born to be in a hot t4t polycule forced to yearn after my own friends
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hey idk which anxious pre-t babe needs to hear this but i didn't get to when i was younger so. testosterone will not make you ugly. it won't make you a horrible person. it won't 'mutilate' or ruin your body. if you want to go on testosterone then literally all that happens is it makes you really fucking hot and REALLY fucking happy.
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jesus christ we get it. girlcock and boypussy and “mommy? sorry. mommy?” and not letting a single trans positivity post go by without chiming in to say “yeah!! AND trans people are so attractive” like okay. oh fucking kay. so it’s still about genitals and it’s still about fuckability. we get it. but is there any respect?? just when we’re talking about our experiences and frustrations. when we’re not consumable or attractive. when we’re people.
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i swear to god i've seen an exactly equivalent number of posts recently with the premises "it's gross to talk so much about how you wanna fuck trans people, can't you be normal about people you don't wanna fuck" and "it's gross to act like trans people are unfuckable and that we're only attractive as a fetish, actually i'm a girl with a great dick and it's fine" & i'm like. rubs my eyes. maybe the truth is that human experience is varied and different people wish to be desired/perceived/discussed in different ways and what's validating to one person feels yucky to another. maybe if someone's form of validation isn't for you then you don't need to immediately assume the worst faith possible interpretation of their words. i mean this in the most constructive way possible bc i do this too and i frequently look back at assumptions i made and realize i'm insane. Just Because It Felt Bad To You Doesn't Mean It Feels Bad To Everyone.
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best friends who kiss sometimes maybe??? no big deal :) (i would do anything for you, i wish to know you entirely, cosmically, intimately. you consume my thoughts and bring me an immediate comfort and joy. i feel as though we have known each other in every lifetime thus far, and hope to know you in every one after this. also i want you to rail me.)
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Positivity post for people who actually got less hot after transitioning. I can't be the only one out there who went from being attractive to being unattractive. It was, in fact, something I was terrified of happening, and it happened. And guess what? I'm still fucking happier now, unattractive and true to myself, than I was when I was hot and suppressing my true self. Like, so much happier. It's not even close
Do I miss being hot? Sure. But not enough to have even an ounce of regret for transitioning. If you're worried about becoming unattractive if you transition, know that I, for one, think that even if that happens, it's still fucking worth it
(Also I'm like way more charismatic now that I don't wanna die, so that's pretty cool)
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The fact that some of you, even and especially other lgbt folks, will literally treat gnc people like we’re some sort of thing to marvel and gawk at.
I spent over a decade presenting gc and the minute I started dressing masculine I was the weirdo to look at and point out as Different. Straight people are obviously going to stare and ask if I’m a boy or a girl or say me things like “are you a they” but do you really truly think it’s any different when I’m meeting a group of lgbt people and they literally only ask me my pronouns? Do you think I don’t notice when you forcibly they/them me (someone who doesn’t even prefer those pronouns!) and she/her my feminine presenting wife who ACTUALLY uses they/them?
It’s like you guys never got past the stage of “oh trans people look different than us normals” but instead of being a normal bigot about it youre applying a fake progressive ideal and making me feel worse in the fucking long run! I have heard compliments like “omg I can’t figure out if my attraction to you is gay or straight wow so hot 🥵” as if that truly makes a binary trans person or cis gnc person feel better. I have friends who try as hard as they possibly can to pass and they still get they/them even after correcting someone. Do you really not think that itself is a form of misgendering?
It’s just painfully obvious some of you still see the world in terms of male, female, and other. Forcibly fitting every person you see as fucking weird looking into a third “non-binary enigma” gender in your brain is not helping you or the others around you.
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