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✦ HYPERSEXUAL flag redesign　⁞　meanings below｡

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⋯ ＠ GENDERMANGA 。

A gender system under which one's gender is connected to [x] and manga, manga about [x], being [x] and reading manga, etc. Template under cut.

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⋆° 𐙚 criticism ₊°⋆

𝟅𝟈 criticism

• the expression of disapproval of someone or something on the basis of perceived faults or mistakes

𝟅𝟈 constructive criticism

• actionable, honest, clear, and beneficial feedback & advice

🩰𓂃 ࣪˖ HOW TO DEAL WITH CRITICISM

simple answer? you don't.

you do not take criticism from anybody. nobody has the right to comment on you, your life and your actions because they aren't you, and nobody ever will be. they don't get a say.

say for example somebody has a problem with the way you dress or an interest you have. you think about it and get insecure or upset about it, and then you try to act differently. this is letting someone get to you all based on their opinions, their views, their life, their experience. not yours.

ml do not listen to a word anybody says about you. the way to deal with people if theyre trying to judge you, hurt you, mock you, ridicule you or anything else? you don't.

this is YOUR life, not theirs; everything we do is based off of what we've learnt, what we've been through, and so on. nothing gives them the right to judge you because they know nothing about you and they never will. you are the only one who really knows you and who will ever really know you, so the only one who has the right to judge you and comment on you is you.

🧸𓂃 ࣪˖ HOW TO DEAL WITH CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM

despite the fact criticism & constructive criticism are two sides of the same coin, the two are very very different. unlike criticism, constructive criticism is something you should accept, acknowledge and actively encourage at every opportunity.

constructive criticism is very important to grow and learn as a person. even if external opinions are irrelevant, they can sometimes be helpful for personal growth and correcting mistakes and learning from them.

if you are somebody who gets offended very easily and find yourself in a position where you are being criticised, take a moment to puzzle out whether what they are saying is constructive or if its just them being shitty. if you can learn from it, its constructive. if it just hurts you, its not.

🐰𓂃 ࣪˖ HOW TO TELL THE DIFFERENCE

constructive criticism is often kinder and more of a suggestion than a judgement. it is often something you can change like fairly quick, like cleaning off your clothes or changing an answer in a test.

criticism is often phrased more harshly and isnt something you can change quickly, like your weight or personality etc.

all in all, dont take shit from anybody. listen and learn but an ounce of disrespect and you're gone. you're worth more than that babe 💓💖💞

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⋯ ＠ DOLLDATE 。

A gender under the genderdate system related to dolls and dates, being a doll and going on dates, going on dates about dolls, etc.

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⋯ ＠ GENDERDATE 。

A gender system under which one's gender is connected to [x] and dates, [x] and dating, being an [x] and going on dates, etc. Template under cut.

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⋯ ＠ PRINCESSDATE 。

A gender under the genderdate system related to princesses and dates, being a princess and going on dates, going on dates about princesses, etc.

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⋯ ＠ GIRLDATE 。

A gender under the genderdate system related to girls and dates, being a girl and going on dates, going on dates about girls, etc.

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⋯ ＠ CUTEDATE 。

A gender under the genderdate system related to cuteness and dates, being cute and going on dates, going on cute dates, etc.

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⋯ ＠ YURIDATE 。

A gender under the genderdate system related to yuri/sapphic media and dates, being in/liking yuri media and going on dates, going on dates related to yuri media, etc.