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my hips hurt so I'm pretending its because me and All Might went crazy last nite -ciel
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In a world that often demands perfection, remember that you and your progress are worth more than someone else's perception of who you should be. Embrace your imperfections and take pride in being authentically you. You're the only you there is and you are more than enough. 💛 (PS - drink some water)
Thank you for this ask, dear! And for all the kindness you spread 💓💐
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Happy tdov to fat trans people. 🏳️⚧️ Biggest thing that helped me as a trans kid was seeing older fat trans people. There were a lot of really irritating "advice" posts going around early in my time on the internet with a lot of misinformation in them, but one that I constantly saw (in addition to people claiming you should wear your pants rediculously low or only wear button ups) were posts saying you had to lose weight to transition. Can confidently confirm that is completely untrue. 👍
#seal.txt#tdov#that 'sky and mike' image of the two old trans dudes hugging was one that I had saved to my phone as a trans teen#and i would look at it sometimes and just wonder how they had made it#idk its just nice knowing we live that long and its not a requirement to be skinnyin order to be respected and loved and get old#some of the old 'advice' posts i saw were really completely bizarre and a lot of them stick with me to this day in insecurities#this would have been 2016 ish tumblr so i know not that long ago but i would have been around 13 for reference#weird that i remember so many of the things i read back then. i could probably fill a post with things i was misinformed on due to Tumblr#specifically tumblrs run by people that i didnt really have the knowledge or awareness to understand probably didnt have my best interests#like 'trans rights ' blogs i would follow and not notice until much later were quite the opposite#this is the consequence of viewing social media before i knew all the secret codewords and my brain was much less developed than it is now
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Elegant Chaos, Inelegant Solutions
Here's my TF Reverse Bang 2024 piece to accompany @novafire-is-thinking 's tie-in fic Elegant Chaos, Inelegant Solutions! Go give it a read for some MTMTE alternate story line Percy and BS shenanigans! ;D Link: here
Thanks again to Nova for being such an awesome teammate/skilled writer, and the whole team behind @tf-bigbang for organizing the whole event!
#It's been an awful lot of fun being part of this! ^v^#Also! Thank you to all the peeps in the server who helped give me advice when I needed it <3#wow huh wonder what my favourite MTMTE arc is?#transformers#maccadam#mtmte#maccadams#transformers fanart#tf idw#more than meets the eye#frootertooter archive#lost light#brainstorm#perceptor#megatron#tf big bang#tf big bang 2024#tfrb2024#tf reverse bang 2024#tf reverse mini bang#tf reverse big bang
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Today at 5 am I had a conversation with my mum that went thus:
Mum: I keep telling my friends that marriage is a social construct and not to get married.
Me: Okay but I need to marry rich though.
Mum: No, you don't need to get married for that.
Me: I can't get rich on my own?? What??
Mum: No no that's not what I meant. Take money from everyone that... y'know. You don't have to marry them.
Me: You want me... to get sugar daddies?
Mum:
Mum: Yes.
#is it any wonder than i am the way i am#life advice#marriage is a social construct#get sugar daddies instead#weirdly specific but ok#asmi
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This came to me in an early morning queer haze
Kissing my medics good morning (I am your husband heavy and I love you)
#tf2#team fortress 2#heavymedic#i know its super annoying for everyone when the sole medic on the team keeps pocketing heavies so as a heavy main i will say this.#to the medics in the chat: i dont expect you to pocket me and in fact you shouldn't. i suck. but! if you would it would be cool and gay and#and i will kiss you abd love you and give you yummy food and protect you like my life depends on it i will be your meat shield because you#are amazing incredible for picking medic despite the horrors. i will do everything in my power to help u. but don't pocket me i suck#i meant for that to be more meaningful and like giving advice but it got gay. but i meant all of it#when i see a medic healing me i immediately switch to shield mode my life is no longer mine i exist to protect the beautiful man behind me#thank you medics👍🏽 if u play medic i hope you have a wonderful day today everyday 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽❤️❤️#edit: i am gayer for heavy than i am for medic- but since i main heavy i am automatically attracted to medic and so this shitpost was born#so many people that play medic are apparently gay for heavy...... i feel so seen and understood
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Ghost Fangs
After so much time changing between forms, Danny thought that he would no longer have external changes. His human and ghost forms were a bit more combined than when he was a teenager but it wasn't as much of a problem for him now that ghosts weren't actively trying to wipe out humanity and his parents had more or less accepted him.
The problem was when he started his internship at Wayne Enterprises and his teeth started to hurt. He didn't pay much attention to it at first since maybe he should visit Frostbite or some normal dentist. Cavities were pretty common when you ate fast food growing up.
The problem was when three days after the pain started, one of his teeth fell out. That didn't make much sense since the halfa had shed his baby teeth long time ago, and those were supposed to be "permanent".
He decided not to smile and continue working, avoiding anyone that could notice the change but the hole in his teeth was obvious when he looked in the mirror. Then another tooth fell, and he felt his gums itch. Something was beginning to grow.
That was how Danny started changing his teeth into ghost fangs at the worst possible time. Worst of all, he was sure he was growing a third, maybe fourth row of fangs, and fuck how was he going to hide it from his bosses?
He couldn't pretend that he was mute! What if a tooth fell out during work and someone found it? It was a nightmare!
#dpxdc#Danny changed his human baby teeth#but he needed to change his ghost baby teeth too#it was slower because of his halfa status#but it eventually happened#at the worst moment possible#He will end up with a double row of fangs and a sharper teeth#that will be easier to hide with time and experience#but not for now#dp x dc#dc x dp#Wayne employees are confused#Danny was very talkative at the beginning always willing to give advice#but suddenly he became very quiet and reserved#they wonder if something happened to him#Tim suspects#He hopes his intern doesn't turn into a villain or something#Ghostly puberty
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#this is why we can't have nice things#lies and the lying liars who tell them#fight the patriarchy#smash the patriarchy#empathy education#empowerment#teaching empathy#empathy#women as property#women in public#women dating#domestic violent relationships#toxic relationship#relationship#relationship advice#woke is wonderful#why do men hate women#why do men#me too#me too movement#4b movement#4b#man vs bear meme#man vs bear debate#man vs bear#red flags are hard to see#red flags#red flags should not be ignored#this is why men prey on young women#experienced women
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Hey so can we like clear some time in our schedules for us to all get together and collectively remember that "write for yourself" was never supposed to mean what anyone on this site takes it to mean? Yeah the actual advice there is that you shouldn't compromise your own art and ideas for the sake of pleasing an audience, real or theoretical. IDK how so many people took it to mean "it's wrong to want people to engage with your art."
Like yeah lemme post this to archiveofourown.org so I can (checks notes) think about it alone more
#writing#writeblr#writblr#writing advice#writers on tumblr#writers on ao3#ao3#archive of our own#fanfic#fanfic writing#fic writing#fanfic authors#ao3 writer#ao3 fanfic#ao3 fic#write for yourself#vent post#and while we're at it: “show don't tell” was made by playwrights#wonderful rule for a medium where the audience literally Cannot See any of your written tellings#not nearly as consistently wonderful when you are writing a book (in which the audience is literally required to see all of your tellings)#not to say it's a bad bit of advice for novelists to keep in mind! it's just Situational#and I don't think many people notice that
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#words#words words words#quotes#quoteoftheday#spilled words#words of wisdom#in case you were wondering#thoughts#beautiful quote#life quote#maya angelou#I rise#4n@diary#4norexla#4nor3xia#3d not sheeran#advice for life#advice for women#advice for young me#black and white#advice#erissubmits#eris
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glamtober #31 - supernatural: mothman
my favorite american cryptid. i spent half my childhood in appalachia and those mountains are haunting and comforting. there's something nice about a fucked up creature trying to warn folks away from harm. this fit is silly but we can pretend she found it in eorzea's version of spirit halloween, right next to the sexy chirurgeon costumes.
items used:
head: tonberry head (jet black | ruby red) body: quaintrelle's ruffled dress (jet black | jet black) arms: demonic gloves (N/A | ruby red) legs: bunny tights (N/A | jet black) feet: makai priestess's longboots (ruby red) fashion accessory: fallen angel's wings
#ffxivglamtober2024#azia gposes#io laithe#mothman#AAAAAND THAT'S A WRAP!#ty for hosting this myth!!#it's been so much fun#the prompts were wonderful#i'm an EXTREMELY glam-motivated player. irl i like fashion though i don't follow it closely#but gear pieces stick with me because they're so good at telling story#i almost always have a rec for folks looking to tweak their glam klsafls though i try not to offer them too often as unsolicited advice#so it was a DREAM to get to use things and make outfits i don't have the space for#i think my gpose game improved too!#and i've been introduced to some awesome folks this month! the real take away!
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And when OPLA calls back to Zeff telling the crew to read stories to Zoro so he can hear their voices and recover faster, by having Sanji sit by his bedside on Thriller Bark and read him a book about the All Blue. What will you do then?
#literally the scene of Nami reading Zoro Noland’s book at the Baratie is my favorite addition#cause East Blue Nami is so damn prideful so seeing her do something that seems silly-#(reading to someone who isn’t listening)#-is such a fun way to mark her progress as a character#I can see her being the one to remind Sanji of Zeff’s advice and the act of reading to Zoro being a way to process the sort of.#hit to his pride and even self-perception that is Zoro’s interference in Thriller Bark.#why did Zoro stop him? Why would Zoro want to die in his place? Choose his dream instead of his own?#(maybe because he knew that sitting by your friend’s still body- helpless- is the worst feeling in the world)#Aside from this though I can specifically see the book being about the All Blue working#cause its a reminder about what a wonderful dream Sanji has. It’s a way to regain vigor and the willingness to fight for it#after having just tried to discard it in the face of Kuma moments prior. Specially know that he knows Zoro is fighting for it too#matt owens are you out there. please#opla#one piece#roronoa zoro#blackleg sanji#opla spoilers#for like future seasons that may or may not even happen#my post#zosan
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Honestly the "wear womens clothes as a man, take the fashion you want" thing wouldn't be a terrible idea if they were sized relatively the same.
The problem is, they're not, so unless you are a twig of a man whom an M sits loose on you're not going to fit in the womens' XXXL pants, because they're smaller than the men's M.
It's irritating too because I'm too short for most mens' pants, but womens' pants are sized like.
well.
like the designer is trying to give someone an eating disorder.
So I'm either looking at something that doesn't go up to my waist size, or that I have to hem, which sucks and is annoying, and is not even possible for a lot of pants that have things printed on them.
#social issues#fatphobia#bit of an elephant in the room with clothes culture in general but also a specific barrier to the well-meaning ''queer it up'' advice#fuck. I wonder if I were to trade a favor with a family member who sews like they know what they're doing#and ask them to just. fold up and sew a section of the middle of a pair of pants I have#That would probably just look like a design eccentricity if I matched the thread color well enough#damn I need to learn to use a sewing machine but even if I found one in a dumpster I'd have nowhere to keep it.
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Hi, I tried different tools.
Also, I referenced a jacket image and then realized Link doesn’t wear a damn jacket after already lining his wack fabric green thing… so here’s a weird torn up jacket???
Maybe that’s why Sidon is taking it off… he was like “oh dear… oh no… honey that doesn’t look good on you”
#sidon put on gloves and now has a sense of style#SidLink#link doesn’t appreciate the advice but does appreciate the sultry hand movement.#Sidon then asks Bazz to rid of this jacket#link wonders what the burning smell is and sidon has to make link NOT find out Bazz is out there in the domain burning his jacket#I’m sick today I’m sorry#sick Kenne fuvks around and finds out#sidon#Zelda#totk#link#tearsofthekingdom#king sidon#zelda fanart
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I love seeing the colour patterns on your clan gen homotherium and smilodon.
They remind me of cat colours. Colour mutations in animals (cats and prehistoric animals on general too) are my special interest
I remember that my favourite smilodon design was the one from Primeval. I still have the box sets and they were my favourite as a kid (and now lol).
Sad that Smilodon was most likely tawny like lions. It apparently lived in open areas so most likely wouldn't have spots or stripes. But that doesn't mean we can't draw them like it. Also I wonder what mutations they did have in real life (like white lions, white tigers, "strawberry" erythristic leopards, albino leopard, and melanistic leopards and jaguars do appear in the wild)
I actually discovered your comic when I followed the homotherium tag after seeing the frozen cub. I once saw lyuba the mammoth at the natural history museum, London, at a limited exhibition. I'm completely obsessed with the permafrost mummies. I hope I get to see more in person one day.
Here's my kitty, Zoe.
Oh my goosh what a cute cat ;A;
here's my creature, Fat Tilly! She's an 11yr old Selkirk rex who likes loafing and lying in the sun c:
And thank you! I adore colour mutations in extant animals and I agree that it's really fun to contemplate them in extinct ones c:
I'm gonna preempt this getting long and put a cut here jhrjhrf
I'm sure you will already have seen this, but for anyone interested in paleoart depictions of colour mutations, I'd really recommend this great article all about it
White Cat, Gold Plains was actually all about the premise of a Homotherium with piebaldism. Pied is one of my favourite pigment mutations because it's so much deeper than integument patterns; it's actually a neural tube defect that leads to distinct behavioural changes. WC,GP was about Kiina, the pied cat, and her struggles with always being view as 'childish' by her peers and struggling to fit in. There was also more human impact in this story, as Kiina gets picked up as a cub by a group of early humans. It was sort of my own experience/musings on neurodivergency played alongside some thoughts on early domestication attempts humans must have had (though we all know that, sadly, Homotherium did not end up domesticated). Pied animals are typically more trusting, which is why you see so many pied domestic animals! (Fat Tilly and Zoe both are, for example lolol)
Also the Primeval Smilodon has one of the most gorgeous and distinct designs of any media sabercat tbh, I really loved the episode as a whole even though it had a sort of sad-but-expected ending.
I don't remember where I read it, but there was someone discussing Smilodon patterns and the conclusion was basically "we can't be sure". While lions are solid as adults, they're spotted as cubs and likely had spotted ancestors seeing Pantherines seem to have strongly contrasting patterns as the default. Machairodontids aren't even the same lineage as Pantherines, so we really can't know what patterns they had except for Homotherium latidens having dark brown cubs! They could just as easily grow into a different adult coat, like hyena do. (side note, I was sorta hoping that absolutely amazing Homotherium mummy news might drag some people to my comic so I'm glad it did lolol)
Smilodon was also likely very ambush dependent, being too bulky for pursuits even as long as modern lions. Disruptive colouration could have helped with this even in fairly open habitats. This is actually why I gave the Ice Fangs very faint stripes; high contrast tiger striping didn't make much sense, but breaking up the outline a little couldn't be a bad thing even in a steppe environment. I also didn't want them completely solid because there are actual lions to differentiate cx
#just as an FYI our yard is cat-proofed which is why Fat Tilly is outside with me here (she also couldn't run off if she tried bc she old)#she's not free roaming- im an enviro tech and am STRONGLY against free roaming cats#just wanted that to be clear in case anyone was wondering/concerned cx#mammothask#roseate-felidae#paleo stuff#pav chatter#ooc ask#sabertooth#clangen#homotherium#smilodon#mammothclan#sabercat#fleet fang#ice fang#tuft tail#piebald#white cat gold plains#kindred of the mammoth#fat tilly#cat#all these asks lately really are just “trap card activated- hyperfocus”#i will get to the “clangen comic advice” ask! soon! i think!#long post
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still kinda not over ichiro taking a bite out of his hamburger in the leaders bonus hypster track and going 'it's so good!! it tastes really meaty!!' lmao
#vee queued to fill the void#ichiro's been shown to be somewhat neglectful towards himself when it comes to food lol#he knows what tastes good to have made the world class yamada curry tho despite not having the vocabulary for it lol#and that's the most important part tbh lol tho i kinda wonder if he workshopped it with anybody 🤔#like in that dod chapter where samatoki gives ichiro his new home and business lol before daddy samatoki showed up#the bros were all eating convenience store bento boxes which means none of them were cooking for each other yet#and that might be consequence of their living space at the time lol but what if after the upgrade#ichiro felt more obligated to cook for his bros so they could grow well with good food and needed advice on cooking lol#i think it'd be cute if nmcd all got together to help ichiro learn to cook is what i'm saying lol#equally as cute is if the bros got together and taught themselves (tho that may have been a trainwreck lol)#but jiro and saburo both describe the yamada curry as ichiro's so that tells me it's usually an ichiro recipe#but anyway samatoki learned to bake for his sister ichiro would definitely be the same mindset#but let's give ichiro more happy moments associated with food like kuukou's lowkey already been trying to do lol#and have all his friends workshop the recipe with him 🥺🥺🥺#vee is arting#save for that kuukou comic this is the last of my art backlog lol#which means no more art for another three months or sumn lmao 😭😭😭😭😭😭#(i need to promise to myself to not go that long without drawing again lol 😭😭😭😭😭)
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