#why is that SO hard to comprehend
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when the show slaps you in the face with something but apparently not hard enough!
#hi did u know there were no black ppl in Edwardian marriages#screaming#marriage is an institution btw whereby you are molded to fit its structure even if that is not your designated role outside of the marriage#why is that so hard to comprehend#like you can be girl boss ceo outside the home but the nuclear family forces you to be what it needs you to be in the home#the whole dealio with marriage is it doesn't care who you are in society!!#who you subordinate outside the home doesn't affect who subordinates YOU in the home
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trying not to get too mad that the glossary of terms for peoples identities in my volunteer training--like most people--got the definition of pansexual wrong. again.
#personal#ATTRACTION 👏🏻 !!REGARDLESS!! 👏🏻 OF 👏🏻 GENDER 👏🏻#why is that SO hard to comprehend#it is not ''attraction to all genders'' or ''i'm secretly a transphobe''#when i used to call myself pan... it's bc i can be attracted to a person for reasons other than their GODDAMN GENDER
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i swear to fucking god if dynamo doesn't get a new kit next season im going to scream
the stupid kit it has now does NOTHING for it. absolutely nothing. "of you just aren't using your sub!" WHY WOULD I?????? why would i throw it down??????? so it can be DISAPPOINTING?? so it can BREAK 2 seconds later??? such a fucking joke
"maybe it can help you charge your special!!" oh yeah, that special that does not help me at all in most situations. what happens when the snipers are on my ass huh?? i can respawn faster???? so they can just shoot me again?????? shut up actually
im sure the kit is good on SOME weapon, but on DYNAMO?? might as well just not even press the sub button, because its more useful to conserve your ink for swings instead of a dinky little sprinkler that isnt going to help me at all. maybe the tacticooler could be useful for my TEAMMATES, but when im getting spawn camped by some chargers because my sub weapon cant counter them at all? its useless.
maybe this seems a little dramatic and over the top but im seriously so tired of getting my ass kicked by chargers and splatlings every match i play because the devs have their heads up their asses. is it really so hard to give it a kit that works??? a bomb and a decent special that can counter longer range weapons, thats all im asking for.
#splatoon 3#ranting#they've been treating dynamo so fucking dirty#literally all i want is to have fun playing your game splatoon devs#why is that so hard to comprehend#please tell me other dynamo mains feel this way too#gold dynamo in splatoon 2 was AMAZING. why cant we have an amazing dynamo in splatoon 3 hmm?????
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Guys I just found the most hateful Interior Desecration of a Victorian house in Eastern MA
Brace yourselves
Exterior:
Oooh! Pretty! Two-family! Nice molding! Little side porch!
Interior:
I should be legally allowed to kill people who do things like this, I think
(And before anyone starts in with their strawman nonsense, no, this is not a case of “but it’s all someone could afford!!! They were tragically forced to buy a gorgeous Victorian house when they wanted a modern prisonscape, because the market in their area works that way!!! Even though they somehow could find enough money to do an entire interior renovation!!!” it’s a rental property)
#old houses#interiors#Victorian#hateful#like was it probably already gutted to some degree in the 1950s? yes#but I find it incredibly hard to believe it was so extreme that what they did didn’t take out some original features#I just cannot comprehend why the hell you would put that interior with that exterior#what kind of sick twisted person do you have to be#to look at that building and think “BEIGE OPEN CONCEPT’
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one thing i really appreciate about jinshi's character is how he has NEVER once actually had any intention of succeeding the throne. every time the idea is brought up he immediately detests it. so hes giving maomao as much as he possibly can, even though maomao has many qualms about it due to their difference in social status, but jinshi DOESNT CARE because hes NEVER cared about or wanted the status of crown prince! its been nothing but a burden to him! from his perspective the ONLY thing keeping the two of them apart are outside influences. he has no doubt within himself-- hes horribly down bad, in fact. but unfortunately his stupid JOB is getting in the way of him skipping off into the sunset with his favourite little cat
#jinshi literally maiming himself infront of the emperor and empress: ��can you please fire me so i can marry the girl of my dreams”#emperor: “no. now go to the west capital relatively unsupervised with the girl of your dreams andpromise REAL HARD u wont something stupid”#also not to mention i think maomaos problem isnt that she doesnt want to marry jinshi bc she doesnt care about him-- she cares abt him A LO#which is precisely why shes convinced herself she cant marry him. she wants whats best for him and#she wholeheartedly believes that marrying her is the EXACT OPPOSITE of whats best for him.#like she has. yknow. not the prettiest of backgrounds. growing up in a brothel might do that to you#shes mentioned before- shes basically a commoner. she has her biologicaldad but hes more of a wildcard selfmade man with no real connection#and she doesnt even like him.#but she just CANNOT comprehend that someone would sacrifice so much for her and ask for nothing in return but her company#i just love them a lot your honour.#the apothecary diaries#the apothecary diaries spoilers#for the anime/manga onlies#READ THE LIGHT NOVEL#kusuriya no hitorigoto#kusuriya no hitorigoto spoilers
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Very cool and not heartbreaking at all for the PJO show to emphasize that Percy is an outsider not only because he's new to the whole demigod thing, but also because he doesn't know the rules of being a traumatized kid with all the daddy/mommy issues possible
#Percy all the time: wait I treated them with kindness and didn't do anything bad#why am I not being treated kindly in return#absolutely everyone else: why on earth would you be entitled to basic human decency?#(and for the kids it's 1000% down to trauma and how they've been raised#so many of the foster kiddos I work with do the same thing#they either have to be so good and perfect (Clarisse and annabeth) that they can't be ignored which works until the parent moves#the goalpost and they're left in the dust with a perfect report card that doesn't get them a second glance#or they have to be so bad that their parents have to intervene (Luke) because#and say it with me folks#bad attention is the same as good attention if it's the only kind you ever get!!#watching this and revisiting TLT specifically has been crazy because they're kids who have been removed from home at their core#that's what our main cast of demigods are#all the year-round kids are removed from home and Percy's ability to go back home and love it just as much as he loves camp is something#that separates him throughout the series#he has a safe place to land during the TLO summer and he's using it and no one else seems to have that#Percy has a stupidly hard life but he has a home base to go to and most of those kids can't even comprehend that as an option#Percy's home is his greatest strength and it'll also forever be something that sets him apart from his peers#I just have thoughts on pjo and foster kids guys#silence emily#percy jackson#pjo tv#I'm arguing this isn't even a spoiler because it's been a running theme. fight me
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I think people tend to forget that the reason Remus wasn't chosen to be the secret keeper for the Potters because Sirius didn't trust him.
At that point Peter wasn't chosen because he was the least conspicuous, but because he was the least suspicious.
All the order knew at that point was that there was a mole in their midst and Remus and Dumbledore suspected it was Sirius because he was a Black and Sirius thought it was Remus because he was a werewolf.
For both of them the rest of their kind was on Voldemort's side and the war had put them on edge.
That incident was meant to showcase the lack of trust in the Marauders during the war. It's meant to be a tragedy that in resorting to the prejudice and thus placing their trust in someone who was actually untrustworthy. You can't tell me James or Sirius were closer to Peter when they made the decision of who is to be the secret keeper.
#marauders#james potter#lily evans#sirius black#remus lupin#peter pettigrew#im done#thank you for coming to my ted talk#Also as a side note for the wolfstar fandom (which I am sadly not a part of because of it's blatant James erasure)#what I mean is even if wolfstar was a thing when they were at hogwarts#it definitely wasn't by the time James and Lily died#i promise i dont hate wolfstar#just dont forget james exists#james can still be sirius' best friend if he is gay#why is this so hard to comprehend#sirius is gay#james is still his best friend
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one of the most frustrating things about reading naruto meta is that every now and then you'll run into a post that's absolutely brilliantly thought out, has stupendous points, and pulls out all the stops on almost every level....
and you just have to stop and wonder how someone can simultaneously be so good at media analysis and so fucking bad at accepting that sometimes authors just cannot and/or will not write female characters on any level
#naruto#naruto shippuden#fandom crit#like how do you manage to process so much multi-layered political ninja stuff#and yet fail to comprehend that sometimes media has misogyny in it#sometimes male authors are simply sexist#bc there are people in this world who can understand the intricacies of the political minefield#but not the concept of women being human beings with the same levels of complexity as men#how do you write so much genuinely incredible and well-thought out meta#and yet still manage to come to the conclusion that a fictional 12yo girl is responsible for how a real life adult man wrote her#like. ?????????#''why didn't [insert girl here] just do [insert thing here]'' bc the author fundamentally does not view women as people next question#like out of all the things in the world of media that are hard to understand#how is ''sexism exists and you see it sometimes'' so high on that list#like ok it's been a while since high school but i thought ''the author's views color their work'' was media literacy 101
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i just rewatched the rapture ohhhhh my god. such a good episode the jimmy stuff is actually fucking horrifying somehow even worse remembering claire grows up to be a hunter. then dean and bobby at the end locking sam in the panic room oh i hope they suffer. forever. he shouldve never spoken to their asses again
#im watching with my mom and she is having none of it. she was like BUT SAM SAVED THE DAY??? MORE PEOPLE WOULDVE DIED OTHERWISE#and as soon as sam and dean started talking in the car she was like Why is dean always so mean to him???#so true girl… you would do numbers on here#literally what good did it even serve. he gets OUT. they dont know he’s addicted they dont know anything it’s literally just because dean#sees sam drink blood and he freaks out and somehow thinks he has the right to fucking trick him and lock him up god im so mad….#can u imagine. i just dont think their relationship ever got over that. imagine knowing someone would do that to you#dean in s2 is all Omg i can’t kill sam :((( but he still accepts the idea that it’s his choice whether to do so. that all decisions about#sam are dean’s to make. dean can kill him if he wants. dean gets to lock him up if he misbehaves. it is harrowing!!!#the panic room is literally a punishment like there is NO reason why detoxing needed to be that hard#dean could’ve been with him talking to him it could’ve been something they approached together there are so many ways#he could’ve gone about it which still would’ve been fucked but would’ve been so much less worse#i literally cannot comprehend how you watch this show and come away thinking sam and dean are on equal footing#they hardly are from the start and they certainly arent after season 4.#after that stunt sam could kill dean and i’d support him#spn#oliver talks#sam winchester#sam & dean#spn s4
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hey so do you think wtv keiko had to deal with growing up with yusuke could be considered a type of parentification
#god chapters where barely anything happens except a character's realization about things can be hard ...#im writing another keiko pov chapter and it's hard because well!!#keiko was never really a main focus in the series and as time goes on she gets even less of a focus so i have to fill in these spots#in her personality and views that aren't really explored. im taking a lot of liberties lets say#and idek if it's gonna read as in character cos of that#anyway im tryna say that like. pre series keiko was basically this presence in yusuke's life and he saw her as a pain but he cared#she was there to scold him and cajole him into going to his classes and she was his only friend#now we know atsuko was negligent and idk how involved the yukimuras were in his life but i feel like keiko#whether directly or indirectly was given this duty like you have to keep him outta trouble#you're smart you're mature he needs someone like you. this responsibility just kind of put on her before she can understand the weight of i#and she can't really comprehend that weight until it's abruptly taken from her. yusuke dies and there's no one to shepherd#i feel like keiko should get to be mad about this. this realization of the nature of their dynamic. keiko planning things around yusuke#who's never done that in his life. not because he's purposely being thoughtless but bc he was never the one to have to plan#to think about what their future looks like. he just kinda drifted along and keiko tried to do damage control. it wasn't fair#yusuke is keeping secrets from her she is scared of high school and that he'll die again without her knowing why and it's unfair#so she should get to be mad also because girls getting to be mad is one of my favorite things 👍🏼#the realization that yusuke won't be lost without her so she shouldn't hinge her life on the expectation that he will be#she worries about yusuke a lot i think. especially after he comes back from the dead. and i think kuwa's presence would help ease that#dread in her heart. it doesn't have to be just me. there's someone who can be there with him always and it doesn't have to be me#the guilty relief of not having to be the sacrifice. but kuwa doesn't mind so maybe it's okay this way#idk just rambles about my fic while i puzzle out how to word it#character analysis#yukimura keiko#yu yu hakusho
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Just the way Shin Tsukimi’s “mask off” moment is him becoming increasingly frustrated to the point of having a nervous breakdown where all he can do is laugh maniacally because he’s so done with everyone acting so incompetent and not seeing things “as they are” (aka how he sees them) is just. Mwah chefs kiss hes just like me fr 😰
#yttd#shin tsukimi#like guys you just cant comprehend the ways in which we are the same guy#in the good ways and the bad ways#cuz like god this is exactly how id feel in the same situation literally exactly#it IS how i feel constantly and its an infuriating experience when its like#it feels like you hold the inherent truth like you see something no one else can and you try so fucking hard to explain it#you dumb it down as much as possible but no one will listen to you even though youre trying your best and so you just lose it#and you just sit on your high chair all alone cuz why bother talking when youre clearly the only competent one here#and its so real because shin is like. justified for the most part! he DOES know shit that no one else does!#no one can see how dangerous sara is or how stupid it is to put all this blind trust in her and he doesnt get that it makes no logical sense#but to everyone else sara is just a nice smart girl who wants to help so why wouldnt they trust her?#and hes just so like stuck in his ways about it and believes it so strongly and why wouldnt he? he knows the statistics#and he knows he himself is weak its all hes ever believed about himself#god like. that scene just means so much to me lol i relate so hard it hurts#and its hard to know when youre justified in your beliefs and when youre talking nonsense it all feels the same#and you dont WANT to be an ass you want to understand truly but you literally cant comprehend being that stupid#im so glad this character exists man
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on a note to all: my plotting style is something i like to call i have adhd and if i see you on the dash and have an idea chances are i’ll im you about it. i’m an anxious little dude who isn’t always active in a broad scope, and it’s always been my nature to reach out to people. that doesn’t make me even remotely anxious. not even remotely expected to answer me — i totally get it, sometimes you don’t feel the vibe — but a general psa about how i work. i come from the dinosaur era where the only way to communicate with one another on any level was to directly talk to them and frankly i don’t even know how else you’re ever supposed to plot with a person otherwise. like… how do you write if you never talk????
#CLAWS RETRACTED.#[honest to god this isn’t shade at anyone im literally just trying to explain i am never on the dash and when i am i take handfuls of rando#snapshots to send to whoever’s in my scope at that second. which is i know ridiculous but when you’re me and you’re mobile 100% of the time#because the other 75% you’re doing everything for everyone in your life it becomes exceedingly hard to WANT to stare at a laptop screen.#even if im home im 100% mobile most of the time. basically what im saying is: as an rper i will totally drop into your im’s randomly if#something strikes my fancy. if that’s not your bag i totally get it. the plotting call life has never been mine to own. a lot of the time#it’ll be a person likes it and then you reach out and it turns into ‘haha neither of us have an idea’ which then kills the whole thing.#hence why -i- tend to approach especially if you reblog something or wishlist it and it crosses my path. like. im so happy to try almost an#anything someone wants to give a shot so long as you feel like playing ping pong with me about it. I’ve always been an exceedingly social#person because i just… love people. and for a person literally exploding with anxiety… I don’t do anxiety about talking to people. I USED#to long ago until I LITERALLY forced myself to just… not give a fuck. but honestly? do it scared and now it’s just fucking do it. I#apologize in advance if I can be a pain in the ass and if it’s not your dig I comprehend an unfollow. im a very involved and interested#writer and frankly it’s how I keep myself able to enjoy this hobby by not making it too serious. like. sometimes I read someone’s rules and#im like Jesus Christ I would love to remember all of this but my brain only has so much ram. idk when the big invisible book of online#etiquette was written but I must have been sleeping in class for that one.]
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#im in such a bad and low mood :<#it's not just my period hormones 🥴#my wireless headphones worked fine all of yesterday and today when i wake up they're blinking#they're liked fucked up... i turn them off but they constantly turn themselves back on. when i connect them to my ipad they constantly#keep disconnecting and shutting off and turning on 🙃 it makes me so angry bc i need to wear them basically all the time#bc all the noise from neighbors and my family and outside is driving me crazy#but they just dont work anymore?? plus i cant afford new ones... esp now which brings me to my next point#bc of my mom having troubles w school and loans and work etc she was like yeah u guys might have to pay for me this summer so we'll be#proper poor 😄 she doesnt WANT that either but it just sucks bc i got $300 every month and i can barely afford anything as is#yeah so there is no chance of me buying new headphones until at least august or september ......#then im annoyed bc my sisters are passive aggressive 24/7 and hate my existence and my mom is depressed lol#and i have no one to talk to or be with. it's summer and i wanna do stuff but i just dont wanna do it alone lmao#and then im just sad bc of many things.....#also i hate myself bc im a loser failure piece of shit but like yeah that's normal for me to feel#i just hate everything and it's so hard to endure this lame ass existence skskskskks#why cant ANYTHING be good ever in my life??#i am garbage and im surrounded by bad things lmao... anyways can i just stop breathing now pls#and it's not just a 'tiny' thing like my headphones not working like it might seem to others#but when u live a life where NOTHING is good or NOTHING works everything just piles on#ppl dont seem to understand that normally bc most ppl have some good things in their lives#so they just cannot comprehend what it's like when nothing works on any level in your life lok#ofc im depressed ofc im angry and bitter and dejected. i have no good things or moments at all in my life. that tears u down#i mean ofc i could be living in an active warzone and that'd be .. pretty awful i can imagine. but yeah... my situation is still not ideal#like i mean i do actually try to practice gratitude of having a roof over my head my own room water in the pipes and food so i dont starve#i am thankful for that bc many ppl dont even have that#i still feel depressed tho <3#idk what im talking abt now i just feel SO bad and i have no one to talk to#i have nothing to do... no help no treatment... everyone hates me and wants me dead......#why should i fight when no one cares abt me anyway... well.. i mean i do wanna experience more nature but like idk#im just so exhausted... why cant i ever have smth good in my life that also dont go away after a short while lol
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sorry but i’m actually just gonna start blocking people who put zhuiling hate in tags bc yall will ship every incest ship in the book then trash on the one ship where they’re genuinely NOT related and it’s getting so fucking old
#like holy fuck i am TIRED of the hypocrisy fr#idk what’s so hard to understand about martial relationships too#are yall misreading it as marital or something???#JC and WWX aren’t blood related#LSZ isn’t WWX and LWJs son#LSZ isn’t blood related to literally anyone who isn’t a wen#LSZ and JL didn’t even grow up together#and no one who’s sane would ever call them cousins just like WWX was never seen as a sibling to JC & JYL#which is why both LSZs ‘adoption’ & him being JLs cousin are both headcanons#not canon#like i’m really so confused why that’s so difficult for people to comprehend??#apple babble 🍎#delete later#not starting drama either so don’t waste my time with any anti bullshit#so not in the mood
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I don't want fascism to be subtle but it's so damn obvious when you have nazis marching around and the cops barely glance their way, or even go out of their way to make room for them, while anyone else who chooses to exercise their right to protest, or even just stands near a protestor, is brutally assaulted and arrested by cops with tanks
and those Free Speech jack-offs are deadly silent
#its just so obvious its just hard to comprehend#or not hard to comprehend but just#is this really the world we're in#why can't it be better#I know people are trying but Jesus fucking christ
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i just dont get how i would be shot on twitter for saying i think all media and art should be accessible to everyone and free use forever. maybe bc we Do live in a capitalist society and some people are dependent on the income they get from commissions but even so youre literally not ever ever ever losing customers or having your property "stolen" from ai bots scraping data from your art or writing im sorry. we all need to care so much less about private property
#.txt#so you support free access (pirating) of media unless its Your media...okay#i domt get why its so hard to comprehend genuinely it makes me sad
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