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youtube videos to help you with your glow up (pt. 1)

14 psychotic genius ways i use chatgpt to 1000x my life by simonesquared

46 beauty habits your future self will thank you for by simonesquared

how to glow up like a victoria’s secret model by girlworld

rebrand your identity in 2025 by krizia official

when the law of attraction doesn’t work, cheat by leo skepi

disappear and transform: a full 90 day guide by vickita trivedi

how to become confident and unbothered when you are insane by amber akilla

my 2025 master plan for success by tam kaur

how to change your life with chatgpt by nika erculj

daily wellness routine by fernanda ramirez

10 healthy habits that will change your life by sophia diloreto

let’s get motivated by rebecca jay

how to rebrand your life in 2025 by alessya farrugia

24 life changing hot girl habits by adete dahiya

the ultimate guide to confidence by alessya farrugia

the night routine that changed my life by alessya farrugia

the morning routine that changed my life by alessya farrugia

how to quickly get out of a rut by alessya farrugia

how to actually glow up by alessya farrugia

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I just spent 30 minutes looking for this sheet :')

i know we're all sick of self-care being a marketing tactic now, but i don't think a lot of us have any other concept of self-care beyond what companies have tried to sell us, so i thought i'd share my favorite self-care hand out

brought to you by how mad i just got at a Target ad

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my favorite tumblr posts

Cultivating Your Signature It Girl Aesthetic | THE IT GIRL DIARIES

a talk on my favorite timeless beauty and fashion detailz

ultimate IT girl guide

how to live your life like the BRATZ ♡

self care tips 🫖

The IT Girl Wardrobe Essentials | IT GIRL DIARIES

beauty and brains⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🎀☕️

The Prissy Girl Look

pretty girl handbook⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

cultivating a high maintenance lifestyle⋆.ೃ࿔*:･👛🐩

polished princess doll tips

getting it together⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🗒️

micro glow up part two⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

Be high maintenance to be low maintenance: a checklist

take care of YOU first⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍭

your guide to casual glam⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🍰

romanticizing ur night routine⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁🫧

back to school "be the it girl" guide

Doll Mindset!! How To Achieve It 🎀

how to be more feminine⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🩰

VISION BOARDS | THE IT GIRL DIARIES

Complete Guide : How to looksmax & drastically improve your appearance

VICTORIA SECRET ANGEL ULTIMATE GLOW UP🩰

Dream Girl Masterpost 🍰

Every it-girl needs:

my tips on becoming that christian girl 💒💗

How to be more confident ;)

The Ultimate It-Girl Guide to start every new year

Prissy Girl Essentials

GLOW UP GUIDE FOR 2025

how to stop being so obsessed with them.

Socialite In Training 🦋

RECLAIMING DISCIPLINE CAN LOOK LIKE:

fostering and living out confidence⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁🍬

things to put in ur fashion journal⋆.ೃ࿔*:･📔🎀

Journaling Ideas!!

— the 2025 princess guide:

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Love and War 💞❤️‍🔥🕊️

Happy valentines everyone!🥰 Februarys illustration is of Ares and Aphrodite looking very flirty and in love, or at least some form of it.

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a digital/e offering to Lord Ares

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important to remember <3

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Locking in for 2025

Trigger warning: a little bit about 3ds

ok gang the big moment is coming up. Listen, I believe that you never need to start or make new goals for the new year. These things can happen any time, and the most important part has to be you putting in the effort. Things have gotten a little scary for me recently, I mentioned in my last post stuff about me thinking about 3ds, and this time it was so much worse. And here is the thing; I shoved my measurements into a bmi calculator and I am overweight, I binge constantly, I don't work out, I'm unhappy with how I style myself because everything looks wrong on me, and I don't want to live like this. So here is my plan, my fully fledged plan.

As soon as the holidays are officially over, I am going into a calorie deficit and working out regularly.

I am going to eat healthier, I am going to focus on my friends and my future instead of romantic relationships.

I am going to practice my faith consistently.

I am going to enjoy myself and have fun.

For my own sake I have to. I can't ignore this anymore.

I love you all, and be safe.

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I had a moment

Just want to put a warning here that I'm going to talk about and make reference to some not so great stuff such as: eds, c@lorie tracking, a lot of anxiety and death. If you find this triggering for the love of the gods scroll past.

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So....It's not that I forgot this blog existed...more like I was spiralling and felt undeserving of posting in the name of Lord Ares. But here is the thing I need to focus on; this is a blog about my healing. Healing is not going to happen immediately, and I will spiral sometimes. He is never going to be upset about me posting in His Name unless I am doing it with the intention to harm others. My struggles are just as important to talk about as anyone else's especially on my own blog.

What actually happened? Tiktok kept feeding me ed content and then I unblocked all the ed tags I'd blocked here and I spiraled. Also because it keeps getting darker as I'm walking home from school, I keep convincing myself that I'm going to die on my walk home.

This has not been fun at all.

The plan is to try to get back to into my faith, since I really haven't put in as much effort as I would like. I'm also going to delete the calorie tracker from my phone and reblock tags.

Wish me luck, and Hail Lord Ares!

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This is so cool I will definitely be participating this year :)

31 Days of Hellenic Polytheism

Anyone can participate regardless of how long you’ve been a Hellenic polytheist! My hope is to use these questions to reflect on the year, and repeat next year to see what has changed, and hopefully to continue doing that every year!

Answer in as much or as little detail as you see fit. You are allowed to skip any questions that you are uncomfortable answering. These questions can also apply to heroes, not just deities. You can pick specific deities to answer each one, or answer the questions with all the deities you worship. This might apply to other Pantheons and I’m happy for it to be used as such. Feel free to tweak some of the questions to fit those pantheons if you’d like!

Please link this list on your posts with your answers so that it is easy for others to find if they want to participate too after seeing your answers.

THIS IS TO BE DONE DURING DECEMBER, I’M JUST POSTING THE LIST NOW SO PEOPLE CAN FIND IT!

Have fun!

DAY ONE: Who was the first deity you began worshipping? Do you still worship them now? If this has been answered before: how has your worship changed since last year?

DAY TWO: Which deity did you most recently start worshipping? Were you called to them or did you reach out first? Do you think there were specific reasons behind why you were drawn to them?

DAY THREE: How long ago did you start Hellenic Polytheism?

DAY FOUR: Are there any deities you don’t currently worship but want to learn about?

DAY FIVE: How much have you bonded with your deities?

DAY SIX: What’s one way you incorporate Hellenic Polytheism into your routine (daily, weekly, monthly, etc?)

DAY SEVEN: Are you openly a Hellenic Polytheist offline? How does being open/not being open effect your worship?

DAY EIGHT: Do you have altar(s)? If you do, how do you use it? If you don’t have one, do you want one? Why/why not?

DAY NINE: Is there a practice that’s common among other Hellenic Polytheists that you’re skeptical about?

DAY TEN: What’s something you’ve learned about Hellenic Polytheism that you wish you knew sooner?

DAY ELEVEN: What is the clearest sign you’ve received from a deity?

DAY TWELVE: Do you do food offerings or libations? What do you do with the food/drink after you’ve offered it?

DAY THIRTEEN: Do you write your own prayers?

DAY FOURTEEN: Do you have any hobbies that fit any of your deities’ domains?

DAY FIFTEEN: How has your worship changed you?

DAY SIXTEEN: If you could give one piece of advice to someone who’s just starting in Helpol, what would it be?

DAY SEVENTEEN: Send out some love! Are there any Helpol blogs here on tumblr that you follow and really like?

DAY EIGHTEEN: How can you best describe your relationship with each of your deities?

DAY NINETEEN: If you had to assign one song to each of the deities you worship, what songs would you choose?

DAY TWENTY: Do you have a favourite aspect of Hellenic Polytheism?

DAY TWENTY-ONE: Are there any retellings/adaptations of greek mythology that you LIKE? Why/why not?

DAY TWENTY-TWO: Is there an aspect of Hellenic polytheism you haven’t yet gotten to try but hope to in the future? Do you have any other Helpol-related goals for next year?

DAY TWENTY-THREE: What’s a bit of UPG you have with your deities?

DAY TWENTY-FOUR: What’s an offering you’ve made that you’re really proud of?

DAY TWENTY-FIVE: What was the most surprising thing you’ve learnt about Hellenic Polytheism or your deities?

DAY TWENTY-SIX: Do you celebrate any festivals? Which ones or why not?

DAY TWENTY-SEVEN: Share a fun fact about one or more of your deities which you think is underrated or not well-known

DAY TWENTY-EIGHT: What is your favourite myth?

DAY TWENTY-NINE: What is an aspect of your deities you really appreciate?

DAY THIRTY: Do you have a visual interpretation of your deities? Is this different from usual depictions you see of them?

DAY THIRTY-ONE: Share a positive experience you’ve had this month/year with one or more of your deities

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I need to try this!!

Actually I might buy some pomegranate juice next time I remember just for smoothies

Hormone balancing juice:

• Pomegranate: Rich in antioxidants, supports estrogen balance & heart health

• Beetroot: Boosts circulation & helps detox the liver, key for hormone regulation

• Carrots: Supports the liver in flushing out excess estrogen & promotes healthy skin

• Orange: Packed with vitamin C, helps regulate cortisol & improves overall energy

• Ginger: Reduces inflammation & aids digestion, which is crucial for balanced hormones

Additional ingredients you can add:

• Turmeric: Anti inflammatory & supports liver detox, helping regulate hormones

��� Apple: Adds natural sweetness, fiber & supports liver health

• Lemon: Boosts digestion & further helps with liver detox, supporting hormone balance

• Flaxseeds: Rich in omega 3s which help regulate estrogen levels

• Cucumber: Hydrating & soothing, helps flush toxins and balance hormones

• Spinach or Kale: Provides essential nutrients like magnesium, which supports hormone regulation & reduces stress

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QUESTION FOR THE IT-GIRLS

Hello it-girls!

I love everything you are doing, which is where these questions are coming from. I know that girl is in the name, but can I be an it-boy? I'm a transguy, so I'm not really welcome in a lot of the male self-improvement spaces, and even if I was, none of it is what I'm interested in, you know? I just wanted some people's opinions on this.

Thank you! - Star

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Wonderful News!

I am actually completely and utterly over the crush of doom! It turns out that if you insult someone enough, that person starts to resent you! Anyway, I might actually yell at them during band today if I get called stupid or an idiot.

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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

𝑖𝑛 𝑁𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑚𝑏𝑒𝑟 𝑤𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑏𝑒 𝑖𝑛 𝑎 𝑏𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑐𝑒 𝑒𝑚𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦, 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑝ℎ𝑦𝑠𝑖𝑐𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦

⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀𓂃 ⭒ 𐀔 𝑐𝑙𝑎𝑖𝑚 𝑖𝑡 𐀔 ⭒ 𓂃

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October 21, 2024 | oh gosh what a day

11:55 AM | so far so good!

Today has been pretty good so far. I got out of bed a lot faster than I usually do which I'm very proud of. My morning alarm is set for 7 AM but usually, I take about 20 minutes to actually get up. The fact that I cut that time in half this morning is really impressive. Right now I'm at the public library enjoying my second period free. Although now it's actually lunch time. I'll probably give myself about 10 more minutes here and then I'll walk back to school. Normally I eat lunch with the crush I'm recovering from (we are gonna call the Crush of Doom, or COD (I am in fact sitting here giggling)) on Mondays. Typically I ask them what room they are eating lunch in and then I join them but today I'm not going to join them. When I get to school I'm going to buy my lunch and then go see if I can eat in my math teachers room. If I can't then I will most likely send a very frantic text to my friend to see if I can eat with them.

2:11 PM | I love my friends :)

Whoa, future me! My math teacher's door was closed, so I went and ate with my friend, which was seriously the better choice. We were laughing so hard that when the bell rang, I was struggling to walk down the stairs. I really do love my friends.

6:46 PM | this is the part where I try not to freak out

So....uh. Everything feels terrible right now. I know that that's not the case but we love emotions! I had band after school and the longer the class went on the more and more upset I became. You know the coffee in the photo? Yeah, I drank that on an empty stomach.... anyway so my stomach was hurting. I ate a really sad sandwich for lunch which didn't help at all. I was in pain and apparently it was noticeable enough that COD asked me if I was okay !!twice!! They really are a great friend which is why I feel so bad about my feelings. Other thing that happened was they said something that made me want to cry. It was said with good intentions (I think) but they were a little aggressive about it which I hated.

I also feel bad about the food I've been eating so I'm going to make a little list of healthy foods I like as a little reminder for myself :)

cucumbers

lettuce

mushrooms

bell peppers

avocado

cooked spinach

cooked broccoli

cauliflower

Swiss chard

chives

strawberries

raspberries

blackberries

cooked onions

cherries

corn

tofu

carrots

peas

watermelon

tomatoes

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INTRO PAGE PLEASE READ

Hello and welcome to my new and super cool blog! You can call me star and I generally use he/him pronouns. I'm in high school so please be aware of my immaturity. This super cool and awesome blog is for my self improvement journey! It's also dedicated to Lord Ares.

Why am I going on a self-improvement journey? Because I feel like ✨shit✨. That and I am currently grieving and trying to move on from a very unhealthy crush I have had on a friend. It was borderline obsessive and wasn't healthy for me or them. I think I've been really obsessed with relationships recently, which would usually be considered normal for teenagers, but mine has been, as I said before, obsessive and unhealthy for me and everyone involved.

So this blog is for me to work on myself and record my progress, and then hopefully, someday in the future, I can look back on this blog and see how far I've improved! It's a really exciting idea :)

I am going to do my absolute hardest to tag everything appropriately and put warnings at the top of every post if I think there is something there that could harm someone.

Now the less fun part: rules

This is my blog and account. I am in charge of the content I see and interact with. If you do not agree with the things I like or the things I post, then block me.

Any hate, bigotry, or bullying will be tolerated. I will delete things, I will block people. You get one chance to not be an asshole before you are gone.

DO NOT INTERACT WITH THIS BLOG IF

You are over the age of 25, you post p0rn, you are pro @n@, you are transphobic or homophobic, you post purposefully triggering content, you are unaccepting of other people's religions, and you lack critical thinking skills.

PLEASE INTERACT AND BE MY FRIEND IF

you are under 25, you are also on a self-improvement journey, you are a cool little queer person, you are interested in theatre or classics, you are a Hellenic polytheist, you are kind!

My tags cause that's a really cool thing I see people do!

Star reflects -> my super awesome reflections on myself, my life, and my beliefs. These may be sad, they may be happy! That's the joy of reflections :)

Star motivation -> motivation for me or you to live your best life

Star is funny -> my silly little posts/reposts that I found funny and want to share with you ;)

Okay, that's all love you bye!