#tw: false accusations

[spectralpaws89-19m]

Vent

So I was browsing Palestine posts, and came across a post that had pro-Hamas as one of the tags.

When I made my reply: “Fuck Nazis, Hamas, and Israel—Palestine will be free,” this user @religion-is-a-mental-illness proceeded to falsely accuse me of being a Nazi. I proceeded to block and report them and unfollow them, as I had initially followed them due to our views on the evils of religion.

[deltalunaris]

On Why I’m Leaving Re.ddit For The Foreseeable Future (+ Twi.tter & Tu.mblr-related Announcement)

(TW: mental health-related discussion, anti-survivor sentiment & bigotry, abuse & trauma mentions. Website names are altered to prevent bots & bad actors. Long Post, TL;DR at the bottom.)

Yep, nope. Not doing this Re.ddit thing anymore. I’ll report blatant ToS violations (ex. death threats, bigotry, obvious scams, ban evaders especially), and I’ll be suspended instead of the offender because of “report abuse”.

[ID: A message from the admins, stating that the account has been temporarily banned for three days for report abuse. The name of the sub where they claim the abuse happened is censored to prevent community brigading.]

To top it all off, I haven’t reported ANY posts since my first suspension (which, as you’ll see, was entirely wrong & I was immediately forgiven after I sent an appeal). Just yesterday, I got suspended again, and the “link to where the abuse occurred” is a 404. Not a [deleted] & [removed], a straight up 404.

[ID: A screenshot of a re.ddit webpage depicting a bright red banner stating “Your account has been suspended from Re[.]ddit for 2 days. Click here for more info.” The page itself displays a 404, stating: “Sorry, there doesn't seem to be anything here.”]

Censored the sub’s name out of extreme caution (i.e brigading), and also because it’s not their fault to begin with. After my first suspension, I talked to the mods of two mental health-related subs (one is shown above, the other below), and those who spoke to me stated that it’s an admin decision, not their own.

Apparently, when you report, most options listed go to the sub’s mods AND the admins (except options such as “this breaks [sub’s] rules”). So even if the mods say you were in the right (which was the case with my first suspension, hence why it was immediately reversed), the admins can decide against that and suspend you anyway.

It’s why I only ‘report’ posts to the mod team directly, as they have invited me to.

Otherwise, I have not used the actual report button out of genuine worry that this will happen again. Which is did, obviously.

(Apologies for the different format between screenshots. While trying to see if the 404 above showed up on desktop as well, I discovered that I can only access my re.ddit inbox via my 3rd party mobile app (preferred posting method), which is GENUINELY bizarre. Trust me, I looked, tried to type in the inbox URL itself, nothing. I just get guided back to "This account has been suspended.” That means that, if I were just a desktop user, I literally wouldn’t have any idea as to what caused the suspension like I do on mobile.)

(IMPORTANT EDIT: Now that I’m un-suspended, I finally can access my inbox through the previously tried methods. As such, I have updated all images to be in desktop format for consistency’s sake + the important addition of my side of the discussion I had with a mod. Genuinely unsure of if this was a bug or not.)

[ID: A mobile screenshot showing an inbox and three messages. The first one at the very bottom is from the re.ddit admins, stating that the user has been banned for three days by their team for “report abuse.” The second one immediately after is a suspension review, stating that the appeal request was reviewed and the suspension lifted. The third is a user message stating: “No problem, happy to help! Though I'd like to apologize if I did the reporting process wrong, as I ended up getting temporarily suspended for 'report abuse' (thankfully I appealed & was near-immediately forgiven). I must have misclicked the wrong option, as that definitely was not in my intention, but I apologize nonetheless. However, this is the second time this has happened when reporting an evident rule/ToS break in r/ [redacted] . I definitely remember selecting the appropriate option that time (inciting violence), and I was still given an admin warning despite the offender's post being taken down. I hope this isn't a larger, administrative-related issue, as that means people will be more hesitant to report, which complicates subreddit moderation even further. Would you happen to know what's going on in that regard? If not, no worries, I'll just continue reporting problematic accounts via modmail if that's okay. Safer for the both of us, as well as other users, that way. Cheers, thank you for the good work you do, and apologies once again. - Delta”. In response is a moderator message, stating the following: “Hi, I'm sorry that's happening to you! Unfortunately, I don't know very much about how re[.]ddit handles reports like that. I know that when you hit the report button, most of the options listed go to reddit admins as well as show up in our mod queue. The option that definitely does not get sent to reddit admins is "this breaks r/ [redacted] 's rules". I know it's not a perfect solution, since re[.]ddit should take action against people who are violating the ToS. But if you just want to report stuff to us, that's a good option. You can select "custom response" if you want to add more information. Just remember that reports are anonymous and we can't respond to you if you go that route. Otherwise, modmail works too.”]

So, with this all having been said, I think I’m done with Re.ddit for now.

I’ve come to a point in my recovery where, as much as I recognize the importance of being involved in a community of survivors, I refuse to tolerate blatant administrator abuse in order to do so.

It’s one thing if I misunderstood/misconstrued something, and made a false report. I’m autistic + severely dissociative, so it could happen. In turn, I do what I can to rectify my mistakes and apologize. It’s just the right thing to do, and I’m not afraid of taking accountability & responsibility.

However, as in the (thankfully working) example above, I am reporting BLATANT sub/ToS violations. This one involved a ban evader (with multiple alts) who was posting highly triggering content that involved sadistic themes, death wishes, and the putting down of other survivors in general:

[ID: A subre.ddit post with the title “Anyone ever happy that other people have trauma and that other people have to face shitty things?”. It has been removed and locked by the subre.ddit moderators, with the stickied mod comment stating: “This has been removed for violating Rule #1. This is not the appropriate place for this kind of rant. The focus of this community is peer to peer support.”]

I could grab the actual post via whatever Re.ddit post retrieval app is still around (RIP Ce.ddit), but I refuse to because it was really, REALLY bad. The title alone should give a very clear impression of that, ESPECIALLY when it was posted to a subre.ddit where highly vulnerable survivors go to find help and validation.

I also don’t want to give said ban evader anymore attention than I already have.

So, with all of this being said, here’s my final verdict:

As of 4/20/2023, I will be winding down my Re.ddit usage as a whole, and focusing on my Tu.mblr usage instead.

I MAY return at a later point, especially as I’m trying to expand my reach to service more future clientele via commissions. However, it will depend on if I get this suspension appealed as well. If not, I will permanently stop using my Re.ddit account as to avoid a full ban.

Why? Because I have written many resourceful posts for survivors (especially of severe NS/FL trauma like myself), and I would hate for all that to go down the drain. Many have publicly stated & privately DMed me expressing their gratitude for as much, which has emphasized to me the importance of my work.

I’m not doing this for karma. If anything, my re.ddit account was a massive outlet for all that I was dealing with, especially after escaping severe, life-threatening abuse. It’s the good, the bad, and the very, very ugly of my former abused life, some of which I still feel very traumatized and embarrassed over. I fight with myself on the daily to not outright delete said posts- even account- in general.

I just happened to write in ways that resonated with others, which is all that I’m striving to do. I don’t want anybody else to feel as horrifically lonely and ashamed as I did at the beginning of my recovery. May my creativity always express my truths, and validate the truths of others especially.

In similar news, I will likely not be returning to Twi.tter either.

I am only keeping my accounts where they are because of the mass username theft that started ever since the site went up in flames. A shame, but I feel confident in my decision. Especially when that site as a whole did severe damage to my recovery while I was using it. I became very bitter, frightened, and aggressive to (albeit very real) IRL threats that weren’t anywhere near me.

Thus, I made the critical decision to step away, for the sake of my recovery. I am very happy to announce that that was one of the best decisions I have made regarding social media usage. Unless there are significant changes for the better, I refuse to return to one of the biggest stressors in my recent history.

It didn’t matter how I curated my feed, but it did matter that I curated it out of my life (for now). I, and everyone who could be/is affected by my actions, are much, much better off.

Otherwise, hello Tu.mblr!

Ever since my first aesthetic account all those years ago, I always had a feeling that I’d make a definite comeback at some point. Over a decade later, the self-fulfilling prophecy has come true, but for reasons I’d least expect.

Since it’s exceptionally dated, I will revamp this blog as much as possible, so that it is befitting for a multimedia artist like myself. As aforementioned in past posts, I will still reblog the art of others here, but I’ll be making a more personal side-account for my mental health & survivorhood musings. I may cross-reblog from one to the other, depending on the post’s themes.

I continue to insist that this blog, as well as any other blogs of mine (unless posted otherwise), ARE 16+ AT VERY LEAST, 1.8+ RECOMMENDED. Due to the prevailing themes in my artwork, there will be discussion of tagged traumas, though no NS/FW or highly graphic details will be given here.  

For your own safety, please abide by ALL posted age warnings. I can, and already have, blocked those who interact with my accounts in ways that are inappropriate for their publicly stated/shown age.

I also reserve the right to block at will, ESPECIALLY if I suspect that an interacting user is a minor under 16.

Please respect my boundaries, and refrain from interacting/DMing/sending asks if you are under 16. Failure to avoid doing so will result in a PERMANENT BLOCK as soon as I notice.

Those who are above the age of 16, but under the age of 18, are on thin ice. I continue to reserve the right to block, including for the safety of the minor in question. Genuinely nothing personal, all about protection.

In addition, I do not give out my Discord to ANYBODY but verified clients & very, VERY close friends. Unless you are either of those, please respect my privacy. I do not administrate/moderate ANY ACTIVE SERVERS EITHER, and I have no plans at all to do so for the foreseeable future.

Do not ask me to make a server. Do not ask me to moderate any servers.

All this & more will be in my boundaries page once it goes online.

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Anyways, to those who did: Thank you for reading. I know this post will just be a speck in the sand, but it’s very important that I put all of this on the record.

More to come soon. Stay tuned.

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TL;DR: Re.ddit admins can & will suspend you over valid reports, even if subre.ddit moderators have EXPLICITLY mentioned that you were in the right.

As such, I will likely not return to using the site, even if my suspension appeal is successful. I have written many resources, especially for fellow survivors of severe NS/FL trauma, and do not want to risk their deletion. Many have expressed their gratitude for them, which is why I feel this particular sacrifice must be followed through.

In addition, I will not be returning to Twi.tter either, and will merely hold my usernames for security reasons. Said site caused significant damage to my recovery, and I- as well as those close to me- am sincerely better off not being in such a high-stress, high-toxicity environment.

Tu.mblr, on the other hand, will be my new home base. I will be revamping this blog into a dedicated art + art inspo blog, as well as making a more personal blog for trauma & recovery discussion. However, I continue to insist that my blogs are 16+ at LEAST, with the recommendation of 1.8+ due to severe trauma themes. No NS/FW or highly graphic details will be given, but there may be NS/FL warnings.

Stay tuned for more, including a boundaries page.

Thank you for reading.

[octahedral-chaos]

Not going to lie but I kind of feel bad for Sebastian,

Dude got turned into a chimera… and he was arrested for no reason… poor thing

[not-miles]

I’m not.

Don’t accuse people of crimes without any evidence.

Also - Radicalism is always bad and is responsible for most of history’s greatest atrocities.

Don’t be a radical feminist kids.

Just saw a post that said Gaiman deserves the Rowling treatment. They wanted to see people burning their copies of Good Omens (guess they don't know that Terry Pratchett was co-author) and that (paraphrased) "No man ever gets treated like Rowling and it's so fucked up."

Rowling is funding a fucking hate movement that openly wants to eradicate trans people. She's openly praised fascists like Matt Walsh (who wants to get rid of ALL queer people and strip women of their rights as well) and is friends with people like Posie Parker who willingly ally with neo-nazis and other fascists to reach their goal. It was only a few months ago that she did a Holocaust denial by saying trans people weren't persecuted by the nazis.

While what Gaiman did is reprehensible, it is nowhere near on the level of awful as Rowling. Gaiman is only worse than Rowling if you don't give a fuck about trans people or the queer community as a whole. Because guess who she and her friends are coming for once they're done with trans people.

[friend-through-teenage-nights]

John Finnemore in Avenue 5 S2E3 "Is It A Good Dot?"

[youngtreetheorist]

Debunking the False Narratives Surrounding Drake Bell

Drake Bell Moved to Mexico:

Truth: Drake Bell never moved to Mexico. He has been traveling there since 2008, and this has nothing to do with his legal case. He has always had a large fan base in Mexico since 2008. "Drake Campana" is not his stage name and never has been it was merely a joke on social media, nothing more. In 2024 He did stay in mexico for a few months to work on his album.

False: Drake Bell went to jail and is currently wanted.

Truth: Drake Bell never went to jail for the 2021 case; he received probation. The only time he spent a few days in jail was for a DUI in 2015. He is not wanted and does not have an active warrant.

Drake Bell Changed His Name to Avoid Legal Issues:

False: Some people have claimed that Drake changed his name to "Drake Campana" to escape legal troubles in the U.S.

Truth: .Drake Campana is not his stage name and never was. It was just a joke on social media. Nothing else.

False: Rumors suggest that Drake Bell has been banned from Hollywood due to legal troubles.

Truth: Drake has continued to release music and has performed in both the U.S. and Mexico. He has faced legal challenges, but there is no ban preventing him from working in Hollywood.

Drake Bell Was Convicted of Child Abuse:

False: Some reports have exaggerated his legal case, stating that he was convicted of child abuse.

Truth: In 2021, Drake pleaded guilty to attempted child endangerment and disseminating harmful material to a minor, related to inappropriate communications. He was sentenced to probation and community service, not for child abuse.

Drake Bell Is a Pedophile and Groomer:

False: Some individuals have labeled Drake Bell as a pedophile and a groomer, perpetuating harmful stereotypes and accusations.

Truth: There is no credible evidence to support these claims. Drake has faced legal issues stemming from inappropriate communications with a minor, but these allegations have been mischaracterized. Investigations have shown that he is not a pedophile, and he has not been convicted of any related crimes. The accusations of grooming are also unfounded and have been dismissed in light of the evidence.

Drake Bell was charged with child endangerment and a misdemeanor count of disseminating matter harmful to juveniles, not because he sent explicit pictures, but due to the nature of the communication with a minor. Here's a breakdown:

Child Endangerment: Ohio law holds adults accountable for engaging with minors in ways that could harm or exploit them, even if the adult is unaware of the minor’s age at first. In Drake’s case, although he didn’t send explicit images, the law considered his communication with a minor as reckless, especially after learning her age.

Disseminating Harmful Matter: This charge typically relates to sharing content inappropriate for minors. In this case, the messages exchanged, though not explicit in terms of images, were deemed harmful or inappropriate for someone of her age by the court. The charge doesn't always require the sharing of explicit pictures—messages themselves can be considered harmful.

Essentially, he was charged for inappropriate communication with a minor and for not being more cautious once her age became known, which is why the law still held him accountable.

Some people think child endangerment is the same as a pedophile or grooming charge, but it's not. Here's an explanation of the difference:

Child endangerment refers to actions that put a child's safety at risk, such as neglect or reckless behavior, without involving sexual misconduct. Pedophilia or grooming, on the other hand, involves an adult's inappropriate or exploitative behavior toward a minor for sexual purposes. These are separate and distinct charges with different legal definitions and implications. In Drake’s case, he blocked her when he found out her age, proving he had no intention of talking to or being with a minor.

False claim: Drake Bell kidnapped Jane Doe. Truth: Drake Bell was unable to enter Canada due to his DUIs, making this accusation highly unlikely. Additionally, Jane Doe's aunt drove her everywhere, further disproving the claim.

Drake Bell Is Broke and Homeless:

False: There have been persistent rumors that Drake Bell is broke and homeless.

Truth: While Drake did file for bankruptcy in 2014, he has since continued his music career, performing in the U.S. and Mexico, suggesting that he's financially stable.

Drake Bell Is Retired from the Entertainment Industry:

False: Some rumors suggest Drake has retired completely from acting and music.

Truth: He remains active, especially in his music career, and continues to release new albums and perform live.

Melissa Lingafelt's Abuse Allegations Were Proven True:

False: Some believe that Melissa Lingafelt’s allegations of abuse were proven true.

Truth: Melissa’s allegations were never proven, and she provided fake documents before deleting her TikTok where she made the claims.

TMZ has always been on top of breaking celebrity news, often being the first to report when a celebrity passes or when major stories unfold. If Melissa had actually filed a police report, TMZ would’ve known about it immediately, and they would’ve reported it. However, no one could find the report using the document number. When Melissa was called out on this, she deleted all her TikToks. It's also suspicious that she made these claims right after her friend, Lil Tracy, faced rape allegations, and she even threatened to kidnap and harm other women. You can see it for yourself at https://x.com/jimiono_lies. I believe Melissa fabricated the story to take the heat off her friend and for personal gain.

*  On Melissa’s Twitter, she posted pictures of Drake in 2016 and 2017 as 'Throwback Thursday' posts. It does seem odd to post pictures of someone you later accuse of abuse. On her TikTok before it was deleted, she maintained a box with their pictures together.Drake helped her financially in 2019.

Drake Bell Is an Abuser:

False: Some rumors claim that Drake Bell is an abuser, pointing to allegations made by others.

Truth: Drake has consistently denied any allegations of abuse against him. While he pleaded guilty to attempted child endangerment and disseminating harmful material to a minor, there has been no credible evidence or conviction of physical or sexual abuse. Furthermore, allegations made against him, such as those by Melissa Lingafelt, have been proven false through investigations and lack of evidence. Additionally, there is no evidence to support claims of him abusing his ex wife.

Drake Bell's Career Was Destroyed Solely by His Legal Issues:

False: It’s often suggested that his career downfall was entirely due to his legal issues.

Truth: While legal problems have impacted his public image, he has maintained a significant fan base, especially in Latin America, where his Spanish music has found success.

Drake Bell Is a Registered Sex Offender:

False: Some media outlets, including The New York Times, have falsely labeled Drake as a registered sex offender.

Truth: Drake Bell is not a registered sex offender. He pleaded guilty to attempted child endangerment and disseminating harmful material to a minor, but these charges do not classify him as a sex offender under U.S. law.

Drake Bell Committed a Serious Felony:

False: It has been widely circulated that Drake committed serious felony crimes and would be imprisoned for a long time.

Truth: The charges were misdemeanors, and he was sentenced to probation and community service, not long-term imprisonment.

Drake Bell Can No Longer Enter the United States:

False: There have been rumors that Drake is banned from entering the U.S. due to legal or personal issues.

Truth: Drake continues to travel between the U.S. and Mexico for performances, proving that he is not banned from entering the U.S.

Drake Bell Admitted to All Accusations in Court:

False: Some claims suggest that Drake admitted to all accusations brought against him.

Truth: He pleaded guilty to the charges of attempted child endangerment and disseminating harmful material to a minor, but the allegations against him were proven false by witnesses and investigations. He has consistently denied these other accusations.

Drake Bell Stopped Making Music:

False: Some rumors suggest Drake quit making music after his legal issues.

Truth: Drake has continued to release new music, including his recent album Non-Stop Flight, and he remains an active performer, particularly in Mexico.

Drake Bell Is a Trump Supporter:

False: While some public figures are vocal about their political affiliations, Drake Bell has not publicly endorsed Donald Trump or aligned himself with any particular political figure. No credible sources have confirmed that he is a Trump supporter.

Drake Bell Is Transphobic:

False: There have been no verifiable reports or actions suggesting that Drake Bell has made transphobic comments or displayed transphobic behavior. These rumors likely stem from misinformation or misinterpretation of statements.

Drake Bell Is Homophobic:

False: Drake has not been known to make any homophobic remarks, and there is no public evidence to suggest he holds homophobic views. Any claims to the contrary appear to be baseless. Drake Bell has shown support for the victims of the Pulse nightclub tragedy by making a donation and visiting the site to pay his respects.

There was also a false allegation that Drake groomed a Mexican girl named Nora. Nora is an adult. Nora herself denied these claims and asked people to stop spreading them. She only knows Drake because he’s friends with her father. Another accusation claimed he moved to Mexico to groom children due to the lower age of consent, but this, too, was unfounded.

Here are some sources I have gathered. I am currently working on obtaining more and am waiting for documents from other sources.

FFDB Project (@FFDBProject) / X

Matt Wallace on X: "⚠️ PEDOWOOD EXPOSED MANUFACTURING FAKE ALLEGATIONS AGAINST ABUSED CHILDREN TO SILENCE THEM ⚠️ https://t.co/wwpzQ7glnd" / X

Drake Bell explains child endangerment guilty plea

False accusations were a nightmare for Drake Bell and his family - YouTube

***Court documents ( I just want to point out that the documents available online are only the initial investigation. Not all the evidence is included. Some of the pages lack timestamps, and others are out of order. There are a total of 1,000 pages of documents, and you need to request access to obtain them all.)

Trial Video

So there you have it—many of the false narratives surrounding Drake Bell debunked. From misconceptions about his legal issues to rumors about his family life, it’s clear that misinformation can easily spread. Drake has taken accountability for his actions by going to rehab and seeking therapy. He has openly admitted to his past behaviors, which shows personal growth and a commitment to change. It’s important to remember that Drake Bell doesn’t owe us any further details about his life. We should respect the privacy of celebrities and not harass them for things we know nothing about. Everyone deserves a chance to move forward without being constantly scrutinized. Thanks for Reading, and remember, always seek the truth! Don’t spread rumors or misinformation without evidence. No one should be harassed to the point of feeling suicidal. Always remember what Thumper said in Bambi: 'If you can't say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.

[werewolf-cuddles]

What happened with inquistor3?

Basically, three people (a 17 year old girl, her apparently 20 year old boyfriend, and a Tik Tok user who makes exposed videos) spent several months putting together a plan to cancel a 23 year old who made Call of Duty cosplay videos by falsely painting him as a groomer.

The 17 year old claimed to be an adult, because he explicitly had "minors dni" in his bio, and started doing editing work for him while he believed she was an adult. She started taking screenshots of anything he said that would look bad out of context. Eventually, somebody brought it to his attention what was going on, and he cut off contact with her. After that, the drama channel made the "evidence" public.

And it worked. The narrative that Vince was a groomer spread, other people began reporting the story as fact, and he began recieving widespread harassment. Not long afterwards, he hung himself.

The drama channel has basically denied all responsibility for what happened, and has since deleted her account because she was getting a lot of shit for it, and the boyfriend has set his account to private.

[bodhrancomedy]

So, uh. I don’t know how up Tumblr is up on The Dreaded Place (Tiktok), but every couple of months (usually 3) a new openly, usually flamboyantly queer person is singled out and pursued as a “groomer” and every time there’s no real evidence, just out of context ten seconds clips and then people start screaming “would you prefer to wait until something happens?!?” and, I’d prefer to wait until you have evidence. Like, I’d prefer to wait until you have evidence and go to the authorities with said evidence because trying to incite mob justice on Tiktok because you don’t like someone’s vibes since that actually does nothing to “protect” the people you think need protecting.

“Would you prefer to wait until something happens.” You do know that trying to get someone hurt/arrested/killed because you think they’re icky without any actual evidence is fascist, right? You do know you’re just repeating Nazi propaganda?

“Would you prefer to wait until something happens.” I would prefer to wait until something exists? Until there is an actual reason to act because otherwise would be the Thought Police you’re so fond of throwing out.

If there is actual evidence that this person is a threat to children, take it to the police. They’re queer. The police will investigate in the way they won’t investigate conservative politicians, conservative beloved entertainers, and priests. Or the police themselves.

[ciderjacks]

Sending this to you because you'd understand. I am just so sick and tired of these powerful men who use that power to be creeps while hiding under a nice, friendly mask. It pisses me off so damn bad that I can do next to nothing about it.

no srsly, it’s at the point where I’m really just done with any male celebrity. Like I’m so close to just not supporting any of them anymore. Which sucks but MAN. SRSLY. They ALL end up this way, because apparently men are just incapable of having any position of power without inevitably using it to abuse young women.

[fungal-boy-witch-yay]

the man vs bear argument is stupid because whether you pick bear or man you will be harassed and berated for your opinion. Statistics aside if you see someone pick bear, you know exactly why they picked bear, and if someone picked man, you know exactly why they picked man. If I see one more man say they wanna see a women get ripped apart my a bear or one more person get bareted and harassed simply for choosing man I will LOOSE MY SHIT.

[officialdailyplanet]

Behind the Cape: My Struggle for Truth

My turbulent and abusive affair with Superman, a tell-all by Lois Lane

As a journalist, I’ve always prided myself on uncovering the truth, no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Today, I find myself in the most challenging story of my life—one that reveals the hidden darkness behind the man who is supposed to be a hero, as well as my own flaws.

This is about my affair with @official--superman and how it turned into my nightmare.

#metoo

For years, I’ve been married to Clark Kent (@official-clark-kent), a man who has been my partner in every sense of the word.

But despite that love, I became swept up in an affair with Superman, the world’s most iconic superhero. What began as a whirlwind of excitement and wonder quickly spiraled into a relationship that would haunt me, eventually destroying my marriage and leading to my divorce.

The truth I’m about to share is difficult, but it’s essential. I need to shed light on a reality that’s often overlooked: the man I loved used his powers not just to protect me, but to intimidate me, to terrorize me, to hurt me.

In the beginning, being with Superman was exhilarating. But as I got to know him, I began to see another side—a side that was controlling and, at times, violent. What started as an intense romance became a source of fear. During arguments, his strength loomed over me, and I often felt powerless, trapped in my relationship with a Kryptonian.

I was drawn into a dangerous fantasy, swept away by the allure of a man who defied the very laws of nature. Yet, as I navigated the complexities of my marriage to Clark and my affair with Superman, I found myself increasingly isolated. Superman’s concern for my safety morphed into manipulation, and I began to silence my own voice. I was unable to tell my husband what was happening, afraid of betraying him, but at the same time, I felt imprisoned by Superman.

I felt as though I was losing myself, caught between two worlds, one that looked to all the world like a perfect man and the other filled with fear.

The world saw Superman as the ultimate good, but I was left feeling ashamed and alone, convinced that my pain didn’t matter in the grand narrative of a superhero’s life. I share this not to vilify Clark, who remains blameless, nor myself for my weakness, but to highlight a truth that many may find hard to grasp: abuse can come in many forms, even from those we admire most.

It’s time for me to reclaim my story and my voice. I urge anyone who has faced similar struggles to recognize that love should never be suffocating. Healing begins with acknowledging the truth, even when it’s painful.

I hope that by sharing my experience, I can empower others to speak out and seek help. We deserve relationships built on respect and equality, not fear and control. Behind the cape, there can be darkness, and it’s time to bring it into the light.

[traumatizedjaguar]

Some people won’t let you explain yourself and all they’re doing is looking for arguments that’s what bullies do. Ignore people.

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[blazed-c1tyrus]

You think Lily is innocent?

Either Tara is real, and Lily was knowingly friends with someone who had sex with her underaged sister

Or

She made up a person to solicit nudes etc off people who had rejected her (and made up all that weird stuff)

Like either way she is not innocent

literally who are you talking about?

Y’all just make up people then pin the blame on Lily.

[trans-leek-cookie]

Random fucking post bc im. Mad. Gonna try not to say any buckwild shit bc it's not really my place but. Eugh. First of all it feels weird as fuck to see a hing that's is a call-out for like 3 diff ppl working on co-host and someone pointing out "hey the first person here (who is a transfem) is being slandered" (this isn't the weird part bc. Transfems r extra vulnerable to slander n pedojacketing) which includes a screenshot from the Transfem in question saying "the accusations are focusing on my actions when I was being groomed and abused" and respond "PURITY CULTURE!!! WHY ARE PPL SO MAD ABOUT FICTIONAL CHILDREN THIS IS THE PROBLEM WYOUNG LGBTS" like. 1. Why is it about purity culture and not trans misogyny (also not what purity culture fucking is) 2. GROOMING. GROOMING IS WHY! GROOMING IS THE PROBLEM MOTHERFUCKER FICTIONAL STUFF CAN BE USED TO GROOM MINORS (HEY, QUICK ASIDE- YOU CAN EASILY SEPERATE FICTION FROM REALITY. KIDS FUCKING CANT! I KNOW FROM THE EXPERIENCE OF BEING A CHILD EXPOSED TO CSA BEING NORMALIZED/DENIED IN FANFIC).

And let me say again: young transfems are also especially vulnerable bc they often have little to no support system, meaning not only can ppl get them Into those situations with promises of friendship and community, it becomes crazy hard TO GET OUT

Second thought is if any of the cunts who were like "megapope was kinda right honestly" start making hammer car jokes they should delete their fucking accounts

[bittersweetbonbon]

im not a creep. im not a predator. im not a danger to anyone. im a grooming victim and the people i trusted are genuinely trying to drive me to suicide. i'm so fucking tired

[werewolf-cuddles]

Just heard about what happened to Inquisitore3 on Tik Tok.

To say that I am disgusted and outraged is an understatement.

I'd say that the three people who were directly involved in spreading false grooming accusations that led a 23 year old to take his own life should be held accountable for their actions, but as you'd expect, all three of them have either deleted or privated their accounts to escape the consequences.

How fucked up do you have to be to deliberately collaborate to ruin someone's life for kicks?