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Baffled that there are folks on this site who seriously defend âpick-meâ girls & their embarrassing behavior as having âAutismâ or âtrauma from girl bullyingâ as if Internalized Mysoginy is simply a byproduct of mental illness & mean girls in High School and not years of conditioned toxic sexist beliefs combined with self-loathing and a need to feel validated which affects anyone both on and off the spectrum.
#itâs isnât about not liking traditionally feminine stuff#itâs about you setting yourself apart from the women men hate#to be validated#thatâs not ADHD#or autism#thatâs self loathing & insecurity#seek therapy#pick me behavior#pick me girl#stop this now#mental health#for my girls#my thoughts#this armchair therapy has gone too far#queue are so beautiful to me
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My favorite thing about J. Jonah Jameson is that he just hates Spider-Man. He supports mutants and doesn't hate enhanced people. He's not racist, sexist, homophobic, or transphobic. He just hates Spider-Man. And I'm half convinced that he's faking for the publicity.
He'd probably get pissed if he hears someone hating on Spider-Man for being enhanced.
"Spiderman isn't a menace because he can climb walls! He's a menace because he's climbing walls without a license or safety equipment! He's setting a bad example!"
"I just want you to know that you that your identity as an enhanced person is valid. Your identity as Spiderman is trash."
#j jonah jameson#spider man#marvel#marvel comics#wokeness#based on real events#ive been told that my journey as trans is valid#but my transition to be closer to a white man is not
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hi!
um
yeah
notes goal post
because i really need motivation
(i stole some of these but shhhhh)
if this post gets 50 notes i'll drink water right now
100 i'll go to bed at midnight for the rest of the week
200 i'll actually do my laundry
500 i'll take a shower every day for the rest of the week
1,000 i'll brush my teeth every night for a full week
2,000 i'll stop binding for an unhealthy amount of time for a full week
3,000 i'll start actually wearing my ankle braces consistently
4,000 i'll eat breakfast every day for the rest of the week
5,000 i'll stop binding while sleeping
6,000 i'll stop wearing earrings i'm allergic to for a full week
7,000 i'll start doing makeup again
8,000 i'll stop eating chocolate for the rest of the week
9,000 i'll make my autodale masks
10,000 i'll touch grass every day for the rest of the month
11,000 i'll water my plants twice a week for the rest of the month
12,000 i'll put on my lotion when i need to for a full week
13,000 i'll eat at least two meals every day for the rest of the week
14,000 i'll finish my water bottle every day for a full week
15,000 i'll write more for forest files
18,000 i'll clean out my backpack
19,000 i'll take my vitamins every day for the rest of the week
20,000 i'll finish my stained glass project
21,000 i'll go to bed before midnight for the rest of the week
22,000 i'll do my summer reading
23,000 i'll move the knife out of my room
24,000 i'll eat three meals every day for three days
25,000 i'll stop purposefully triggering myself for a full week
50,000 i'll try my best to stay clean for two full weeks
i'll probably add more goals if this somehow get past 5k, but there it is for now :)
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tagging allowed
ummm the deadline is halloween
*thumbs up*
go for it
#i know this isnt my usual post thing but#idk#its good for me or something#and also im pathetic and crave validation and attention al the time#y'all dont like. actually have to hit any of these actually#um#notes goal#notes post#if this gets x notes#tw skipping meals#tw sh#tw unhealthy binding#tw knife mention
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PLEASE for the love of the universe read anti-colonial science fiction and fantasy written from marginalized perspectives. Yâall (you know who you are) are killing me. To see people praise books about empire written exclusively by white women and then turn around and say you donât know who Octavia Butler is or that you havenât read any NK Jemisin just kills me! Iâm not saying you HAVE to enjoy specific books but there is such an obvious pattern here
Some of yâall love marginalized stories but you donât give a fuck about marginalized creators and characters, and it shows. Like damn
#science fiction#fantasy#xenogenesis#earthseed#the broken earth#frankly I think many of the critiques of my own work are valid#but when I see the same criticisms applied to authors who fundamentally changed the genre#Iâm like#hold up
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When people say acephobia doesnât happen in the queer communityđ
#lgbtqia#lgbtqia+#queer community#queer#asexuality#asexual#asexuality is valid#ace community#ace space#lgbtqia community#tw acephobia#yasmin benoit#pride#pride month
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you guys gotta stop shipping 30-year-old men and calling it old man yaoi. 30 is really not old. thats just man yaoi
#spitblaze says things#im making it its own post bc my partner said the phrase 'man yaoi' is really funny#and im nothing if not a sucker for validation#doin numbers
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ten years ago you were so scared of such different things, but you survived them anyway. the same goes for five years ago and two years ago. everything that has ever felt like a hurdle, youâve passed through. so be afraid, identify your fears, and then allow yourself to remember that in just a little while, this will be another thing that you have overcome.
#fear is okay!#and so are you#i have two interviews next week for a 6month grad internship </3#free encouragement#self care#self love#positivity#positive#positive suggestions#positive thinking#suggestions#suggestion#comfort kindness family#self validation
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âbut it wasnât that badâ
did it hurt? did you feel scared? unsafe? were you embarrassed? humiliated? terrified? did you feel confused on why? does it keep you up at night? do you avoid being in a similar situation? did you cry? did you want to cry? who told you it wasnât that bad?
#youâre valid even if it seems not bad#donât let anyone gaslight you into thinking it wasnât that bad or could be worse#traumacore#actuallytraumatized#actuallymentallyill#ok to rb#trauma#actuallyabused#10k#20k#30k
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i feel like one of the weirdest realizations you (or at least i) eventually have a few years into transitioning and being mostly around other trans people, is that moment where u notice that like ur brains mapping of like specific voices to specific genders is just kinda gone. like it rly is just all social constructs programmed into u by society, and living outside societies idea of gender just kinda melts that shit away, and it's not just voices, like other traditionally gendered attributes also suddenly don't matter anymore*
*except for myself of course, i am obviously totally failing at being a girl but everyone is doing it perfectly, dysphoria is so awesome lmao
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Thereâs a lot you can learn about it, trust me
#sonic the hedgehog#shadow the hedgehog#sonic x shadow generations#sega trying to clean the sonic x shadow search of ship art#but just ended up validating all the sonadow shippers out there by naming a game after them#cant wait to play sonadow on my ps4 once it comes out#indigoniteart
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welp, somehow im glad im not the only one
#hedgehog talks#listen listen listen#the sweat â ď¸#everyone's valid here#big chest. no chest. small chest#bcs the feeling of sweat running down ur chest to ur stomach is a universally awful sensation#tbh even when its not hot out
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tfw you realize the mortal you where planning on using and discarding, is a little unhinged actually, and matches your freak so you scrap that plan and start planning to rule the universe together
AKA bill realizes Ford "is just like him fr"
The page in The book of Bill that started this nonesense
commission info here
Transcript of text from the page of TBOB under the cut
Text reads: "Unfased, F has been making hot cocoa and welding rivets while playing christmas songs on the radio. (These songs make no sense. Why did Rudolph forgive his tormentors for their mockery of his facial deformity? He should have used his red-hot nose to burn his oppressor's workshop to the ground. A lesson to all!)"
#the book of bill#book of bill spoilers#bill cipher#stanford pines#ford pines#gravity falls#billford#when the interdimentional triangle demon is actually less feral than the human in the relationship#for shits and giggles i say#as i spend 4 hours making this#bill having his feelings realization while ford is snork mimimi-ing in the bg#i can't resist the italicized âohâ trope#just fyi keeping diaries and journal is valid af but look me in the eye and tell me bill wouldn't bully ford about it#my art#my fanart
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the kismetude old men yaoi roadtrip comedy got to me ok
#deadpool and wolverine#deadpool#wolverine#poolverine#deadclaws#logan howlett#wade wilson#hugh jackman#ryan reynolds#deadpool x wolverine#wolverpool#deadpool fanart#wolverine fanart#deadclaws sweep btw. only valid way to smush their names together#marvel#mcu#cher doodles
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You guys really need to stop wasting your time appealing to Zionists. We are over a year into this Gaza genocide and over 70 years into this settler project I promise you they are not going to change their minds if they havenât already several thousand dead children ago. Stop trying to appeal to their conscience, they have none. Focus on helping Palestinians and sharing information and fighting for a Free Palestine - Zionists are not worth your effort.
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I'm curious. what job would you do if money was no object (you just automatically had an income you could live comfortably on)? including work like volunteering, studying etc. please share in the tags :)
#under this premise part time work is valid too!#personally i think i'd probably study. maybe do another masters maybe part time across two years this time#if i were to do a job job i think i'd try out working in a library (ideally an academic library). which would technically be more studying#since i'd need to get a library qualification first#i'm just very curious what people would choose if it was purely a choice of what appeals to you over the practicality/necessity#talking
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