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inkskinned · 1 year

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he says i hate everyone except you and that is addictive and that is kind of romantic and beautiful because you're young and you're kind of a sarcastic asshole too and you don't like bad boys, per say, but you don't really like good ones either. and you like that you were the exception, it felt like winning.

except life is not a romance book, and he was kind of being honest. he doesn't learn to be nice to your friends. he only tolerates your family. you have to beg him to come with you to birthday parties, he complains the whole time. you want to go on a date but - people are often there, wherever you're going. he's just so angry. about everything, is the thing. in the romance book, doesn't he eventually soften? can't you teach him, through your own sense of whimsy and comfort?

at first - you know introverts often need smaller friend groups, and honestly, you're fine staying at home too. you like the small, tidy life you occupy. you're not going to punish him for his personality type.

except: he really does hate everyone but you. which means he doesn't get along with his therapist. which means he has no one to talk to except for you. which means you take care of him constantly, since he otherwise has no one. which means you sometimes have to apologize for him. which means he keeps you home from seeing your friends because he hates them. you're the single exception.

about a decade from this experience, you'll type into google: how to know if a relationship is codependent.

he wraps an arm around you. i hate everyone except you. these days, you're learning what he's actually confessing is i have very little practice being kind.

#i used to think it was romantic too and then i was like. now i see it as a HUGE red flag #writeblr #it is also almost EXCLUSIVELY said by immature ppl who think this is normal #fyi even if u think it's funny and ur like 'im an introvert it's just TRUE' like. you need therapy (ily tho)#healed introversion is just ''i would prefer to be by myself'' not ''i hate every person'' ... hate is not normal. that is not healthy #im sorry. i know it feels accurate. but if you're walking around with that kind of rage....#1. you're making a LOT of assumptions about every single person u have ever met. which is often unfair and unkind #and also usually involves judging people based on their worst moments or little mistakes #2. you are being unfair to the person who is ur ''exception''#3. there is a VAST difference between ''ur my favorite person'' and ''the ONLY person i like.''#idk i think this is just a personal bias thing tbh #im sure there are people who have this experience normally #but i have YET to find a man who thinks like this and ISNT absolute DOGSHIT. although tbh.... like. im sure he exists #when u hit like 30 some of the things that were once kind of hot now just sound fucking exhausting. like ''im in a band''#edit in the tags: i used to kind of be like this too. but the thing is that like. my life became so much more peaceful #once i started believing that people are generally good. like yes i am mad at the world at large #but it's just.... a very hard way to live. you're not a bad person or wrong for the ways other people hurt you and taught you to be angry.#but that anger will continue to hurt YOU. it will punish YOU. it will prevent YOU from making new deep connections. it will protect you yes #but it will also cause MASSIVE blowback. bc if you lose the One Person... your life will fall apart. i know this personally.#i really recommend just trying to be... cautiously optimistic instead. like. yes #people can be horrible and cruel and there are some communities (incels for example) that aren't worth that optimism #but i think like... most people will hold a door for you . most people want to help you find your wallet .#i hope one day you are able to find peace. i hope that rage eventually smooths over. i know how hard it is PERSONALLY #and i know what must have happened to you. and im deeply deeply sorry we share the same wound.#but i promise - sometimes we all need someone else to help us carry the weight. eventually the rage has to die so that we can let help in #i had to spend years biting at outstretched hands. i still often do. im still very wary . and my heart breaks that you flinch too.#here's the thing: i don't blame you. but we were both acting out of fear and pain. .... not out of healthy behavior. and ... change #was needed. i needed change too. rage was useful for a while. then it just left me isolated and bitter. i had to (with effort)#choose to let that rage go. and let people in . VERY SLOWLY THO LOL

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harmandmac · 13 days

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Tony & Ziva + AURORA ~ "Let Me Down Easy".

#tiva #tony x ziva #tony dinozzo #ziva david #aurora #tiva x djats #aurora x tiva series #this is the beginning of a new series where I will first gif songs into tiva and later into harm and mac #because you know me #sofia your wish is my command so I'm starting earlier #btw I'm linking the songs in case you haven't listen to my favorite fake band

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notforanyone-jpg · 1 year

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seventy times seven / brand new

#brand new band #brand new rock #jesse lacey #seventy times 7 #your favorite weapon #fghtffyrdmns

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spenglerstwinkie · 6 months

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Hiii I forgot I posted on this acc a while back idk if I still have followers but here’s this nothing bad ever happens to me thing💪

#oingo boingo #danny elfman #good for your soul #oingo boingo art #Danny elfman art #uhhhh how to tag tutorial #new wave art #idk #help #I love oingo boingo it’s been consistent for almost 3 years help me #this MIGHTTT be my favorite band #one of my favorite songs #too #idfk #1983 #?#ok I’m done

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asurrogateblog · 2 months

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@klazje a warning: as far as my memory serves you are the first person who has ever asked about my ocs (like. in life. in general.), so you have activated full powerpoint mode

#I encourage everyone to take all your favorite traits and themes and anecdotes from real bands and put them in a blender and make new guys #it's a great time #I've probably written like 50k worth of real content but tbh I do kind of prefer just rotating them in my head #i said this in an earlier tag but I really did order a custom shirt with the jack of all trades album over on it. best $30 I've ever spent #I am struggling so hard not to just keep saying things #oc tag: clarion call

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lucalyrics · 6 months

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#brand new #brand new band #emo #emo music #jesse lacey #tdag #deja entendu #scifi #daisy #your favorite weapon lyrics #the devil and god are raging inside me brand new #tdagarim

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fauxvvounds · 3 months

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offtopic but yknow, i really don't get the people of r/glassanimals.

i really understand the frustration and how criticism is critical when it comes to improving art. heck, despite i'm a "Dreamland girlie" myself i still think their best works were somewhere in ZABA or HTBAHB. so it's understandable for people to think how it's such a downgrade for Glass Animals to switch into pop by their third album, which in a way alienates those who seek for different sounds.

but here's the thing; just bc the sounds tackle pop genre doesn't make it any less meaningful. some of the lyrics in Dreamland were as deep and haunting at times such as Helium and the conversation in Melon and the Coconut were as comparable to some songs in HTBAHB. like it really makes you wonder what's happening between them.

people also had been "ripping apart" the new ILYSFM album despite there were only two songs came out so far and lots of people have been displaying disappointment towards those. yeah, i can see it's a bit straightforward when it comes to the lyrics department and it has the same "pop" problem it shares with the entirety of Dreamland. but, again, are people there like... too lazy to analyze those songs? or maybe i am over analyzing it bc those songs just happen to also collide with another fixation of mine?

the point is, just bc the recent songs tackle the "pop" genre doesn't mean it lacks values or meaning. but bc it tackles such over saturated genre, it's hard to delve deep into its meaning when the first thought that pops out of ur mind after listening to their new songs were "man Glass Animals really sounded generic ever since Heat Waves blew up"

#like seeing all of these complains about the new songs and dreamland really makes me sad tbh #like just give the new songs a chance and if you still don't like it #there are other bands that does similar sounds #or well—the album's always gonna be there for u to spin forever #also i heard complains like this were common with other artists when they decided to tackle another genre #guess changes are just really difficult to accept *shrug*#this has been your 12 am faux rants about their favorite band #faux speaks #glass animals #int: music

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sendmyresignation · 4 months

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nearly forgot. approximation of my may listening. been feeling really good about priorities with regards to music and discovery lately!

#part of this is my good friend. truly it forces you to re-evaluate your relationship with music when its being reintroduced to you through #someone else. i mean this v positively of course.#also been making my way through our band could be your life. which explains the sonic youth the husker du the big black the replacements #all of which ive really enjoyed!#my favorite new listening was prob scrawl. tmgs goths! songs: ohia. and revisiting little teeth :)#brainiac was also fun ive been into them for a long time- theyre an ohio band- but forgot about them #omg and pest control. god ive been slacking in the metal department lately.#anyway #my posts #music recs

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angelstrawbabie420 · 3 months

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man that reminds me i still like, think of the first time i ever heard ghost and how it was like a fucking switch flipped in me. i quite literally had to pause after hearing 5 SECONDS of the first song i’d ever heard by them (square hammer) to go scream about it to someone and in that moment i knew i would become obsessed w them, before i even heard SHIT. it was actually kinda wild. ghost my fucking beloved.

#i had premonition in that moment i literally thought ‘oh this is your new favorite band and going to be one of your favorite of all time.’#and i was right.#never had such a striking response to music before or since then.#sleep token is SO close but not quite to that level

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happymeishappylife · 3 months

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#new music #favorite bands #imagine dragons #in your corner #loom #Spotify

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fairweathermyth · 2 months

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I think I know what you want me to do Tell me again, I get a little confused But I can't be wrong (Ooh, not about this) I fell to the bottom and you found me there Broken and blue and you gave me air I can't be wrong Ooh not about this, no

#i loooooooove this song so muuuucccchhh #sometimes you lose track of the fact that dr. dog is your favorite band until you go to a show and it's banger after banger and so much fun #the new record is so good! :')#bass lines 🤌#happy dr. dog album release day to those who celebrate #dr. dog #dr. dog album #talk is cheap #music #toby leaman #unfortch for anyone outside of philly the odds of catching them live ever again are SUPER low #they'll be at riot fest chicago bc they offered them an amount of money they couldn't refuse lolol

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burningcomputerpersona · 4 months

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Pick a song for each letter of your URL, and then tag that many people! Much thanks to @angelthingy for tagging me <3

Bird, you can fly - Eyemèr Untitled - Knuckle Puck Re-emerging Signs of the Apocalypse - Spanish Love Songs Never Meant - American Football I Was Hiding Under Your Porch Because I Love You - Waterparks Nightmare On Southfield - Action/Adventure Green Squirrel In Pretty Bad Shape - Hot Mulligan Cigarettes & Saints - The Wonder Years Overstepping - Belmont My Life For Hire - A Day To Remember Pints Of Guiness Make You Strong - Against Me! Understanding In A Car Crash - Thursday Thank God It's Friday - Ice Nine Kills Early Sunsets Over Monroeville - My Chemical Romance Right Choice - Can't Swim Paradise Lost, a poem by John Milton - The Used El Niño Considers His Failures - Spanish Love Songs Rationalize - Action/Adventure Sick Of It All - Magnolia Park One Step at a Time - Four Year Strong No Children - The Mountain Goats And Now I'm Nothing - The Wonder Years

Good lord did that take a while to finish... time to start tagging uhhh *counts* twenty-two people now: @sucker-for--anything-acoustic @tradedsymmetry @broke-bruce-wayne @mackie-ds @juliens-bakery @breaking-justin @flashlight-smallknife @cemetery-pigeons @ogbulesky @dysphoria-things @eyemermusic @plainramennoodles @unnervinglyferal @ameliafromafairytale @aiam-maianaise @weirdpinkandmagical @crazyworkswell @kind-wizard @leonidele @thevictorianpirate @mira-kyria @cant-even-spell-my-own-url

Okay I think I tagged like all my mutuals and then some... suffice to say I am sorely regretting my longass username. Anyway these tags are low pressure and open as always, so feel free to join in! (or not, I'm not the cops)