#{ Crazy recognizes crazy LOL }

[marimbles]

i miss carpisuns sometimes </3

[skitskatdacat63]

2005 Australian Grand Prix[Redux] - Giancarlo Fisichella, Rubens Barichello & Fernando Alonso(my personal post-race highlights)

[tittyinfinity]

This is a friend of a friend of a friend I offered a ride to😭 how am I supposed to be in the car with him now

NOW THE CAR RIDE IS GONNA BE AWKWARD HELP

[carcarrot]

scrolling back through my liveblogging of the day of the nyc concert because of recent notifications and its such a fun mixed bag of emotions to relive it all again

[brittlebutch]

tryingggg to decide what augustus and the changeling dress up as for halloween

[periru3]

the SECOND I saw a really intense woman questioning another woman hooked up to a lie detector I was like "I CANNOT believe 9-1-1 is putting Lie Detector Bridezilla on blast like this lollllll" and within SECONDS the episode confirmed it. And you know what? I CANNOT believe 9-1-1 is putting Lie Detector Bridezilla on blast like this lollllll

[standupcomedyhistorian]

Well, it's official, folks...

Bo Burnham's quarantine beard is NO MORE 👀

This photo was taken at the Re:SET concert in LA that boygenius played on Saturday, and I do find it very cute that Bo is just tagging along for all of these Phoebe-related events. I sure hope he likes their music at least (I enjoy Not Strong Enough, personally)!

Anyway, here's a proper place for Bo's beard RIP

[nastytransmasc]

I think I’ve realized that if you get sober enough for long enough, you just end up remembering why you said yes to drugs in the first place

[nattikay]

me at 4:52! Thank you OP for including me in your video :D

[ironmanstan]

I am coming to the realization i have been slowly killing myself with work i think oops

[ranger-kellyn]

rewatched the serpent's pass last night to take notes for my fic, and all night right up until waking up, i just. couldn't get over how unsatisfying the sukka reunion was. even with my silly shipper goggles on, i'm just like. it didn't sell me, and I don't know how much of that is me being in all likelihood demiromantic, and how much of that was just genuinely lackluster writing :T

like, right before their near kiss, her whole “I lost someone I cared about. He didn’t die. He just went away.  I only had a few days to get to know him, but he was smart, and brave, and funny.” just...........Doesn't do it for me. it's so tonally different from what sokka had just said, and also like!!!!! you knew him for like A DAY!!!!!! you did not have NEARLY enough time to care about him like that please be real dlkjfhdkj

[elytrafemme]

actually honestly to be quite honest it is a little funny talking about my systemmates like ... true crime coded And then they disappeared and were never seen again... and nobody quite knew what happened... til this day... Like to be clear i hate true crime. So so bad. so fucked. but like it's a little funny that i have that mystery. Brain fucked up so bad because of trauma that it got failsafes in the form of six different people but then all six of them mutated in front of my eyes because of the trauma until i couldn't recognize them and couldn't touch them and then they never came back ever. And it took like six months. Is that not objectively metal as fuck, like it's liferuiningly devastating and ill never recover or be able to actually talk about it But like it's kind of sick.

[samarecharm]

was just chilling in the pegoryu tag (as you do) and you were listed as the #2 top pegoryu blog. congrats on this accomplishment

Oh my, what am i doing up there? I feel like i havent done anything of note recently …suddenly my blog feels indecent, like i got caught eating ice cream in my pjs 😭 please dont mind the mess…direct urself to my pegoryu tags to keep urself entertained 🙇🏾

[girlkomaeda]

thinking about replaying all the danganronpa games and reading more of the novels and spin offs n stuff…

[gloriousmonsters]

it's fascinating to see people running the exact same scripts as trensmeds/exclusionists but for mental illness.

I just crossed paths with a post that was a screenshot of a tiktok where someone was clearly frustrated because 'I thought I might have autism but when I tried to bring it up with my therapist she said she literally wouldn't discuss it with me because 'everyone thinks they have it because of tiktok', and the original poster/about 90% of the notes were... celebrating this. Either variations on 'lol based psych' and 'she was right' or people explicitly saying shit like:

'Well, I was trans diagnosed with autism/adhd before it was cool and trendy! I can't believe that the diagnostic criteria is getting made stricter, it's the fault of those transtrenders tiktok kids who pretend to have mental illnesses. I get to gatekeep because I really suffered!'

(Shoutout to the confusing outlier who sagely was like 'and usually they just have bpd' in the tags. just???? just, my fair sir? also source???)

And like. It makes sense and is also so incredibly frustrating for the same reasons as transmed/exclus stuff. When you're a hurt person stuck interacting with a system that makes a lot of decisions about your personal autonomy/function, it messes with your head. It taps into that particular reaction to trauma that there was that one great post about--the mindset you get in when you see people get help when you didn't, and get furious and often default to 'it shouldn't be so easy' or 'why should they get help when I didn't?' And if you're struggling with a system that is, lbr, way more about luck in what specific people you got to talk to than any kind of well-built system, which is historically very flawed and still very flawed... well, a lot of people don't want to admit the system is a crapshoot and the people in it can be wrong so, so often, because then what about my diagnosis? my confirmation that I am what I am? fuck kids with stargenders and self-dxed teenagers with autism, I suffered for this, you can't take it away from me.

Which they aren't. If diagonistic criteria for anything is being made stricter, that's not on tiktok teens, it's on the people who write the criteria and decided that this was how they were going to handle an uptick in people thinking they are/might be autistic. If people are passing anti-trans legislation, that's because they're transphobes, not because of demigirls and non-op trans people. And are all of these kids queer, or mentally ill/ND, in the way they think they are? Probably not. Being a teenager is fucking confusing and often traumatic, and it's also a time when most of them are investigating and trying to build their identities. But I'm willing to bet that almost all are genuinely struggling with something/deviate from 'the norm'; if you want to stop kids from 'believing they're something wrongly' maybe focus your energy on putting the message out that it's ok to be wrong about things, that self-discovery is a process-- in this specifically, how to interact with mental health diagnoses and manage your symptoms, no matter where they stem from, in helpful ways, etc etc.

But please do the bare minimum and don't let personal pain turn you into a bitter, smug asshole who celebrates when they see kids experiencing gatekeeping that could really, really fuck them over, OK? Like physical disability and queer identity, the few 'fakers' you'll 'catch' by being cruel and suspicious will in no way be worth the people dead because only people who REALLY need help should be able to get it.

[nerdnag]

Holy WHAT

Out of curiosity I browsed the tag for my old tumblr, and when I hovered over my old (long since deleted) url, it gave me a freaking preview of the blog??? though the blog itself does not actually exist?????