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normal therapy isn't enough i need to talk to hannibal lecter
#having an extremely normal one. yeah#god i feel like shit for real#the fucking symptoms#<funny how i only vent in silly little jokes#<for my wellbeing and yours#i'm just :/ yknow#by :/ i mean i'm having a m*ntal h*alth cr*sis#its ok :]#<but it isnt#<but for the sake of others it is :]]]]]]]]]]
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pov: you're nicky asking them to go to a social function after practice
#theyre like: i wanna be alone#nicky: youre literally going to hangout after this#them: its not the same#you know damn well they sit in a room together in silence and parallel play or just rot#its important to their wellbeing#character design#my art#aftg#all for the gay#all for the game#aftg fanart#andrew minyard#neil josten#aftg andreil#andreil fanart#aftg the raven king#aftg trilogy#aftg foxes
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Can't believe Bruce canonically picked up a random 12yo homeless child who had no intent to become a vigilante and suddenly thrust Robin onto him without asking if that's what he wanted because he missed Dick (whom he fired because being Robin was too dangerous) and people still act like any take that's not "all the Batkids became vigilantes on their own completely independent of Bruce (who tried so hard to stop them but sadly just couldn't do it)" is a complete idiotic bad-faith take and that you're crazy if you disagree with people saying that Bruce has never ever absolutely NEVER picked up a kid for the purpose of making them into a vigilante.
#my dc posting#jason todd#dc#batman#bruce wayne#any child would be delighted to be told they could become a superhero#children also aren't known for their ability to make rational and good decisions.#jason did not yearn for the cape and would not have become a vigilante without bruce's interference#you want a character who became a vigilante independently and couldn't (and shouldn't) be stopped by bruce? duke#duke thomas did that#his mentor/mentee relationship with bruce is an actually good example of what a healthy one should look like#teaching someone already in the business but new to it how to do it well and as safe as possible. that's the good shit#''batman needs robin'' mmhm. tell me more about how the relationship of mentorship between an adult and their child needs to be focused#and centered around the needs of the adult. this is such a power fantasy for children; grown men relying on them for their mental wellbeing#(duke&jason are the only ones whose origins i have personally read hence why they are focused on here)#bruce wayne critical#<- for filtering purposes#comics bruce you are a bitch and an asshole#bitter-hibiscus your post abt the nature of the batman&robin relationship even outside the bounds of 'child soldier' still being bad#will always be famous to me
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cant keep their quadrants straight
#the solkat was in fact not out of my system#really funny kismesis dynamic because its not actual real hate rather than a synced temper tantrum between the two#their pitch flirting was pretty weak anyway#i hate myself more than you hate yourself NUH UH and im better at you in smash bros#then karkat meekly asks if theyre still friends and sollux tells him to shut up and boots up a show on discord to watch together#pitch hatred based on the other guy knowing too much about you and caring really hard about your wellbeing and its embarassing#love. its love#homestuck#egg art#solkat#sollux captor#karkat vantas
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Stardew Valley Discourse: A Summary
shane: i have depression
person: aww poor sweetie im so sorry ily im always here for u
shane: *exhibits symptoms of depression*
the same person: ew there's no excuse for that
#some of yall.........#i have been in this fandom for like a week n im already sick of folks doing this man dirty#“but he doesn't even keep his room clean after you marry him” he has DEPRESSION#“he should fix his problems before getting into a relationship” if we all waited for our messiness and struggles to magically disappear#we would be waiting for the rest of our lives.#do people with mental (or otherwise) health struggles not deserve love and understanding too?? did i miss something???#like bruh if you personally can't deal with someone's baggage that's fine you don't have to sacrifice your own wellbeing for theirs#but at least stop blaming people for HAVING A MENTAL ILLNESS#sdv shane#shane stardew valley#shane sdv#stardew valley#.....but also relevant to real life.#my yapping
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Bendy and Cup go to therapy but only because the other is SO sick and tired of their emotions that they DRAG each other to therapy arguing about who needs it more
#orb ponders#the inky mystery#Bendy: That's it! I can't take your moodiness anymore! Scratchensniff!!!#Cup: MY moodiness!? LOOK IN A MIRROR! YOUR THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO SEE HIM! NOT ME!#Honestly surprised they haven't complained about the inconvenience of being stuck with each other's emotional wellbeing#Actually now that I think about it that's so sweet of them#They just get worried about each other#They're my fav characters and fav dynamic#Platonic dynamic I can't say I'm interested in shipping them really#I'm prob jinxing it and they'll complain here soon#Ik there was a throwaway of “WTH WAS THAT EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER CUP?” tht one chap but I don't rlly count tht
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Oh god, they'll never know. I... I'll just have disappeared. And they'll always be waiting. Call them.
#dwedit#dwgifs#marthajonesedit#martha jones#freema agyeman#francine jones#*#*gifs#the way freema invented acting in this ep#i'm always rotating this scene around in my head#on one hand the writers made francine judge the doctor too quickly to be believable#so francine's reaction here comes across kind of callous#on the other hand martha's convo with francine feels so relatable#idk if it's the same for all children of colour but sometimes it's as if#your parents are much more concerned about your physical safety than your emotional wellbeing#martha was begging francine to just Talk to her#but she's so focused on tracking down the doctor to comfort her daughter when she's obviously upset#freema does such a great job of embodying both martha's grief and desperation over the situation#as well as her fierce love for her family#have i mentioned how much i adore this scene? no? well i do
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nothing brings me more joy than my manager asking me if i can come in on a day that i wasn't rota'd, saying "no <3" and then turning my phone off
#ramble#YOU'RE ALLOWED TO DO THIS BTW#they can't shame you for not coming in on a day you weren't booked on#you are allowed to say “you didn't rota me for today so i made plans”#even if you don't have plans#fun fact i almost didn't get my days off to go to download#because i literally never take time off so i was ignored when i asked for it#hospitality is bloody hard so take your breaks and your days off and don't sacrifice your wellbeing to be a 'hard worker'#oh also!! if they insist on a reason. fucking Lie#you don't have to say why you're taking your day off either
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Mr puzzles is transgender, not necessary because he changed from his aassigned gender at birth, but because he transitioned into being a TV head, which is arguably cooler, this is my new transition goal.
#slash J although im slash srs about the transition goal. what HRT do I need to get on to get a TV head?#NB people will see anything that isn't fully human and go 'i need to look like this for my mental health and wellbeing'. Hi i'm NB#also not saying he isn't transgender anyway. why not fuck it. your TV is trangender now
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I wholeheartedly believe that Dream loves fanfiction. Dreamers inspiring dreamers is his jam
I agree with you even though comics canon seems to suggest otherwise, if I recall he expresses a few times that he doesn't like adaptations and stories are best in their original forms. Yet, Dream disliking dreamers building off each other's art doesn't make sense to me, except in this sense of his dislike of changing stories tying in to his issues with change in general -- if the story can change what does that say about him? (Morpheus: "are my views on change narrow and self-sabotaging? no, it's the rest of the universe that's wrong.")
#you know who'd really hate fanfic i'd bet? destiny XD#fandom: i think i prefer this with my canon glasses off. --destiny: you put your glasses back on and face the facts!#ask#anonymous#dreamling headcanons for emotional wellbeing
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Hello guys!!!!! Aforementioned project is finally finished 🫠 It was meant to be just a simple weekend project, and ended up being 30+ hours over the period of like four days. I don't think I'm an actual normal human anymore. This is the project that caused everyone in my life to question my mental and physical wellbeing and health. But I'm super excited to share this all of you!!!! Please enjoy!!!! Even if you don't like vettonso, I hope this is still interesting????
If you make any, please reblog this or tag me in it! I'm excited to see what other people, other than just me suffering alone in my bedroom, make out of this!!! <3
#jesus christ i cant believe i actually made this 😭😭#originally earlier last week i was like ahhh i wanna draw more of them in different eras(like the timeswap au)#and then randomly wanted to draw every single racesuit(nightmare)#and then im like WAIT I CAN MAKE A PICREW OUT OF THIS#no joke when i say i dont think i was a human this weekend#it was truly: eat. sleep. draw. eat. draw. sleep. draw. eat. draw. draw. sleep.#the screentime count on my ipad is soooooo fucking bad im ashamed dhfjfkkg#i dont think picrews are meant to be made in the span of a weekend#*weakly* i did it~#again as i said in the description. please request if you want anything added!!!#i dont know if ill get to it immediately bcs i just spent 30+ hours psychologically torturing myself#i actually feel so ill JSJFKGLGLG but im happy w it and i wouldnt have gone back and changed any of the process#tho the evolution of 'im having so much fun' to groaning every time i opened up my ipad again was so funny#thank you so much to suzuki i could have never have done this without your support and encouragement 🥹🥹#hoping this picrew works as a blood sacrifice to the good health and wellbeing of the amr24. the car that is launching today!#also istg i am going to dm shill and self reblog this with no shame. it is my magnum opus(as of now)#now i am going to sleep and not touch my ipad for a while djfkkglg#f1#formula 1#sebastian vettel#fernando alonso#catie.art.#vettonso#normal posts that catie normally makes in a normal fashion
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just saw gansey hate and the block button had never looked so good before
#no hate you can have your opinions btw#i just dont want to see them#its called prioritising my wellbeing#and gansey is part of that#gansey#trc#the raven cycle#the raven boys
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If you mess with somebody's mobility/life-preserving aid and all you got was yelled at by the disabled person in question, just know you got off easy. Fucking with somebody's aid can easily become a matter of life-or-death, so you have to understand why somebody would "lash out" about that.
#disability#ableism#ableism tw#reminder that fucking with somebody's aid can easily be classified under physical assault (which is what it is)#still fuming about the time my dad talked about how other people would fuck with his CPAP machine since it *has* to be plugged in an outlet#like. do you understand that not having a CPAP machine can easily either severely negatively affect somebody or kill them..#like why would the thought even cross your mind to risk somebody's life or wellbeing like that#but like. it just kind of reminds me that people can be really thoughtless about what they do and cause and effect#like at this point it's self-defense in my eyes and if you're yelled at i don't have sympathy#i will understand if you thought you were being nice but that's where my understanding ends#this is why i like when people have huge patches/stickers on their aids that are like 'DO NOT TOUCH ME' or 'I WILL BITE IF YOU TOUCH ME'#just as examples. but like. yes you shouldn't need to put that there in the first place but it is iconic#it is in-your-face and direct and it reminds everybody around you that it is up to *them* to treat *you* as an equal to abled people#it is bleak though and i hate that people have the need to put them there in the first place#if i ever needed to use more visible or 'obtrusive' aids then i'd absolutely do the same thing though
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Actually I'm still thinking about it. Another interesting way in which RvB is anti-war is the way that the Director fills the role of a villain and antagonist (especially in the Recollections trilogy, where he's a faceless villain we never see but is responsible for everything that happens).
In his memos to the Chairman, the Director emphasizes his sense of duty and obligation to the military- he becomes irate for the first time when he feels that it's being implied that he was derelict in his duty... or that the work he did out of that duty is being criticized for being against the military's interests. He also talks about Allison's death in a way I find... interesting.
"You see; I never had the chance to serve in battle. Nor did fate provide me the opportunity to sacrifice myself for humanity as it did for so many others in the Great War. Someone extremely dear to me was lost very early in my life. My mind has always plagued me with the question: If the choice had been placed in my hands, could I have saved her? [...] But, given the events of these past few weeks, I feel confident that had I been given the chance, I would have made those sacrifices myself... Had I only the chance."
The idea of sacrifice is central to the way he talks about his wife's loss, to the way he talks about the war in general. He talks of sacrifice with a sense of veneration- that it's something he aspires to do, that he longs for. There's a few ways we can interpret "I would have made those sacrifices myself"...
-That in Allison's place, he thinks he would have laid down his life too.
-That if given the chance, he would have given his life to save hers.
But most interestingly...
-That he would have sacrificed Allison's life for the continued survival of humanity, if that was what duty called for.
...And personally, I think all 3 are true.
In most war media, the Director's perspective on sacrifice is very common. Sacrifice is glorious and heroic- to die in battle is an honour- and it's the only way to ensure the group you serve survives. This is a tool of propaganda- nobody wants to go to war just for the sake of it, you have to give them a reason that the risk of dying or being permanently disabled isn't just acceptable, but desirable. Beyond that, most people don't want to do things they think are immoral- you have to convince them it's important, a necessary lesser evil. You teach them to sacrifice their morals, too.
The way they train soldiers to follow orders and to kill, is to convince them that they, and the people around them, and the people they care about, will all die if they don't. It's drilled into your head from day one. It's the way they ensure their commanding officers won't shy away from sending their men off to die. The message is constant- sacrifice is your duty, and duty ensures your people's survival.
In the Director's eyes, the damage Project Freelancer caused was his sacrifice. He never got the opportunity to sacrifice himself during the war- so he sacrificed others, as military brass do. The Freelancers- including his daughter. The countless sim troopers. Any people he considered "collateral damage" on missions. And when the opportunity to do so presented itself, he sacrificed a copy of himself- Alpha- and he sacrificed a copy of Allison- Tex.
The very thing that derailed his life- the loss of his wife- he made it happen again. He put her copy in dangerous situations, let her exist in the position of constant repeated failure, created the circumstances that would eventually lead to her death. He put their daughter in deadly situations that nearly killed her repeatedly, provided her with impossible expectations leading to self-destructive behaviours in the name of duty, implanted her with two AI knowing they could cause her permanent harm. He was confident he "would have made those sacrifices himself" because he did.
The Director is the embodiment of the military war machine. As an antagonist, he is a warning against buying into the glorification of sacrifice. He's a condemnation of the idea that one should be willing to do anything to win a war- that duty to the military is the thing that ensures survival... All the messages that are pushed to ensure recruitment and obedience of soldiers.
He's a reminder that swallowing the propaganda leads to you doing terrible things... and in the end, you're a broken man left mourning the losses that you suffered even as you repeated them, convinced that it was all necessary.
#late nights with ali#ali watches rvb#not video games#rvb#red vs blue#leonard church#the director#director rvb#idk why I'm so fixated on thinking about the anti-war interpretation of rvb right now but I'm apparently going ham#it's just so fucking. wild to me. listening to the director's messages in S6 always has me thinking 'oh man this guy ate the propaganda up'#the OPPORTUNITY to sacrifice yourself??? homedog you sound like the kid in high school who brags he's joining the army as soon as he's 18#to be clear: a lot of my thoughts on this stem from the fact that I come from a military family. I spend a lot of time with people who...#...bought in to the military propaganda and indoctrination. I see an amplified version of their perspectives reflected in the director.#to the military man sacrifice is the highest calling. sacrifice of your life. sacrifice of your morals. sacrifice of your wellbeing.#the things the director did were all in line with that fucked-up form of sacrifice.#and that they're portrayed for the evil they are is an important protest against the war machine's messaging.
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Thought I had posted about this already whups. Martin made a really important twitter thread earlier:
#the walten files#I already said my little piece about this over on twitter. I just hope he's well and that he takes a long break#and that he knows his own mental wellbeing is orders of magnitude more important than any specific date for episode release#I'll admit that i'm really saddened by his attitude here. And my stomach kinda turns whenever he peppers in the little reassurances like-#-'but don't worry i'll still try to get episode 4 on time!!' like Man. that should not be your biggest concern#And all i really hope for is for him to take as long of a break from the series as he needs as often as he needs#and I really hope he can figure out an approach to this series that keeps it fun and enjoyable to work on and that he can be happy with and#-proud of without fucking killing himself over it like he has been#Because this kind of overwork crunch ethic has no upsides for anybody. It's bad for him and it's bad for The Walten Files and it's bad for-#-the community. no one benefits from this
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anchor
#genshin impact#haikaveh#kavehtham#kaveh#al haitham#youre my anchor!!! hhhhgguuuuuaaaa what a concept#i project the depression onto kaveh for entertainment purposes (the betterment of my wellbeing)#sometimes you feel like floating and it doesnt stop. youre helpless and get lost in thought. its important for someone to hold you down#thinks about all the balloons that just get let go and fly into the sky#some.. achilles come down isms too. love that song#art
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