#though im not bothered if you dont

[puppyeared]

learning abt friendship decay and "not reaching out to your friends for months at a time unprompted is not neurotypical behaviour" has me feeling a certain way

[snezfics-n-shit]

[mellotronmkll]

GOD there is nothing more frustrating than being like oh Yay there's a guitar tutorial for this song I want to figure out how to play and watching it and it's just like completely inaccurate . Like nevermind then

[elminster-big-naturals]

this may be controversial but maybe the "astarion and halsin are SO sexually traumatised that you should literally cut your own dick off before thinking abt them romantically you disgusting freaks" goon squad should consider the ramifications of essentially insisting assault survivors be permanently excluded from any kind of sex and romance bc they are too broken and stupid to be trusted to know their own desires and boundaries or have the capacity to want to explore/push them.

you know real survivors (not pixel men but real ppl like me!) can read that shit? do you think pushing the lie that encountering one (1) Genital Wielded With Intent will invariably cause us to crumble to a miserably weepy heap of dust and blow away in the breeze is appreciated or helpful? or implying the people that love or desire us are selfish at best and outright predators at worst?

i'm begging ppl to just be 2% normal about abuse survivors PLEASE. the characters aren't real but the attitude you drag from fandom back into the real world are.

[quaranmine]

doing the unexpected: washing + drying a pair of wool blend hiking socks HOPING they will shrink because they're a liiiiitle too big

[carcarrot]

alright gang place your bets on how insane ill go next year for sparks

[solarpunkani]

Homies I was rereading my solarpunk zombie apocalypse story to see if I’d want to try continuing it for reaping week and

Homies I kinda cooked

Maybe I’ll do a writing stream Monday

[mihai-florescu]

People dont know what to do with you when you're burnt out just from existing alone fr

[paging-possum]

on some level I understand that welcome to hell is probably a little harder to sell than hazbin given the *gestures vaguely* entire main plotline of w2h THAT SAID im going to be mad about it forever. because one of them is actually funny and has good character design and compelling dynamics and a good plot and its not the one about the freaking hotel.

[orcelito]

Several months late, the landlord finally picked up the dehumidifier from my kitchen

Would've been nice had I been told they were coming though 💀 so I could've cleaned up the grocery bags on the floor that I hadn't put away yet 💀💀💀💀💀

[triglycercule]

alright!!!! kitchen CLEANED ‼️ carry on PACKED ‼️ now i just need to do my homework and then maybe take a really really really quick (4 hour long) nap before dinner/online class. then i will grind on the silly silly why did i decide to do this animation meme/animatic until 3 am hits and i've gotta hit the port. the AIRport :3

in exchange for my incredible unprecedented productiveness i made this little doodle just now. i'm actually a liar i did this in school but still

[spamtoon]

i would take their poison

Sketch + Line Art for those Clicking Under the Cut(tm) (archival purposes honestly)

[mxbitters]

on behalf of my gramma i think i should be allowed to tear people who make ai generated cross stitch and crochet patterns limb from limb thank you very much

[hollypies]

I lied. Death time

[pawbeanies]

today is my one year anniversary at my current job !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

which means its pretty much my one year anniversary of getting DUMPED and LEFT

[deathdetermineslife]

hi! i know this probably makes you uncomfortable so i'll keep it short but basically im a proshipper and i do my best to not interact w/ ppl who say "proship dni"

however, you don't have that tag on your posts and i just wanted to say that you might want to consider tagging proship dni on your posts just to avoid us seeing your posts at all. i have that tag filtered specifically so i wont interact where i am unwanted. you obviously don't want to interact w proshippers and i'd rather not make you uncomfortable so it feels like a good solution. just a tip for the future, have a hood rest of your day/night/etc.

in my experience in the past, proshippers interact either way. so I don't bother. it also puts a big target on my account for proshippers to steal my posts, in every instance I've seen, posts that are stolen are typically by people that have the banner at the bottom of their posts, and with being a semi-known account like I am (averaging currently like 300-400 notes a day minimum), id rather not. I've found I've also been harassed more when I did. i had an older selfship account I deleted from forever ago, I only had it for like a month or two and the hate I received just for the little banner was far greater than anything I've gotten on my time on this account. the lesser people know I dislike individuals that arent bothered by the enjoyment of fictional incest and pedophilia, the less hate I get.

also i only try checking the people that follow me. like I said, its too much for me to go through and check every little reblog or like, people will violate it anyways, I'm sure I've accidentally violated dnis because I like peoples posts without knowing. i more so care about people following and sending in asks. i also check frequent likers/rebloggers, I try reading all of my reblogs and if I see someone reblog my stuff a lot, I take a glance. i have a job and a life outside of tumblr so I cant be bothered with being obsessive over it.

i sincerely hope you get whatever help you need.