#<- answering asks

[xxbl33d1ngb0y2xx]

~~intro post~~

hi i’m julian or jules :> this is a blog about my life, it started as a vent blog and it’s kind of still that but i also post random shit that shows up in my brain, i’m mostly an edblr/mentally ill tumblr blog tho

i also have a side blog where i post my art! it’s @bl33d-w0rdz-cry-1nk

i have anorexia and i’m not in recovery but im pro harm reduction and pro recovery for ppl who are ready. i tag all my ed related posts with #tw ed, i dont post any kind of spo but i do post daily intake logs and body checks which i put under a read more. i also have arfid and im in recovery from self harm (mostly cutting), bulimia, opiate addiction and alcoholism.

boundaries

i don’t really have a dni beyond if you romanticize deadly disorders and purposefully trigger people without warning (cough cough coquette/nymphette ana blogs cough cough “girlblogging”) then fuck off, don’t be a creep and if i see you saying bigoted shit i’ll block you

i am NOT looking for an ana coach. my disorder is my own and i don’t need “help” restricting.

moots, please tag:

sh pics/descriptions (#tw sh)

csa and cp mentions (#tw csa, #tw cp)

unreality (ie. “is this person even real?” or “what if [thing] is actually just in your head”) (#tw unreality)

mentions of abusive therapies or medical practices (#tw medical trauma, #tw medical malpractice)

i’m always open to asks and dms, sometimes it takes me a while to respond because i’m bad at talking to people but i really do appreciate moots reaching out :3

i’m a did system and i do post about that occasionally but we don’t introduce individual alters for the systems safety and privacy. please don’t ask about alters names or identities or who’s fronting during a given post, it makes us uncomfortable.

stuff about me :3

my special interests are storytelling, mineralogy and music! i play piano, viola, electric and acoustic guitar, bass, drums and i sing and write songs. i also do theatre. i stopped acting in musicals after i barely got through my last one due to health issues and i don’t know when i’ll be able to perform in them again but i still act in straight plays and i do stage management and tech. my favorite tech roles are spotlight operating and lighting design :>

i’m a therian and my theriotypes are raccoon and domestic tortoiseshell cat

i love animals, i have two black cats named holly and jackie and i ride horses! i don’t have my own horse but want to own one someday :3

my favorite people are my girlfriend Rose, my little brother and my best friends Ivy and Sparrow and i talk abt them on here sometimes

for more context about the stuff i complain about, i have autism, selective mutism, adhd, anxiety, depression, early onset bpd, schizzoaffective bipolar type and DID. im also physically disabled, i have POTS and ehlers danlos syndrome with severe chronic pain and i currently need a cane to get around sustainably.

[starschoir-sys]

Welcome to the Stars' Choir !

This is a DID focused sideblog for @dukeoftears that serves as a journal of sorts in order to allow me to safely explore how my mind works & the people within it. It also acts as a place for other alters to freely express themselves without needing to mask or pretend :)

I may go inactive on this account for long periods of time due to factors like denial, periods of low headspace activity & simply forgetting that I'm a system.

Our simplyplural is starschoir. We accept all frqs.

BEFORE YOU INTERACT:

♪ -- TERFs, radqueers & proshippers DNI ♪ -- I am anti endo. Endos DNI. I don't care for syscourse nor do I involve myself in ANY kind of system-related discourse. Please do not involve me in it. ♪ -- I am bodily a minor. ♪ -- Boundaries can vary from time to time, please be patient ♪ -- Do NOT refer to us as plural or multiple, please. ♪ -- I use we/us and I/me interchangably ♪ -- I don't often relate to system "culture" and while I'm kinda trying to mimic it here since I have no idea what else I should do for a sys blog, I can't keep track of alter count or fronting status or anything fancy like that.

[lakecountylibrary]

LIBRARY WRAPPED

You checked out... probably some stuff? Thanks for doing that :)

Used our wifi maybe? For something?

Look we actually don't know what genres you read or how many times you renewed Gender Queer.

We don't want to know.

Our gift to you is privacy.

Take it.

Be free.

[problemnyatic]

when will we talk about the willful helplessness epidemic on here. So many people on this god forsaken website demand to have any and all things that exist outside their personal experiences directly, personally pre-chewed and spoonfed to them. And when you do, they'll then ask for you to swallow for them, too, because, you see, in THEIR experience..,

[fox-bright]

hi any life advice for 21yo

Don't date thirty-year-olds until you are at least 25.

Having a glass of water for every glass of alcohol will give you a 50% reduction in hangover viciousness.

Bad people will use your willingness to be quiet as a weapon against you. If someone's being awful to you and trusting you'll be quiet to keep from making waves, surprise them.

There is no physical object in the world that is worth as much as your honor.

Honor is not the same as dignity. Retaining one sometimes means leaving the other aside.

Don't have any sex you don't want to have; have as much as you want of the sex that you do, whether that's a lot, a little, or none at all. Nothing you can do to your own body is immoral, unless you're doing it as an act of self-punishment.

Food is morally neutral. You do not have to earn the right to eat calories. Fat and sugar keep your brain from eating itself.

Learning to sit still and breathe--in, in, in, hold, hold, hold, out, out, out, out, out, out--can give you five feet of clear space around yourself in a maelstrom.

Find out how to make three good meals: A comfort meal you can make for just yourself relatively easily, a fancy meal you can use to wow a date, and a meal you can feed a bunch of people. All the other cooking can come later, but you can build a community on those three meals.

If you ever get to the point that things are so bleak you can see no other way forward but to die, make any other choice. If that means leaving everything you own and being a beach bum, or quitting your career, or taking up or leaving a religion, or deciding to bicycle across the country, so be it; living means more chances, dying means everything stops and you don't get to see any more interesting things. As you have not yet seen all the things that can interest you, it is better to live.

[bamsara]

as soon as the disorders stop disordering and the disability stops debilitating I will be so unstoppable powerful forever

[yamujiburo]

clothes shopping!

[evilwizard]

what is the difference between a witch and a wizard

wizards are mathematicians and physicists. witches are chemists and biologists

[bixels]

Baffled.

[notherpuppet]

Were you friends before? ⚔️🎀🪽

[marvelsmostwanted]

Joe Biden, coherently and normally: I have three issues to speak about. First, the NATO conference went well. Second, the economy is back on track and inflation is down. Third, my proposal for a ceasefire in Gaza is moving forward. Any questions?

The media: Did You Know That You Are Old

[barghest-land]

i scratch you, you scratch me 🤝 a pair of warm and cute Eohippus for this cold winter

[psin314]

be careful, boys. 😦

[dingledraw]

Well, that went down like a lead balloon.

[mushyooms]

one of those polls from the premiere