#who are worth nobody's time

[ssaalexblake]

okay, small amendment. If you have to sign off on Any comment that may be positive to chibnall era dw to make it sound like oh Obviously it was all an accident because you don’t want your friends to get angry, you don’t need to sniff grass, you need better friends. 

You need Actual friends, to be frank.  

[dukeofthomas]

I'm so mad that so far the only good robin!jason content i've ever found is his original run. Everything i've seen since has just been making him out to be the Angry Bad Problem Child and victim blaming him for dying. How is it that the only fucking good characterization of him is 20 issues from the 1980s

[skunkes]

the bad: i have been raised without much warmth from my parents in childhood, but also pressured to conform to familial authority, doubt myself always, and value familial connections above all else (<- failed at this, and feel guilt about it.)

but also in experiencing this i have been so isolated from the entire rest of the world and others, that it will be nearly impossible to create my own "family" -> find safety and comfort in anybody else once my family is Gone. despite dis i find it really difficult to break away from the familiar, disobey and disappoint, because, well, why are my wishes more important than anybody else's. why would I cause upset and distress in anybody, and exert so much effort into my doubt filled half decisions, for my meaningless little Wishes. being away would also mean less time with these people who I'll never see again once they're gone. being raised this way is definitely paying off for those who did so.

the good: yaaaay adjacent inspiration for writing talon lore

[nbmudkip]

rehyperfixating on a children’s game that came out in 2015, is one of the least popular entries in its series, and has minimal content, the vast majority of which i’ve seen before. the series has been dead for nearly 10 years, nothing has happened recently that would warrant anyone’s returning interest in it, very few of my friends give a shit about this specific game, and those few who played and liked it in the past have no reason to give a shit about it at all right now. i have been coasting through on a playthrough i’ve been doing with a friend who’d never seen the game before and who was kind enough to let me show it to them, but we just beat the game, and after we play the epilogue we will have nothing left to do, and on top of that they really have just been humoring me as they have their own very strong current hyperfixation they would much rather be thinking about. also i am depressed enough right now that literally nothing else except for waiting to play this game with them and playing this game with them and watching them enjoy it at least a little has been able to briefly quiet the constant cacophony in my head screaming how much of a worthless, lazy, constantly-failing miserable excuse for a living person i am and how much better everything would be, especially for myself, if i stopped existing lately. would anyone like to volunteer to 🔨💥⚒️Kill Me With Hammers🔨💥⚒️ because i would really like for someone to 🔨💥⚒️Kill Me With Hammers🔨💥⚒️ right now

[dallonwrites]

actually making my tags from my last post into their own post. writers who struggle with grammar, spelling, typos, errors etc i love you. writers who struggle with rereading their stuff thoroughly no matter how much they try, who don't always have access to other people to help them read i love you. whilst reading through and checking for these things is good practice i really believe that the weight of it should not be put wholly on the writer's shoulders. especially writers who are neurodivergent, disabled, have any condition that can impede their reading + comprehension, are overworked and overtired, are not writing in their native language, list goes on....because grammar mistakes/language mistakes/typos have nothing to do with your abilities as a creative. this is where editors should be uplifting writers, helping them, not scrutinising them for something they cannot always control

[pigeonperch]

Mm. Okay. Thought I was kind of over this

[kavehater]

Chappel Roan saying she’s sad she’s demisexual and then there’s me being aroace as a whole like don’t you think I’m even more sad 😭

[magentagalaxies]

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[mariocki]

Death Weekend (The House by the Lake, 1976)

"They'll go away."

"They won't go away! Can't you see that? They're not gonna go away. For God's sake, can't you guess what they're gonna do next?"

[soomanymoths]

An apology passed on by Crinkles partner a while back. Posting bcs im not waiting another year for him to own up to his flock how horrendously he treated people. Redacted certain parts bcs im not entertaining excuses and reasoning as to why it was ok to treat his partner and "dear friend" like trash. The stuff i left in (biphobia etc) doesnt realistically make sense and should have never been taken out on me. Even if it did make sense, being nasty to a "friend" as a 30 year old over an oc is pretty goofy. He made his biphobia MY problem and thats inexcusable. He made all of his issues other peoples problems actually. Thats the entire situation imo. This doesnt cover the extent of how terrible crinkle treated people but i dont expect it will ever get better than this and im not waiting anymore

[aenslem]

he does look good on his knees 👀

[depresseddepot]

yeah okay. maybe it is actually all worth it

[luesmainblog]

Before you tell someone to KYS, consider:

would I want my family to know I sent this?

would I want my closest friends to see this?

would I tell my therapist what I'm about to say to this person?

If I would, how would they react?

Is this a healthy response to what I'm upset about? Is there a better way I could deal with this anger?

Is this illegal where I live/where this website is hosted?

If they actually go through with it, am I prepared to face the legal consequences? Is what I'm upset about worth doing time in jail, and spending the rest of my life knowing that I am responsible for another person's death?

Am I relying on the idea that this person will not retaliate if i act cruelly? Am I prepared for a callout post, report, or potentially getting harassment sent my way?

Hackers exist. Is what I'm mad about worth my account, data, or the possibility of being doxxed? It is always morally repugnant to tell someone to kill themselves, no matter how much you may feel they deserve it. But this isn't about morals. It is genuinely stupid and unsafe to do this, even if you own a decent VPN. And always remember: Tumblr has Filtering Tags for you to block what you don't want to see. If you find yourself angry, disgusted, or otherwise upset when you come across certain content, block the relevant tag and move on like a well-adjusted person. It's right there in your settings, under your birthday.

(potentially relevant tumblr tip: the For You dashboard notoriously sucks, and you'll be blocking a lot more people and tags if you rely on it. Use the Tag Search or the Tags to find posts and blogs that you like, then follow them and use the Following dashboard so that you only see things from people you trust to give good stuff.)

[kkoct-ik]

i think i might be loved

[guinevereslancelot]

hopefully i'm not getting ahead of myself with the second job idea but i'm v excited abt the possibility

[parme-san]

they cut my hours at work in half basically so expect some kind of mental break this week