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hii! This is my first time requesting from you! I absolutely adore your writings, they’re so cute! ANYWAYY my request is katsuki x male reader with a dog quirk that gives them a tail and ears and the reader has a golden retriever personality type and basically katsukis making fun of him for running late, hair messy, tie not done properly, the whole shabang. He’s like “damn do you not know how to tie a tie?” And the reader (without thinking) goes “nope.” and KATSUKI DOES HIS TIE FOR HIM?!?! but that’s not all (I feel like an evil villain hehe) katsuki sees his tail wagging!!! omg this is so long but I can’t get this idea out of my head and I’m too lazy to write it ‼️‼️
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Ooh I love this concept, so sorry for the late response ml !! 🫶🏽🫶🏽 However the dog quirk is a great idea, love love love animal quirks <3
For Anon: Male Reader x Katsuki Bakugou
Category: Fluff + Universty AU 💘
[7:35am]
Where the hell is he.
Bakugou was watching the time go by and noticing how you were yet to be seen. Class had started 35 minutes ago and you usually were never late.
[8:20am]
“Alright, I’m going to take a break. Don’t destroy anything while I’m sleeping or I’ll have all of you taking a remedial class.” Mr. Aizawa never failed to come up with an outrageous punishment for his students, even now in university.
Bakugou glanced at the clock one more time before scoffing and getting up. Sero wanted to ask where he was headed but judging by the look on Bakugou’s face, Sero decided to value his life and dignity.
Once Bakugou turned the corner of the hall he ran into someone.
“All this space in the God damn hallway and you can’t-“ he looked down and noticed it was you. You looked like a mess.
Your breathing was frantic, hair sticking up like a compass in all directions. Your tie could’ve been put on backwards and your shirt was half tucked into your pants and half not.
Bakugou didn’t even know where to start with questions.
“You look like shit. What happened ?”
“My alarm.. I accidentally set it for 6:30pm and not am so I woke up like 20 minutes ago” your ears were facing down and your tail sunk. It was clear you rushed to get here and in the process made no effort to notice your appearance.
“Jesus. At least look alive.”
He stepped closer to you and began adjusting your tie. You felt your tail quirk up and immediately shoved it down, keeping your hands behind your back.
You couldn’t help but stare at him in admiration. He was so focused on your tie and your shirt you didn’t realize how beautiful he was until you really got a good look at him.
Your tie and shirt were not adjusted but that hair.
“A tornado pick you up on the way here ?” He grinned and you turned your head in embarrassment not realizing your hair looked that bad. He gently placed his hands on certain strands to make it look more decent.
In response, your ears shot up and now your tail wagging back and forth. You were too in awe to realize it, at least not until he pointed it out.
His eyebrow quirked up. “You excited or sum ?” He asked but didn’t stop fixing your hair.
“What ?”
“Your tail’s movin”
You felt your face heat up like a star when he pointed it out. You looked down, no longer wanting to meet his gaze.
“Sorry, that happens when I’m happy or excited”
“Really ?” And he pulled back after taking in your appearance. A small grin on his face.
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“Looks like your gonna have to come in late more often then” and with that he shoved his hands in his pockets and walked away.
Thank God he did because the way your tail stood on its end and your ears perked up, someone would think you just won a million bucks.
And let’s just say...
This was not the last time you showed up late.
I hope you enjoyed this my love !! Again sorry for such a late reply but I did enjoy this concept sm, I honestly kind of want to write something separate about a quirk like this, Thank you for the ask, mwah !! 🫰🏽💖
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have i talked about youtuber!jarra au on here before?
au where jarra contacts her family at 14 and finds out just how very adored she is and after getting to know them for a while she decides to make a youtube channel under her legal betan name (jarra tell feren, because she won't be jarra tell morrath for another few years and she doesn't want to use her legal earth name for privacy reasons)
the videos she makes are just general things about life on earth, and it doesn't really occur to her to clarify that she herself has Immune Syndrome because it's just such an integral part of her that everyone around her already knows
but her first video ends up going viral in beta sector - because of course it does, she's a daughter of the noble Tell clan of Zeus - and it eventually becomes obvious from the comments that the people in her audience just kinda? assumed that she was norm-born? she had mentioned at one point in her video that her father was the commanding officer of the earth solar arrays, so people just assumed she visited earth often to spend time with her dad in his off hours. it doesn't help that she often records her videos in one of the military accommodation domes for solar array workers (again, for privacy reasons).
so she decides to see how long she can keep this up, while taking advantage of her newfound fame to teach people about what earth is really like.
she starts off pretty tame, just showing videos about popular earth tourist attractions like mount everest, pompeii, stonehenge, etc. and then eventually she starts branching out into things like the discrimination faced by people with immune syndrome, the corruption of hospital earth, etc.
over time, she starts to notice that she's gathering a following from other sectors as well, and starts including videos about betan culture to help destigmatize beta sector as well, which gains her even more popularity with her betan audience.
by the time she enters universty asgard for history, she's got a huge audience, and most of her classmates (as well as playdon) are either her subscribers, or at least know of her, so no one even thinks to be suspicious of her cover story.
eventually, after solar 5 crashes into new york main, jarra naturally becomes the star of the story, not just because she's a famous internet personality, but also because 2 of the people she had to help save were her own parents.
it's at that point that her secret comes out.
naturally, there are people who are upset about her deception. but at this point she's been an internet celebrity for several years and she's so well-beloved by her audience and has done so much work towards destigmatizing handicapped folks that the reaction isn't nearly as negative as she'd always worried about.
#youtuber jarra au#portal future#jarra tell morrath#tell clan#janet edwards#earth girl trilogy#earth girl#earth star#earth flight
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Hey ig you only reccomend bts bxb ships but could you please recommend me some professor hoseok and student reader fics? Pretty please :3
Not entirely sure if u have read these or not, seeing as the ask is quite old but i hope u enjoy these <3 @hoseokkie-caeks
ps. if u want any other recs, feel free to ask me ^^
amae - 6.6k - when someone new moves in next door, you don’t expect to become friends. everyone on your block was friendly, yes, but none of you gave more than a courteous wave when you spotted each other in passing. that changes with jung hoseok; a literature professor with sunlight gleaming out of every pore, who enjoys complex lectures, random coffee trips, and…sleeping in your hammock? curiosity gets the better of you as you befriend him, but just what could have this man sleeping in your garden hammock every night?
Starting again - 11.2k - Two years out of studying to have a baby, only your first few weeks back and it’s already not going as easily as you thought. A babysitter you can barely afford dropping out last minute, you have to take your little girl into the lecture with you. What follows isn’t smooth, but it’s the start of you getting closer to your professor, a man you’ve always admired from your seat, but you learn to get to know up close.
Systems Of Touch - 9.7k - When you meet the newly appointed head of the Film department of Bangtan Universty, who also happens to be the head curator of the Museum Of The Moving Image, it is immediate chemistry. However, you are interning under him for one year and he promises he will not touch you until your internship is completed. No matter how hard that proves to be.
Stubbornly Broken - 1.4k - When your only goal in life is to seek the approval of your anatomy lecturer, who in turn has a slight obsession with you, will you finally give up your stubborn ways and allow his sly comments to get to you or are there still some fight left in you?
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i cannot lie what i hear about american universties and the sororitys (especially in Umich), scares me, so a few questiions to clarify:
Is it like that in every uni, sorority's and being loyal to them and some being like top of the popularity chain?
is it like a popular club? like i reckon the guys have one too right?
do you have to be in one?
are there rich people in sorority's and are the reason why if theres a crime it isnt taken seriously (i did some research)
of course all i know are from tumblr (Umich)and romance novels
1. No it’s not like that at every university. Some sororities have strict rules for their girls and some don’t
2. Boys have fraternities. They do community work and help the girls get jobs and develop skills for the workforce and life skills. The chapter in my town is popular for the big names that were in that sorority. Chapters just means the same sorority just in a different state. Like the AKA’s (Alpha Kapa Alpha) has a chapter in florida and other states
3. You don’t have to be in one. Purely up to you
4. You don’t have to be rich to be in a sorority but you need money for the fees. Some have a one time fee and some have fees for everything that goes into different events that they hold. One of the members in my town said the payment will sometimes go up after you get a job because they figure you can pay more. I don’t know why crime isn’t taken seriously especially with fraternities but my guess is the white ones are more likely to have their stuff overlooked especially if their well known and the school wants to maintain their reputation
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Hello, my name is Zero"Marwan", I am 24 years old, currently living in the northern part of Gaza City, and I wan an English teacher.
I have studied English language education at Al-Azhar universty in Gaza and i have gratuated with an average of 90.7%.
Since the morning of October 7th, 2023, our lives have been turned upside down. We have lived through the hardest days of our lives, facing displacement and homelessness. We have been forced to leave our home more than ten times since the war began. We would leave without knowing where to go.
We sought refuge in schools and relatives' homes, hoping we could return home and that this nightmare would end. But our house was bombed, and our dreams were destroyed. We became homeless and displaced.
Every day, we wake up to the sound of bombs and rockets . I lived in constant fear and terror with my family, especially when my family's house was bombed while we were taking shelter there.And in one day i have injured a very bad injurys in my arm and my body.
We are experiencing a real famine in Gaza. I’ve gone to bed with my family many nights without dinner because there is no food available. We have had to eat animal and bird feed due to the high cost of flour just to fill the hunger of my family. Even after eating it, we all suffered from diarrhea and severe stomach pain. My children developed rashes on their bodies due to the spread of viruses and the accumulation of garbage.
There is also a severe shortage of water, and even when we find it, it's not safe to drink.
My family are suffering , asking for vegetables, fruits, and eggs, but we can’t afford them because we have no income. The gas shortage has forced us to use fire for everything—cooking and baking—using plastic and pipes because firewood is so hard to find.
My family also developed jaundice, and I struggled a lot to get them better because there was no access to vegetables, fruits, or medicine. I even feared that my son might have developed polio because he already had leg problems before the war, and they worsened due to malnutrition.
Winter is coming, and we have nothing for it. I need clothes and shoes for my family to keep them warm, but I can’t buy them because they are so expensive.
For this reason, I beg of you and hope that you can support me, even with the smallest contribution, so I can provide my children with the most basic necessities of life.
I was displaced with my family to my friend's house, tears in my eyes. On the way, Salah Al-Din Street was bombed, and the Israeli occupation committed horrific massacres. By the grace of God, we survived for the first time. We lived in terror and fear. A few days later, my friend's house was bombed, and we were pulled out from under the rubble, miraculously surviving for the second time.
When my friend heard the news that we had died, he came to bid us farewell, only to find us alive by God's grace. We returned with him, but as the situation worsened and the fire belts in our area increased, we started to flee again and again, not knowing where to go next.
All what do i want from you is to help thia children to get back there life and make them smile again.
beg of you to share my story and help me continue to live and to help us to rebuild our lives again like it was befor 7th October.
Waiting your donations patintaly to make them smile,
My Warmest regards,
#free gaza#war on gaza#gaza gofundme#gaza genocide#gravity falls#artists on tumblr#the amazing digital circus#jujutsu kaisen#فلسطین#فلسطين#غزة تحت القصف#هنا غزة#قطاع غزة#ابادة جماعية#israel hamas war#israel#politics#poetry#photography
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Hello
What kind of jobs do you think ln trio (Mahiru,Guren,Shinya) would have if they had chance to choose? Or what would they study in universty?
İ hope you answer (if you want ofc), have a great day.
Thank you for the ask!
I feel Mahiru would do something in psychology or chemistry. Since, I feel like she would be very good in both fields. (Chemistry, a play on her self-experimentation). Mahiru would definitely be very successful.
I feel Guren would probably not even go to university. He would settle with an office job and be miserable for 90% of his life. Guren doesn't seem to have anything that he wants to do in life.
I personally think Shinya would pursue a career in teaching. Having a big heart, and being friendly + caring, and I feel like he'd be amazing with children.
;;
college headcanons if you want them
Guren and Mahiru live on the same floor
Shinya advised Guren to not commit floorcest (he failed very much)
"what the fuck is going on in guren's room?" "mahiru"
Shinya definitely joined a frat and is the face of every party, insane tolerance to alcohol
Guren can't tolerate alcohol for shit
Mahiru can, but too much just gets her schwasted
Guren has had at least 5 DUIs in one semester alone
Shinya got him out
"ARE YOU FUCKING STUPID GUREN" "my bad"
Mahiru said she was switching colleges and Guren had a pity party in which he invited the squad
"What's wrong, Guren?" "UGH MAHIRU SAID SHE"S LEAVING." before spooning Mahiru's favorite ice cream into his mouth and profusely sobbing
Shinya smacked Guren because he wouldn't stop
One time Guren ate a weed brownie that Mahiru made for Shinya and vomited instantly
Shinya could definitely handle weed too, since he's probably been doing that since high school
He went to school high
#owari no seraph#seraph of the end#hiiragi mahiru#mahiru hiragi#ichinose guren#guren ichinose#hiiragi shinya#shinya hiragi#guremahi#guren x mahiru
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Hello, my name is Zero"Marwan", I am 24 years old, currently living in the northern part of Gaza City, and I wan an English teacher. I have studied English language education at Al-Azhar universty in Gaza and i have gratuated with an average of 90.7%.
Since the morning of October 7th, 2023, our lives have been turned upside down. We have lived through the hardest days of our lives, facing displacement and homelessness. We have been forced to leave our home more than ten times since the war began. We would leave without knowing where to go.
We sought refuge in schools and relatives' homes, hoping we could return home and that this nightmare would end. But our house was bombed, and our dreams were destroyed. We became homeless and displaced.
Every day, we wake up to the sound of bombs and rockets . I lived in constant fear and terror with my family, especially when my family's house was bombed while we were taking shelter there.And in one day i have injured a very bad injurys in my arm and my body.
We are experiencing a real famine in Gaza. I’ve gone to bed with my family many nights without dinner because there is no food available. We have had to eat animal and bird feed due to the high cost of flour just to fill the hunger of my family. Even after eating it, we all suffered from diarrhea and severe stomach pain. My children developed rashes on their bodies due to the spread of viruses and the accumulation of garbage. There is also a severe shortage of water, and even when we find it, it's not safe to drink.
My family are suffering , asking for vegetables, fruits, and eggs, but we can’t afford them because we have no income. The gas shortage has forced us to use fire for everything—cooking and baking—using plastic and pipes because firewood is so hard to find.
My family also developed jaundice, and I struggled a lot to get them better because there was no access to vegetables, fruits, or medicine. I even feared that my son might have developed polio because he already had leg problems before the war, and they worsened due to malnutrition.
Winter is coming, and we have nothing for it. I need clothes and shoes for my family to keep them warm, but I can’t buy them because they are so expensive.
For this reason, I beg of you and hope that you can support me, even with the smallest contribution, so I can provide my children with the most basic necessities of life.
I was displaced with my family to my friend's house, tears in my eyes. On the way, Salah Al-Din Street was bombed, and the Israeli occupation committed horrific massacres. By the grace of God, we survived for the first time. We lived in terror and fear. A few days later, my friend's house was bombed, and we were pulled out from under the rubble, miraculously surviving for the second time.
When my friend heard the news that we had died, he came to bid us farewell, only to find us alive by God's grace. We returned with him, but as the situation worsened and the fire belts in our area increased, we started to flee again and again, not knowing where to go next.
I beg of you to share my story and help me continue to live and to help us to rebuild our lives again like it was befor 7th October.
Waiting your donations patintaly,
My Warmest regards,
Zero"Marwan",
https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6ST5TFSRQPZNW
https://gofund.me/c87a3e71
Please donate and share 🍉❤️🕊
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Hello, my name is Zero"Marwan", I am 24 years old, currently living in the northern part of Gaza City, and I wan an English teacher. I have studied English language education at Al-Azhar universty in Gaza and i have gratuated with an average of 90.7%.
Since the morning of October 7th, 2023, our lives have been turned upside down. We have lived through the hardest days of our lives, facing displacement and homelessness. We have been forced to leave our home more than ten times since the war began. We would leave without knowing where to go.
We sought refuge in schools and relatives' homes, hoping we could return home and that this nightmare would end. But our house was bombed, and our dreams were destroyed. We became homeless and displaced.
Every day, we wake up to the sound of bombs and rockets . I lived in constant fear and terror with my family, especially when my family's house was bombed while we were taking shelter there.And in one day i have injured a very bad injurys in my arm and my body.
We are experiencing a real famine in Gaza. I’ve gone to bed with my family many nights without dinner because there is no food available. We have had to eat animal and bird feed due to the high cost of flour just to fill the hunger of my family. Even after eating it, we all suffered from diarrhea and severe stomach pain. My children developed rashes on their bodies due to the spread of viruses and the accumulation of garbage. There is also a severe shortage of water, and even when we find it, it's not safe to drink.
My family are suffering , asking for vegetables, fruits, and eggs, but we can’t afford them because we have no income. The gas shortage has forced us to use fire for everything—cooking and baking—using plastic and pipes because firewood is so hard to find.
My family also developed jaundice, and I struggled a lot to get them better because there was no access to vegetables, fruits, or medicine. I even feared that my son might have developed polio because he already had leg problems before the war, and they worsened due to malnutrition.
Winter is coming, and we have nothing for it. I need clothes and shoes for my family to keep them warm, but I can’t buy them because they are so expensive.
For this reason, I beg of you and hope that you can support me, even with the smallest contribution, so I can provide my children with the most basic necessities of life.
I was displaced with my family to my friend's house, tears in my eyes. On the way, Salah Al-Din Street was bombed, and the Israeli occupation committed horrific massacres. By the grace of God, we survived for the first time. We lived in terror and fear. A few days later, my friend's house was bombed, and we were pulled out from under the rubble, miraculously surviving for the second time.
When my friend heard the news that we had died, he came to bid us farewell, only to find us alive by God's grace. We returned with him, but as the situation worsened and the fire belts in our area increased, we started to flee again and again, not knowing where to go next.
I beg of you to share my story and help me continue to live and to help us to rebuild our lives again like it was befor 7th October.
Waiting your donations patintaly,
My Warmest regards,
Zero"Marwan",
https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=6ST5TFSRQPZNW
https://gofund.me/c87a3e71
I am sorry I cannot donate, sharing is all i can do for now
Gofundme:
$125/50,000 USD
This campaign has been up since AUGUST and has only recieved ONE DONATION from 2 MONTHS AGO
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I am Mu. I don't care who will read my texts. I just write like Marcus Aurelius. This page is my hell and I want to transfer the darkness in somewhere. I have anger management problem. In daily life, my mood mostly stable. It's maybe because of I start universty and far from home. However, I have to back home in summer holiday because I have no place to stay expect family home. I never love my born-place. Probably this trigger my angry issue indirectly. In my opinion, one of the most most triggering thing is my MOM. She is the reaason of anger managment problem. In my childhood, I always lived with chaos. Family fight is okey for family but I saw something I shouldn't see that. I heard something I shouldn't see that as a kid. She was the most reason of chaos. Also it was unhappy marriage and She would take her anger out on us. She has caused me mental wounds that cannot be healed. She always compared with me other children. She just said good words when I was succesful student in school or won a prize from tournaments. She was under a lot of pressure while preparing for the middle school exam. I could be in better high school with my success but I lost my control because of this over-pressure. After the exam and started high school, I made attempts to destroy her hegemony over me. I slowly broke her hegemony. She understood my attemp and couldn't give a reaction much. I feel so tired right now, I will finish the story second part.
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I'm Severly Fucked Up Why Do You Still Love Me?
read it on AO3 at https://ift.tt/v4uFgNK by mynameiscraigtucker Charlie Spring has a pretty normal life, despite his mental illnesses. He's going to universty and he's getting out of his anorexia. Everything seems fine, until one visit to Starbucks. After this one visit, everything starts to fall apart. His depression gets ten times worse, his anorexia comes back and everything is just shit. But, you have to find a needle in a haystack, right? That needle is Nick Nelson, his boyfriend, who helps Charlie get back of the shit that is his life. Words: 2461, Chapters: 1/?, Language: English Fandoms: Heartstopper (TV), Heartstopper (Webcomic) Rating: Mature Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Categories: M/M Characters: Nicholas "Nick" Nelson, Charles "Charlie" Spring (Heartstopper), Tao Xu, Elle Argent, Darcy Olsson, Tara Jones, Victoria "Tori" Spring, Isaac Henderson (Heartstopper) Relationships: Nicholas "Nick" Nelson/Charles "Charlie" Spring, Minor or Background Relationship(s) Additional Tags: I Wrote This Instead of Sleeping, Swearing, Aged-Up Character(s), POV Charles "Charlie" Spring (Heartstopper), Established Nicholas "Nick" Nelson/Charles "Charlie" Spring, Adult Charles "Charlie" Spring (Heartstopper), they're all 18 and in uni, University Student Nicholas "Nick" Nelson, University Student Charles "Charlie" Spring (Heartstopper), Charles "Charlie" Spring (Heartstopper) Has Mental Health Issues, Supportive Nicholas "Nick" Nelson, Nicholas "Nick" Nelson has ADHD, Sexual Harassment, Aftermath of Sexual Harassment, Trans Charles "Charlie" Spring (Heartstopper) read it on AO3 at https://ift.tt/v4uFgNK
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Tell me something , I don't know.
#selena gomez#lyrics#mechanical engineering student#python#founder#3d modeling#student life#student#universty life#universty#engineer life#engineer#mechanical engineering#mechanicaleducation#pop music#music#genius#success#keep on shining#keep on trying#study for exams#üniversite#üniversite hayatı#makine mühendisliği#makine#mühendislik#arabalar#porsche#bmw#cars
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Sometimes Uni really feels like this https://www.instagram.com/p/B_-UijyFyIT/?igshid=fm3jaxjvd7zn
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Them: Can you describe your university studies?
Me: Yes sure, it is...
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How I'm leaving the coronavirus emergency as an university student #1
This "name" is provisional, until I'll find some better name! Please help me find it! 🙏🏻
I guess I should have start this sort of diary a few days ago, but I didn't have strength enough to do that before, so...
17.03.2020
Hi guys!
I'm Elle, I'm 21 years old, and I'm a university student!
More specifically I'm at the second semester of my third (hopefully last) year of Bachelor’s degree in Social work.
Here in Italy, a few days more than a week ago, all the schools and universities have been closed, and we are quarantined!
I didn't expect to live my last year of university this way, but it is what it is and better keep it that way, than accidentally killing your 97 years old grandmother with coronavirus!
Life is a lot different now than what it use to be a few days ago and it's hard, but remember
“Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.”
-Dumbledore
I will keep this diary, because besides studying, reading and staying with my family, I have nothing else to do! I don't think anyone will read it, but it will help me get through all of this! 👌🏻
Remember guys,
Stay strong, stay safe, stay home! ❤️
ig : nerdingrainbowsparrow
#student#study motivation#studyspo#study blog#Studyblr#Rainbow Sparrow Studies#Stay Home#Stay Strong#Stay Safe#Coronavirus#Italy#Dumbledore#Harry Potter#Sapienza Università di Roma#Sapienza University of Rome#Universty#University Student#student life
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Hey guys! I just want to share to you guys that I am more than overwhelmed with happiness on being close to my dream, and that is to study in London. I would love to take this chance to thank my family, friends, and of course, God, for making all of these possible. So from the bottom of my heart, I thank you all!
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Üniversiteye bu sene başlayanlara ipuçları:
Üniversitede gruplar halinde yaşanır arkadaşlar. Sınıftaki grubunuz, eğer yurt, pansiyon veya evdeyseniz ikinci bir grup da orada oluşur.
İlk yıl gruplar pek şen şakrak olur. Ay ne iyi arkadaşlarım oldu dersiniz.
Bu ilk yıl grupları önceleri 6-7 kişiyken ikinci döneme doğru yaprak dökümleri başlar.
İlk yılın sonunda en fazla dört kişi kalırsınız. Sonra bunların da aralarından bir hin çıkar ve grubu böler.
Üçüncü sınıfta yeni arkadaş arayışlarına girersiniz. Diğer gruplardan da bu arayışa girmiş birileri mutlaka çıkar.
Üçüncü sınıfta henüz tam anlamıyla bir kopma yaşanmaz. Ama gelgelim dörde.
Dörtte eski gruptan bir kişiyi bulursanız iyisiniz. Gruplar dağılır ve herkes yeni gruplar oluşturur.
Üniversitenin ilk günlerinde yalnız kalmamak için, bir süre sonra da sırf alışkanlıktan ayrılamadığınız grup darmadağın olur.
Her grupta bir tekelci olur. Herşey onun istediği gibi olsun, onun istediği yapılsın isteyen biri çıkar.
Son sınıfa gelindiğinde zaten bundan sonra işim kalmadı diyen çıkarcı kişilikler bir bir dökülür.
Bunun tam tersi de söz konusu tabi gruptaki samimiyetsizliğe artık tahammül edemeyenler de gruplarından ayrılır. Son senenin verdiği rehavet ile.
Ki en güzel dostluğu da o sırada bulma şansınız çok yüksek. Çünkü son sınıf olmuş artık yancı aramayan kişilerle gerçekten arkadaş olmak istediğiniz için arkadaş olabilme imkanı da tam o anda doğar.
Son sınıf büyük bir fırsat. Gerçek dostluk edinebilmek için.
O zamana kadar neredeymiş diyebilirsiniz . O gruplardan çıkmak öyle kolay değil. İşin içine hatır gönül değil not, yancılık, yalnızlık vs. çok şey girer.
Gördüğümü söyleyeyim. Son sınıfa kadar grup olarak devam edip de son sınıfta sırf hatır gönüle konuşan ama yeni arkadaşlıkların yolunu çoktan tutmuş olanları çok gördüm.
Bizden öncekiler de böyle derdi. Ben de aynısını söylüyorum.
Gruplarınıza fazla güvenmeyin. Özellikle içlerinden biri mutlaka diğerine sizden daha yakın olmak isteyecektir. Bu yüzden de sizi saf dışı bırakmak isteyecektir.
Her üniversite arkadaş grubunun kaderi dağılmaktır. Tıpkı rock grupları gibi.
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