#/nbh im just talking
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testing the waters with this on tumblr but the amount of curly and even like. jimmy enjoyers ive seen is dare i say quite odd.
#meowing#to me its one thing to enjoy their complex fucked up characters but another to be like#'omg hes so hot i wanna make out with him'#feel free to talk to me ab this NICELY. I SEE YOU. because im not a huge mo.uthwa.shing fan#but to me it just feels odd to see a game where a lot of it is about the trauma & rape of a woman and be like.#'ok now how can i make this about me'#IN FACT.#A LOT OF YOU ARE LIKE 'how can i make this about me and ONE OF THE MEN'#/nbh im just talking
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killing people who don’t get an animals consent before touching them &/or ignore when animals are visibly uncomfortable with being touched.
#MOTHERS FRIEND DOING THIS WITH OUR CAT RN IM PISSED.#SHE DIDNT EVEN GIVE TOFU ANY TIME TO SNIFF OR ANYTHING??#Sigh.#tofu came downstairs to see what was up bc person was in the house#But person just immediately started petting her#even tho tofu was visibly uncomfortable and clearly just wanted a sniff test or sm#went to my room asap after that and tofu followed quick on my heels#obvs I let her sniff as much as she wants before petting her (if she even wants fuss) so she had a sniff and very much seemed to want fuss#so I gave her a few strokes and then sorta checked in and she swirled around and bumped her head into my hand (all the while her tail was#pointed straight up with the tip quivering a little every few moments - a sign of happiness/excitement to see a familiar person)#so we had cuddles for a bit until she hopped off my chest to go get water or sm :3#BUT I DONT GET WHY MORE PEOPLE DONT HAVE SIMPLE WHOLESOME INTERACTION WITH THEIR CAT LIKE THIS??#LIKE. CATS ARE SENTIENT. THEY SEEK AUTONOMY - ESPECIALLY BODILY AUTONOMY. WHY TF WOULD YOU NOT LET THEM GIVE/DENY CONSENT??#like. if you aren’t willing to learn enough about an animal to understand when it’s unhappy at the very least *why* would you interact with#one?? (This person literally has a cat as well.)#idk man these are the same sorts of people that’d probably do the ‘awww just give me a hug! I’m your auntie(/whatever)! why can’t i have a#hug? 🥺’ sorta thing.. like. BRO. It isn’t my/the cat ‘s fucking job to regulate/look after your own grown ass feelings.#SIGH..#just. The fact this person has like.. met tofu once. Lived in the same house as her for maybe 4/5 days one time and thinks the cat is#obligated to put up with her or whatever.#(This is how I imagine people be acting around cats when they’re like ‘idk man cats just don’t like me! Cats are just independent by nature#I’m just stood there having to listen to them shit talk a whole species bc they don’t understand consent (or at least don’t universally#value it - eg; with children; with animals) ANYWAYS. CATS ARE A SOCIAL SPECIES WHO HAVE DEVELOPED TO LIVE CLOSELY WITH AND DEPEND ON HUMANS#THEYRE OFTEN VERY AFFECTIONATE AND LOVING AND FORM LASTING RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR HUMANS AND WILL MOURN THEIR DEATH PROBABLY MORE THAN#HALF OF THE HUMANS WHO ATTENDED THEIR FUNERAL.)#If tofu doesn’t like you I don’t like you mate. I am wholeheartedly willing to cut people off if they act wrong with my cat - like - BRO.#IVE KNOWN HER LONGER THAN I HAVE MOST OTHER PPL IN MY LIFE. SHES GOT ME THROUGH WORSE AND IS ALWAYS HAPPY N EXCITED TO SEE ME.#That cat has done more for me than you ever have! She loves me with her whole fucking soul and I her with mine. If she picks up the wrong#vibes from you/you break any of her clearly set boundaries we are DONE.#(Obvs /nbh - nobody here. & generally lighthearted but uhh yeah needed to rant abt this bc I care strongly abt it and other ppl should too)
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feelin good n decided 2 try being social w a moot n it was all going well until it was in fact successful n i got a dm and now im just
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#DIDNT EXPECT TO GET THIS FAR#my stomach is vibrating in fear and now i just gotta sit here like well. i cant Ignore them HJBAJ but im so Fearful. . .#i need 2 be Perfect.. .. .i cant let em down.. .#i get so used 2 talking to my bf n how effortless it is i forget how scary literally everything else is#/nbh here btw#i reply 2 someone and im like ahha. . Success.. im being Social. and then they respond n it is what i want n what i was going for#but still im like OH NO#I DONT .#KNOW HOW TO GO ON FROM HERE#ho. w do u have conversations#currently just hiding while my stomach goes aaa a .a. a aa..a a a
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i feel so fucking sick im so tired of this
#im a fucking mentally ill 14 year old not your lifeline/nbh#im#eveyr night h have ro make sure this guy is alive#and i have to beg them#fucking beg#i feel so sick#the only person i can talk to about this is asleep i think#dark pearls#vent#i cant just not help becuase what if#just#what if
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okay so i& Do know a few other jewish folx in the fandom have talked about this before but. the discussion of racism in the a.soiaf/h.otd fandom suspiciously Never includes c.riston c.ole / f.abien f.rankel when he is explicitly a jewish man of color & its. weird. just. yeah. like yeah dgmw the meme of c.rispy c.ole is v funny but there is a conversation here that's not being had & it's very weird that his actions arent worse than some of the white men on the show yet he receives this reaction & men of color (& in this case) jewish men will always be held to a higher standard than white men.
#ooc.#/ antisemitism#& like im bein honest w/ yall & obviously this isnt a vague @ my moots its just smth i noticed other jews talk about & i noticed too#so im basically reiterating what some of them have said already including one of my friends#especially bc like. f.abien is. iraqi & indian jewish#personals dni.#like yall as a mun of color myself its not just the women of color its Also the men of color who go thru this#& dont even get me started on how they deal w/ l.aenor's character on the show like ...... g-d. but this is a jewish specific discussion.#& ion wanna hear ppl especially goyim on twitter be like ''um ACKSHUALLY'' nah dont do that its not ur place#you can dislike or hate a character thats perfectly fine but like sometimes ........ the hate i see uh .......... its sus. ur sus /nbh
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i always feel really bad when i see those like social anxiety reassurance posts that are like "nobody is mad at you nobody gets annoyed when you text them" actually sometimes they are and they do and that person is usually me. genuinely im so fucking sorry
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i feel like this every time i open this app to some fresh new shit
#hdmiports#/nbh i’m just always confused#WHY ARE WE TALKING ABOUT AI AGAIN IM SO CONFUSED#AND NO ONE IS ELABORATING#PLEASE SOME OF US ARE STUPID PLEASEE#literally have seen like so many posts of people being like ‘i thought we agreed we hated ai art’ WHY ARE WE TALKINH ABT IMYHIS AGAIN???#WHAG HAPPENED????#a crumb of context when ppl start drama on this website would be SAUR nice for me who is always very confused pls
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my friends who have known me for multiple years: yeah i was tlaking 2 rae earlier and she. uhm. they said that-
my mutuals who i have known for 6 days: yeah i was talking 2 rae/dusty (he prefers either name equally) earlier and ba was telling me about loves ocs. splish told me all of splashs lore and it was so cool. i think cute is so awesome and the coolest and i want to kiss baa on the lips
#me speaks#/nbh im not vaguing anyone this just happens a lot#i mean. the first one. um. my mutuals dont talk about wanting to kiss me#unless...? haha....
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take a good hard look in the mirror and ask yourself why you’re harassing someone whose already blocked you months ago and evidently just wants to be left alone. ask yourself why you think it’s okay to make fun of their triggers and tell them they deserve to feel unloved. ask yourself why you felt the need to destroy something they just made to hang out with friends. ask yourself if you’re really still the good person here.
#you sent me an anon so clearly you’re still finding some way to look at my blog.#/nbh hopefully#last time im talking about this unless it escalates somehow#vent tw#personal#i dont want to create drama I just want you to leave me alone that’s all.
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#realised earlier that the hs fandom made me increasingly more and more miserable#and not being hyperfixated on homestuck for once made me feel like i took a breath of fresh air so#never been in a fandom that felt so... competitive.#hs as a media. cool#the fandom made me so exhasuted. constantly#i dont want to interact with it at all#not being into homestuck and not wanting to interact with the fandom has made me feel eons better#but i dont really know what to do#we made a lot of friends through hs#i dont really know what else to talk to with them if not hs#but its not like im not into homestuck. i just like#i still like it#just the fandom makes me feel like crying 90% of the time#and i have so many mutuals who rb hs stuff but i dont want to like. break mutuals#so what do i do? just block every single OP of homestuck stuff?#idrk#not to mention the amount of introjects#i mean#i dont even know#like. those guys probably arent gonna really front if we're not fixated on hs#but people like them#what on earth am i meant to do#i can't make people front. we've never been able to do that#if i can't get their favourites out then what's the point#i just am so sick and fucking tired. all of the time#some of y'all are so fucking pretentious /nbh#i dont fucking want it anymore#the fandom makes me start to hate homestuck as a media#i feel like i cant enjoy it the way i want to#and my ocd goes fucking crazy with all of the 'not a REAL homestuck fan' people go about
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sometimes i see fandom takes that are so disconnected from my understanding of a character/the source media i can't help but feel taken aback like where did you even get this... but i just scroll away and mind my own business 🫡 (and maybe quietly add new words to my filtered tags list 🫡) at the end of the day i can only respect the love someone has for a character, even if it's for someone i couldn't care less about.... that is the beauty of fandom. one man's mob character is another man's blorbo, etcetera
#on fandom#just dwelling on this because the way people argue on tiktok and twitter (mostly children/young teens) is... intense and extremely juvenile#i know people argue here too but most of who i follow or interact with are Adults who can handle themselves anyway lol#tiktok teens wouldn't last in the asylum that they raised me (unsupervised on 2010s internet... 2014 tumblr? i was THERE)#/nbh in case it wasn't clear?#thinking abt how circular online discourse is without very little actual follow-through IRL. just a witch hunt#discourse is regurgitated every few years like a cursed wheel of (mis)fortune... + how little gen z seems to value history#because we're so progressive and much better than the boomers i guess but we aren't learning from our elders' mistakes enough i fear....#all the disinformation on the internet + AI??? dropping literacy rates & a lack of critical thinking? (gen alpha voice) chat r we cooked#in 2024 im bringing back the blog experience of talking to no one <3#let's get ready to ramble!
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okay didnt know “whose obsessed with their fictional crush the most” was a competition but alright buddy
#/nbh#like i was talking about my fictional crush and you just say ‘oh im going insane im getting hallucinations about mine!’#…#not everything’s a competition#not everything is about you
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Do you ever see ur friends/moots talk about something like 'ugh this sucks this is so boring' and youre just sitting there like ._. i kinda like it lmao
#smol speaks#Its nbd but yknow sometimes it makes it hard to wanna talk about stuff cause now my friend is gonna think im cringe#Also its just manners yknow. If someone talks bout how they don't like something you dont come in with I Love That Thing Heres Why Its Good#Same way you dont see someone talk about how they like something and see that as your cue to say how much You Hate The Thing#but ye :) nbh btw im preeeetty sure they dont follow me
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i legit feel so sick thinking of how quickly your opinion on someone can change
#/nbh#i wanna vomit 🙁#im never gonna try to become friends with anyone ever again now that I'm thinking about these situations#I think I'll stay put talking to my lovely online friends#and having a gc with only two of the people im closest with.#I can't shake this nauseous feeling#it's just some words.#it's just a fucking screenshot.#I hate myself#whoops this turned into a vent#so#vent#tw vent#🌧️
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uhmm haha. u ever end up in a years-long friendship with someone and go thru the slow and excruciating process of realizing that they are just not a healthy person to be friends with. but ur too deep in it now to back out of it so u just kind of have to keep hanging around them while being so painfully aware with every interaction u have w them how really . not great of a person they are to be around. 😀
#undefined.txt#vent#nbh dw just. AUGH!#tho someone here Does kno who im talking abt. hi dya if ur seeing this :) yeah its about That Guy
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the where-is-rendog post where ren is at the inkigayo stage made me think about kpop idol!treebark
note : this was in fact written back in june during the great treebark drought and im only bringing it back from my drafts now
so martyn used to be in a (2nd-gen)group called "y.cast" in a different company than the one hes currently in, but when his contract ended he decided not to renew it, and left to his present company. hes still technically part of the group but bc his old company sucks they barely get to make any comebacks, so hes mostly focused on his soloist activities as "ITLW".
meanwhile, ren is in a (3rd-gen)group called "hct" as "RD"(hct is similar to nct, has a lot of members and lots of little sub-units), rens currently in a sub-unit called "hct nbh" and a duo called "octagon", hes the main-vocalist in both, and hes also an actor(id like to think that hes a bit like jongho from ateez, in that he likes to practice acting in the groups dorms, even back when he was still a trainee, and also bc main-vocal).
they had met each other before while promoting, but got really close when they were filming a K-drama together called "3rd Life" the first part of the life series, where they played "The King"(ren) and "The Hand"(martyn).
Martyn on Bubble 🫧 (Eng trans)
ITLW : ah, 3rd life
ITLW : it was fun!
ITLW : did you enjoy watching it?
ITLW : i got really close to ren while filming
ITLW : our company buildings are quite near
fan : / asking about them hanging out together(?) /
ITLW : ㅋㅋ
ITLW : maybe
[ITLV, In The Little V-log : EP.07 (feat. a guest...)] 🔴
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InTheLittleStan
OMG RD FROM HCT??? the king and the hand reunion
StreamG.O.A.T.
here for RD!!!! hes so pretty in this clip 💗✨
they never had any other public interactions, except martyn does talk about ren on bubble sometimes, and they both have a picture they took together on the back of their phone cases(similar to what wooyoung, changbin, and yeonjun did)
Martyn on Bubble 🫧 (Eng trans)
ITLW : today's tmi?
ITLW : i watched ren on immortal songs while having lunch today!
Ren on Bubble 🫧 (Eng trans)
RD : the back of my phone case?
RD : its a picture of me and martyn!
RD : martyn has one too i think ㅎㅎ
but after 3rd life was over, they would almost promote on the same week but would barely miss each other
like if ren had a comeback and promoted for about 2 weeks, then martyn would have a comeback immediately after ren had already finished promoting, so they never got to film any challenges together, and had the fans begging their companies to have them publicly interact at least once.
somehow this got quite long, so if anyone read the whole thing then i appreciate you :D
note : im open to name suggestions cause i dont think the group names are that good
BUT "hct" could stand for either "HermitCrafTers" or just "Hermit Culture Technology" like nct, and its funny to think of each hermitcraft season as smth similar to nct2020 like hct06
AND "octagon" could be like pentagon or we could go the nct route and name them "rendoc" instead so its kinda like dojaejung
i really didnt have any ideas for yogcast so i went with "y.cast", but if hct is an nct equivalent, then i think y.cast is sort of like btob(y.cast has cube or fnc group vibes, idk why, but i had btob and n.flying in mind when i was thinking about y.cast)
#rendog#inthelittlewood#treebark#trafficshipping#< just to be safe#trafficblr#you can tell that i absolutely love kpop#ren is my fav and jongho is my ult so of course im jongho-coding ren#me when i kpopped too hard#side note: i might have started making some art related to this
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