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UPDATING THE BLOG...

So for like a few months or so a guy had been stuck in my mind. Yet today I was quickly dissapointed by him and his family. This means that I'm going to start moving on from K.

So in hopes of continuing to manifest someone worth my time I decided to try to make up or think up a cute guy. One that if I see him I'll be able to recognize him right away. This means that I'll be able to tell when and if Aphrodite has sent him.

ABOUT THEM:

+ Beautiful, wavy hair

+ Downturned, green eyes.

+ Freckles.

+ Mullet haircut.

+ Radiates like the sun.

+ Long eyelashes.

+ Confident.

+ He is badass as hell.

+ Intelligent.

+ Supporting.

+ Medicine/law student.

+ Comes from a wealthy/stable family.

+ Pro-choice, feminist.

+ Kamela supporter 💯💯

+ Strong, protective.

+ Friendly.

+ Kind.

+ Banterer/jokester.

+ Romantic.

+Animal lover.

SKETCH:

Whilst thinking of what they should look like I decided to try to sketch him up. This is what he looks like so far.

I hope yall liked this lol and that it was worth the wait!

-ZP

[zafirosspretty]

Zafiro's guide to stop bedrotting.

- From someone with ADHD.

Ever had a specially bad breakup? You failed a test? Your face just had a horrible break-out?

These are all reasons you might find yourself brainrotting and falling deeper/into in depression. But I can tell you what personally helps me.

HOW CAN I IMMEDIATELY STOP?

Short answer is... You can't. You can't just suddenly stop feeling like crap and get your life together no matter how good you feel but that doesn't mean you have to stay miserable forever. Everything is a journey, a process.

GIVE ME THE STEPS!! NOW!!

FIRST: I need you to stop doom-scrolling, seriously. Scrolling through tik-toks endlessly is not going to make you feel better specially when you just keep finding yourself comparing yourself to the people on your screen. Everyone has bad days sometimes.

SECOND: Now, I know you feel like crap right now so I will not be asking you to make your bed. Instead, go get yourself a snack. When was the last time you ate something?

THIRD: brush your teeth, take a shower, try to empty your thoughts as you feel the water hit against your skin. It's a good cleansing method.

WHILST CLEANSING: Don't try to usher the bad thoughts out right away. Instead linger on them, reflect on them, acknowledge they are bad and give yourself the reason as to why. Slowly let the thoughts leave your mind like raindrops leave a cloud. Take as long as you need on this step.

FOURTH: Go back to your room, play the happiest playlist you have and listen to it. Listening to sad music like mitski will only make you feel worse, so don't. If you don't have a playlist like that at the moment you can simply play the radio, or maybe even blast a 2000's mix. Or maybe just listen to Ayesha erotica, she's one singer that makes me feel cunty.O r maybe something like this:

(STEP FIVE AND SIX ARE ACTUALLY INTERCHANGEABLE, DO WHICHEVER YOU PREFER FIRST)

FIFTH: Do your skincare, facemasks, watch a movie or two. Journal, draw something up, do a hobby. Don't forget you still need to take care of yourself both mentally and physically.

SIXTH: Now, you don't need to go out or whatever. BUT I find that if I dress up as cute as possible I always feel better and get a big shot of ego. So I want you to dress up like you are going to the club and are planning to make everyone's jaws drop. Dress yourself, do your makeup, your hair, everything as if you are about to go out and meet the love of your life. I just want you to dress like what will make you feel like the best version of yourself.

FINALE: With this, it's basically over. Now I want you to get some Vitamin D. With this I mean you can either take vitamins, eat something with it or step outside and get a bit of sun. This will make you feel better in the long run as you now try to go off and do your chores or hobbies.

I hope this is able to help whoever comes across this! Take in mind I'm not a professional or whatever and this is basically just what works for me. Change this method up as much as you need for it to benefit you.

- zp

[zafirosspretty]

About Zafiro 🌟..

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.𖥔 ݁ ˖๋ ࣭ ⭑ What is this about?

I hope for this to be a kind of public online journal for me. Basically like a blog. Which I hope I don't forget about (╥﹏╥). Here I'll list spells, how my day went, manifestation tips, maybe even cute recepies, "pretend games" (Pretending I have my desired things/scripting) The pretend games will definetely be in a different format than my regular posts so don't worry! You'll be able to tell the difference.

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.𖥔 ݁ ˖๋ ࣭ ⭑When did I get into this?

◇ I've been into manifestation, Subliminals, Law of attraction, Witchcaft and the like since I was 14-15 (I'm currently 18 as I'm typing this for reference).

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.𖥔 ݁ ˖๋ ࣭ ⭑ Why?

◇ Well I wanted to get in this originally because I wanted to look more beautiful as I didn't have very good self-esteem back then. Luckily throughout my journey it's definetely pretty high now, although originally it was definetely very fake-it-till-you-make-it ૮₍˶ •. • ⑅₎ა ♡

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.𖥔 ݁ ˖๋ ࣭ ⭑DNI list?

◇ Witch, subs, LOA deniers. (Sorry I don't feel like trying to 'excuse' my beliefs. It's fine if you just want to respectfully ask questions though!)

◇Racists, homophobes, ableists, etc+

◇Those people that try like changing races through subs... ᯣ_ᯣ