#wolandsexual

[aspecpridecalendar]

Happy Pride to all wolandsexuals!

Wolandsexual - an identity where one's varying degree of sexual attration is due to their disability or chronic illness.

Related: wolandromantic, wolandplatonic

[gabbermutt]

ok so,,, i made these flags and since deleted the original post, and noticed that some people still use these flags and no one knows i made them! so here’s the official woland- flags repost

all terms coined by @anarchoenby77 in this post

Wolandsexual: “due to your disability and/or chronic illness, you feel varying degrees of sexual attraction simply due to pain and/or spoons.”

Wolandromantic: "due to your disability and/or chronic illness, you feel varying degrees of romantic attraction simply due to pain and/or spoons."

Wolandplatonic: "due to your disability/chronic illness, you seek out trusted platonic partners who will not be ableist and do not demand sexual and/or romantic commitment (although they may apply given pain and/or spoons).”

[plato-repulsed-culture-is]

Plato repulsed and having chronic fatigue culture is the way you can't expend too much energy without consequences making friendship extremely unappealing to you, especially when hanging out with ex friends was extremely tiring and fucked up your physical health afterwards

[This is about physical disability and plato repulsion. Do not derail or make "suggestions"/give unsolicited advice about how to engage in friendship even with chronic fatigue, thats not what this post is about.]

[1tz-4ll-m3]

Happy Valentine’s Day to Aspecs!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Aromantics/Asexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Grayromantics/Graysexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Demiromantics/Demisexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Frayromantics/Fraysexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Coeoromantics/Coeosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Fearomantics/Feasexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Abnoromantics/Abnosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Zinniaros/Zinniaces!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Arofluxs/Acefluxs!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Arofluids/Acefluids!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Arospikes/Acespikes!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Arojumps/Acejumps!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Hyperfluxromantics/Hyperfluxsexuals!

Happy Valentines Day, Aegoromantics/Aegosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Fictoromantics/Fictosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Cupioromantics/Cupiosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Orchidromantics/Orchidsexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Bellusromantics/Bellusexuals!

Happy Valentines Day, Lotusromantics/Lotussexuals!

Happy Valentines Day, Recipromantics/Reciprosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Lithroromantics/Lithrosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Dreamromantics/Dreamsexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Voidromantics/Voidsexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Placioromantics/Placiosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Iamvanoromantics/Iamvanosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Quoiromantics/Quoisexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Arodependants/Acedependants!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Abroromantics/Abrosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Autoromantics/Autosexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Caedromantics/Caedsexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Requisromantics/Requissexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Wolandromantics/Wolandsexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Nebularomantics/Nebulasexuals!

Happy Valentine’s Day, Myrromantics/Myrsexuals!

Remember Valentine’s Day is not just for romantic/sexual relationships and feelings! Celebrate your love for anything! Wether that be your friends, your family, yourself or your favorite anything! Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about love either! Celebrate your admiration for whatever and whoever you admire!

[aquariumsysurls]

Pixal flag Dump!!

Verian/Almondsexual

For People who are usually only attracted to Men/Masc aligned genders & Nonbinary/Adrogynous aligned genders but occasionally feel a little attraction to Women/Fem genders.

by By Ace ☆ Ren on Pinterest

Genderfaunet

A gender identity based off of genderfaun and a form of genderfluidity. genderfaunet is when someone never feels completely female. they can switch between male, nonbinary, and even female gender identities as long as they don't feel completely female. for example they can feel like a demigirl, or librafeminine, but not 100% female. (coined by Ram on tumblr, Flag mabe by BitzOfPuzzelPeices on wiki)

Quaromantic

An Aromantic Identity, and subset of Cavaeromantic, when one feels strong alterous and/or exteramo attraction in place of where romantic attraction would be. An alternative way to describe it is if one's alterous and/or exteramo attraction takes the role of where romantic attraction would be. One way to Visualize it would be if there was various holes in the ground for where each attraction is suppose to contain. the hole that was meant to contain romantic attraction, instead was filled in with strong alterous and/or exteramo attraction. (By ConfusedAsHecc on Reddit)

Wolandsexual

An Orientation on the asexual spectrum in which one feels varying degrees if sexual attraction due to one's disability and/or chronic illness. This can be due to pain and/or (lack of) Spoons. (by Sapphire Crimson-Claw on tumblr)

Nomaromantic

The romantic attraction to all genders except binary man. The term was made with non-binaries in mind but binaries can use it. (by 50wives on Tumblr)

Non-Human Loving Woman Flag

(by Squidthing on tumblr)

Spiralline

An umbrella term with themes of madness, distrusting your senses, unreality, deception, and paradoxes. It has ties to fractal, impossible geometry, mazes, and spiral imagery. This gender may be either terrifying or comforting to the user, but always has an element of fear. This identity may be associated to one's psychotic symptoms, but doesn't have to be. It feels as though you're losing your mind, unable to tell what's real, but knowing something isn't right. Reality has no meaning, as you can't tell where your perceptions end and the "true" world begins. It may feel like you're a paradox of infinite possibility, each spiraling out into endless forms that make you lose yourself in their complexity (Inspired by the Spiral from The Magnus Archives.) (by Cherrymogai on tumblr)

Shapeshifterkin

For those who Identify as a Shapeshifter

By redactedterms on tumblr

Assigned Moth at Birth

(by Gender-Darling on tumblr)

Angel4Angel

(By Squidbxy on tumblr)

Demon4Demon

(By Squidbxy on tumblr)

Demon4Angel

(By Squidbxy on tumblr)

Dragon4Dragon

(By Squidbxy on tumblr)

[daybreakthing]

Hey hey! Too anxious to talk off anon so I hope this is ok! For the 'attraction because one is disabled' post, I found 'Woland' (specifically wolandsexual but I assume it can be applied to any attraction https://queerdom.fandom.com/wiki/Wolandsexual) . Not sure if that's exactly what you're all going for, but it's a start :D I can do more looking too!

it is a start! we're lookin for something that's more like, the reason you feel that type of attraction is because you're disabled; thank you for lookin though :3 !

[acore-ballt]

you ever featured wolandsexual? I coined it in 2017, and someone on Twitter (I forget who, sorry) redid the flag

I don't use Twitter. Could you give the definition?

[themogaidragon]

Nopotasexual

PT: Nopotasexual /end PT

Nopotasexual/Nopo-Asexual/Nopo-Ace: a micro-label on the asexual spectrum defined as someone who has many allosexual qualities and feelings but a physical or mental incapability to perform sexual activities despite a desire to.

This may present itself in many forms. A nopotasexual person may have a strong desire to have a sexual relationship, have sexual fantasies and interest, have drive and arousal, and some may even have intercourse at one time or another, but they may not be able to experience any pleasure, feel physically repulsed or in pain, or feel that they simply cannot have sex even if they want to. Although this is more specific to incapability, these cons can make a nopotasexual person feel they will not have sex even if they someday can. A nopotasexual person can experience any form of romantic attraction entirely separate from their asexuality and also identify with other asexual labels.

Some examples may include:

A person with vaginismus or a similar dyspareunia who wants to pursue a sexual relationship but is too physically pained to do so.

A person with a mental condition that makes them feel scared of or repulsed by sex though at other times they desire it.

A person who tries to have intercourse or self acts but finds it does not physically please them or bring them any satisfaction.

A person who simply has a perceived incapability to have sex but is still sex-favorable.

This term can be very similar to terms like caedsexual, neuroasexual, and wolandsexual, and people who identify as those may also identify as nopotasexual. The difference, however, is that someone who is nopotasexual may not have a diagnosable or definable reason for their asexuality. They may have, for instance, trauma that hampered their ability to have sex but not know of this trauma. They may have a sex disorder but not a chronic illness. Some may not have a reason at all for not experiencing pleasure.

This term was coined on March 19th, 2021 by FANDOM user R0swell and the flags finished on March 24th, 2021 by the same user.

[emperorofnowhereland]

I'm grayrose, aka gray-aroace. Some of the labels I use are:

Wolandsexual/romantic **self coin**

ARCromantic

Noetisexual/romantic

Alexiromantic

Where my arospec people at. Because I'm Quoiromantic and I wanna talk about platonic relationships with them.

[aspecpridecalendar]

Updated 2024 Themes

At long last, here is the updated list - thanks for your patience! A few quick notes: ~(All times in CST) Two-post days will go up at 12 pm and 6 pm. Three-post days will be 12 pm, 3 pm, and 6 pm. The days with friendship/sex/romance stances will post every 90 minutes between 8 am and 5 pm. ~Most flags and descriptions come from or are based on LGBTQIA+ Wiki pages. ~Not all of these identities/experiences are exclusive to aspecs, but because this blog is dedicated to aspec identities and experiences, the shoutout posts will be addressed as such. (I.e. "Happy pride to all sex-repulsed aspecs!" when one needen't necessarily be ace or aspec at all to identify as such.)

Aspec, Anattractional

Atertiary, Requiessexual

Requisromantic, Wolandsexual

Aplflux, Idemromantic

Aroacespec, Electio aroace, Unit aroace

Aroqueer, Questian

Friendship-favorable, Friendship-indifferent, Friendship-averse, Friendship-repulsed, Friendship-ambivalent, Friendship-oscillating, Friendship-drained

Dreadsexual, Dreadromantic

Unisexual, Uniromantic

Caligoromantic, Caligosexual

Iamvanosexual, Placiosexual

Myrsexual, Myrromantic

Apothiattraction, Athenian

Eroscurious, Amoracurious

Mono-spec, Polyaspec

Acevague, Arovague, Aplvague

Sex-favorable, Sex-indifferent, Sex-averse, Sex-repulsed, Sex-ambivalent, Sex-oscillating, Sex-drained

Aemotional, Aphysical, Ansthetic

Analterous, Aqueerplatonic, Asensual

Alicosexual, Alicoromantic

Anovelaean, Agneasian

Arosexual, Aceromantic/Ace Loving Ace

Romance-favorable, Romance-indifferent, Romance-averse, Romance-repulsed, Romance-ambivalent, Romance-oscillating, Romance-drained

Cassexual, Cassromantic

Repulsusexual, Telesexual

Encephaloromantic, Encephasexual

Intrumantic, Intrusexual

Meroromantic, Merosexual

Deligoromantic, Deligosexual

Juxtaromantic, Pauciace

[genderstalgia]

seashells for @felisdae-n-honey ! 🐚

twotimic, magiboy, wolandsexual

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

is there a gender or sexuality regarding ptsd? or autism? or chronic pain, or physical disability? im dfab and feel masculine but not a man, and not a woman, but sometimes it fluctuates.

Caedogender/Caedgender: A gender which has been “cut away” by a traumatic event. A gender that was once felt but has been damaged or lost due to trauma.

Caed-/Caedo-: a feeling that one was previously able to experience a particular kind of attraction, but that ability was lost due to trauma or other negative events.

Corugender/Flashgender: a gender identity that changes during and around flashbacks. For use by people with PTSD or other mental illnesses causing flashbacks only.

Magismetum-/Magis-: becoming more attracted when scared. Exclusive to those with anxiety/ptsd/a pd/any mental illness that causes extreme fear. A neurodivergent orientation.

Minusmetum-/Minus-: becoming less attracted when scared. Exclusive to those with anxiety/ptsd/a pd/any mental illness that causes extreme fear. A neurodivergent orientation.

Autigender: A gender which can only be understood in the context of being autistic.

Fascigender: A gender experience largely related to a special interest; for autistic folk.

Echo-: when you only feel attraction to people that you see as extensions of yourself/that you are an extension of them due to neurodivergence, namely difficulty in expressing empathy, or empathy deficits, such as in NPD/ASPD/Autism and extreme attachment and desire to be engulfed by a depended/favorite person, such as in BPD/DPD.

Algiagender: a gender which changes depending on your pain levels or type of pain being felt. Only for those with chronic pain.

Wolandgender: A gender which is experienced only as a response to chronic pain or disability, or a gender experience which is changed, heightened or suppressed due to the experience of chronic pain or disability (intended primarily for use by chronically ill or disabled candidates, but could of course be used by candidates temporarily finding their gender experience altered due to pain).

Woland-: due to your disability and/or chronic illness, you feel varying degrees of attraction simply due to pain and/or spoons.

As for your last one, perhaps something like Mascfluid or Mascflux?

[mogai-monsters-and-more]

NAME: Beach Ball

PALETTE: Wolandsexual

MONSTER: A friendly guy who likes to hang out at the beach! Invite him to play beach ball with you (though he might end up running off with the ball).

[transmxnfenris]

After reading a lot about self-objectification I am now a lot more certain as to the fact that that explains a LOT and am now certain that I don’t actually feel that much sexual attraction and how to define my sexual attraction - cos minute the self-objectification I feel a combination of: Demi, aego, and placio. (Which simply means I get sexual attraction after close bond is formed, but only the desire to act on them not receive... and also sex in 3rd person and fiction is v v good.) also woland cause I’m 100% asexual when fibro is being fibro

But I think trauma has made me more self objectification without wanting to be so is their a term for sexuality affected by trauma idk. I’m also totally repulsed by my self objectification and me being seen as sexual makes me feel sick.

[neopronouns]

are you able to help me find a term? it’s something along the lines of a sexuality that fluctuates based on the “spoons” an individual has. it was related to being disabled too? the flag had liek. yellow on it and the wheelchair symbol. it also started with a w and i believe i found it on tumblr. sorry if this is too vague or you don’t know

sounds like wolandsexual!