#you are all terrible people

[sad-trash-hobo]

Honestly all I want to do is rewatch all of Watchers and specifically Steven's videos and post positive comments on them just to let them know that not everyone in world is as shitty as most of yall are acting right now. Being mad at them does not give any of you the right to harass them and be an asshole.

[vashtijoy]

This is why I don’t talk.

So my therapist explained to me the other day that when neurotypicals ask why something happens they don’t actually want to know why, they’re just throwing that out there as part of the discussion. I’m not gonna lie, I kind of sat there silently for a moment, computing. Eventually I told her that I was trying to absorb that piece of information because I like explaining and finding out why things happen, and for the life of me I can’t figure out why someone would ask why without wanting an answer. But honestly, my conversations with people make so much more sense.

[lotus-pear]

i love you royal trio (minus akechi)

[tubbytarchia]

so ranchers huh

[angry-kid-with-no-money]

"Nora doesn't know anything about the things she writes about" "aftg is terrible queer rep" "the queer characters in aftg are so problematic"

Idk guys maybe the book series abt problematic ppl set in 2006 and written in the mid 2010s shouldn't be expected to hold up against scrutiny of what we consider to be moral and correct now, in 2024

Idk tho, idk

[demaparbat-hp]

Thinking about @stygiovictoria's Roleswap AU.

[knifearo]

being aromantic is like. hey btw you're going to live a life that is the culmination of most of society's worst nightmares. sorry lol ✌️ but then you turn around and take a really good hard look at it and it turns out that living in that nightmare is fucking awesome and you get to wake up every day and take that fear that other people have and laugh and hold it close until it's a great joy for you instead. and being happy is a radical act that you define instead of someone else. and you're sexy as fuck that's just a fact of life i don't make the rules on that one

[exhausted-undead]

young silco..... water theming.... hrrrgh

zoom for details

[corpsentry]

pick your battles

[heartorbit]

make a wish! 🍃

happy 1st anniversary, in stars and time 🤍

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

Congratulations to TEAM CHEESE for winning the popular vote on the Charcuterie poll!

[trueloveistreacherous]

MARELLA'S 12TH TUMBLR ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION @rhaenyratargaryns and @elssbethtascioni requested: Ted Lasso or Leverage

People like that, corporations like that, they have all the money, they have all the power, and they use it to make people like you go away. Right now, you're suffering under an enormous weight. We provide leverage.

[reginamillls]

at some point, how you act in fandom spaces says how you act outside of fandom spaces and I hope never to meet you because the things you do are not okay

[louferrignojrofficial]

when will he (lou's name in the credits) come back to me

[endless-nightshift]

There's something so sad to me about the fact Lan Xichen goes from happily encouraging Lan Wangji to befriend Wei Wuxian to Considering Wei Wuxian to be Lan Wangjis 'only mistake'

Like... Imaging getting a miracle second chance not only at life but to have be loved by the man you've always admired only to find out that his family detests you because during the worst time in your life, physically and mentally you didn't take into account the idea that a man who'd always treated with cool acquaintance at best, active distaste at worst actually cared about you and that his constant reproach and effort get you do give up the one method you have to protect yourself while everyone was literally actually out for your head was honestly because he was badly wording his concern and not because he hated you and the methods you used to survive.

[nudibutch]

as someone who has unknowingly been in a "mentally unstable femme/do anything for you butch" [i was the do anything for you butch] dynamic i have to say it did severe damage to me and my idea of self worth. i was walked on in horrendous ways. i was not treated like a human or a person with feelings. i was manipulated. i was sexually coerced to do things that no one should ask someone else to do. it has taken me the better part of a decade to recognize the damage this did to me, and it took a strong network of friends (and a particularly supportive and protective femme friend) to help me realize that i deserved to be treated like a person.

i am really tired of seeing butches and femmes alike endorse the idea this is uwucute. its not. its extremely damaging. butches, please find your self worth. recognize that you have needs too. femmes, respect that butches are people. saying mentally unstable femmes use service-oriented butches is downright wrong and disrespectful. i dont care if its a joke or memepost. im exhausted. i know there is a lot of loneliness in being butch and femme. but we don't need to be glorifying unhealthy relationship dynamics, even as a joke. you can get the dynamic you seek (dominance and control) from healthy individuals that respect your personhood. everyone in the community deserves better.