#won't i ?

[maudiemoods]

If life is a never ending loop of dirty dishes and laundry then that means life is a never ending loop of home cooked meals and comfy clean clothes

[werecreature-addicted]

people are always like "Oh a vampire wouldn't get horny while drinking someone's blood, that's like getting horny while eating a sandwich" and like man have you never had a really good fucking sandwich?

[kenapiece-main]

Can you believe I'm having to make this meme even after successfully finishing up taxes and applying to job

[theblob1958]

people are saying do it scared, but you also gotta do it alone. you'll miss out on so much you want to do if you wait til someone will do it with you. do it scared and do it alone.

[santay]

why yes I AM making boop gifs from screen recording

[mroddmod]

out of context meme of an au i'm cooking

[soaptaculart]

The cat and the dad she said she "didn't want"

[lesamis]

are you a Byron or Wilde apologist?

concerned citizens from 1895 are messaging me

[everchased]

THAT one's goin on the list too now!

[sabertoothwalrus]

modern au laios

[lazylittledragon]

can't believe we're all adults being forced into the club penguin level of censorship in 2024

[jinxpologist]

just wanted to say that i'm seeing headlines everywhere say "floridians rejected an amendment to secure abortion rights" and that is NOT TRUE.

we voted ~57% to enshrine abortion rights in the florida constitution. amendments for our state require a supermajority, aka 60% to pass. this is bullshit and we were set up to fail.

the entire time, our governor Ron Desantis' officials were pressuring and threatening media outlets for publishing anything supporting this amendment.

don't believe the bullshit headlines. floridians wanted abortion rights.

[hashtagloveloses]

should you delete twitter and get bluesky? (or just get a bluesky in general)? here's what i've found:

yes. my answer was no before bc the former CEO of twitter who also sucked, jack dorsey, was on the board, but he left as of may 2024, and things have gotten a lot better. also a lot of japanese and korean artists have joined

don't delete your twitter. lock your account, use a service to delete all your tweets, delete the app off of your phone, and keep your account/handle so you can't be impersonated.

get a bluesky with the same handle, even if you won't use it, also so you won't be impersonated.

get the sky follower bridge extension for chrome or firefox. you can find everyone you follow on twitter AND everyone you blocked so you don't have to start fresh: https://skyfollowerbridge.com/

learn how to use its moderation tools (labelers, block lists, NSFW settings) so you can immediately cut out the grifters, fascists, t*rfs, AI freaks, have the NSFW content you want to see if you so choose, and moderate for triggers. here's a helpful thread with a lot of tools.

the bluesky phone app is pretty good, but there is also tweetdeck for bluesky, called https://deck.blue/ on desktop, if you miss tweetdeck.

bluesky has explicitly stated they do not use your data to train generative AI, which is nice to hear from an up and coming startup. obviously we can’t trust these companies and please use nightshade and glaze, but it’s good to hear.

[lullambii]

Day 7 of #Veiltober - Davrin Griffon Daddy.

[twominutests]

3am ponders

usually I don't think about these days, all the bittersweet memories between 2022-2024. All those people, all the *love* between everyone. It seems like such a unique experience, because it taught me what forgiveness looks like. it taught me how to love you and love myself.

I left because I was so fearful of that love, that sharp sensation which develops first as tingles down your spine and grows out to fill in every crevasse. the type which makes you forgive and forget all your own impurities, because all you can think about is *them*.

I wonder if we would still know each other if I had coped? I wonder if these thoughts would be flooding someone's dms instead of filling out a hollow page? I wonder if I could have been taught how my behaviour reoccurs, and reoccurs... and how each time, I feel more broken than the last.

I think about how each event causes me to linger on the past - on the *before*. There's such a sense of unknowing in me, a longing for those days to come back. Because all I want right now, is to have those sweet late night calls, all the photos and videos, and most importantly... you. because this night causes me to linger on my past mistakes. no matter how far I run, I cannot outrun my past. it always catches up, and it always wins this stupid fight with myself.

and i consider,

I should have admitted my fears to you, to the ones I loved. Instead, I lied and lashed out, I lied to your face and to all the people who had followed and listened to me. I scorned, I stated I loved elsewhere, I stated I had changed myself and never told you.

did you know it was all a lie?

because i never stopped loving, I just grew afraid of what was to come,

so I took it upon myself, to remove the 'problem',

that problem was never you