#trans women are violent

[transassdemon]

[My art, don't steal, tag if reposting]

[lisaquestions]

Stay the fuck away from trans women

everything in this post is TMRA garbage, not worth even arguing with.

People like this have no business speaking to or about us, let alone insisting that we should be in community with them. This is just tortured rationalization to treat us like garbage and reify patriarchal hierarchy by placing men in authority and power over women.

Trans women, you do not have to let toxic dipshits like this into your lives nor do you have to listen to them. They do not know what they're talking about, they only want to define our place as subordinate to them even as they move through the world as actual men. Be free of this garbage, be yourselves, don't let this shit drag you down.

people like this love to accuse us of terf rhetoric, but that entire post is literally terf rhetoric

also could someone who is not one of these unhinged woman-hating MRAs explain how people got to "white trans women are more male than other trans women" like they realize they're just trying to litigate excuses to say that shit and this isn't real analysis or theory right? Especially given how often trans women of color are ~suddenly white~ when people are mad at them?

[crimeronan]

this is so far beyond the point of the article that i didnt wanna say it in the tags but in the story about the trans women running a surgery clinic from their barn, there's a line about how it was easier to "pass" in rural areas in the early aughts because rural women aren't expected to meet the same standards of femininity as city women, and i just. YEAH.

i actually didn't know that "short hair, no makeup, wears flannel" was a butch dyke stereotype until WELL into my late teens, simply because that described about 80% of the middle-aged women With Husbands i knew.

it's been making me fucking crazy to watch the obsession with "clockability" rise because the divide between cis women and trans women is so small as to be nonexistent. i'm fucking flabbergasted watching men who wouldn't have blinked twice at a pair of trans women in 2005 now, in 2025, being like "better watch for jaw scruff and a bump in the throat and a deep voice and and and--"

because like. THAT IS THE CIS WOMEN AROUND YOU. THAT IS YOUR CIS WIFE?? THAT IS YOUR CIS MOM AND COWORKER AND SISTER AND DAUGHTER.... women just fucking look like that!! cis or trans!! oh my god!!

trans women are by far in the most danger from this rise in rhetoric, it fucking Guts Me to think about those same neighbors in 2025 being a lot Less Chill bc of whatever nonsense they've heard on fox news. but good god, it's fucking. it drives me insane. The Sex Binary Does Not Exist. Stop .

[chrissy-kaos]

I can already tell today is going to be one of those days..

[rabid-catboy]

If transmisogyny is actually the intersection of transphobia and misogyny, that would be something all trans people experience, not just transfemme individuals.

If it's just a word for transphobia faced by transfemmes, then it makes sense for transmascs to have an equivalent word.

If you say transmascs can't use the word transmisogyny to describe their experiences, and essentially just use it to mean transphobia against transfemmes, then it doesn't make any sense to get upset about the word transandrophobia

[kainekillinggod]

Actually the hatred of men not only harms Trans men and mascs but Trans women too. In our cis-normative oppressive society, Trans women aren't seen as real women, just "men in dresses" and bullshit like that. The hate and fear of men within queer/trans spaces is extremely harmful.

[pokemon-radical-red]

I hate it when I headcanon a character who’s canonically a girl as a trans man and make ships of him and a character who’s canonically a guy and I refer to it as a gay/mlm/guyxguy/whatever ship and someone gets mad. Like omg let trans people have FUNNNNN. Why are queer headcanons and genderbends cool until they’re saying that the character is trans???

“OMGGG you’re so misogynistic I can’t believe you would erase FEMALE representation!!!”

and like half of the characters in the franchise are women, and a total of… NONE of the characters are trans men. Also, my headcanon doesn’t change the source material. If my stuff upsets you, you can block me and go engage with the source or maybe every single other fanwork, since mine is the only trans man hc for this character that I’ve ever seen.

or when people are like “WTF??? this is so transphobic!!! how dare you imply that a character who looks like that could be a trans man?!?! do you think that trans men are women or something??? she uses she/her, and you’re misgendering her!”

No, I don’t think that being a trans man makes you a woman or vice versa. That’s why it’s a headcanon, and the headcanon is that this character is actually a trans man and not a woman at all! You’ll never guess what pronouns most trans men had to use at some point in their lives, and you really won’t like it when you find out about pre-(or no-)transition trans men… or trans men who are in the closet… or trans men who don’t know that they’re trans yet.

“But the character is a kid!!! Saying they’re trans is sexualizing them.”

I’ve seen this one from other queer people. Like did you miss when all of the homophobes said this about your identity, or do you think that bigotry is only bad when it’s directed at you?

“Why would you say ‘testosterone could fix her’??? Are you trying to call her a delusional woman?”

Why would your brain even go to that first? This literally has to be a bad faith reading, because there’s no way that someone could see what I said and get this unless they were specifically looking for something to be mad at me for.

(Note for anyone unaware: “Estrogen would’ve fixed him!” was a meme going around at the time I said this. I’m not sure if it’s still super big, but this was a joke to the effect of that.)

“So girls can’t be tomboys anymore? You just wanna trans everyone?”

This is like actual real life transphobic rhetoric. This isn’t even just shitting on my headcanon, but in fact, sending transphobic hate to a trans man. Thanks 👍. Maybe you should go send JK Rowling another message about how much you loved her essay instead of bothering me.

[thatweirdtranny]

istg people are SO comfortable mistreating guys in a way where if the tables were turned the dude would be called abusive. so many people think it’s perfectly normal to mock the men in their lives, yell at them, insult them, etc. you’re not going to end misogyny by casually abusing the men around you. some of you just have no respect.

[princessefemmelesbian]

Transandrophobia truthers are so damn racist and white oh my fucking god y'all actually piss me the fuck off every time you tokenize Black and brown men for your stupid as fuck "mra but make it trans-inclusive" ideology created by a creepy guy with a corrective rape fetish(something I'll never let up on for as long as I live, btw). If I ever see another one of y'all say "Black and brown men face discrimination because they're seen as overly masculine and that's why masculinity in men is oppressed in this society" I will literally kill myself. Stop using Black and brown men as brownie points for your bullshit arguments about misandry being real when you don't have the slightest idea how racialized oppression works. White boys are so annoying and dumb istfg.

@punkeropercyjackson @punknicodiangelo @pinkpinkstarlet

[pwurrz]

if in 2024 you’re still against the terms tme and tma because you’ve convinced yourself that they’re just another version of afab and amab, not only are you incredibly and willfully stupid, you’re also super transmisogynistic for attempting to frame trans women who simply want to use easy to understand language to talk about their own oppression as genital obsessed creeps who only care about what’s in people’s pants.

grow tf up and stop demonizing trans women because of your own bigotry and ignorance. you aren’t subtle.

[roman-roy-apologist]

yeah ok i get it you don’t think transandrophobia exists but you do realize that it’s still bad to be shitty to transmascs right? you get that right?

[livingradicaly]

Every time I speak up against trans/gender ideology, I'm terrified of being harassed and doxed like many other women have been. I'm terrified of being stalked and cyber bullied like countless other women have been for sharing our opinions on our own reality and sex. This is not normal. I and other women should not feel terrified talking about female oppression and biological sex. The fact that we feel this scared in 2023 talking about feminism because it will offend men, blows my mind. Seeing trans people on tumblr and twitter make violent comments like 'shoot a bullet through every terfs pussy' or 'every terf should get raped' or 'women should stfu about oppression because it's terfy' and the fact that no one calls them out and the minute they do, they're instantly doxed and bullied off by being called a bigot? When trans people make comments like this towards women, it's no wonder, we do not want to share our spaces with you people. Our concerns are valid and not born out of bigotry or transphobia like so many claim it to be - it is an exact reaction to the violence shown by tra/trans women. At the end of the day, trans ideology is more about male entitlement, male violence and further oppressing the female sex.

[germtimes]

People like to put words into my mouth and call me horrible things without realizing they are proving my point. There is SO MUCH INFIGHTING IN THE TRANS COMMUNITY and from my experience it's usually anti-transmasculinity because I am transmasc. Transmisogyny is a real problem that needs to be addressed in and around the trans community, but not at the expense of other trans people. Please stop infighting I am not your enemy for pointing out flaws in our community.

[vintage-bentley]

The next time your female socialisation kicks in and you feel a little bad for the trans identified male who’s whining about women not feeling safe around him…look up “terfbreaking”. See how these men—yes, MEN—fantasise about raping women who don’t agree with them. See how just calling them the “wrong” pronoun makes them want to weaponise the penis they’re oh so dysphoric over. See how often they direct their violent fantasies at lesbians in particular, because they are just like every other straight man that dreams of raping homosexual women. See how “terfbreaking” and “dykebreaking” are often interchangeable.

Listen to trans “women” and let them tell you in their own words how violently they hate women and especially lesbians. And never let yourself feel guilty for believing them.

[transmascutena]

I don't mean any hate but it's a teeny tiny off? tht lot of rgu fans here hc a violently abusive misogynistic guy aka Saionji as a trans girl.......... I think abt it often n it feels more wrong as time passes.. I love trans hcs it's more abt the character not the hc. Am I wrong? Again I dnt mean hate its something tht I've been thinking..

transfem saionji is not a headcanon i think about really ever and tbh it is not one that makes much sense to me. i suppose i am personally neutral towards it, but in the sense where i can definitely understand why someone would be uncomfortable with it, while i also don't really understand why someone would particularly like it. it's not one i see brought up super often either, like. i don't really know of anyone who's as passionate about it as, say, some people seem to be about transfem miki? idk, i don't care very much about these boys in general, and i think there are more interesting and more fitting trans hcs for characters in the show than them. like hey did you know you're allowed to headcanon girls as trans girls too lol

[billionbrilliantstars]

Hate crimes and discrimination would become acceptable under Donald Trump. As a black woman, my life and my future is at stake in this election. I’m pretty light skinned, but my mom? She’s not. I fear for her life and mine. Remember Matthew Shepherd? His brutal murder wouldn’t even be considered a hate crime under Trump’s policies. We must also save Palestine. And I believe Kamala will do that.

But even if you don’t believe her. Please understand what Trump will do to all minorities in this country. Under Trump’s policies women can be raped and forced to carry their rapists children. Under his policies, Women can be discriminated against in the workplace if their passion, education, and training leans towards a male dominated field. Divorce rights for women will be restricted immensely which will force thousands of women to stay with their abusers because not all victims of domestic violence have enough evidence to get a divorce if a no fault divorce is off the table. Even if they do, they can be killed while they are trying to prove they were abused. Police brutality against blacks people will escalate. I could go on and on and on. But just as lives are at stake in Palestine, lives are at stake here. Please, vote blue. Even if you don’t love Kamala, please vote to save the lives of your mothers, sisters, and daughters. Vote to save the life of your friends and family who are not white. Vote to save the lives of your friends and family who are part of the LGBTQ community. All of us knows someone who falls into one of these categories. Or you might be that someone yourself.