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floating-goblin-art · 1 year

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#arttag #something something uh. clinging to your emotionally unavailable mother #idk #wanted to make conchata look a little like holy mary or something #while miggy's overshadowed/blends in with the background #idk man you get it! make what you will of it #sm 2099 issue 10 my beloved #miguel o'hara #conchata o'hara

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swordmaid · 3 months

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i think i want to make my rook an older woman and she's like twice divorced dead beat mom who only sends her kids money when she remembers. like i want her romance to have the vibe of sza nobody gets me ok

#and with whoever she ends up with... thrice divorced...#also i want to make a mage this time bc i dont make mc mages... blood mage rook who's twice divorced (first husband died second wife left #bc she's an emotionally unavailable mother) and when she's hanging out with her first daughter she's like smoking a cigar #i should never had children. i should've had dogs........

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randomlonelytorment · 2 years

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My Mother when I express any emotion other than joy and she needs to ridicule me for my 'behaviour' rather than help me work through what's upsetting me and deal with it:

#'you seriously need to work on yourself.' ditto Mother...ditto.#thor: love and thunder #gorr the godkiller #marvel gifs #trauma #childhood trauma #mommy issues #emotionally unavailable #toxic parents #toxic family #mental illness #memes #laughter based on my pain #funny #jokes #please be relatable #relatable

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wingedarchivist · 3 months

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w4rframe jade pros:

angel frame omggggggggggggg!!!!!!! ANGEL IM AN ANGEL I LOVE PLAYABLE ANGELS

w4rframe jade cons: (j4de sh4dows spoilers under the cut and in tags)

the fucking. pregnant belly. wtf. eugh. *retches* (disclaimer before anyone tries to come at me: I have tokophobia!!!! I lowkey hate the quest and what they made of jade ngl)

#the community seems to be really split #some people love the quest and praise it endlessly #some people hate it with a passion #I can objectively recognize that maybe people who were closer to the target audience for it could've liked; hell; even loved it #but I'm a tokophobic mf and I just fucking hate the design choice and the plot of 'uh mother dies in childbirth so now the emotionally #unavailable father has to step up and be a dad oh and also the mother couldve had some real cool lore but her main role in the story is to'#be a driving motive for the father's development and to give birth' I dont like it its just eugh #I AM PRAYING. PRAYING FOR A SKIN THAT DOESNT HAVE THE MONSTROSITY IN IT PLEASE DE PLEASE #also censoring names of the game and the quest cuz I dont want my post in the search results sksk #thats a private pet peeve #pregnancy tw #pregnancy mention #pregnancy mention tw #idk anymore man

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kyuala · 11 months

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SOOOOOO hard to go through everyday life trying to ignore the never-ending feeling that im just irreparably fucked up and therefore should just give up on everything

#this aint exactly s******* but it aint exactly not s******* either #anyways it gets even harder when i have to live under the same roof as my brother who is so much better than me in every single conceivable #and imaginable way possible like #and i knowwww a LOT of it comes down to us having relatively similar yet wildly different lives despite being 1.5y apart and having the sam #family our entire lives like he has gone through NOTHING and i mean not a single societal issue ive had to face and endure my entire life #he's a man im a woman. he's white im black. he's straight im gay. he's skinny ive always been 'overweight'. he's always been the good #christian kid ive always had issues w faith and religion. he's never been mentally ill i was clinically depressed for nearly 8yrs of my lif #we both lost the same parent and im the only one who got pathological grief and a personality disorder out of it. he's had a great job for #the last 7yrs that now pays him 20k+ every month ive only had 3 odd jobs my entire life and 2 of those my MOTHER had to give me so i would #have SOMETHING and ive never made over 1.6k monthly n my last job was minimum wage only #he's had like 4 relationships and is nearly engaged im so traumatized + emotionally unavailable ive only ever been on 1 date my entire life #he has a good relationship w every family member we have i have Issues w like half the family. he's always been an active member of our #church i can barely listen to like 4 traditional hymns before i start losing my mind and spiraling. i think the only two ways we're pretty #much equal like socially is that we're both able bodied cis and christians but still the cis and christian thing is debatable for previousl #stated reasons so like. do yall see how much better he is doing than me in every little last area in life and how he's always gotten the #long straw when it comes to Not having to deal w certain obstacles in life. n i know its like yea idk what it actually is like to be him an #he could not be doing all that well first of all shut up. second of all if it was 1 or 2 things i'd get it but it's literally EVERYTHING #and i know bc of said things n our v different lives it's unfair to me to compare the two of us but then it begs the question: WHY #WHY did i have to go through these things. WHY do i have to deal w this. WHY did i get the short straw literally every goddamn time #WHY did i have to get THIS life like WHYYYYY why ME GOD. why have I had to put up w all this bullshit for 24 fucking years!!!!!!!!! im TIRE #and this is not me hating or resenting him i know it's not his fault and he is so good to me #but still. why was i left with these things? to live like this?#so yes i guess i do envy him a little bit. who wouldn't #mari.txt #personal #tw negative #dl #btw i do NOT mean some identities are better than others. i mean he is better and is doing better than me in life partially bc he's never #had to deal w certain social issues and obstacles that come w oppressed identities.

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cowsandcrows · 1 year

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whatever happens, finland is first in my heart <3

#MY MOTHER'S REACTION WAS SO FUNNY #SHE HAD HER HEAD BURIED IN HER HAND #eurovision #was actually a banger tho #finland eurovision #unavailable rambles

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drumlincountry · 8 months

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The most helpful thing I picked up from Pete Walker's Complex PTSD was the idea that someone might be so profoundly hurt in childhood that it's unfair and unreasonable to expect them to fully trust any human being, ever again.

Not because that's my situation … but because if it's reasonable for some people to distrust literally every human, then it's ALSO reasonable for me to be a little uneasy around triggering ppl etc

#Like.....let traumatised people be traumatised!#Is something I have an urge to say #Yeah sorry i'm a bit weird around this one woman in work #Its just that I was raised in a psychological torture chamber and she reminds me of one of my fellow contestants #Sorry i'm a little weird about the empire of blood and steel we live inside its just that my mother was crushed beneath its wheels #While she was raising me #And it made her a little emotionally unavailable :/#Me Fein #Trauma #complex ptsd #Pete Walker

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uncanny-tranny · 1 year

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happy transsexual thursday! I'm very pleased that my voice is getting lower - it's one of the effects I most hoped to experience when I started T last year. I actually like the way it sounds when I hear a recording, which is a big difference from before.

Yes!! It's so amazing just how flexible and malleable the human body is

#ask #anon #transsexual thursday #like the human body isn't 'set' like to me that idea doesn't make a lot of sense #if the body is set for one thing alone and nothing else what happens when that 'thing' is unavailable?#it makes more sense for the body to not be set by mother nature(tm) herself but to be able to adapt #and hormones are so powerful because the human body is adaptable #like that's the whole reason hrt even works and i think that's so fucking amazing #and i think it's such an achievement to like your own voice in a recording considering how many are insecure about it (including me)#like i hate hate hate voice recordings/voicemail/calls because of that lol #so celebrate that! that's such a precious and beautiful things <3

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escapadeist · 7 months

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mothers are the epitome of "why can't u ever do that?" but also, "i can never let u do that, because I'll be damned if i can trust u to do anything" and rinse and repeat.

#mothers #trauma #emotional manipulation #emotional unavailability

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kuedrawnunder · 23 days

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[ Reverse 1999 x Mother Series ]

Ninten, Ness and Lucas are considered as anomalies by the foundation.

Ninten's "4D Slip" is the only ever recorded Time Related Arcanum Skill in known history. Making him an invaluable asset, as he can travel between eras with enough focus, making him a sort of "bridge" between eras now inaccessible.

Ness connection to the earth thanks to the "Your Sanctuary" locations made him able to "sense" the disturbances in the timeline that can cause the oncoming Storms. But unlike Vertin, he's not inmune to reversal.

Lucas existence, and by extention the Nowhere Island, is an anomaly upon themselves, he exist beyond the 1999s, but unlike those in Apeiron, it isn't because the time wasn't reversed there, but because he EXIST in a distant future. And thanks to his connection to the Dark Dragon, he's inmune to the reversal (at his own detriment)

#Reverse 1999 #Mother Series #Earthbound #Earthbound Beginnings #Mother 3 #Kue talks #You can tell I've been given this much more though that it need tbh #Claus Is also inmune to the Storm. Though he's currently... “Unavailable” to the foundation #Mother 1999 AU

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ef-1 · 11 months

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Thomas Hardy said Neutral Tones, baby

#i have a couple of days to decide whether or not to fly out and spend my birthday with my dad #im like. trying to be an adult. and work on my relationship with my dad and mend it because i love him alot #i know he loves me so so so much in return. like its the polar opposite of my mother. he always has.#but every now and then that deep resentment resurfaces and all i can think about is how apathetic and detached he was.#and hes been so present and active over the last 5-6 years. i know this is him trying #her church and her schools and her books and her poetry and her colours and her everything #nothing of his culture. nothing of what makes him himself was shared with me. I had to put the pieces of him together #and its only a pale imitation of his brilliance but its also all that ive ever had access to #all that i was allowed to have.#when lana said: here's the deal; my father never stepped when his wife would rage at me- so i grew up awkward but sweet etc #its clearly universal y'know 😍 men being emotionally unavailable 😍😍😍😍#anyway we're working on breaking the cycle !!1 #so i will probably fly out #its just hashtag a l o t

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robertsbarbie · 2 months

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my brother asking me if i have any more plans for my birthday that id like him and his wife to be apart of and saying “no, i just plan to watch movies all day by myself” sounds lame :/

#i also really wanna turn off my phone (not my laptop) and just be unavailable to people #like i’m tired of having to constantly be on and perceived especially since my birthday is on a weekend #i just wanna be unavailable ya know especially after the shit with my mother #eris: text

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operativenightingale · 5 months

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as someone who only really ships the idea and the chemistry of calzona, and really really really should know better, is there anyone that ships them that isn't overly indulgent towards arizona and doesn't seem to blame callie for not bringing the moon down for her or something, even at her own expense, especially at her own expense?

#14 yo me wouldve been all over that #but now me knows how unhealthy it all was #but cant help but wonder what couldve been #altho if im being completely honest the ships popularity and the shows inability to give callie anything good or interesting the last seaso #seasons. made it so the only fics of her are calzona. which wouldnt be my first choice #but if there wassss one where arizona actually apologized and at some point it acknowledged callie (shitty way tho) ending the marriage #as the healthy thing it was.....THAT would be something to read #exwives to coparents to friends to best friends to maybe lovers again...#also without the biphobia and slutshaming. just yknow. BOTH of them apologizing for their mistakes #callie torres #anti arizona robbins #calzona #anti calzona #not really tho. just pro callie and pro them being healthy #half of their shit was bad writing and bts stuff. it was clear sara wanted out in 12 or was unavailable and maybe even the same for jcap #they did have to hide her pregnancy there #also arizona was so clearly going to win the custody battle. it was an obvious writing choice since the whole two mothers narrations starte #doesnt make it right or well executed. if callie had actually really pushed for it maybe #but whatever. the custody battle was stupid in the first place #greys anatomy

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meikyuunolovers · 3 months

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Searching for overseas musician autobiographies that are NOT Keith Richards or a KISS member in the middle nowhere of French countryside thrift shops is like searching for a needle in the middle of a haystack

#sorry i can't stop talking about my holy grail (bob henrit's book)#but it's out of print. unavailable on ebay. nowhere to be seen on amazon. zilch on vinted. and i'm not british so it's extra hard to find it #i swear if i find it i'm making it my entire personality and i'll be insufferable for months #and even then... the bands i like are either unpopular or their books weren't translated (yet)#and i'm only talking about second hand since it's where i usually get books since i'm too used to not spending much #i can easily find books by more popular musicians (nick mason. neil young. dave grohl) first-hand in shops #but it's because their books were translated in french. and language plays a large part in availability #i have yet to check if the davies brothers' books are on vinted though #and even if i try to gather my courage and try to buy things through the net (or even physically)#there's this thing where my mother drilled through my head to not impulse buy (i'm very prone to that)...#except that now i struggle to differentiate impulse buys and things i genuinely want. so i just don't buy and think for months #and by the time i made my decision they're not here anymore and i get depressed because i think i should have trusted my gut #(i spent an entire year eyeing a weki meki album once because my mother refused to get it for me since she thought it was an impulse buy #ended up getting it for myself after i got the pass culture... trusted my gut and i had an inclusion of my bias in it)#and i feel i have to tell my mother about everything i want to buy so i can get her approval #... which can be a double-edged knife as she has knowledge but also she has a very “money-saving” mindset and doesn't like spending much #on things she doesn't consider are worth for their price. whereas i have a more “as long as i get it” mindset (which isn't a good thing)#..#sorry i got carried away 😭#you don't have to read all of this

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riderheart · 4 months

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half thinking about a bton au but also just. sad that violet's father has to be the general and thinking about how vi & xad.en are definitely way too spicy for the ton.

#🗲 ── * 𝑪𝑯𝑨𝑹𝑳𝑰𝑬 𝑨𝑭 ❨ ooc. ❩#like kanth.ony but dial it up a notch or two bc they have no outlets #anyway #violet is the daughter of a war hero general #who really just wanted some peace and quiet and indulged her and educated her #her mother is still just v emotionally unavailable #probably forced violet into a late debut #they argued about it a lot #and violet hates the balls and stuff she always ends up with dodgy joints when her mother makes her dance with people

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widevibratobitch · 7 months

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aaaaaaand it's starting. mom's bestie just texted me asking to come over this weekend cause it's Bad and it's probably the last chance to talk and maybe say goodbye to my mom's husband and i need to take care of her. god. i wont get through this weekend unless im high or drunk istg.

#time to slightly overdose my depression meds again ig lol #anyway. it is a little better with me these last two weeks. turns out the meds do work when you actually take em regularly #but first my best friend's break up that she's blowing up to unimaginable size #acting as if she just got divorced with the love of her life after 20 years #and not ended a few months long relationship with a guy who's been the source of most of her troubles since the moment they started dating #(ofc she's valid and id never tell her that because like. i get it. some people feel stuff more deeply. but its hard to be supportive #when you genuinely feel like this is the best possible outcome for her and that the relationship was only dragging her down all this time)#and now this. and this is gonna be infinitely worse. and then it's gonna get a million times worse when he actually does die.#and i feel like the worst most selfish person ever which like. probably am. but i did tell my cousin who actually knows my mom really well #and she said she understands and that my fears ARE valid because SHE'S terrified of how she's gonna handle my mom #and she wouldn't wanna be me in that situation cause it's gonna be so much worse for me lmao #like i feel like people who know my mother casually really dont understand just how unhinged emotionally she is #anyway. i feel so overwhelmed. i cant handle this jesus.#but im also emotionally unavailable and refuse to actually confide in another person because i dont want to be a bother <3333 #god i love tumblr. i can literally type anything in those tags lol it's the perfect form of venting since you can just scroll by #but i will still have let it out of myself anyway uwu i literally dont need that therapy fr #anyway. i feel so unbelievably fucking lonely and on one hand it's my own fault for withdrawing and refusing to ask for help.#but on the other hand. i AM alone. like there's no one who can help me in this particular situation.#i have no siblings. obviously my dad isnt gonna help. it all falls down to me. good god. i wanna throw up.

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