#trans woman and genderfluid

[castielfucks]

theres actually no rules to transitioning and youre allowed to want contradictory things for your transition. it's fine if you only want some of the changes that come with hrt and take preventative measures for the rest (like wanting bottom growth but not body hair or vice versa). you can want to have vagina AND a dick. you can be a woman and want top surgery, or wear a packer. you can be a man and want to have a pussy. you can change your transition goals one or a million times or not have any goals at all and just take things as they come or as they feel right.

there are no rules.

[midwestemokilledmygrandma]

transsexual is not an old fashioned or outdated term. transsexual is not a term only used by transmedicalists, truscum and transphobic trans people. you do not have to like or use the term transsexual for yourself and no one is forcing you to, however you do have to be normal about other people using the term transsexual to describe themselves and their experiences.

people still use the term transsexual, transsexual is a term steeped in trans history and trans liberation because transness is not just about the gender binary but also about the sex binary. for many people transness is inherently related to their sex and they are trying to change their sex. sex is not an irrefutable, immutable fact and the sooner people accept that the sooner trans, nonbinary and intersex liberation becomes a possibility. I hate the sentiment that gender is a changeable social construct and sex is a biological fact because sex is also a changeable social construct.

stop buying into t_rf and transphobic rhetoric about sex.

[transjoyworld1]

How am i looking🤤

[allthegaynamesaretaken]

Edit for those confused:

TL;DR People usually want you to use all the pronouns in their pronouns set.

People who have a pronoun set (more than one pronoun) typically want you to use all of the pronouns in that set. Often the pronouns are arranged for preference, but in this post I did not include that in this post (eg they/he they/she) for simplicity. If you are confused about how someone wants you to use their pronouns: ask! :)

[your-local-femboy-bitch]

Chapelle Roan: Damn if only I had some inspiration for the next song.

The helpful feminonomenon:

[transsexualfiend]

If you are trans or consider yourself an ally to trans people PLEASE learn about DIY HRT and learn about the myths associated with it. Even if you're already on HRT. Even if you aren't on HRT. Even if you never plan to go on HRT. The more you know the better ally you can be to trans people in these upcoming months. The more people know, the less harmful misinformation will be spread.

[sophiarosaa01]

Mind if I just wear this ?

[justdavina]

Cross dressing can be so much fun darling's! Every boi should cross dress at least once even if it's just at home! With a little time and practice, perhaps some help from other gurls, you may even get the courage to go out on the town for the night. If you live in San Francisco...well then it's everywhere..You don't have to be gay to cross-dress!

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

not yet my friend, we still need to outlive jk rowling

[poll-boy]

HAPPY PRIDE!!

- if you want to submit a poll, you can on my blog! any and all suggestions are appreciated :)

especially if you have pride related suggestions for pride month!

[isabellascarlett1]

All Trans men are men, but not all Trans men aren’t women.

All Trans women are women, but not all Trans women aren’t men.

Gender can be far more complex and less binary for many folks 💗

[midwestemokilledmygrandma]

they/them is not an all-inclusive pronoun that you can use to refer to anyone just because it is gender neutral.

the very basic sentiment of "don't misgender people" seems to go over even the heads of trans people and cis people alike when it comes to they/them pronouns.

not everyone wants to be called they/them. if someone strictly uses she/her or he/him or she/he or neopronouns etc. anything that is not they/them.... using they/them would still be misgendering. in the same way calling someone who doesn't use any other pronoun that pronoun would be misgendering.

You don't get a free pass to call people whatever pronouns you want to call them rather than the pronouns they use just because they them is a gender neutral pronoun.

also not all nonbinary people use strictly they/them pronouns or they/them pronouns at all.

i feel like this is very simple yet is misunderstood by a lot of people

[kainekillinggod]

ok but racism and fatphobia in the queer community is crazy btw. Like sometime you gotta ask,

Are they butch/masc or are they a poc? Are they fem or are they white? Are they androgynous or are they skinny? Is their hair style choice non conforming or is it just not straight/fluffy? Honestly sometimes I see some strange things being said up in here, and irl too. I just. Idk mann

[thepink0paque]

In light of recent discourse I have seen around the topic of medical transition, HRT, and being transgender, I feel like I should remind some folks: nonbinary folks, agender folks, gender fluid folks, etc, receive medical HRT and surgical treatments, too. Those things aren’t reserved for binary trans folk, and pretending they are erases a large chunk of nonbinary folks.

HRT is for folks of all genders, not just binary trans men & women.

And not all nonbinary folks are fem presenting/androgynous presenting female assigned folks. Each of us looks different, each of us has a different transition story and journey.

We’re an important part of the community, and excluding us and our experiences and voices isn’t OK.

[ohliivvy1]

Who wants me 🥹