#youareagoodperson

[just-antithings]

Is there a new mod on the blog? (If yes, then welcome! 💕) Are mod applications open now?

no, no new mods at the moment. if you’re interested in becoming a mod you’re welcome to message me on my blog @youareagoodperson or send an ask off anon. warning though I’m very slow to get back to people

[allfakeeverything]

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[dreadsbrisbane]

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[inclusionistscringe]

[fierceawakening]

youareagoodperson reblogged your photo and added:

Also really don’t appreciate the gendered slur

Eh, I dunno. I feel like losing my cookies about words is a distraction from much more pressing social issues, at least for me personally. It sucks that we live in a culture where a lot of zingers have “bitch” in them but a lot of things suck way worse, and trying to stop people from saying “bitch” is likely to fail. I’m pretty sure no one in the feminist circles I ran in actually stopped saying it, and just started also yelling at anyone else who said it.

[pwurrz]

mod erin of @just-antithings will continue to be more and more racist and specifically antiblack until one day she just spouts some straight up white supremacist shit and at this point i’m not sure even that will get her brainless followers to wake tf up and realize what a horribly racist person she is

[zenwords]

#anxiety #selfDoubt #breathe #buildResiliency #goodness #youAreAGoodPerson #fear #beBrave #mindfulness #meditation #zenmister #zenwords As you practice addressing general anxiety and episodes of anxiety and using your breath and body to bring yourself back to a state of calm (or to a more manageable state of anxiousness) you will build your resiliency. At a most basic level, you can rely on the knowledge that you are a good person, trying your best to get along in a frightening world. If you understand your goodness, you can use that understanding to cut through the self-doubts that try to convince you otherwise. When you feel fear, be brave.

[just-antithings]

I should really try to take a screenshot of the inboxes on my ace and aro-centric blogs next time before I clean them out and block people bc shit be wild. do exclusionists really have nothing better to do with their time?

[iron-sunrise]

Y'know whats funny about this is that I've seen them complain about bisexual people making out with their opposite gender partners but I suppose thats ok. Even though this shit didnt happen the way they're screeching it and I certainly dont agree that its right to whinge about PDA at pride-- remember this as another example of something no one needs to clutch their pearls over until an Asexual says it. (Even if they didnt)

So, I’ve seen a lot of exclusionists going on and on about how there are asexual people saying they’re uncomfortable with all PDA at pride. But I’ve seen absolutely no asexual people making posts to that nature. It really seems as if someone decided to either make up this problem or take the existence of one or two posts and blow it up to some enormous and widespread problem, and other people saw those posts made by that someone and thought it is a widespread problem even though there are very few asexual people actually saying that - to the point where I still haven’t seen a single one, while having seen a couple dozen or so posts about this “huge problem.”

[highkeyheart]

You need to understand the significance of your touch on my skin There’s a timeline over these lines you need to know I know I’ve mentioned it a time or two The cruelty this body has taken from people this mind has loved But I want you to understand the depth your fingers over my cheek has Your head resting against mine I was born into this world to a man who showed his fatherhood with Knuckles and slurs The first memory I have of my father is not one of us playing together But one of him pushing me off a chair Touch, to me, is the scariest of love languages And I’m sorry I want you to talk so much it’s just that silence has always meant violence This isn’t a poem this is an apology for not hugging you This ain’t a fuckin poem this is a letter of appreciation It’s a fucking living tribute to your affection You’re the first goddamn lover I’ve had that makes me tremble in the right way My little brother used to beat the hell out of me without meaning it I’ve been fighting everyone my entire life Kids on the playground, my dad, my brothers, my grandfather, myself Eventually I let them hit me A hand around my throat was just “goodnight” And being molested just meant “you are pretty” One day I decided I wouldn’t let my family knock me down anymore and that’s when lovers started to You probably think this is shit I’ve said to girls before But that wasn’t me back then as I am now I’m fucking old and learnt You’re teaching me so much about what a good touch is I met death and he was cold and unforgiving He haunted me for months Lurking behind me with a cattle prod Shocking me every time I was close enough to love someone Reminding me to jolt back at a woman’s touch Reminding me to fear a man’s presence Reminding me that “home safe” isn’t a reality for me For fucks sake, I was raped I was held down and spat at I still hear his words in my head “Keep your legs apart” “Do you want me to burn you” “I’ll cut you” “You can breathe when you stop screaming” Even therapists said it might not be possible for me to have loving physical contact I don’t know if I’ve told anyone that he was ftm That I was afraid of sex with women and men after that I couldn’t tell my partner what happened for months No one knew in Paris that I almost jumped in front of a train in the metro I blamed myself for all of the hurt in the world I hated myself I didn’t believe I deserved passionate and loving touches or gentle caresses I cut myself more and more Deeper, faster, bloodier The more she cut me apart in my mind the more I cut myself apart from my bones Eventually those cuts turned into pills and those pills turned into death One day I woke up and I looked in the mirror Only to find myself in a hospital gown Gripping onto a nurses arm to stand Covered in bruises, my cheeks sunken in Burning pain in my chest Starving and sickly Wires and tubes tying my life together And then I started over And I kept starting over Every morning Every single day until I could sustain myself One day my baby brother hugged me and I didn’t run away One day my mom held me and I didn’t cry And one day I looked at my arms and saw only ghosts of wounds Every time I almost fell in love with someone was terrifying It meant that I would need to trust them to not tear my apart So I would keep starting over And then I saw you It was like my life started over for the last time I know when you reach your hand towards me you’re going to love me Sometimes the past still haunts me And I know you don’t really believe in soulmates like I do but What are the chances that a sucker like me who spent their entire life running from one punch to the next would trip over your smile and crash into your arms I never thought a safe space could be a heartbeat and soft lips.

A. P., 2017

[bloodbluepearl]

anyways heres a big list of proshitters to block! you can copy and paste their urls into your blocked users list on your blog settings! happy block session!

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[shidgephobe]

Wow, and anti-antis are the terrible people.

Right.

🙄

Your url is not descriptive of you at all. You are a really ugly disgusting individual and you should kill your self.

Right. I’m the bad person here, even though you’re the one on anon telling me to kill myself. uh huh. sure, Jan.

[inclusionistscringe]

[cat-prisun]

@just-antithings @youareagoodperson can you stop stalking people who have you blocked for no fucking reason you creepy ass bitch seriously what the fuck is wrong with you get a fucking hobby maybe

[pwurrz]

who is that in that screenshot so i can block? (if youre okay with sharing only tho)

oh it’s just-antithings. i don’t know the blog of the mod who answered that question unfortunately but i do know mod erin’s (arguably the worst mod but they’re all fucking terrible) main is youareagoodperson

[zenwords]

#worryingWhatOthersThink #worry #calmYourWorry #youAreGood #youAreAGoodPerson #thoughts #breathe #mindfulness #meditation #zenmister #zenwords If you focus your attention on what you think about yourself and you find lots of good and true things to think about yourself, you will assume others will see that and you won’t worry what they think about you. If you think lots of bad things about yourself, you will imagine others think that too, and you will worry. So, when you catch yourself worrying about what others think, take a deep breath to calm your worry, remember what a good person you are, and let that shine forth. People will think the world of you.