instead of congratulating myself for being the best on that particular day.
and:
Whatever challenges I take on now I am still driven by the same quest to improve - I can’t change who I am. As a personality trait this is both a good thing and a bad thing. I like that part of me but it would be nice to not be like that sometimes, to enjoy something without being obsessed with getting better at it. I am sure you can go through life a lot happier if you don’t analyse everything.
versus pecco:
The strength that I've proved in various situations comes from the fact that I am extremely critical of myself, and so it only takes a little bit for me to put myself down even more.
like yeah I suppose that's one way of looking at it - nobody else can get to you if you're already tearing into yourself. it's a motivational process that's very much built on negativity, right, on the need to live up to their own exacting standards. both pride themselves for their ability to put failures behind them quickly - to be able to immediately bounce back because they tell themselves they only care about doing better in the next race. plus, there's that interesting dynamic where both are like... pretty big on this idea they're not making excuses for themselves, committed to honestly assessing themselves and all that,, BUT also have reputations for being whiny to the press... because people for whatever reason end up thinking they're constantly blaming everything but themselves for their shortcomings. again, very prone to feeling misunderstood!! neither of them are necessarily terrible communicators - but there's a certain reluctance there (obviously more so from casey) to even play that game at all. mix in a learned wariness because they feel like they've been burned before.... that whole pecco episode last year where he said one reason for the increased injury rate is probably because the field is tighter now (which, yes! seems logical!) ,,, and then some unholy combination of clumsy phrasing, media framing and an ungenerous fan response ended up translating that to pecco saying he wanted satellite bikes to be slower again... gave me real casey vibes lol. casey had a fair few of those episodes himself - though at least the news cycle and social media fandom weren't quite as bad back then. in a lot of ways he'd struggle even more nowadays
also,, you do have to mention - they both end up defining themselves against valentino specifically when it comes to their public personas. casey might be the rival and pecco the mentee, but both of them have been clear that they do not desire to be the next valentino rossi. kinda what I said here, right
idk, obviously pecco had a heads-up a little earlier than casey did that sensibly communicating to the media WAS going to be a big part of the job. but there's still a wariness there, an unwillingness to be something they're not, knowing that they'd be miserable trying to match valentino's particular brand of flamboyance... it is key that it is a choice they're making. they just don't want that for themselves, never have. there's only ever so much outreach they're willing to do
also this
“Stoner and Bagnaia are two different riders, but they have the same mental attitude,” Tardozzi told AS. “I think Pecco is still growing. He already took a big leap by winning the championship, but the biggest jump in his head has been done this year, after the two falls in Argentina and Austin. “He is an intelligent boy and has spoken a lot with the team, and what happened has made him take another step to make him even more of a champion. Now he has the right mentality. Pecco will become one of the greats. Right now it is showing that he is growing, as I told you before."
'resilience' is I think a word I associate quite strongly with both of them. they take their fair share of punches, do tend to get called mentally fragile a lot - but in truth there's a steel there that serves them well. did talk a little bit about the similarities of their motivational processes here too:
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and one other thing I've been thinking about is that this... y'know, use of spite, of self-criticism, of how annoyed they get at others' criticisms - for both of them, it is also paired with a determined refusal to countenance they could be mentally affected by anything. with casey in particular, it's a bit of an overcorrection in response to how often he was described as mentally weak; it's understandable you might get extremely sensitive about the whole thing, if you weren't already. a lot of it is also stubbornness... a bone-deep contrarianism that immediately makes them push back if somebody suggests they might struggle for any reason related to psychology. where this really jumps out is how they talk about their rivals. obviously, nobody is going to say that their opponent's mind games work on them because that'd be deeply stupid to admit - but there is something about pecco's firm insistence marc's mind games don't have a hope of working on him that is really reminiscent of how casey has talked about valentino. it's that dynamic of ,, well, they're not wrong in that they're stronger than people give them credit for, but obviously they are also. like. extremely defensive, past the point of necessarily being reasonable. sometimes, what your rival does will affect you. that's kinda how rivalries work lol. but both of them are very committed to this narrative that their working process is super self-directed. casey's whole thing about how he's never gotten obsessed with rivals, pecco's 'we work in silence' schtick... it comes back round to the relationship with the media, right, where they have a natural inclination towards framing that as an oppositional dynamic - and automatically chafe against any narratives that might be externally imposed on them. actually, you see, rivals don't affect their performance at all, they don't need to constantly slobber to the press to hype up their performances, they'll do their talking on-track... but the unspoken truth there is that all of those things do matter, they are paying a lot of attention - and in the end, 'proving a point' to someone becomes a central part of the motivational process. they hear all the criticisms, they seethe in 'silence' (often involves a fair bit of public complaining but let's allow it), and then they determinedly show how all their critics were fools and losers. rinse and repeat
anyway yeah apparently that's part of the ducati magic - a dash of neuroticism, a heavy dose of self-flagellation, inject a desire for authenticity that might at times read as whiny, stir in the makings of a persecution complex and top it off with a sprinkling of spite. probably not the easiest type of guy to handle, but clearly there's something to the formula. a compelling approach to be sure
#there was a time span where pecco was actively receiving advice from both casey and valentino. fascinating to me#odd co-parenting situation if u think about it. wonder if pecco ever told valentino what casey was telling him#canonically this IS actually also around the time in which valentino and casey were messaging each other#casey not the step dad but the dad who stepped up. in my heart his advice made all the differnece#//#brr brr#batsplat responds#//currt#//ht#my two cents is that motivating yourself like that is mostly fine#there's specific flavours that instinctively make me uncomfortable like this trend of athletes referencing social media hate inspiring them#but idk man some people are just geared towards negative-oriented motivation. u gotta do what u gotta do#maybe i just think that because i'm the exact same when competing lol
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⸝⸝ DEMIPARENTAL - image id in alt id & under cut
a parental orientation where one only feels parental attraction to people they are close to.
coined by plush, flag by div ! flag based on the parental flag
(alt id ; a flag with five stripes. the top and bottom stripes are thicker than the middle stropes. from top the bottom, the colours are white, canary yellow, moody blue, hot pink, light grey. to the left, there is a large black triangle.)
#🎁#mogai#orientation#demiparental#parental#parental attraction#aspec#pride flag#liom coining#mogai coining#tertiary attraction
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a collection of Pride-related picture books I read this June!
#queer lit#queer books#pride month#lgbtq books#two spirit#picture books#kid books#canadian#canlit#kidlit#children's books#book lists#award winning#parents#babies#weddings#i WILL be doing more indepth posts about these just like i normally do#but ha.... the queue is a bit backed up to say the least#so i'll probably be sitting on them for a while#but i wanted to give people a sampling in case anyone was itching to go out and find some queer kidlit!#'pride puppy' / 'mama and mommy and me in the middle' were probably my 2 personal favourites 🤔 but all were pretty solid#well i have Opinions about some but i have Opinions about all kidlit so nothing knew there but there were none that i disliked here#does anyone else have some personal favourites for queer lit? just the existence of queer stories oriented for kids is kinda mindblowing#this did not exist when i was a kid
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Aparental: An orientation in which one feels little to no parental attraction.
Aparspec: The aparental spectrum; the aspec term for parental attraction.
#Orientations#parental orientations#our terms#aparental#aparspec#aspec#spectrums#lack of attraction#One of these again. Skipping queue.
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My dad, jokingly: "I'm badman"
Me: "haha sure" (not thinking he's anything like batman)
My dad: *left/ separated from my mum when I was a teen, started a GTA gang that helps bullied kids, ended up emotionally adopting like 8 kids and helped them through bullying, suicide, abuse, etc.*
Me: *was hurt by an abuser and had to deal with said abuser being forgiven by family around me*
Me: *gets into Batman lore*
Me: ...
"Wait a second..."
#I guess this makes me Jason Todd lmao#I love him don't get me wrong#but he's also literally Bats here with the leaving and then coming back with eight adopted kids#and me going through a whole thing with wanting to cut off certain people#having anger issues#and having a complex relationship with him and at first feeling a bit like I was replaced#Like damn#He really is Bruce and I'm way too much like Jason#Also thinking about hoe my older brother feels overly responsible and tries to act like a leader#He's so much like Nightwing/ Dick Grayson#Overly forgiving and trying to be more of a leader than he should be and the family oriented type of guy#Don't get me wrong I love him too#Buuut as the younger sibling it's my job to pick on him a bit#Our relationship is a bit like Jason and Dick with comradery but with jabs at each other and not always agreeing with how to do things#He's more of a moderate liberal tyoe too#Wants to save everyone on all sides whereas I'm more of a radical leftist who can hold a grudge#Yeah I can definitely see the batfam in us lmao#Idk what middle brother would be#maybe a bit like Barbara with trying to be the smartest? He's not exactly an overachiever but I think he longs for our mum's attention#I mean we all have sure but I think he's in deeper with that#Me and the oldest one were/ are the more rebellious types or I guess the ones that questioned our parents more#Whereas he kinda goes along with everything and backs them up and seeks a lot of approval#Not a bad thing but can make him sort of dependant and try to seem stronger and smarter than he is/ or needs to act#And ofc out of all us I'm probably the most rebellious#less so when I was little but after not being believed when I said I was abused by a certain old shithead was a big c#*shift for me#Made me trust their judgement a lot less and look for my own path ig#So very similar to Jason there with seeing flaws in Batman's morals and rejecting them because of how they got him hurt#Sort of like how I rejected/ reject the moderate “all sides” standpoint in my family#there's a lt of forgiveness given to people who don't really deserve it in our extended family
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